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So sad they beat you over what you worked so hard to achieve!
Entitlement in the highest order! I think the man should leave the place for them if no good option.

Why can't they go rent a place? Must you live in a house ?
Africans, why must everything be free ?

NoToPile:
Na wa oo.

I just know land and house dispute never really ends well.

Maybe he was raised by a single father.

TourismMan:
So a guy we used to watch football matches together got married around November last year and I was happy for him cos he was already 40 something. I'm so shocked to have learnt days ago that the marriage crashed in less than 3 months. In fact, the informant told me the marriage packed up precisely in the month of March this year for undisclosed reasons.

Honestly, cases like this scare us the singles big time. To me, no marriage is better than broken marriage. What has become our marriage these days?

Do you want to adopt a white kid?

CSTR2:
Is there a legislation against black adopting white kids.?

Shaking my head in utter disbelief!!!

Oksman:
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Let her come out clean. I suspect ritual exchange here, if its persistent then she may have had contact with one of these guys on the fast lane. Take her to your pastor if you are a christian for deliverance. No amount of treatment will solve it. Talking from experience. Wish you the best.

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Hope she goes on birth control and the man starts using condoms. This is what you get feeling the skin
You can't go through life begging your way through.
Poor little baby!!

That hand - please dont touch me!!

TheArchangel:
I detest married priest, reverends or pastors. The mere fact that they had sex with their wives or anybody gives me the jitters. You can't be frolicking and then placing vagina-fluid coated fingers on my forehead in the name of prayers.... Or praying with a Pastor Wilson's-like mouth Ewwww.

Such respect for others! yet naijians just dey process, cook okporoko, dawadawa, ompei, ogiri anyhow for inside kitchen even with poor ventilation
I once watched okporoko fish being prep/processed in some western Europe country - very far out from Homes.
My grandmother soaked and washed her akpu at the village river.

sassysure:
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Will do that at my backyard. Nobody will see that

I noticed that aside the west, countries all over the world have their own type of fermented beans( their beans of choice). It takes Korean not less than 6 months to do their own. The lady I watch her food channel said she takes hers to an open field to cook during the cooking stage before they will call police for her

No send out your neighbors sha...dem dey deal with our naija okporoko i think the nastier the smell, the tastier the soup

sassysure:
Got okpei straight from naija.
I saw locust beans in African shop so will try and do it during summer. YouTube here I come .

Never tried their packaged ones. But you try bo.
The only thing I use palm kernels stuff for is my boiled beans. Where you find okpei ? I miss dawadawa, okpei and my mom ogiri.

sassysure:
So I used this to prepare ofe akwù

The concentrate has òsùkwù taste just like the picture depicted but agric one. The smell is like Ghanaian palm oil. It's like puree and very thick.
But when it start boiling, the taste reduces. U need to garnish with stuffs that has strong smell so u won't notice the taste. I used dry catfish, okpei, green spicy pepper( it has a very distinct sharp smell) and bullion cube. Also dry scent leaves and basil leaves.


Will give it 90%. Will have giving it 100 but because it does not smell like our palm fruit.
I'm highly impressed.
My oga don't know what ofe akwù is but he ate more than he would have eaten with our normal stew. As for the rest, the rice pot is empty
So u guys can try it.

Fyngal1 u can check it out.
No pictures. All man was hungry

See question

crackhaus:
Is this for him, or for his wife?

For me - come with a career/job.
Don't buy into marriage proposal until you have a career.

Wishes is a long thing

What is the big deal going to hers or your papa village for Christmas?? Can't y'all stay in your home to celebrate Christmas and new year and create your own memories and legacy ?? Nigerians sef always making a thang out of nothing!
Answer to your question: No- you guys must not travel but stay at home and build your own memories with the kids.

akpunda86:
Every Christmas my wife wants to go home to their village.im not against but go ontime and come back so we all do new year togeda.

Its beggining to piss me off cos if im gone that means my kids leg fit no touch their papa village.

On that note i have warned her let this christmas be the last i hear you say you want to go home.

On my own ill say the disavantages of marrying from another state outweighs the advantage.
Every christmas u look foward spending with your family nd wife not knowing she z married talking of going to her maternal villa.

I gave her 22nd to 28th.wch is enuff.overstays hmmmmmm

You are so right sigh....just only yesterday Black Friday- they have already spent over 5billion dollars in both online and brick shopping and over 29billion by the end of 2019.
I drove by Macy's, target and Walmart today and they are still shopping!
I really don't know what America should do about the poverty around us because if anything, they are the world's number one in giving back to the communities.

Ucheosefoh:
America is like Lagos where you have the highest number of super wealthy people,

Highest number of middle class and a high number of poor people.

If you are into online business you will know Americans are the darling because they pay highest for digital services and buy more than any country in the world.

If you have a digital marketing agency America is your target.
If you are into drop shipping and ecommerce business America is your target.
If you are into freelancing American clients are your target.
Even Yahoo boys na America be their target.
21 trillion dollar economy is too big for a smart dude to ignore.

That's a good strategy to keep Nigerians asking him for money away after draining him during service

seunmohmoh:
I have a friend in Chicago(Retired Air force personnel ) and he barely eats 3 times daily because financially he's down so the way people view American like they don't suffer surprise me a lot.

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Which harvest ? New yam or the one they wipe people around?

nlPoster:
Harvest is the Nigerian version of thanksgiving.

I had an amazing one dear thank you See now i still dey bed and no fit get up

I will cut up the small left over Turkey and make hot pepper and tomato stew.

cococandy:
I hope You had an amazing thanksgiving

You called getting things said and in the open nagging ?

Happy Thanksgiving Lucas.

Lucasbalo:
I bet you your lips must be Orange now from kissing the rear of the Racist Orange pig you worship. Panafrican man that loves a racist pig who think of Africa as a shiiithole. Kudos to you. The likes of Marcus Garvey must be rolling in his grave for that fake moniker you use. Would like to see your face and see the real Uncle Tom.

Happy Thanksgiving to you and everyone here

cococandy:
Come one and all.

Turkey, Pie ( bought from store), fish( seasoned with herbs and ehuru) , lamb (by my cuz) , other medemede.


Happy thanksgiving.

The boot was to protect against germs such as virus, fungus and bacteria i guess

Good one...be smart OP! Get sick for 3 weeks!

LadySarah:
Whrn this issue came up in our home,i didnt even argue it.
You knw what i did?The next time he gqve it to me,i feigned sickness.I managed to write down how i buy tinz and he went to buy them himself.

Frm themkt he called me and said''The money has finished and i have not even gone halfway'',i just said''ok''.

He didnt even bring up the issue again

Stop buying luxury items such as milo, milk, slice bread and sugar.
Make eba and okra for breakfast, beans and garri for lunch, boil rice and bean with mackerel fish or tilapia for dinner.
Please make sure no baby until you are financially stable!
Encourage him to use condom because money is not enough. Tell him and don't keep quiet.

Coco dear, got it from Amazon - free shipping if you are prime member. Though you pay for shipping on some other brands.
See wetin we ate as kids not knowing its paleo

cococandy:
Where did you get this from? I’m interested

Eating aya like no man business....don't try it if don't have iron for teeth
Yours truly ogbologbo Northern breed got iron for teeth!
So loving it...more online orders coming!

I just wished we Nigerians would follow European and American lifestyle of individualism!
I really like their individual mindset - you go out there, fend for yourself and not look for handouts from family members. You give only if you really have extra to spare.
It's tedious when you are made to carry family responsibilities on your shoulders.

What a Continent!
Oh my Fatherland!! Who do you Nigerians?
Smh in horror and dismay!!!

Just like that, eh chief judge!

crackhaus:
That woman has 100% cheated on you.

She may do it again, she may not do it again...but all the same, please accept my condolences.

He is home sleeping because picture time is the only time for him to sleep.

Mizwisdom:
Some people will keep giving birth until they get the gender they desire. It's weird that nothing can change the desire of the heart, it wants what it wants. Lovely family but where is daddy?

Don't mind her...it is her kind that goes about stressing the poor woman and making her sick the more...
Op, if you are reading, please tell him.
Learn to love your life because marriage is not the end of the world!

Mariangeles:

This your comment is very insensitive.
What is the guarantee that you'll live longer than her, or your brother's wife ?
Nonsense!