₦airaland Forum

Maxymilliano:
You guys had golden opportunities and privileges without passing same to younger ones, yet you are here speaking in parables

bigpriik:
Two months ago there is this friend of mine who fell in love with a girl,I warned this my guy earlier about falling in love because women cannot be satisfied ,but as usual they always don't like hearing from me not their fault though they are not on nairaland despite how much I tell them about how educative this site is.my friend loves this girl to stupor and he is this jealous type that can kill for a girl (literally).

Their relationship progressed to two months I wouldn't lie I became jealous of my guy because their love was getting so strong ,in fact it got to point I started feeling bad that I am getting too uptight with women because of the things I read and learn here i was thinking maybe i should loosen up to women a bit so I can find true love like my friend everything isn't always a game.the girls birthday was on the 14 of December which was last week my friend told me the plans he had for the girl he wanted to buy her iPhone Xmas (this is a guy the couldn't lend me money to buy laptop).

Exactly on the 28th of November my friend came home looking so devasted and emotionally down he was even drunk he met me outside and call me to come inside his room on getting there he showed me his girls phone were he saw dirty chats she was having with her ex boyfriend I was shocked to pieces because I never believed she could such a thing,we went ahead to call the guy ,the guy been a guyman like me told us straight up that he was nacking the girl back to back my friend went mad he told my friend not to take the relationship serious that she is only good for fuuckmfuckmate.that day I lost all the trust I had for women , my heart became stronger .thank God I didn't comprise my mindset of women MY friend was depressed for two weeks before moving on .I ave seen my friends babes cheat and lie so .so my point is if a girl so innocent as this girl can do such a thing then the risk is not worth it.

This is What you guys should know about women.

1) A pretty woman doesnot love unless she is very young and unexposed.

2)most men enter relationship plainheartedly but women see relationships as a game so they don't want to loose.

StrongandMighty:
The kind prostitution I've seen in the North I've never seen such in my whole life...

Hypocrisy is the bedrock of the North

SultanOfPuna:

The amount of hairs that will be ordered online for this wedding will be tremendous
This Means 200 Horses In China Are About To Lose Their Hair For Weavon and Attachment..
Aliexpress Think Twice Before You Supply..

rentAcock:
I don't care what anyone says, the best luxurious car you can buy for Nigerian roads is the Nissan Murano. Strong, stylish and rugged.

nrexzy:
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Impregnablefolk:
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nrexzy:
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JimohMomoh:
It will really help innocent female students who study hard but are frustrated by randy male lecturers.
Back then in school there was a pretty & brilliant Itsekiri girl that won most beautiful girl in her faculty, several lecturers in her department started disturbing her for sex, some even threaten to fail her during exams. But the interesting thing in this situation was that the lecturers who thretened to fail her were married men who are elders/pastors in churches outside campus.
She complained to me but I couldn't offer any help except advice. She reported to her HOD but nothing was done.

When the pressure became too much for her, she crossed her mind and she and her boyfriend setup one of the lecturerers and uploaded the video on youtube.
The lecturer was sacked, but the girl later forfeited her admission and got another one somewhere else.
The lecturer involved was an Elder in same church as the Vice Chancellor back then.

Gemid94:
Relief for all #SexForGrades victims as Former Southwest Coordinator, National Association of Nigerian Students, Sunday Ashefon launched the ‘name and shame method’ as a viable weapon to expose lecturers sexually assaulting students.

According to the student leader, ‘NANS Sexual Harassment Register’, an online register, had been opened for students who had been assaulted sexually either for marks or cash by both male and female lecturers.

The NANS presidential aspirant and student of Ekiti State University, who made the link, https:///2OBwzFx, available to journalists in Ado-Ekiti, the Ekiti State capital, on Saturday, described “Name and Shame as a viable weapon to expose any lecturer whose name was repeatedly mentioned by students of the same university”.

The former NANS Southwest coordinator, who is leading the campaign, according to a statement by his Special Assistant on Media, Pelumi Fasogbon, has vowed to publish a graphical result of the poll when he eventually becomes the NANS president.

http://community.vanguardngr.com/forum/topics/relief-as-nans-leader-launches-name-and-shame-method-to-curb-sexf

Adebowhales:
My baby is just 4 months old and my wife is pregnant again. We tried the family planning methods but it failed.

Presently, we cannot afford to leave the pregnancy. What can we do to prevent further re occurrence and to terminate this one.

Thanks.

Medics in the house.

MedicH:
You're smart.

That funmisticqueen is an old Jezebel. A maleficient. Pheeeew!!... I fear.

xoxocandy:
How do you know she's Yoruba?

Earthbound:
This story get as e be jare.



Pastor, Olosho, Drunk, Lekki, Quilox, Vigil, Pastor's house, Bedroom, Couch, Olosho's morning tears, Steady kpanshing, sextapes, engagement, Olosho's friends, Yahoo boys, Davido's assurance, Dubai trips, Tithe money in Oloshos account, Eye clear, God's forgiveness.

HardMirror:
I just tried it now. So funny.

I think the US Congress should be indexed with the word Stupid for asking google this stupid question.

The way the google search engine works is through indexed words. Meaning if a lot of blogs and sites associate trump with IDIOT then, the search bug would produce the query based on it's ranking on indexed list. It is not google's fault that a lot of people online has tagged trump an idiot.

Lets try the word lifeless and see what we get.

Modified.

Try searching lifeless president i think the nigerian senate should also sermon google for the embarrassing result

46O1CE:
Ogbeni calm down

Pavore9:
But sadly, our environment overlook such.

Pavore9:
He had short attention span, probably had ADHD in his formative years.

funmisticqueen:
pity us, cos you are too lily livered to admit to your desires and go after them no matter the
cost

funmisticqueen:
no self respect in your post at all, my post shows how a woman can gain her self respect back not by showing she can walk away but showing that cheating on her has consequences he is not prepared for and also she is not the kind of person who can tolerate such.

funmisticqueen:
first of all, this approach only works for women who don't see the big picture, second women that stay have their reasons for doing so, and we wont judge them, but they risk losing their man's respect and my post remedies that little problem.

Also should they decide to stay, they should be upfront from the start and tell their spouse that they can forgive but never forget which is true, and also tell him that nothing stops him from suffering the consequences of his actions which she would proceed to carry out while being the epitome of a dutiful wife/lover

Go online, it is filled with stories of the approach not working, not every couple is blessed with good family members, while i may not have exact statistics the rising rate of divorce is an indication that your tactics dont work.

So maybe we should try a new approach

funmisticqueen:
these solutions you have mentioned only work in africa magic movies not in real life cos the woman is still at the losing end and man still thinks he can cheat again since all he has to do is beg with family member, confronting the side chick is dumb and brings you to their level.
besides in this society , a man is justified for cheating. If you still want to bury your head, you could always ask for an open marriage. half bread is better than puff puff.

funmisticqueen:
You have two options, cry it out like a weakling or be angry, then calm down and do something about it which is either to bury your head like an ostrich and deceive yourself in prayer that God will fight for you when jesus comes or fight for your marriage like a badass.



The main reason a man cheats on a woman is because he doesn't respect her anymore, forget the bullshit propaganda  going on that they can still love you and cheat or men are polygamous. See babes, you have to give a man a reason to respect you, even if you are a housewife, be the type of woman that before a man cheats he has to pray hard that you never find out or he is a dead man. So act unpredictable once in a while, stop being so emotional, that is what men count on.


Another reason women don't deal with their cheating lovers is because they think they have everything to lose. Do away with that mentality, it is what kept women of old in a  bondage of a relationship/marriage and makes them bitter, spiteful mother -in- laws.  The first step to getting what you want is to be shameless about it. Shameless people who have nothing to lose are the ones who succeed. How do you think the side chick got your lover, by being holier than thou? Don't let people especially the relations guilt trip you with the children, your womb, your biological clock or whatever. It is either you get him or no one does.

pocohantas:
1) Why do Naija guys think sex is a loss to the lady?

2) Why will a guy and girl have sex, then Naija guys will call only the lady olosho with borehole pùssy?

3) Why is there so much emphasis on female chastity and virginity, but none for guys?

4) Why is male infidelity more tolerated/accepted than the female one?

5) Why do Naija guys turn totometer, trying to calculate the mileage of their girlfriend's vagina?

6) Why will you give a Naija man a blòwjob and he'll be wondering which man's dick you learned it with?

7) Why would a Naija guy date a girl and when they break-up, he will be happy he at least fuckéd her. Does it take something away from her? If yes, what? Is it a gift or collateral to the guy? If yes, why?

8 ) Why are there thousands of thread on guys analysing the female vagina, its depth, width, colour... in relation to her sexual partners?

9) Why is a sexually experienced guy a stud and his female counterpart, a slut?

10) Why are Naija girls slutshamed for being sexually expressive, whereas the guys can share sexcapades on ashawo beer parlour thread?

12) "Virginity is the best gift a woman can give her husband".
Do you agree with the above statement. If yes, why?

13) "A man can love his wife and fùck around, but a woman who does same can kill her husband". Do you agree with this statement. Discuss in not more than 6 lines.

14) If sex is indeed pleasurable for both,why does the female get all the antagonism and the guy gets the accolade?

If you can correctly and sincerely answer these questions.
The answer you seek lies therein.

ScofieldBello:
You have also begun to sound like a typical Nigerian too.

You can bring your point(s) to the table without having to brag about your possessions. How much, and what model is the car whose cost could buy a whole family?

I like the fact that you are up to defend women folks. By doing so, you are defending mothers, sisters and daughters.

It is high time we stopped insulting women and calling them names just because we want to torture them emotionally!

I respect you for this! I really do.

Remain Blessed.

ClassRep001:
Olosho

Drop your location, me exchange words with a slut online? Nah.

Olosho drop your location

xendra:
Mttcwww..... na today? If he really wanted you he will go and make money and come back to marry you. she shouldn't regret not marrying a childish old nigga. This type of man would have still dumped her after he becomes rich. Don't chose to suffer with any man in the name of a dream, men go for your class, if you are broke there are "....." girls who date broke guys, how do you expect a girl that spends money on her self to coman date you in the name of a mirrage dream.