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ArticleBeast:
Can you show me where in the bible this is stated? I need a verse not some conjured doctrines. I'm a catholic but I'm not blinded by some doctrines. I base my catholic faith on what is stated in the bible. It is the same way I don't buy into the idea of confession as practiced by the catholic church. My bible say I can access God directly...

Leviticus 1-7, Hebrew 5:1, 8:3. In fact go and read the whole book of Hebrews and you would see so many instances of who the priest is and his functions.

Let me ask you a simple question, in your village, who offers sacrifices to the gods of the land? When you get the answer, please keep it to yourself and just imagine how stupid your question is

femi4:
Show where its written that only priest can offer Communion.

NB: Communion is not sacrifice

Leviticus 1-7, Hebrews 5:1, 8:3 etc. Go and read your Bible and stop asking stupid questions

LOL...... Who told you it's not a sacrifice? Jesus at the passover with his disciples offered himself as a living sacrifice when he gave his body and blood to be eaten just as the children of Israel did in Egypt whereby the angel of death could not touch them, thereby through that very action put an end to death through his death on the cross, thereby sharing in his life through his resurrection by "Communion" with him.

patorial:
I'm kinda catholic, and I guess they didn’t tell you What christ the original investor required

Who are they? And what requirements are you talking about?

Because you attend a Catholic church doesn't make you a Catholic

ArticleBeast:
Pentecostal churches have been receiving holy communion since i was born. By the way Christ instituted the holy communion not the Catholic church. Finally, whether catholic or pentecostal, if you are not saved you wont see God. Above all, denomination is not recognised in heaven.

What they practice in the pentecostal church is not Holy communion, they have no priests and only a priest can offer sacrifices

If she had experienced the tiniest bit of cruelty, then she would understand that There cannot be too much love

How could you be so careless

You got no spouse until you put a ring on it

MariaLavina:
Well for someone who shut out people when hurt and comes back when healed. Its easy. You know why? I love them enough not to burden them with my issues.

Lets analyze this.... A lady was raped last night, the following day the rapists were arrested and the next place she could think of was her boyfriend's place? Not even her room to cry? Really? Like she lost nothing? Not even her female friend(s) who will understand her better as ladies.? C'mmon! The first person a lady in that condition would be shy/ashamed to face is Her boyfriend or whoever she has romantic relationship with. I see neediness. She expected him to take her into his arms and shower her with kisses, What about his feelings? That is selfishness!

Don't want to drag this longer before some sentimental ones start bashing me. May God heal the lady. .

Stop making up silly excuses, she went to him because he's the one she probably feels safest with. Rape brings about feelings of insecurity on the path of the victim and he should be able to comfort her in this trying moment not make her seem like a pariah. It's a good thing she left her house because we can never tell what she might do to herself if she's left alone, if she kills herself out of trauma, you will be one of those saying rape is not the end of the world but you want her to stay in her room and dwell on an event she cannot change, so that when she takes sniper, you can come online to type Rip

According to Riley(Boondocks) "No matter what its, if I'm paying, then she's a hoe"

A virgin man, how outrageous. Women are property provided they expect us to pay through our noses

Face your books

There's nothing sweet about a borehole

I'm here to read comments/stories if you no get story to tell, I have commented on your behalf

Those when still Dey face me I slap you with their parents dey shout God forbid

Mind your business, stop bothering yourself over someone you are yet to pay their bride price or marry, you would get to live longer by not poke nosing

Tell her to get the will changed and allow him die, motherfucking traitor

yazga:
So I heard this story on the radio on Sunday.

Man wakes up in the morning, drops money for food with his wife after an awesome session of love making a night before; apparently they seemed very happy together. Gets dressed(very casual) didn’t take a pin with him, tells his wife he’s going to see his friend that stays on the next street. A few hours after, wife gets a call from a friend her husband is getting married in a certain church and obviously didn’t believe. just like that days of waiting for him to come back home or even call turned into years. The woman was left broken with 5 children.

According to the story the man had relocated to the US with his new wife. I listened to the story and got so emotional, too many questions filled my head. Wasn’t there a better way to have left? What could this woman have done to deserve this treatment? Why didn’t he think about the kids? Questions only the man can answer. A lot of women have had to deal with issues like this and it’s so heartbreaking

Only him and God knows why. But is she really telling the truth? People don't just leave without clues, and if she knew where he got married, did she make any attempt to establish contact? Because I believe she could have made something positive from the whole debacle

Blackivy27:
Excellent question.

to let the a$shole know i can live without him. Its fun fustrating him like that.

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Delusion

Different people different outcomes, divorce is not based on one's job

Stupidity is infectious, look at those elderly ones around him and you would see it's no different

If what you said is true it's obvious your wife doesn't truly love you but looking for a female friend isn't an alternative either. It's not easy to be a man but just manage your wife properly since you now know the sort of relationship you are into

Kids download everything they see, parents should be watchful

Married women are sweet, so I heard. Would love to have a taste of one

He calls you stupid, a prostitute and a bastard and you had to prove him right over and over again STUPID!

Lamest excuse of the year. Paul was a tent maker, Peter a fisherman, God does not encourage laziness or call the lazy, he obviously called himself.

This tithe and offering expectation is the reason why you go to most club houses posing as churches today and all you hear is money and people cooking up all sort of stunts all in the name of miracles just for material wealth. The word of God is no longer fashionable as some pastors are now into inspiration speeches.

If anyone asks you for a penny to receive a gift he says is from God, he's nothing but a thief, for Jesus made it clear to his disciples during the great commission " Freely you have received, freely you shall give (Matt 10:8 )

If you want financial commitment, be willing to commit yourself to the course. Carrying out random acts of giving isn't the problem but you not making yourself available is

miss00000:
We met in school during my pre-degree and dated for 7 years before he proposed to me. Before the proposal, both our parents had been pestering us to get married and start having children.

We started trying 6months prior, and 6 months after proposing I got pregnant. Few months later we did our introduction and got married (registry) march this year.

About two years ago, he met a lady where he was supplying his goods. According to him, the lady has been doing everything in her power to push his business. Every time I suspect there was more to their friendship, he always assured me there was nothing, that she's just a friend. sometimes he would even travel with her to Abuja to sell his goods which I had to allow since it was helping his business.

8 months into my pregnancy I noticed a drastic change like coming home very late, he hardly eats at home, he barely talks to memos he's always on his phone. I knew something was wrong and every time I talk to him, he always assured me that everything was fine.

After the delivery and naming of my baby I expected things to go back to the way it was, but it became worse. he changes his phone password almost everyday and still hides his phones from me.

One day I cried and begged him to tell me what was going on, after hours of begging, the first question he asked me was "where was it written in the bible that marriage has to be between one man and one woman and not with different women", "why can't a man marry two or more wives if he has the resources to take care of them equally"(the lady is a muslim btw).

He confessed that he has been dating this lady for over two years and has no plan of leaving her, and theres a possibility he's going to marry her. I'm just 26yo with a one month old baby, I didn't sign up for this.

While growing up, my mum has always warned us against polygamy. although he's promised to be there for me and still wants our marriage to continue, but the thought of my husband being with someone else is killing me. I've tried to reason with him several times but I end up hurting even more. I've been praying but still no change. He's been trying to compensate with gifts and money but thats not what I want. he doesn't want me to tell anyone and I feel reporting him to his family will even worsen the case. We've always settled our issues ourselves without involving anyone. I've tried everything I can just to take my mind off it. I need someone to talk to, prolly a friend or a counsellor. I've been crying for days now, I've not been eating well and I have to breastfeed my child. I never knew my life would be this complicated. I don't know why he got married to me if he already had this in mind. I hate my life right now.

No man can intervene in your marriage but God. The ring he put on your finger at the altar is not for fashion or nothing. It's your covenant with God and your husband, you have every power over that man, go to God and remind him of that covenant, hold up that ring and pray and cry to God, it's not your battle to fight, the battle is of the lord and he has not lost any yet.

hurthubby:
My story is too long but let me try to summarize everything.

(I have been a member of Nairaland since 2009, but i just created this account to hide my identity)

I got married in the year 2000 and wedded in Dec 2001. Before the actual wedding, my wife got a job in Abuja, where she stayed for one year before our wedding and her joining me in Ibadan. During the cause of that year, i have a friend who stays in Abuja that knows my wife very well, who reported about my wife's infidelity to me then, though i ignored it.

In the year 2005, my wife confessed to me that she committed adultery after our wedding. (She was actually about 2 months pregnant in Feb 2002 when she sought my permission to visit her sister in Lagos. I never knew that she actually visited one of her old boy friends and spent 2 days with him).

I was down cast for some days when i heard her confession before i got back myself and forgave and forgot everything.

She later got a job which made her travel often, sometimes spending weeks outside but i never suspected anything even though her boss, (A lady) called me several times to complain about my wife's behavior, which is contrary to that of a married woman but i didn't take her serious because my wife always complained of the harshness of the woman. She later lost the job and joined me in my business, but always going to Lagos to buy jewelry, which she sells in Ibadan.

In the year 2014, i got some texts from a concerned fellow about how my wife have been sleeping with his neighbor for over 2 years in Lagos. It happens that the fellow knows us very well and didn't want to cause any problem in our marriage but the the acts became too much, he had to let me know. When i confronted my wife with all the evidence and some dates, she owned up and pleaded for forgiveness. She confessed that the affair started when she was working for the lady i mentioned earlier and anytime she travels to Lagos for her jewelry business, she always go and sleep with the man. She promised to turn a new leaf.

In the year 2018, i discovered that she had been communicating with the same man, to the extent that he even knew that my wife traveled to Owerri for a wedding. I discovered that they had reconnected back and chats always. When i confronted my wife, she said that they have nothing, just chats, which i made her to stop (I don't know if they actually stopped).

Before i married her, a man actually dumped her and married her friend, 6 years earlier. The next boy friend left her and traveled abroad for over 2 years, without any communication (before i met and married her) but unfortunately, it didn't work out for him and he came back and discovered that shes married. He started pestering her,pretending that he wanted to marry her, that he traveled to make money for both of them, but been that she's already married, she introduced the man to her cousin and he married the cousin.

Now the issue is that my wife is flirting with her former boyfriends, sending pornographic pictures and nude pictures with dirty chats. I used to monitor her chat but to save myself from HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE, i stopped checking her phone.

My wife even told the one that dumped her for her friend that she still loves him so much. She also tells the one that married her cousin the same thing and regrets that distance is so much between them. (The one that married the cousin is based in Kano while the one that married her friend is based in Abuja) Whenever i confront her, she will deny anything serious but when she sees my evidence, she will beg for forgiveness. My business is down and she provides about 70% of the house up keep (She is a teacher). We have 4 children, the eldest being 17. I have been trying to sell my house or land to reestablish my business but it has not been easy. My wife now does as she like, even having male friends here in Ibadan and keeps too much secret? What should i do.

I know this is long, but its just a summary. Forgive any typo.

That woman has sold you out, nothing good, I repeat, nothing good would ever come your way if she continues in her waywardness. I can't ask you to divorce her but you have to find a way to put a stop to this else, your life would dwindle just like your business

There are prostitute's for as low as #500 and so many ladies looking for husband's in the villages who would gladly follow him home even for nothing, why rape a child? He should be given the death sentence

akinade28:
Why are all these women embarrassing us na, making it look like most ladies are unfaithful and gold diggers.
Dear guy, there are still good and faithful ladies out there, though they might few.That's why you need to look beyond shape and color when choosing to avoid these kind of stories

I'm willing to look beyond your shape and colour