₦airaland Forum

trapQ:
How does that translate to them having a polygamous mentality?

No one says they don't cheat. They don't just feel it's their right and[b] when caught they apologize to their wives and feel remorseful[/b]. Infact do you know they usually whenever they meet someone they know they have fallen I'm love with they serve their wives divorce papers and go be the other person but a Nigerian man will cheat and blame you for cheating.

Key here is "when caught". If not caught nko? Dem go just dey ball dey go.

They "feel remorseful" because of the consequences in the West. It's "officially" a culture of monogamy largely because it developed from Christian tradition. However biology always trumps man-made rules. Religion after all is man's interpretation of what they think God or some deity wants. When the wife files for divorce the man has a lot to lose min the West. Because it is legally and CULTURALLY backed up.

But most of Africa is culturally polygamous. Same way men traditionally provide economically. A tradition African girls have kept and expect men to foot their bills. Anyone who insists on doing it the Western way is called "stingy" or "wretched".

Evens the billionaire kidnapper was remorseful when caught too. But he was enjoying the goodies when not yet caught.

In the same 9ja you think men have a "polygamous mindset" several male relatives are/were not polygamous. Out of choice. Very back then. Like 100 to 40 years ago. While work colleagues and others around them had/have several wives.

If culture has to change, it has to involve everyone, male and female. Roles have become different. A woman has to now be comfortable providing for the family without using nagging to cut her hubby's life short. He should be able to become house-husband too.

Regardless of country, men's desire for a new conquest is high. Individuals have to show discipline and consider their priorities properly.

YorubaWarrior:
After all we all be citizens of this world.. Na God go judge las las...

Vanity upon va....

If I hear.

Vanity crew just dey on low key these days o.

Daisy17:
Don't tell me you are one of those who encourage child labour.

I wonder o.

I wonder the kind of men some women are marrying these days.

If this girl can sexually attract a hubby, then the hubby has no discipline and no taste at all. Charm or no charm.

lexy2014:
Men of which nationality don't have polygamous mentality?

Maybe na America wey Trump dey preach grabbing women by the pussy. Where Clinton sef dey nyansh Monica Lewinsky inside white house. Abi na JF Kennedy wey dey do Marilyn Monroe. Arnold Schwarzenegger made a baby with their housemaid. His Kennedy family wife didn't even know for over 10 years. Even man of God Jesse Jackson also fathered a child outside.


Boris Johnson likely to become UK PM is a master of affairs while married. Former French President Hollande was using okada at night to go see secret lover, as a sitting president o.

If all these people with much to lose as elite in their countries cannot control their trousers, imagine ordinary people in these countries.

ebonyggurl:
Marry a nigerian man at your own peril

So said Kate Henshaw too when that Nuttal white guy was "sweeting" her. But the guy began to straff their PA.

Even Kate's rigorous work-out could not stop Nuttal straffing left and right.

Since then I just dey look Kate as she dey famzing 9ja men.

When GEJ built hundreds of Almajiri schools they called him clueless.

Now look.

obembet:
Which one is beautiful female kidnappers..

I think because dem get yellow skin

Me too wan join billionaire gang complete with helicopter. In Zim dollars I be billionaire. Even iya Mulikat, Oni-rice Na Zim billionaire.

OK hope they won't freeze into frozen super chicken after this cryotherapy.

Daboomb:
Aside any law that is or may be put in place, the greatest element that IMO, should be put in place is to ensure that the Surrogate Mother does not know the identity of the real parents.
Do it as a job (or act of kindness), deliver the baby, get paid and quietly love on.
No strings attached.

It takes time, if it ever happens, with the calibre of nuisance people we have in our Legislature, to develop a framework that caters for all possibilities. But it can be done if we are serious about it.

In Nigeria, we prefer to steal people's babies using the Nurses or just kidnap them, instead of doing things the right way.

Well all aspects of surrogacy should be covered by the bill regulating it. Using best practice across the world.

It's lack of transparency and corruption of bureaucracy that encourage illegal ways out.

frenzyduchess:
If you read the article carefully ,you will see the mention of surrogacy lawyers. I believe you just don't go on the street as a couple to pick a woman to carry your child ,most of these surrogates are screened and picked by fertility clinics and documents are involved too hence the need for lawyers.

There are many contracts that when tested against the constitution do not hold water.

Lawyers can help you draft any nonsense.
My question basically is which Act of Parliament/NASS assented to by the president oversees surrogacy?
Is it adaption law, embryology or human fertilisation law or which?

Not whether some charge and bail lawyers are involved.

I know that decades of dictatorship has made it hard for people to know what to ask people that seemingly have a modicum of authority.

Is surrogacy regulated by government in Nigeria?

If not the possibility of being accused of child kidnap when things go sour is very much there.

In 9ja we sabi turn things upside down.

Funny thing is if some serious, modest and honest guy toasts this lady she will be making nyanga.

Why do women always fall mugu for guys who tell them what they want to hear and use lies to scatterbalance their brain?

Single truth they don't like. Despite all claiming they like honesty, it's actually the last thing they are ready to hear.

Lol.

happney65:
http://worldpopulationreview.com/countries/countries-by-age-of-consent/

Look, I saw this rubbish page eons ago. Tell me the FG law that allows it. Not sectional/local Ab.oki practice in the North included on that page.

Follow the page, mess with girls abroad and face death sentence in those religious conservative countries. Some of those consent age is within marriage only.

lahizak:
Nigeria have the lowest legal age of consent which is 11. You qll can google that fact. So legally wat he did is not a crime and he wont be convicted 4 it but morally, its upto him and his God. But legally in Nigeria according to age of consent, sex activities with someone that is older dan 11 is allowed so far it is with the party consent

Dude, google can put up any nonsense. We saw that google page years ago listing consent age across the world. It has been long disputed.

People have still been arrested and prosecuted for statutory rape since.

That is why I asked for exactly which Law of Nigeria makes 11 age of consent. NOT Google.

PLEASE do not be fooled by Google and go do it. You will just go to jail.

Moreover there is something called duty of care. People in position of authority cannot sleep with people under them. Like doctor and patient, teacher and student, etc. It is abuse of authority. Against code of conduct. Where any law is not broken it can still have serious consequences professionally.

lahizak:
Nigeria have the lowest legal age of consent which is 11. You qll can google that fact. So legally wat he did is not a crime and he wont be convicted 4 it but morally, its upto him and his God. But legally in Nigeria according to age of consent, sex activities with someone that is older dan 11 is allowed so far it is with the party consent

Dude, google can put up any nonsense. We saw that google page years ago listing consent age across the world. It has been long disputed.

People have still been arrested and prosecuted for statutory rape since.

That is why I asked for exactly which Law of Nigeria makes 11 age of consent. NOT Google.

happney65:
I think this isnt rape but mutual consent..Teacher would be left off the hook because in actual sense the age of consent in Nigeria is 11..just imagine that no thanks to our muslim brothers up north..Isssh

Please prove this age of consent of 11 you mentioned.

Which current act of Parliament/NASS assented to by the president states that it is 11?

Because if there is one local sharia rule somewhere in the North that allows that, the religious conditions for it to be valid in Lagos that are met by both the girl's family and the teacher may not be there.

Aidejay:
And boom. With all the churches, Nigeria is still .....................

Poverty, corruption and kidnapping capital.

Ok Mr VP.

If one day it happens to your relative or friend, we can all assume it's a joke. After all not all of them enjoy 5 star security of Aso Rock.

But don't forget that CIA knows more than you think. CIA Fact file makes complete nonsense of this VP yeye talk.

And Dr Giwa that she killed while drunk and driving cannot take pictures with his kids.

Nigerian judiciary is pathetic.

Lenadiva:
I think he has raised a very viable point about INEC.

But my dear this administration appointed the current INEC chairman.

And GEJ that they called clueless appointed INEC chairman who supervised 2015 election which Sagay now admits was better than it is now.
Is that not unwittingly admitting that Buhari appointed someone who is clearly incompetent.

Truth will always overtake lies no matter how long ago lies set out on the journey.

Lovelyn451:
I'm talking about a possible cause of a partner conceiving this kind of wickedness in her heart against her spouse you're turning everything to gender rubbish...u need a re-orientation

Well women also do things that push men to the brink. Will you also use that to justify a murder attempt by a husband? One cannot be a devil's advocate just for the heck of it.
A spouse can opt out of marriage instead of killing the other party. Gender is irrelevant.

Gkemz:
I'm beginning to fear Hausa girls. Just few couple of days ago a newly married hausa girl stabbed her lawyer husband. And these are the few ones captured by the media. Is this a new ugly trend by Hausa newly wedded wives?

The world has turned upside down generally. Even areas where certain things were not previously heard of, strange things are happening nowadays.

Family and traditional values have declined. Western education has not be complimented with sound moral and ethical values.

Families are becoming more nuclear. Values once imparted by grandparents, uncles and aunts cannot be done by parents caught up in the rat race. Kids are growing up almost left to their own devices.

SEGLIZ:
exactly the reason he was fired.
this can only be in Nigeria, I to believe in a more reasonable society he would get fired the more.
for act like this will make the brand you represent to experience value depreciation and you as an entity would experience same.
but for here na that time the idiot go gada follower wey go hail ham.

The Frank idiot Na fool. If you throw football banter you must expect reply. Chelsea has lots of fans. You throw such missile first and expect nothing back. A very big fool.

There is no irrelevant course. I love science but it does not mean everyone has to do STEM. Not everyone likes it or has aptitude for it.

Are there not many STEM graduates without jobs?

We should generally improve education standards and promote entrepreneurship, innovation and creativity irrespective of academic orientation.

AND create jobs. Education is meant to foster transferable skills that prepares people for jobs.

History graduates can work in banks or administration. Same as engineering graduates.

No more limitation based on course in thriving economies worldwide.

Chai!

Her illness is Reginanitis! This may yet spread like Ebola among 9ja ladies.

But she should remember that there are very few people like Ned Munir Nwoko in Delta State.

For every new car Regina rides, there's another co-wife to share Ned with.

But still, I like her honesty.

The guy just dodged some machine gun bullets. This kinda woman can cheat with a rich guy as a wife.

The guy should forget his expenses on her. Cut his loss and move on.

I have always said that given a choice, most women can only marry up. Love plays no role in it.

If she was a kindergarten miss earning 16k per month, she'd gum this guy like a glue.

Now that Nollywood directors and marketers (usually married) are on her case, she dey do nyanga.

After some divorces later, she will be lamenting men are bad.

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