₦airaland Forum

MrBrownJay1:
what person in their right mind would still continue working in their NEW JOB, after not receiving their salary (let alone for SIX MONTHS)?!?

Keemsleek005:
All these your typing is because you scared of karma. You slept with another man's wife now you scared someone else too will over tear your wife. Such is life. But there are still lot of good, faithful women who wont betray thier husband no matter what.

Golan007:
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Openbusiness3:
Mehn the way, things are going for America ehn, almost as if a race war of Black vs White is about to start. But this kind of policy will never affect medical students or workers. Please what exactly is so special about medical workers that they get special treatment all over the world. Do they have 2 heads or what? No country deports doctors and nurses but they will be reporting everybody else. Y na Rolling my jealous eyes (◔‿◔)

zikter:
Why trying hard to look like a woman? I thought gays are attracted to men and as such should be trying to masculine instead of feminine

Tadeknkeepcalm:
So no one caught on to his false tactics all these while

Or no man was brave enough to challenge him even if he "supposedly" had a gang? When you can clearly tackle him and lock the door.


And even those male colleagues in the office, no one was smart enough to catch on, or they couldn't tactically and bravely face the gang

graciousolo:
This particular one needs serious orientation... He and the lots like him here. Their thought processes is painfully appalling.

graciousolo:
"It is written that men are polygamous" this is your justification for choosing to remarry but, denying your spouse and widowed mother the opportunity to. Wherever that came from is evil.




It baffles me that our generation with all the information we are privy to and opportunities to unlearn and relearn still have myopic people even with tertiary degrees.
Don't you think your mom deserves companion and yes, even sex too especially if she wants it?


Don't you care about her happiness?

How does her getting remarried bother you? You still dey suck breast?

If you were a woman would you like to be subjugated just because of your gender?

Honestly, I think that girl is very lucky you are not together. She escaped a big narcissistic baby.

I would congratulate her if I knew her.

DuBLINGreenb:
Yoruba and Igbo people are what is wrong with Nigeria argue with your keyboards.
They find ways to tribalise everything

Edit: I am happy that some Igbos and Yorubas are admiting it THAT IS A STEP FORWARD I appreciate you guys for admiting it. You people will go far in life.

for those who still refuse to admit it imagine if all 248 other ethnic groups in Nigeria decided to go at each others throat the same exact way Igbos and Yorubas go at each other EVERY SINGLE DAY on NAIRALAND just imagine.

Imagine you are an Hausa, fulani, Ibibio etc would you rather have a president who is Yoruba or Igbo or someone who is Jukum, Ijaw or just any other group that is not Yoruba or Igbo. Ask your non Yoruba & Igbo friends to find out or make a poll online but I'm sure the Igbos and Yorubas would rig the online poll lol

Don't let your ego be so fragile, that you react easily, Yes you owe me nothing but we are neighbors your right stops where mine begins, nobody likes noisy, show off neighbors. that was why Goodluck Jonathan from a state with only 8 local governments became president and not any of the Igbos who people thought would be president and now it is why Tinubu will not become president nobody likes noisy show offs. Especially if those people are "champions of their tribes" like Nnamdi Kanu, Ojukwu, Tinubu, Ishaq Akintola etc people from other tribes will ALWAYS go for whom they perceive is the lesser of 2 evils, the least radical. That is why Igbos would support Atiku over Buhari if not because of Jagabans change of mind Buhari would not have won.

In all Remember Nigeria has 250 ethnic groups not 2 or 4 dont be decieved Ijaw has 6 states Igbo has 5, the way you have millions of people Tiv, Jukun, Ijaw, all have millions of people, Yoruba alone or Igbo alone can not rule Nigeria, you need to work with other ethnic groups so learn to be accomodating, clip your tongues.

If you continue seeing everybody else as OTHER instead of Nigerians, I can assure you you will keep losing and Nigeria as a whole will suffer for it, the Hausas you people think are one are merely accomodating each other there is tension between them Hausas see fulani's as Bush people, mamfa have their issues if you are smart strategists you will go round and find allies but instead you stay in your houses hurling abuses at EVERY SINGLE tribe/person that is not yours.

Hausa-fulani have been successful because they made Ninzom tribe feel like they are Hausas they made Ngweshe people feel welcome make Nupe people feel at home so these ethnic groups do not feel threatened when an Hausa rules them the same cannot be said of the Ibibio people living next to the Igbos or the Ijaws living next to the Yorubas

Let me stop here enough knowledge for today

The fact that you people are saying I am Afonjaa shows just how bad things are. I am not Yoruba neither am I Igbo or Hausa I'm just telling you people the truth. Take it or leave it, the truth is the truth. Travel and learn.

NinjaMetahuman:
If you are looking for posion.
This is what poison looks like..


I would rather drink sniper than oha soup.

Looks like something cannibals made up in a hurry.

Spysees:
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Spysees:
This world isn't designed for women... Y'all don't know! Always reactin', men this, men that...

visijo:
Being a man is cool, you deny your relatives money they blame your wife �

stanliwise:
First thing first, you gave her the phone as a gift, let it be, the most immature thing you can do is for you to collect it back.

She owes you nothing for buying her a phone and don’t expect she behaves like the way you wanted.

Next time don’t act angry if she misbehaves, it only shows your immaturity and high level of frustration. If a girl finds out their actions frustrates you then you are done for. Act angry only when she is trying to play with your intelligence or don’t keep to what she promised or when she does something physical to you. Other games of silent and not answering calls shouldn’t make you act angry even if you are truely angry. If e too pain just simply state it to her in a calm tone once and leave it.

She asked you for something and the worst reply you gave her in this context is that let’s see. I call it timid. Simply tell her you don’t have the money or you can‘t get it now and don’t promise her any date. Giving a girl is your decision and purely your decision don’t let anyone push you.

Now she has the guts to ask you for phones and slippers, mirror same energy and guts and ask her exactly what you want, if you want a relationship, be bold and brazen. Ask her! If she don’t want to agree to your terms then fine you too act lackadaisical to her own terms too.

Stop feeling low and ashamed your are been played, if she is telling her friends what you think then let it be. Once bitten twice shy.

From now stop putting her only in your basket, be open minded and seek any other female available.

Please give her just the same attention she gives you. If she start showing 40% readiness, then you too 40%. Just ensure you sometimes take the lead in doing thing and wait for her to reciprocate before another one.

Please please leave the phone for her. Next time she does something obviously wrong, I mean obviously wrong which doesn’t warrant a physical reaction just jejely call her and tell her without any show of anger in your face. Then forget it. Only in cases where issues are severe you should act angrily. E.g she cheat on you or lie to you or steal from you or implicate you. Aside this moment don’t act angrily in front of a girl it gives her a sense of Unnecessary importance And shows your frustration.

Next time don’t ever give people something in-expectation that they would behave nicely, the best moment to give someone a gift is when you realized they need it, either because you noticed it or they inform you about it. At all cost avoid giving people things that are not necessary especially when it come to a girl that thinks you admire her. And your giving should be based on your own agreement not out of persuasion.

Girl are complicated

extol1:
the truth is many people lack the understanding of how to handle things which is called maturity. no matter how you love your husband or wife, a time will come where you will dislike your spouse for no reason or irritate you. the ability to handle to it is what many people lack

LandMann:
That slawomir or damm niggar of a guy is the most annoying person on NL commenting on this Edo issue... Not counting those who naturally hate APC simply because they have to hate anything Buhari or Tinubu is involved in.. He's probably one of those goading Obaseki into the pit he has fallen into.

He has repeatedly opined that Obaseki will mess Oshiomole up... if he doesn't see the leadership mistakes Obaseki has been making in Edo I don't know.

1. Obaseki sidelined party members that brought him to power in a bid to build his own political structure.

2. Obaseki championed the non swearing in of elected house of assembly members by issuing a proclamation to 7 out of 24 members in the middle of the night to go do their inauguration all in a bid to ensure his own man emerges speaker.

3. Obaseki repeatedly attacked Oshiomole and tried to rubbish his image by saying Oshiomole didn't provide equipments in the specialist hospital he built... All because Oshiomole advised him to try and carry everyone along so they don't start antagonising him (Obaseki).

4. While repeatedly trying to rubbish Oshiomole's image in the media, Obaseki conveniently forgot he was part of Oshiomole's administration, he has not achieved up to 1/4th of what Oshiobaba achieved in the state as a governor in terms of infrastructural development and he also conveniently forgot it was Oshiomole that helped him to limelight.

5. Obaseki instigated moves to remove Oshiomole as a national chairman of APC but he failed.

6. Obaseki issued a state executive order that would seek to prevent APC as a party from carrying out it's primary election how it deems it fit.

These leadership mistakes of Obaseki are all in the public domain and are a pointer to the fact that Obaseki is not a party man, he is not a good leader and he has the tendency to abuse power if he has his way.

Show me the sins of Oshiomole and all you'll hear is "he did not provide equipment in specialist hospital" (but he built the magnificent hospital, which one have you built?)

or "they want access to treasury" (Oshiomole or who? Oshiomole that was a two time governor and also current national chairman with investments home and abroad?

If party members are seeking funds, why not give them contracts and ensure they complete the job as specified and call them out and to order if they don't? They make money from doing the job, the state gets the benefit, everyone is happy... This is what it means to carry everyone along.

Instead, you were sidelining those who brought you to power in a bid to build your own structure... Giving the same jobs that would have benefited party members to outsiders and making spurious claims.

Well, your sins have caught up with you. You can probably go to PDP or any other party and try to build your own structure and be a godfather there. But you are certainly not a party man and I would rather have Oshiomole as a godfather in Edo than you... Because Oshiomole has performed and set a standard. Until you beat that standard, you cannot talk trash about him.

MichaelBlake40:
Sister take heart o I know it's not easy.

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Vyzz:
When she said that she isn't sure a woman should have a hole that will accommodate a penis...





That is when I knew it.



She doesn't have a hole....


I know a lady,

A very young lady, who doesn't have a hole.


She has breast and everything but no hole.


When she was put to birth, the doctor asked her mom to pay a certain amount for a surgery so the can put a hole there, but unfortunately the family isn't that rich.


This young lady is still without a vagina and I have been wondering how she pees....


Now I know.


She also probably has a small tiny hole for peeing.



Op, don't try breaking anything if u don't want problem.


Better still, pay and give her a whole, then try it first

Sagemind:
Number 15: You are a tiny organism, on a rock, floating through space

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shegzieflex:
Doc you get time answering these ignorant folks. Many of them, at the slightest opportunity, spew trash at doctors for one singular reason; they are frustrated! Many envy doctors for just being doctors!
I've read several comments from these ignorant dudes and all I can do is laugh. They obviously don't know what it means to be a medical doctor in this country. They don't know many of us are writing foreign exams so we can leave this country for them; after all one idiot above said we are half-baked
Two days ago I had to attend to a woman with suspected COVID-19 infection (still awaiting the result but her symptoms are highly suggestive), come and see the so called PPE I was given! We at the battle front struggle to have the right PPE, and you see the politicians wearing the N95 facemasks in their offices!! You pay a doctor #5000 as hazard allowance for managing highly contagious diseases, and the politicians earn enormous allowances for newspapers,wardrobe, travels e.t.c! Then when the doctor voices out the masses, who will still run to the doctor when they fall sick, will be the first to call them unprintable names! What a shame of a country!
Till today, I'm being owed up to six months salary and not sure if it will be paid; yet I work!
The best we can do is to ignore the rantings of these ignorant folks, after all even fools are entitled to their opinions.

Correcto:
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HoliMaree:
Mark my words lady, a time will come when people will see doctors and lynch them on streets, you won't be able to walk and move freely in this country because of your heartlessness

HoliMaree:
Get away. I puke whenever i see a Nigerian doctor

Correcto:
Unfortunately Nigerian doctors are in there mainly for the money

Olalekanbanky1:
These doctors sef.
Despite the huge amount of money they are receiving. If u know how much an ordinary student doctor (housemanship) dey receive ehn.
Nigerian public/civil service seriously needs to be reformed.