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The most important thing is giving birth to your baby safely, having enough to give the child a better and enjoyable childhood etc The rest is nothing! If your husband complains the place is enlarged, tell him to go increase his...there are procedures to increase it.
It shouldn't be the top of your worries, kia!!

I do see African husband and wife using house girl/boy/maids as lazy man and woman!
Op, you allowed the use of a maid equal lazy man !
Send that girl back to her parents.
If you want to help with her education, then see it as such but you and your wife should not call her house help. The running of your home is on you and your wife!!
Smh

In a saner climate, the parents would have moved to another state where their child is more than welcome to pursue her dreams without restraint. Why is she not making plan B?

Continue to overestimate penis in good marriage and underestimate the power of money....

davillian:
De there
Never underestimate the power of a good penis in marriage...

Don't propose the 3rd time i mean no more proposals at least for now. Don't force it.
Slow it down and when February comes, just find your way out. Occupy yourself in your new environment. What will be, will be.

Love isn't all about penise*s!

davillian:
These ones that their penis is 1and half inc
Even their girls prefer a Nigerian rod..
Good luck dont cheat on him o

After his retirement, wished he bought a small house in another warm State (if tired of the cold in ny) and less expensive place.
He would have lived life with the little he gets from soc security, disability and retirement. His children could visit and he would be happy knowing they are around...but then....well such is life.
RIP sir!

Ace5:
Why did he come back to this shíthole..

because he came back to die in peace and be buried in his home land, but this shithole of a country has finally killed him in pieces

I wondered too...but i think Friends and extended families possibly used sentiment to draw him back....e.g you never build house, you never come to see families, old people home not good, WU is not enough, come let us see you....blah blah blah! They say Africa is home because you are among your people not true! Wherever you lived, worked and raised your family is home.
Home is where the heart is.

OpinionCounts:
Lagos and bloodshed...I don't know how someone will leave a developed country to go back to that jungle called Lagos... everyday cult clashes, touts, street urchins, criminals and hoodlums everywhere you go in that jungle called Lagos

crackhaus:
Wetin con concern housework concern the thread?
Or you deliberately want to look for his trouble.

Oh! The humanity of it!

Microwave fufu ? Interesting. How does it tastes?

Logobenz:
Then I microwave the fufu weh dey fridge since as na only fufu I dey chop.

Or one of those that can do housework from dawn to dusk while forming ndi awon big boyz like my beastie Crackhaus

cococandy:
I wish them both good luck.

I don’t have anything negative to say...yet
Until we know if he’s one of those “black women are ugly. Team foreign babes. bla bla bla” kind of men.

doitforyou:
Or one of those that calls a 30 y/o Nigerian girl an “evening newspaper”.

Can't they move on and go fend for themselves instead of fighting over the poor man's estate?

Since no emergency # to call, she did the right thing calling someone else to come take her out of abusive environment!
Op - take note of one simple rule in a relationship - always info your partner what time you will be coming or if running late...a married man with a seven month old baby staying out till 2am kuku sleep there now.
What happened to leaving at 9pm or 10pm ?
Too much entitlement instead of commitment. You should have called on your way home and apologized while gisting her of what happened at the party that kept you late etc
You guys don't know how to love someone!!
Please get your priority right!

emeijeh:
Your wife went too far for calling her people (after your very first slap)
What happened to the "no third party interference" sermon on your wedding day?

But Op, are you sure you have not hit or beaten her before that day?

Just keep apologizing.
She has to come back.

Yes it is - i wish I could tell you where to get it in Nig.
If you know any Asian restaurant, ask them. Maybe shoprite Asian food aisle might have it.

Igbalaoluwa:
:oomg i have been looking for how to get seaweed in nigeria
i heard its really nutritious
please how do i get it

food for zampion. Give me the middle!

ibkayee:
Ran out of my house and sped through traffic for this greasy mess because the shop was going to stop the breakfast menu soon and I only had 20 minutes lol priorities

Thank you!! Wow!! Sounds like a Snail fest ahead

AjalaDtraveller:
There it is:
Frednes International Market
Tel. : 862 224 1628, 862 224 1499
21 Hedden Place Newark
I bought the snails frozen, I don't know if that can be shipped. You can call and ask.
If you want to go yourself, it's not actually a shop it looks more like a warehouse kind of, it's hidden behind the street with bushes besides it. A Nigerian woman owns the place and other shop owners buy from her to resale. There is nothing she doesn't sell including ogi(pap), all the Nigerian leaves(rare find) and many more

Make mine well done please - no long thing as in red

Prestonn:
Their shape are always lovely

No body wan eat chicken again oh, still in the refrigerator. You can have this

Please can it be shipped? I don't live around NJ.
Let me know

AjalaDtraveller:
I bought the snails and dry fish in Newark and took it back with me to Europe. If you around the Newyork, new Jersey axis I can give you the address

Thanks - just a mix of everything

CDCEO001:
Looks Korean.

Lol, at that tiny chicken legs I just don't get how people chew it.
Seaweeds I'd say the taste is like fish
Great with jasmine rice...not so great with regular rice.

sassysure:
How does seaweed taste?

Seaweed soup for birthdays with eel and octupus. These people can eat anything. I have given up on east Asians.

When u think u have seen it all
It's even a delicacy.

See popular celebrities eating this thing like there is no tomorrow

Imagine walking into a restaurant to demand for hot and spicy chicken feet

which one person go come chop...i go develop ADD on top this soup
Oya let's start with the snails! Take your hands off the snails. I miss eating snails!!!

AjalaDtraveller:
My vegetable soup. The ponmo, dry fish and stock fish are hiding inside but the snail and goat meat did show up.
Side note : I hope a got a pass for healthy eating dear balanced diet crew?

Going nuclear for seaweeds and sesame oil
Tired of stews!

Nothing is wrong being gay or Lesbians by the way.
Goodnight MrBrownJay1

MrBrownJay1:
thats certainly NOT the point you were making... you are calling men who indulge in anal sex (with women who love such practices) closeted gays, simply because a woman's butthole is similar to a man's butthole..... so my queston IS: if you feel that way, whould you now "also" call all women who love to be licked closeted LESBIANS?! would you call any man who enjoy BJs closeted gays too?

bros
Point is, let's be more open and accept each other's lifestyle.

[quote author=MrBrownJay1
post=84836661]come on sista....the above you wrote would be as silly as saying:"women lips/mouth is the same as men's lips therefore any man who likes to receive BJ is a closet homo"... OR BETTER YET.... "men's tongue is the same as a woman's tongue therefore any woman who likes her man to go down on her is a closet lesbian". highly laughable, if i may say!

btw what about women who enjoy anal, what should we call them? from mars/pluto....?[/quote]

No difference in male and female buttholes...many Naijan like butt sex- safe to say many Naijans are closeted gay because of op kind of judgment.
Their life, their choices. People should learn to accept others.

Nothing supernaturally will happen just bad hereditary wise. Nothing warrant sending them out into the cold. They should have given the girl and baby needed help and look to help the father psychologically. Villagers and church coming together to help another sick villager.
Nigerians! always backward and archaic!! Carry uka for head for nothing!
They are not well and shouldn't be thrown out!

I love catfish stew too. Next thing after snails.
Dried hausa fish is the babes!

Hyinkar97:
My love for Spaghetti and catfish is getting outta hands

All that palm oil and maggi cubes scary!!

Thank you...but not ticks. This one was like a flying moth/butterfly. It just landed on victims face or body and suck their blood.

In the ending of the horror movie, there was this creature with a huge head in a barn filled with dead - people the butterfly killed. The barn was burned.

mrdino:
Ticks. The movie was made in the 90s

Some Nigerian fathers aren't just there....they spent their lifetime chasing after anything in skirts (with their observing children watching them), impregnating anything in skirts and bringing hardships on their immediate family.
Let's take note: Children see through the facades even when mothers try to protect them.
Fathers resentment is deep!

There was this old horror movie i watched but can't remember the name or when it was released.
It was about a flying butterfly- like bug that attached to victims skin, killed them by sucking their blood - any idea of the name ?

mrdino:
1. Mama
2. The Exorcism of Emily Rose
3. IT
4. Wrong Turn
5. The Hills have Eyes
6. The Evil Dead
7. Silent Hills
8. Hell Raiser
9. Child's Play
10. The Human Centipede
11. Saw
12. Lights out
13. Dawn of the Dead
14. Texas Chainsaw Massacre
15. The Hatchet
16. The Ring
17. The Descent
18. Dracula (2017)
19. Nightmare on Helm Street
20. Halloween (especially part 1)
21. Jeepers Creepers
23. Candy man
24. Sleepy Hollow
25. Drag Me to Hell
26. Knuckle bones

A huge horror movie fan here

Human centipede was a very disgusting movie!