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buygala:
There are two possibilities here:

He just developed the sex issues recently and is yet to come to terms with that fact..

Or

He has always had those sex inadequacies. ..but he arranged himself with some sex enhancers in the early stages of the marriage, because he wanted to take your virginity like a boss, and enjoy the tight ermmmm...ermmm while the tightness lasted

And there is the possibility that having used all those burantashi on you, and kids having been produced and your vagina having expanded significantly, he no longer sees any reason to continue risking his overall health just to satisfy you ... in any case, he may think since he married you a virgin, you wouldn't know any better and will see his 2-minute sex stunts or no stunt except kids are needed as normal for married peeps

My advice:

Please cheat on him so that your sanity can be maintained .... being starved of sex is worse than being starved of food...it messes up the mind in a million ways... ..... and no, hoping and praying won't help you ... You have to take the bull by the horn and help yourself ...at your age, your sex hormones are still pretty strong. ..it would be courting disaster to unreasonably resist them.

Ignore him, get some good sex outside since he doesn't even want to acknowledge there is a problem with his abuna, much less take steps towards solving the problem and fulfilling his conjugal duty towards you

And no..getting some good sex outside won't make you a worse mum...as for being a worse wife to your hubby, he deserves it anyway....but if You can help it, still be a good wife ...but please find a way to cheat incognito. ..many are doing it and still have functional families who have no idea of what is going on

Modified. ..

I just woke up.this morning to this thread on Frontpage and a lot of mentions by mostly male folk...

You are entitled to your opinion just like I am entitled to mine ....Yes i am very young and unmarried, but I have a girlfriend who I have been with for a long time. ..a time longer than the duration of some so-called 'marriages' ...And the fact that our sex life is pretty solid has in no small way helped the relationship...of course there are times when either of us may not be in the mood for any action, leaving the other high and dry. ..but those kinda times are very few and far in between each other, and are very satisfactorily compensated for sooner

Op's husband doesn't even want to take steps to solve his problem, and all you self-righteous men be rooting for him and advising the lady to do this and do that all so she can ride her husband's Peniss ...if the man even did as little as acknowledging the problem, my advice would have been totally different. ...but here he is trying to force the op onto a state of sexual nowhere and all you dudes are saying she should talk to this person or that, do this or that, and generally stand by her husband and bear the brunt of his condition of unreasonable pride and stupidity .....

This life isn't always about what is 'right' or 'moral' .....the man has chosen to leave poor op sexually stranded, riding his high horse of pride and impotence aloofly....Speaking a lot of grammer to whoever, becoming a stripper for husby, praying 69 times a day, begging for a dick that's supposed to be hers when and however she wants, is not only unfair to the woman, but reeks of masculine hypocrisy....as if if it's the husband being denied of the puna unreasonably, he will be so nice as to take most of the steps as prescribed by the self-righteous people who mentioned me

In any case, it's Op's life...it's doesn't matter if you all agree with me or not...Op, having seen the multitude of advice given her here, is totally free to adopt the one her mind has privately been leaning towards already

Tkayhandsome:
Face reality.
You just added another year to age.
No job
No light
No money
Please bring back the days when we were little kids without worry.

No worry for food
No worry for money and school fees
No worry if we were married or single
No worry of sex like the way konji comes these days

Please bring back the days when we were young

maxti:
i confuse pass u bro.

BayLord01:
Must all prophesy be about politics? Don't they have church member that want to hear something good about what 2017 hold for him/her.

DavidTheGeek:
RennyX you might have intentionally skipped this cuz it sounds sarcastic but i tell you, this is good advice.

Your girlfriend isn't scared of losing you hence the misbehavior.

Bring another girl into the picture, let your girlfriend know there's a new girl enjoying your attention and leave jealousy to correct her behavior.

ogologoamu:
Shame on our government if an individual can do this.

Ask4Info:
I will be very HONEST to you, Break ups are ONLY pleasant when you are still young, naive and with less pressure.

Believe me, for both Men and Women Break-Ups are no longer funny or something to just conclude from age 28years and above.

Sitting here under my chilling A/C while scrolling between tv stations with my take away Fries, Chicken and chilled Bottle of Pepsi and guess what? (for no particular reason) the thoughts of my exes popped up. I started to think of what i could have done to have made some of those relationships work.


I allowed some of the most loving people who loved me to the end of the world and back slip away. Maybe some because of youthful exhuberance, ego and fear of uncertainty. But in all, i have realized i made very terrible mistakes. Unfortunately, even if i have the opportunity to turn back this hands of time as R.Kelly sang, only this time i will be with either a divorcee, widow, or women with child or children. They are No longer the same.


My advice to the youths even though i know they won't listen: Look for True love while you are still young and struggling because the older and richer you get all that will come your way are opportunist and marriages of convinience or benefits.

Don't worry, if you don't understand what i wrote above, you will in some years from now.

NevetsIbot:
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laudate:
It is called adrenaline.

Xensity:
I didn't drool. All I see is mental sheep in their late 20s with paint on their objectively average faces.

veekid:

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is that the bride or her mum?

lieutenantHaven:
Omo aphonjarh don vex oo.....lmfao. Egbon look, I hv already gone far in life, so u can try another stunt. Lol..aya mi pada wa gba omo, was gba owo. Nkan be. Awon ritualists...awon gbe omo gbe omo

lieutenantHaven:
Lol, omo afonja. Lol. Igba fufun Lori omi eni ba mowe koka lo! I think say u get time....pls keep entertaining me I don't want u to get tired.
Omo afonja, son of d chief coward awolowo

LastSurvivor11:
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lieutenantHaven:
Lol. Awon ashiere. Awon oloribruku

rawpadgin:
thank u jare

My patents got married without doing this,... As i type they on the verge of celebrating their 40th anniversary

My elder brother did all these, as i type he's no longer married to his wife