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airsaylongcom:
While I agree that they go through a lot, they should also not forget that the cost of their training is heavily subsidised by the government. If they paid the full cost for their training then they'd be right to emigrate without any bickering. I grew up in a medical home (surgeon dad and mom who rose to become principal at a nursing school) so I am heavily on the side of medics when they ask for their dues. But I also know that some of those dues where paid prior to them becoming docs

4gunners:
I’m surprised you said “...before intelligent and good women”

A good woman will not always look for ways to manipulate me extort someone he claim to love; she will always put herself in the shoe of her partner always before making decisions. You can have divergent view regarding redpoll, which is normal, but the truth still remains: Larger population of guys need to educated on the innate nature of women, unfortunately only very few are refined.

In all honesty, will you be happy if your male sibling, who is working, spend most of his finances in financing the profligate lifestyle of his so called GF, in the name of “love”.

Rainbowpill:
How old are you though? Most of you propagate redpill this and that are still kids depending on their parents.

I'm not lost to anyone. I want to get married and have a family and I've found a lady to do that with. And the redpill wouldn't have helped me get to this point.

Abcruz:
On my first day we had GST101 at about 8AM. I woke up around 4AM, prepared and got to school 6AM.

I initially thought I would be the first to get there but I was surprised by the numbers of students that were already seated. After taking my seat a certain man from the street whom everyone of us taught was a lecturer, came to sell his books titled "English and Englishes."

After successfully convincing us that one could be sent out of the university for not passing English, everybody in the hall bought the book with fear.
I bought the book with the last card I had on my wallet thinking it was my textbook for the semester. Little did I know that the man is well known for scamming freshers. He smiled cheerfully, counted and made away with thousands of naira under the watchful eyes of everyone in the hall.

The useless book was less than 15 pages containing trash upon trash. I had to throw it in the nearest trash can.

Originalsly:
As someone abroad..... returning is always on the table. Those who never travelled and really not in a position to compare living abroad and living at home will almost always say if they leave... they will never return. It's like many from the village seeing the bright lights of Lagos... the fancy cars.... tall buildings .... sooo many offices and places of employment.... sold everything they owned and head for the city... prepared to work hard and soon make a good living for themselves.... build the biggest house back in the village.... and return in their latter years with Range Rover to chill out the rest of their lives. They must find good jobs in the city.This is the same mindset of people wanting to leave for abroad.
What happens when the dream does not come true? Those are the people we see living under bridge.... roaming the streets.... just existing... suffering.... while their people in the village think they are doing well. Even if they have a job.... low paying job.... they are still suffering. This is the same position of many who have travelled abroad. The same reasons why the one suffering in Lagos will not return to his village is the same reason the one abroad will not return home. Pride.
Then there is the one that leaves for abroad/Lagos..... is sucessful... doing well... has a career..... can afford to support his relatives/projects/back home/in the village. After being away for so long.... his standard of living has changed..... what were earlier seen as luxuries have become bare necessities......as in those wanting to go abroad ever so often mentioning 24 hours electricity.... and pure water running out of the tap?...24/7?... abroad must be Heaven! The one abroad dosen't have to think of such.... the man in Lagis doesn't have to think of going to the river to fetch water..... levels have changed. To the one abroad..... his levels are sooo much higher. The conditions at home do not meet his basics for him to return to live. The main barriers being.... security.... law and order... and to get anythingbdone is a hassle. Electricity and water and good roads are not up there on the list. So it's not thise abroad who can come back and help in the development don't want to..... it's just the wahala is too much.

junketer:
When will he commission a 5 star hospital in akure?

Ekejoestar:
Misplaced priority.... How's washing of pant now an issue that is worth debating on our cyberspace?

Fuckingmallam45:
These are the harsh realities of life

You will be alone most of the time. Not lonely, but alone. Try to understand the difference to avoid unnecessary suffering.

Happiness will not come easily as it came when you were young. You would have to work towards it. Discipline and sacrifice would be your best bet. Don't get caught in the YOLO gimmick.

Life will get boring. Your mind will wander. Learn to control it before it starts controlling you.
Your best friend might no longer be your best friend. Your ex would have already moved on. You will struggle. But it will imbue you with lots of wisdom. So don't curse yourself.

You'll realise in retrospect that very few people really loved you whilst others just wanted something out of you.

Memories are not always good. More than often, they induce unncecesary fear, anxiety and mood swings.

Time starts becoming the most valuable commodity. It will treat you like shit if you treat it cheaply.

Whether you like it or not, people will talk behind you. Sometimes it would be the people whom you trusted the most. Learn to ignore them.

You'll run down the guilt-valley more often than before. You will do things which you know is not good for you but will anyways end up doing it. You will invariably be distracted by foul things. This is your mind conquering your weak spot. Like I said, discipline can save you.

You'll realize that success is not that easy after all. It's that difficult. You would be tempted to give up on your dreams and live an average life. Don't.

Things will go wrong. Personally and professionally. The unexpected will happen. There won't be any reason/person to blame on. Your faith in humanity will plummet all of a sudden. But hey, don't give up. Move on.

You will soon start noticing your parents are getting old, your best friend is suffering from illness or money constrait. You realize how much time you've wasted playing the ego game. So don't wait. Make that phone call now.

Most of the times, you'll experience fear for no reason. When things are going good, you'll dread on ‘what if this happiness goes away?’. When things are not going good, you'll still dread on what's going to happen next.

You'll get your heart broken multiple times. And you'll have to break a couple of hearts yourself. That's life. There no right and wrong here.

There are no good people/bad people. You'll have to come out of this cynical mind-set. There are only people who bring you pleasantness and unplesantness. Remember, people who bring unplesantness to you might bring pleasantness to someone else.

You'll realize that multi-tasking is not beneficial. You start focusing on one big goal/day rather than 10 small goals/day. You'll learn to differentiate between being productive and being busy.

You'll learn that not all emotions you experience are genuine. More than half of them are mere mind-games. Learn to distinguish to avoid bouts of depression.

You'll be forced to change your attitude towards failures because you'll have more failures than success. You will no longer react to events, but will eventually respond to it. Reacting will get you into more trouble. Responding will move you towards a solution.

You'll realise that you can't be friends with everyone. And you don't have to be. Accept this fact sooner than later.

You'll realise that earning respect is more difficult than earning money. And it's the respect that would eventually make you feel proud about yourself in life.

hakym619:
Hello


I've always tried to get in touch with this guy in question. The man is a complete motivator.

I like his use of grammar as well.

Anyway you can help me with his E-mail.

I'd provide mine for u .

Emu4u2c:
Nwa Amikpe is the most popular naira lander believe me and you will be surprised who he is in reality.
He is one of those big time politicians(watch this space for future references)

flyingpig:
Are the corpers not licensed by NMA?

Jerkbaba:
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Jerkbaba:
haha. .

Jerkbaba:
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djon78:
Maybe when they grow up
They might change
You never know


Irrespective of whatever this generation thinks
Nature made man to take care of his wife and children
Men that understands this
Work hard and heaven smiles on them
You won't even look at what a woman get
And most will still support you
Anyhow

But those with wrong mindset
Live misreeably and bitter
And are rearly successful

Jerkbaba:
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djon78:
Most of you always shouting simp
Are kids
You ain't matured

You see woman
Na wisdom dey use follow woman
E get some circumstances
You give order like a man
E get some circumstances
You mellow down
Even allow your madam have her way


The reason this generation
Can't hold marriage
Is because they think
The woman they are marrying
Don't have her own mind

See a woman
Is a human being just like you
And average human being
Can be very stubborn
So you must follow a woman diplomatically
But if you prove otherwise
A woman can easily help you
Destroy everything
But with wisdom and diplomacy
You will move your home



So most of you shouting simp
Are kids
Simple
You guys have a lot of growing up
To do

dopedan:
the person that wrote this is obviously not using an iphone because u cant avoid yourself

techmo:




IVF gone wrong

RIP... She should have opted for surgery instead of natural birth


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nairalee:
Got a message that I've been shortlisted for the company interview. They dropped the address. I couldn't even remember which of my numerous applications was inviting me.

Spent the entire remaining days reading hard, starched my shirt, ironed, wore tie, prayed and fasted, abstained from sin, bind my entire villagers.

Only to get there and saw my haggard looking "interviewers" claiming they have millions. Congratulating me on getting the job before finally confessing that they're just GNLD.

I immediately off my tie and hid it in my envelop.

drnoel:
The loss of love is only on one side i.e. on the woman's side. The man may still love her or may not at all in the first place. It's his loss that is paining him. All the investment and money spent, that's his pain. Then add his ego to it, that is a cocktail no man alive should wish to be in. But then, I have seen a similar situation where the man took the bull by the horn and still wedded the lady in question. Vorbade her from seeing the man she says she was in love with. It was outright war from the start with the lady seeking out for months to see the side guy in question till the side guy married someone else. Ofcos no one wishes such headache on another person but the decision is that of the man in question and not ours

Commonsense99:

This is emotional blackmail., It doesn't work that way people are waking up.
Western Europe did not develope with this mentality, China who borrows money to the whole world does not go to church, the richest Arabs don't pay tithe, they are even moslems, Dangote does not pay tithe, the world's richest men do not pay tithe, most are even atheist, all these people are not under financial curse.

Reality is you are under financial curse if you don't have any occupation or Productive

MrBrownJay1:
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