₦airaland Forum

The man jeje nor include Nigerians in the reception.
There are many coded gay, lesbian and bisexual Black people out there. Only a tiny minority come out. It must be terrible hiding such.

maberry:
Just look at the way people who did nothing but entered into a house, walked around, sleep and indulged in all sorts of iniquity are celebrated
I don't think I have ever seen an one celebrated for academic excellence with such pomp and pageantry
Education is the key my foot
Nigeria has missed it big time

Why you come beat me to this comment Na?
You wrote almost verbatim what I was just about to type.
It shows our misplaced priority. How will the kids following all this nonsense not do worse for fame?

Rolly83:
Those bastard Western capitalists won't let this innovation see the light!!!

Or they will steal it and claim they discovered it first. That it was a secret military project. Initially meant to power missiles or spacecraft.

clarocuzioo:
The code of conduct or rules or laws guiding NYSC does not have issues with evangelism, if otherwise please bring it up by quoting the exact rules, code or section of the constitution. I think the DG was speaking in his personal capacity and if you ask me, I sense sentiemt and by extension ignorance.
During my service years, there was a time we went for rural rugged evangelisim, we didn't even went straight to evangelise, we gathered the doctors amongst us, raised some funds and got some drugs and medical equipment, the doctors attended to people with medical needs in the community though in our own little capacity.
Also there was a time we went for evangelism in prison, and the lawyers amongst us volunteered to offer legal advice and services freely to some awaiting trial persons. The NYSC officials were commending us and always encouraged us to make such evangelism in other zones. The community leaders appreciated our little service to the communities.
May I bring to your knowledge that when BISHOP David Oyedepo was doing his NYSC, there was no church in the community he served, he built the First Church there with rafter and palmfronds.
When he was leaving, the community gathered and bought a lamp for him and said "this light you brought to our community will shine round the whole world". Today is the light not shinning round the whole world.
The truth is that the DG is ignorant of the fact that service is embedded in evangelism. The early missionaries that brought education to us freely came as evangelist.
I think it's better to have Corps members who are evangelists in communities than those who will engage in all forms of social vices , thus bringing shame and disrepute to NYSC, because the evangelists will impact the communities positively.

You can still do good without any religious tag to it. Your faith might guide you towards it but atheists also donate billions towards the good of mankind.

I know that in 9ja we have problems obeying written rules. Let alone common sense rules. If you want govt to legally spell it out for you first, keep waiting.

While I do not in anyway support violence of any kind, the DG might be sending a "coded" warming to overzealous evangelists in light of Boko who maybe disguised as herdsmen.

What is clear is that the warning has been sounded. If you must do the useless youth service, then it is each person's duty to keep himself safe in the jungle. Govt has no time or care for you.

clarocuzioo:
Sometime when I look at the surrounding circumstances and situations, taking a critical and logical analysis of events all around this country, I wonder if this country will actually survive as one.
It's obvious there's no longer religious tolerance and that a very dangerous dimension threatening the cooperate existence of this Nation.
How can a DG come and tell Corps members they are not sent to go and evangelise in their host communities, its very appalling,i guess he will never comment on Corps members who indulge in "runs" in their host communities as his very OK with that.
Of a truth we truly deserve what we get in this country. Religious, ethnic and tribal sentiments is the bane of this country.

I disagree with you on this. Tolerance in this reagard has nothing to do with national assignment, that often has strict rules/code of conduct to ensure inclusiveness and commonality.

After NYSC you can return as a missionary from your church/mosque/Temple/Guru Maharaji or whatever. If you feel the need exists where you previously served. In Civilized countries those on national duty avoid controversial topics or activities like evangelism, political activities, etc. You're free to further study theology of your religion and join the clergy going forward. That freedom is inalienable right everyone has.

We must learn to separate things. Religion or even politics should not colour everything. When we refuse to separate things and lump religion together with everything, then our own tolerance of others' way of life/religion becomes questionable.

Runs is not overt. They most likely meet their patrons secretly. But evangelism is often done publicly, sometimes even with a megaphone.

I know what I just wrote above will not resonate with the average over-religious African mind. At least not now. Maybe in 100 years. As it is now in the West.

I think his State house of Assembly would be a good start. Or local govt Chairman,

People need to show some decent track record first.

Ignoring something so important produces mediocre leaders.

In 9ja to get a job paying 200k per month, employers can require maximum age of 33, 10 years cognate experience, etc. In a country where people can write JAMB 5 times, spend 6 years doing a 4 years course due to strikes, more time waiting for NYSC call up, etc.

But in politics, it seems anything goes.

CSTR1003:
Just look at the insult.

Can you do that to the US Congress? Who born you?
Even the president cannot protect you.

And the useless Nigerian senators will not see this as a challenge ,so that they can resolve their differences, come together, and weld the power the constitution has bestowed upon them.

In 9ja the presidency likes to control the legislature. If they cannot plant their stooges as NASS leaders, they divide and undermine it. The latter is the current situation. Remember that most NASS members got to be candidates via party connections and godfathers. So they are not actually independent.
We do not really know what democracy is all about in 9ja.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Sex for money exist in all society. Nothing can erase it.

Even legal with proper income tax code in some of the richest countries like Germany, Switzerland, etc.

Freedom of people who follow traditional African religion is under attack. It seems it is the only group that is denied rights arbitrarily & and nobody sees the danger of it.

You cannot force people to copy your foreign religion. When it comes to traditional worship even Christians start behaving like Boko Haram.

I do not do any juju, but the discrimination is unacceptable. Christians now behave like Nero in ancient Rome. Christians who were victims then should know better.

stphil:
I am a Keyboardist seeking a church to play for call whatsapp 08039175059

Which city are you based in?

Na swimming pool date sure pass now o.

The Oba has a right to his opinion just like millions who oppose or support Buhari. But I think monarchs should only commend and chastise politicians depending on performance.

But they should not be heard to openly support any candidate. That goes against the neutrality expected of monarchs.

ihatebuhari:
Maybe you dont want to graduate

What does that mean? That she should sleep with him?

Girl get evidence against him. With video recording. Begin working with a Rights group already.

YumMinaYum:
And you think avoiding the question could have stopped people from dragging her? What's there to keep guessing? I mean, we all watched them have sex, what's the point denying the obvious?


T[b]he negative vibes wasn't Collins. She was referring to what talking about Collins could bring, pity she was right... I hope she keeps his name out of her mouth for now. [/b]

This your twist nor gel ma. The negative vibe is about how Collins will react. And the fall out. The reason it's fall out is because she bleeped another man publicly. Being "famous" now Collins is irrelevant.

It shows how loose modern people are. If they couldn't hold out for 3 months in public view, what if the partner travels abroad for training for 6 months or one year? Is it then they will hold out and avoid all the secret opportunities to bleep co-workers and others?

nairavsdollars:
Baba no regret. I see him telling Trump ' Fresident Trumpet, Thank you for referring to Nigeria as a shithole country'. It is za truth

Weyrey.

Very good.

But this is old con in UK na.

It used to be in street markets mostly.

They will show you a nice new gadget by their car. Especially when laptops were still very expensive those days. They will show you all working nicely with ogbonge applications.

After agreeing price they will enter the car to "bring you a new one in a box" while one of them distracts you engaging you in a banter, or telling you how you will enjoy your new device. The new box you get will in fact contain stones of approximate weight expected for the gadget/charger/box. Having just seen the new device, most people will not open it again. The box might even be sealed with a tape to discourage you opening it by the roadside. I know people who fell for it.

Born2Breed:
The man has bad intentions, probably thinking of marrying another woman and with the court his hands are tied but traditionally he can be polygamous.

Forgive him for the sake of the kids. But pepper am small.

No need to pepper. The lady now feels too big because she's going to Texas. The man might even be better off in 9ja. The man will have it rubbed in his face that she brought him to America. Someone who can hold a grudge that long is capable of such.

I see what most of the very very few men brought from Africa by their wives go through. Though most try to conceal it.

Let her leave the man and find an American man.

donnaD:
y shud she hold a grudge for so long? [b]haba she does not love the man.[/b]What is she trying to prove?two wrongs can never mk a rite.she shud pipe down .

God bless you.

I was expecting to hear how the man neglected her when she had no job, what a bad man or father he has been. None of those.

She can leave the man and try her luck with American men with three kids in tow.

I see nothing here. Lots of men come back from the West and give 9ja ladies foreign residence paper/passport. And pay all costs for relocating the women. Men do lots without much noise.

If because he did not do court marriage you do not want to marry him again, just leave the man and go.

When its time for a man to benefit from a woman, some of them become very stingy. Leave the marriage and go abroad if you value Texas more than your marriage.

Was he a good man and father despite no marriage? Did no marriage hinder your progress or progress of your kids in life?

Nor bother us with stories of how you cannot forgive the father of your three children.

Tinalex:
You used the word "might" so if he is married to her,then no problem. But if not, its wrong.

Fact is he is entitled to religiously. And his wife knows it. Since I know how polygamy works unofficially among Muslims in the West, he'd not be announcing in the media if he married her.

I also noticed that most girls who condemn polygamy come from polygamous homes. And they never stop saying how great their dads are. Especially when posting birthday greetings for their dad on social media. You then wonder why they do not want a "great polygamous" husband.

For the record my grand dad and dad was and is not polygamous. Not my cup of tea either but I respect people's right to live their own life. In this case if his wife cannot take it she can leave. With a few millions of pounds even.

6660M0666:
Does this man realise that the National Assembly is a representative of the PEOPLE and that they reserve the right to summon any Nigerian, including the Head of State since he was elected into that post by the PEOPLE and therefore accountable to them via the National Assembly.

We should never allow Mediocrity, and possibly a lack of dignity, push us into justifying any form of impunity.

I wonder o. If they cannot summon him to explain simply why he spent nearly a billion dollars without NASS say so, why can NASS impeach him?

A culture of respect for the people as represented by NASS (despite their own flaws) would demand that the President be accountable to NASS when such vast sums of money are involved. At least the NASS select committees on Defence & finance/budget/appropriation could have accelerated the appropriation of the money. What is the job of Buhari's aid/SSA/SA on NASS?

Tinalex:
Oh oh....please clamour it louder. I salute every smart lady out there. No more should men eat their cakes and have it!!!

Toure is a Muslim, which I guess his wife knows. He might even be religiously married to the new lady sef, who knows?

He might be playing football in a Western country, but it doesn't make him European. Or a copier of Western marriage tradition.

phemmyfour:
A good man is not meant for one woman

Good men like King David & King Solomon. Or OBJ. Or even Bill Clinton.

And women like to tell us that it is men who cheat.

They will soon tell us her hubby must have a small dick. The same dick that was good enough for 14 years.

Anyway being a Nollywood actress is becoming synonymous with oloshoism & infidelity.

About time decent ladies like Joke Silva left the Nonsensewood.

I think people take him literally. I only heard of him yesterday so I am not his fan.

He doesn't look like a Yaba Left resident to believe what he said literally.
I guess he means sin causes physical death so everybody must die at some point.

He probably means that sin cannot kill the spiritual being. But being good can prolong the physical being like the Bible says "honour your father and your mother that your days maybe long.

But of course a child who dies a week old never will get a chance to honour Father and mother.

Nedfed:
Sum people are just too lazy.
When are dey going 2 stop all dis BBN news?
U wasted 85days (close to 3mnth) to watched the porn prgrm and u will still use the days of the year 2 keep trending the poo.
Now I camee 2 agree with Buhari words dat says " Nigerians youth are lazy"

Very annoying my brother.

Youth of today mostly love vanity & emptiness. I wonder if Buhari as a lazy mentor has a point.

Ok dude. Nobody follow drag am o.

RETIREDMUMU:

now u are spoiling food for the married men.

What about the married men that have tired about the old-wide-pussyy-fat-body-wife they have at home

some one cannot enjoy fresh tight nunu in peace again

Remember back in the day there were more virgins to marry. So if the pussy if now wide, the hubby must have used his koboko to slack it. Or it happened bearing his children.

A 22 years old girl that has dated 300 different men with various dickus lengths and sizes might have a slacker pussy. Many modern girls eating fatty food and no exercise. All their body is loose and watery.

SaintChukz:
Lol...I like the way you think. Though Quota.com is a lot different from Nairaland. But then we could start our own networking website too! If you'd be interested, quote this post.

Good idea actually.

Nothing new.

Many so-called celebrities and actresses are in fact high class prostitutes. Looted money is awash and the ladies are getting their share of it.