Iamicekid: If you wan leave your wife divorce am to make things official, not leading her on thinking things can still be fixed and make it seems like nothing dey happen, Clear her from start then she go know her place, if she come dey do like werey then u go bring receipt out
In Nigeria, it takes 2 or 3 years of separation before a divorce case can be filed unless it is a cause of violence or bodily harm.
I read the man's brother stating they've been separated since 2018 and the divorce process was served recently.
On that level, both have been aware it was downhill.
Momma2: My hubby and i were visiting a friend of his yesterday. We are quite friendly with each other so no awkward hugs and all. However, something strange happened yesterday. I went into the kitchen to get something to eat, while i was there, he came in and tried to hug me.
I didn't think much of it but he continued to put his arm's around me and rub me. I pulled away gently only for me to turn around and see a huge erection. I acted as though i didn't notice and ran from the kitchen.
He is quite close to my hubby but i feel as though i should tell my husband.
Warrior14: I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.
I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.
I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak. Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.
What you condone before marriage usually gets more afterward as there is the notion of "you are going nowhere".
A friend once told me that his then-fiance used to misbehave to him. After he had paid the bride price and she misbehaved, he beat her up. According to him, it was something he dared not do before but the bride price gives him the right to do as he did.
Think on this dear.
P.S You need to get yourself financial stability. Go out and get a well paying job.
samfelly: Hahahahahaha, really a good time to go settle fight wit any of your-generator-neighbours o. E bi things
Yeah, e go really sweet if FTA members clear all the prizes o, but Ghanaians no bi push-around-traders also o. Dem dey rep o
From the rules, it is not a matter of who can rush in highest lots as that part is being restricted. The award comes to the persons with title of PipMaker 'the jedi of pips'
Iyaebe: I spoke with my mom yesterday about this issue and she said she can't do much since her late sister's children have shown no interest,so she's in support of whatever decision they take.I'm just sad that a man from nowhere is reaping heavily from where he didn't sow
I watched a Yoruba movie where the father was obviously very wicked to his first son. The first wife had died and he remarried. He took very good care of the second wife and her kids while the first son was more of an outcast. The only people kind to the first son were one of the step sisters and a friend of the father.
At the man's will hearing, all of his properties were willed to his first son. This was surprising to everyone but a video explained all the father's act of wickedness. The father's friend had observed an act of wickedness from the second wife towards the first son and ad iced the man not to show any form of kindness to the boy if he wants him to live.
At that point, the two men concocted the plan of helping the boy only through the father's friend while to the general populace the father displayed himself as being hateful to the boy.
Back to the topic, could it be possible that the deceased prof hated his first wife and her kids as well as the second wife married for him by his mother and the kid from that union as well?
While one way could be that the man is a completely heartless man, another one could be he had his reasons for not wanting ANY of his children to partake of any inheritance from him. You might want to start considering the source of his wealth and you might see the point of him not wanting to pass it down. Not having his own kids birthed in his own house could just be a thing to look into.
One thing is clear, he had his reasons and he made that obvious with the next of kin and the will. As long as he wrote it and it was not a forged document, everyone has to comply with HIS WISHES no matter how it looks.
Everyone had better tepamose (get busy) especially this young boy looking for easy wealth and create their own empires rather than one that was not deemed for them to have.
MrEmir: I don see am o, but I'll join the cheering team. We're banking on you guys. Make us proud. But honestly I do wonder if gabsonfx na Nigerian, because some of the stuffs he pulls here lives me in awe.
If anyother opportunity comes up like this again, I'll go for it. Meanwhile lemme keep sharping my skills. Thanks mate for holla at us
He combined two forex business models together. I have those models written down but never thought of combining it that way. Hats off on that.
VlamesIffect: Excess get better rep pass HF markets....if I hear.....
Excess is one of the first market maker to come out plain that they take the opposite side of trades against you but guess what, they pay up without issues.
Comparing spreads, they beat HF.
HF is actually an Alpari spinoff as they had a lot looking like alpari operandi when they started out before diverting. I feel former staff of Alpari created it or even alpari itself created their own franchise competition e.g (coke, fanta and sprite Coca-Cola Bottling Company*)
@textra, use insecticide. Any worth one will do the trick. Spray everywhere as well as your wardrobe that has clothes that probably have had contact with the bed. Give the bed extra spraying all around. Let it go round for about 15 minutes before you aerate the room.
Repeat after a week, every week for a month to kill any eggs that later hatched.
GOTVee: Even though I'm a born again Christian, I don't support violence against anyone particularly women. I hope the taliban can respect the rights of every Afghan even though they are not terrorists as the media is portraying them. Sometimes we Christians judge our Muslim brothers wrongly just because of the misdeeds of few bad Muslims
Currently, this is not a case of one religion versus another. It is simply one of man's inhumanity to man and I know you do not support such.
Remember to pray for peace in Afghanistan at your next church service. Even better, right away.
FalseProphet1: That girl was sent from the water to destroy that family, unfortunately she succeeded, I see her disappearing from the police custody, I see her returning back to the water, I see dangerous prayers from the deceased family offered against her, I see her running mad, I see Yahoo boys impregnating her so that their scam can work on clients, I see the demon of madness being transferred to the Yahoo boys, I see death on young guys, I see them dying in their thousands.
This I have seen.
Dearie, nobody died.
It was discovered early enough and no one has eaten it. Probably the odor was perceived.
About your 'seeing' , oops, no worries. Username says it all. Lol
teemy: he would be responsible for anything that happens directly or indirectly due to the protest. add that the police boss warned him to stop and hired hoodlums could try to break up the true purpose and turn it back on his head and stop future protests.
first signs of organised opposition was the istandwithbuhari rally trying to create a clash on same day. imagine two large opposing groups in the streets = riot. that group should have been the one warned off by the cops but they wisely got permit.
i remember when lautech students were on a protest some years ago only to have some of them throw stones at the the then gov akala's filling station. with tuface stating a political hijack of his protest is a warning of what ulterior motives might do
going on, tuface is the known name of the protest and unless you are prepared for a #freetuface rally it would be the best to skip this one as he adviced. am sure seun of nairaland must have been 'invited for a nice talk' hence his bottom page disclaimer.
the police that was previously unwilling to have the rally happen now want to come out in appretiable numbers and as you believe for 'your protection'. how fast that would change should things go awry. this is nigeria NOTHING WILL HAPPEN. remember dec 2015.
tuface probably was told the facts and instead of leading his people to another mass grave incident decided against holding the protest and the nothingness of the effort. better ways exist than to hold the streets in a nation of those without care.
the way forward i see is using the momentum gained and filing UNLIMITED cases in courts against the injustice of the system in courts. some will be lost and some gained but with every potential protester filing one things will change.
just one lady put an end to the environmental sanitation program of the govt and have it an illegal status today. every state, every court, every one. wishing you well - teemy
Doveheart: ehnn... is not hard now, return her N3k and she should return your door net immediately . Any expenses you incur on the door net again will be bore by the incoming tenants. shekenah!
@youngmo001, the above covers it. She had no right to deface and remove your net. What she had a right to was make a claim for her 3k. You should have your door, she should have her 3k.
If she won't be returning it, ask a carpenter for how much the cost will be which I am sure will be more than 3k. Deduct that difference from her remaining 8k and hand her the balance.
NetValueFX: Hausa locals don't mix with fulanis. They told me specifically to avoid them because they have a vengeful spirit. No jokes. My Hausa friend told me this. That was how I came to even know that fulani are not hausas.
Thanks.
It seems a lot of signs abound as precursor to these recent violent events but our law enforcement have always shrugged it away as something that will pass. We need to change the 'it will pass' mentality else, more will happen.
SniperAssassin: Well damn. Apparently it's unanimous that the Jujutsu Kaisen AMV was better than the JJBA amv. In that case, which one do you think is my best amv so far?. In my opinion, it's "The Greatest Hero". I really put serious effort into that one but I want to hear from you guys.