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prechbills1:You know their hypocrisy na. If the girl was impregnated by the guy's friend they will say the guy must have a small d.ick. Yada yada yada. Their insincerity and hypocrisy undermine the equality they shout about. Physical assault is a crime. But some women think it is acceptable for a woman to be violent. But not men. The guy behaved very badly like a he-goat. But it is not a crime. The gf can be upset and feel pain, it is her right. But the dignified thing to do is move on. |
prechbills1:You know their hypocrisy na. If the girl was impregnated by the guy's friend they will say the guy must have a small d.ick. Yada yada yada. Their insincerity and hypocrisy undermine the equality they shout about. Physical assault is a crime. But some women think it is acceptable for a woman to be violent. But not men. |
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helphelp:But the lazy yoots couldn't not boycott the programme. Very unpatriotic. |
princfred:What is the meaning of diabolism? Such as is not found in Igboland or Yorubaland or wherever you come from? Maybe you should tell us where you come from. Curious that with all the diabolism, you seemed to have chosen the place for many things. And they have not used you for jazz till now? I would have thought you live in Vatican City to protect you from all that diabolism. ![]() When did people following their traditional religion equals to ritual killing of people? Ogun, Sango, Ayelala, Orunmila that many people worship in traditional religion originate from where? I was gisting with a girl from Akwa Ibom studying at Uniben. She told me Benin people do jazz yada yada yada. upon questioning she admitted she had no Benin person as a friend. Has never been to the house of any Benin person. That all her friends were from Delta, PH, AK etc. Then I asked her what exact experience of the jazz she has had in Benin, she said none. I reminded her of the number of children in Akwa Ibom that families abandon for allegedly being witches. That how does that compare to Benin. She began to change topic. People bring their prejudices to Benin or anywhere indeed and begin seeking any little evidence to confirm their prejudices. A well-known phenomenon that Psychologists call it "confirmation bias". |
princfred:Problem is people have been so ingrained to believe things. Usually without any proof. Prejudices and bigotry are part of mankind. When I was a kid, we were told that if by mistake we should ever cross the Niger Bridge into the East that we would end up in a pot of soup! That Igbo will do just about anything to get money. They might even sell your house if they are your tenants and run away. Fast forward many years later, we have married many Igbo women. Paid Bride Price all over Igbo land. But we never got eaten by Igbo people. Those prejudices might have remained had relatives not met those lovely ladies. The Igbo women who came to marry into our family all narrated stories of witches flying during day time in Benin, stories they grew up hearing. Decades on, the kids they gave us are all doing well and marriages are all very strong. Dude there are enough prejudices to go round. It is left to each individual to wallow in it or deliver themselves. So fetish is equal to human killing? Ask yourself where Okija forest where corpses are found is? Where is the Osun forest littered with ritual shrines and bodies? Ogun with headless bodies and skulls galore where is it located? In Benin? No. If Benin had that, Benin has a fairly small land mass, with much of the land used for plantain and other farming, cocoa, rubber and palm oil plantation, some crude oil, logging timber, etc. With so much activities across our forests, why has nobody seen the ritual corpses in the forests? You see prejudice can blind people so much that they cannot see Olumo rock right in front of them. |
princfred:My village has no ritual killing. I am so confident that I take my Western born & bred kids to my village with every opportunity. Nothing barbaric to see or hide. Please do not use your village to generalise. I have seen all our festivals. I do not miss any if in town. The position of my family at the top of traditional society means nothing can be hidden from me. Europeans do NOT condemn old barbarity. Sacrificial human bodies found in bogs are kept like treasures in Museums. I know because I have seen them. |
princfred:Ok I should do like Buhari who said Nigerian youths are lazy. Generalise that we're Africans are all barbarians. ![]() How many friends & family have you that kill for ritual? Or will not condemn it? I have no ritual killers as friends or family. They would roundly condemn such in this day and age. Is there any normal human being who condones killing? But you appear to say that killings even in millions by Europeans are in order. That whatever their motive, those killings must be justified, including wars to take other people's native land from them. But a few done by Africans is more barbaric. So who is a hypocrite here? |
princfred:Your problem is that you hate yourself by hating your culture. Every culture had and has evil in it. Be it killing innocent native Australians/Americans & Africans to take their land or whatever. I do not know which tribe you come from but in my place we have no culture of evil forest. In fact we had Christianity already in the 1480s in Benin. An Oba of Benin was already a Christian 500 years ago. He was educated at the Portuguese Royal Military Academy in Lisbon. The Oba is the head of a traditional church like Queen Elizabeth is head of Anglican church. Today with one of West Africa's oldest Cathedrals till now. We're openly proud of our culture because nothing to hide. Maybe your people have a barbaric culture. Benin Empire banned slavery before 1650 when slave trade properly took off. Read my posts from years back here on NL. I have explained it here many times before. Benin people were by royal decree not allowed to buy or sell a slave. Benin people were forbidden to be sold too. A detailed record of slave origin places kept by European slave traders was posted here a few years back. Benin was not in it. Before that many argued with me here that Benin sold slaves. That record kept them shut finally. But records abound, such as by the French man called Landolphe who detailed how Benin do not sell slave. Your generalisation and rants keep betraying your general assumption of what you think all of Africa was like in the past. I actually visit Museums across Europe: Berlin, Paris, London, Amsterdam and others to see how people lived in Europe in the past. What they describe as their culture which has shaped their lives today. I never miss any chance to go. Maybe seeing their past let you put past and present African & European lives into perspective. As for condemning barbarity, what has that got to do with anything? Do Europeans lament the barbaric killings of foreigners, hate crimes that happen in Europe? Do they condemn their entire culture for the crimes of the few? NO. Quite astonishing that Western wars that wiped out over a billion people do not amount to barbarity. Very sickening. If Benin could ban slave trade hundreds of years before the British did in 1807, why can't the current Nigerian nation modelled on your gods the Europeans find a solution? Is it that Western models do not have solutions to everything as you make it sound? ![]() What is the difference between ritual killing as happens sometimes in some parts of Africa and knife killings in UK or incessant gun crimes in America? None as they are all crimes that cost human lives. The motive is irrelevant. The consequences are same: loss of lives & much pain caused to the bereaved. Your poor knowledge of world history has only caused you self-loathing. A very bad state of being. You therefore generalise as though is just one homogeneous entity with exact same history, culture and experiences historically. Far from it. You can see how Nigeria is struggling to gel. Because of historical and current cultures lumped together by your rampaging gods from Europe. Talking of IQ, I was educated among Westerners and I know how we all measured up. No need to elaborate in order not to appear to brag. |
princfred:Your problem is that you hate yourself by hating your culture. Every culture had evil in it. Be it killing innocent native Australians/ & Africans to take their land or whatever. I do not know which tribe you come from but in my place we have no culture of evil forest. In fact we had Christianity already in the 1480s in Benin. An Oba of Benin was already a Christian 500 years ago. He was educated at the Portuguese Royal Military Academy in Lisbon. The Oba is the head of a traditional church like Queen Elizabeth is head of Anglican church. Today with one of West Africa's oldest Cathedrals till now. We're openly proud of our culture because nothing to hide. Maybe your people have a barbaric culture. Benin Empire banned slavery before 1650 when slave trade properly took off. Read my posts from years back here on NL. I have explained it here many times before. Benin people were by royal decree not allowed so buy or sell a slave. Benin people forbidden to be sold. A detailed record of slave origin places kept by European slave traders was posted here a few years back. Benin was not in it. Before that many argued with me here that Benin sold slaves. That record kept them shut finally. But records abound, such as by the French man called Landolphe who detailed how Benin do not sell slave. Your generalisation and rants keep betraying your general assumption of what you think Africa was like in the past. I actually visit Museums across Europe: Berlin, Paris, London, Amsterdam and others to see how people lived in Europe in the past. What they describe as their culture which has shape their lives today. I never miss any chance to go. Maybe seeing their past let you put past and present African & European lives into perspective. As for condemning barbarity, what has that got to do with anything? Do Europeans lament the barbaric killings of foreigners, hate crimes that happen in Europe? Do they condemn their entire culture for the crimes of the few? NO. If Benin could ban slave trade hundreds of years before the British did in 1807, why can't the current Nigerian nation modelled on your gods the Europeans find a solution? Is it that Western models do not have solutions to everything as you make it sound? ![]() What is the difference between ritual killing as happens sometimes in some parts of Africa and knife killings in UK or incessant gun crimes in America? None as they are all crimes that cost human lives. The motive is irrelevant. The consequences are same: loss of lives & much pain caused to the bereaved. Your poor knowledge of world history has only caused you self-loathing. A very bad state of being. You therefore generalise as though is just one homogeneous entity with exact same history, culture and experiences historically. Far from it. You can see how Nigeria is struggling to gel. Because of historical and current cultures lumped together by your rampaging gods from Europe. |
princfred:And a thorough brainwash makes you believe Europeans didn't do human sacrifice in the past. If you had any broad proper education you would have known better. Sacrificial bodies preserved in salty marsh water/bog are still being found across Europe. And I am 100 % sure that by heart you do not know the name of any European gods. Your type will have a child that you will not name her Esubiyi but will ignorantly call her Diana (a Graeco-Roman hunting goddess). ![]() After your thorough brainwash you somehow believe that perhaps a few thousand people killed for rituals over millennia in Africa is worse than same in Europe. Or that around one billion persons that have perished in European, Middle Eastern and Asian wars are glorious stuff and totally great compared to the fewer ones in Africa. Now the Europeans who brought you Christianity now have the lowest population of practicing Christians since over 1000 years. If the Europeans were that great at everything why engage in those wars that killed on industrial scale including Hitler gassing 6 million Jews? You can hate yourself and your culture all you like. YOU will later realise that you cannot run away from your shadows. Europe has more openly practising pagans now since the 10th century AD. With pagan festivals celebrating winter and summer solstice at Stonehenge and other pagan landmarks across Europe. They now realise that what brought them freedom and progress is science and enlightenment. The exact things Christianity fought against for hundreds of years. They were not even allowed to translate the Bible into common languages like German, English, French, etc. The church even killed people for trying to. Martin Luther narrowly escaped with his life. For you of course such killings are great since it was not done by Africans. You have little historical knowledge so you just write devoid of any Christian decorum or intellectual strength. Like a typical ignorant zealot. Probably a budding god of men. ![]() |
princfred:First off, World War 1 caused over 18 million deaths and about 23 million wounded. World war 2 (1939-1945) resulted in 80 million deaths (including actual war deaths & from diseases/famine caused by war directly). We have English civil war, Spanish civil war, Napoleonic wars. Never mind Julius Caesar's and other Roman wars. Then Alexander The Great's wars. Now also consider Korea War, America fighting Vietnam war & Russian war in Afghanistan in 1980s. Even in the Bible Abraham went to war. A share of the war booty was given to Melchizedek. Some MoGs even erroneously use it to justify early tithe payment. Gideon fought a war, King Saul did too. The Bible is replete with Israel's wars with it's neighbors. Even modern Israel has been fighting wars almost since 1948. Aside pre-Constantine Rome, Alexander & Korea, all the aforementioned nations either followed Abraham's God or were Christians. Only ignorance of history, brainwash or sheer inability to think for yourself would make you call African gods blood-thirsty in comparison. WW2 dead alone equals roughly the Population of Egypt today. In 1939, the world had only 2.3 billion people and Egypt had 16 million. So which blood thirsty god do you mean? At the time we were making our metal works centuries ago, Europeans had no bicycles, no trains, no cars, no electricity. The most they had were boats without engines that relied on wind sail to travel. So you just ranted without understanding my post you were quoting. Killing twins was not common across Africa. In Benin twins were never killed. In Yorubaland twins were also normal. It is one of those stories that Europeans used rare occurrences in isolated tribes to vilify and demonize Africans. At the same time I was referring to, centuries ago, scholars/scientists who dared to say that the earth round & the earth was not centre of the universe were sentenced to be burnt at stake by the churches in Europe. That sounds like bloodthirsty to anyone not brainwashed. You obviously have no knowledge of church atrocities over time. The same church in Europe declared that Africans have no souls and therefore not different from animals. The church used it to justify trans-Atlantic slave trade. Please educate yourself before coming to argue in public fora. Read widely. There is more out there to learn than religious zealotry. 350 YEARS ago, a Dutch explorer described Benin City as been as magnificent as Rotterdam in Holland. With the Oba's palaces being as great as the Exchange in Amsterdam. A massive building of Dutch tycoons where Stock Exchange business first started in the world. |
VanNistelrooy24:Saraki is a medic. Obviously checking her injuries. |
princfred:I do not know which lack of innovation you mean. Without Western universities to teach chemistry or metallurgy Benin, Owo, Ife, NOK culture, Igbo Ukwu and others were making excellent metal works comparable to those made in the West at that time centuries ago. We developed religious beliefs that acknowledged Oghene-Osa, Eledumare, Chukwu as supreme God. We had no Biblical old testament to copy from. We developed both Republican and monarchical systems of govt independently. We had our own lunar calendar. All developed before Oyinbo came. African culture was always dynamic. Not static. In fact our innovation only stopped when Oyinbo came. We became "copiers" of other people's culture. Europeans on one hand, Arabs on the other. Your submission has no historical or factual basis to support it. Self-loathing is one thing. Fact is another. |
sapele914:I like it when people go into history. Because most people are bad at it, even if they do not know. Now regarding Dosunmu & Kosoko. It is well known that Kosoko was loyal to Benin Empire, Eleko being a descendant of a Benin prince. On paper the British claimed to want to stop slave trade. Whereas it was about total control of Lagos. Slave trade was banned 200 years earlier already in Benin. Dosunmu (called Docemo by the British) was forced to sign Lagos over to the British under threat of bombardment by British navy at Lagos wharf. The so-called support by the British was indeed a scripted plan to create Lagos Colony. Supporting Dosunmu would make him vulnerable & malleable to the British. And it worked. So read up history properly. As for OBJ & census, do not pretend that that census was acceptable. Lagos for example didn't think Kano still has more population than Lagos, after Jigawa was carved out. Lagos later published its own population estimate. It is on public record. The earlier manipulation by the British (as admitted by some British officials who were involved, unless you want to claim you that was not there know better), has served as a template for the North. Since they have used it to garner more local governments, states, NASS members, resource allocation and other economic and political advantages over time. They were never going to give up that and have locally continued artificial population inflation. Is it not the same Northerners who count themselves? They have tasted free oil allocated on such basis. The North has continued to be an obstacle to any effort at meaningful reform. Be it state police, resource control or decentralisation. In every country, semi-Arid or Arid parts support less population. The coastal areas/river banks and rain forest support huge population growth. Even in Libya, Algeria, Egypt, etc. Only in Nigeria do Northerners claim that the dry areas bordering on the Sahel has more people. The North always claim that they marry more wives and bear more kids. But they do not tell us how many of those kids die of poverty, or the teenage brides who die in labour or get maimed by vagina fistula, making them not able to get married again or have kids after being divorced. |
Britain liked the indirect rule in the North via local kings. Their local rulers had a firm grip. The feudalistic system suited the British & the Northern elites perfectly. Southern populations were more educated and more radical. The British hated that. They generally hate anyone who is bold & ambitious, they wanted subservient subjects. Even after independence. The Northerners fitted that bill more. Simple. Imagine handing over to Pa Awo, to join Nkrumah & Lumumba, that was not going to happen. They rigged the 1959 election to favour the North. Same with census figures. At least some British colonial officers of that time now admit as much. Left to the North they would have remained under the British till around mid-1970s. |
All in a day's work. He will be back in the street to continue soon. Such people do not change. |
Jesus is Lord! Poor girl. |
SIRmanjar:This your Kwale weed na super-strength o. ![]() |
What of Lemon grass, willow tree bark & Myrtle leaf (original source of aspirin)? |
Olatara:My dear not so. I mean you have to wonder why a guy would let his babe hang around such a pervert. A man well-known for shagging anything. Suppose one day he molests the babe in his house, the babe might be too ashamed to tell anyone. Such a he-goat can engineer his wife to be absent, so the babe arrives when the wife is not there. Can you imagine what trauma a molested girl goes through, too afraid to talk due to stigma & fear of pastor's influence? I know because I dealt with such women in the past, line of work then. If it got to the point that the guy got to know, it must have been serious. We guys are usually the last to know, if ever. |
prince3009:Chai! I posted about some pastors shagging every every church member like 30 minutes ago on another thread. And here is a church member confirming it. So this shagomaniac is your spiritual mentor, bah? So how can you be sure he didn't shag your girl? |
Africans with inferiority complex. Japanese & Chinese have less than 1% Christian population. They didn't have to give up their culture to make bullet trains and the electronics you all enjoy. They allowed it to evolve. Is is African culture that make many pastors Bleep both married and unmarried church members? In our culture we have taboos against many atrocities now going on everywhere. He should explain how African culture instructed the Reverend Professor to use sex for marks. ![]() Make the man park well. He should just quietly enjoy his sheeples' money. |
plaetton:No mind the man. In my church (original oyinbo church o) over 80% are black. If not for Africans and Caribbeans, the church would have turned into just another beer parlour or restaurant like many already have. Europeans just realised that your destiny is in your own hands. Not praying 24 hours, yet do not work towards development. Africans are just trapped in the hypocritical religious trance. Believe whatever you like as your faith by all means. But do not force it on others or claim you know best, even more than all your ancestors since millennia. |
Africans with inferiority complex. Japanese & Chinese have less than 1% Christian population. They didn't have to give up their culture to make bullet trains and the electronics you all enjoy. They allowed it to evolve. Is is African culture that make many pastors Bleep both married and unmarried church members? In our culture we have taboos against many atrocities now going on everywhere. Make the man park well. He should just quietly enjoy his sheeples' money. |
oyetpel:Ewe Lapalapa. Used by some for skin disease like Pityriasis versicolor (ila/nla). |
Iceberg3:Jute leaves. Actually popular in Arabia and beyond as highly nutritious. |
We shall see when the time comes. |
NonFarmPayrol:Look, for a man of the Prof. Reverend's age, that girl will look hot na. She might even be his daughter's age. ![]() |
lepagawu:Fela was sent to UK to study medicine. Like Olikoye & Beko studied medicine. In UK Fala instead studied music. Never mind his mannerism, he was very well-educated and among top 5 to top 10% of the most intelligent people. His musical arrangement & instrumental will tell you of his high level of intelligence. Dame Pat actually has a post-grad degree & and she used it to reach permanent secretary level in Bayelsa State civil service. Many intelligent/educated people are not necessarily articulate. Whereas some school drop-outs make excellent MC & compere. As for Bubu, we're still waiting for his 1961 WAEC certificate from Cambridge exam body that ran the exam back then. Well who needs WAEC cert when you can hire 13 SANs to defend you. ![]() If the girl has the means, she should just ditch 9ja education system and go to SA, Ghana or even Benin Republic. |
IamD18:If women now become soldiers and pilots and doing other delicate and potentially risky jobs, why can't they take romance risk? It should be part of emancipation. Men have to accept rejection regularly especially if broke. ![]() Women have been marrying men they feel nothing for since eternity. They marry the man who comes for them as they may have no choice. Or just because he is well off. |
Biglittlelois:Actually statistically around 1/3 of women cum during normal VJ sex. Another 1/3 cum with pre-intimacy/lickie-lickie and another 1/3 will never cum no matter what. Depending on how they are wired. Therefore there are potentially 2/3 of women who will not cum if all men had just regular sex. The hardcore non-cummers will still blame her guy for being poor in bed. Especially when her quick/easy-cummer friend narrates how she gets multiple orgasms with her guy. People need to understand their body and what tickles their fancy in bed. Lots of women still enjoy sex without cumming. It is not enough to blame the other party only. A large number of women offer very lousy sex. No imagination, like a log of wood, will refuse doggy or touch-your-toe. Only lazy position on her back. That can already put a guy off and just continue on "how-I-for-do" basis. Women also seem acutely unaware of how common the off-putting vaginosis is. Even among apparently clean working class ladies. A rather well-known blooger was even rumoured to have it. Not only among so-called "dirty lower class ghetto girls" as expected. Too many off-putting things men just manage. Getting a lady to organism in such a "flavored ambiance" isn't easy o. ![]() But women feel they can complain about anything: including a man's size (even God's work is berated by many women), a guy has no money, etc. |
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