₦airaland Forum

Kestolove:
Divorce and marry another, responsible girls full area no husband

And marry another who is immune from this sort of behavior 5+ yrs down the line?

Bantu10:
The way we abuse words here.

It cant be ghastly if someone didn't die.

It can actually.
The word ghastly means 'Terrible or fear inducing'
Not necessarily involving death.

The word, I believe, you are mistaking with ghastly is 'fatal'.
Which means involving death. Something can be terrible without involving death and vice versa.

Patrioticman007:
Respect is when you have & still give your parents a wealthy gift.
Rabiu needs to add the icing on the bake by upgrading the almajiri children with 200m too.

I'm sure he does give.

The Almaji challenge is a socio-cultural ailment tied to polygamy, excessive child bearing and illiteracy.
It can't be solved (permanently) by caring for the children. Only a socio-cultural shift in the northern society can stem this.

If you had 10 billionaire today and you drive from Lagos to Portharcourt sharing the money amongst the needy & downtrodden on the road gradually, You probably would not get to Delta state before you run out of money.

God help us.

chiiraq802:
Nothing like most Luxurious tribe in this world. Every single Human being loves luxurious lifestyle, na just money spoil am.

True nothing like loves luxury as a tribe.

Not everyone 'loves' luxury though.
There are people who love the prospect of a frugal lifestyle. Even when they can afford a luxury one.

Amotolongbo:
How come the IGR generated by the same Kano State seems so small?

Not all Kano indigenes operate from (in) Kano
State. Like most business men, the vast majority of their assets are Lagos based as well as various operating site for raw materials.

Note though, that in the 1960s/70s/80s Kano's reputation as a commercial hub was almost at par with Lagos. Of course everything decline like the general state of all things important in the country.

zombieHUNTER:
That's where Edo State allocation went under Oshiomole

How can that be when they got married in ~2015.
Oshiomole's tenure was due in 2016.

Cut them some slack please.

spice123:
I am into IT and I have a side hustle. You think I'm dumb right? Lolssss

Haha.

So you are advising is to do what you are not 'honestly' doing?

LoL.

JovialJune:
At bolded, not my story, that's from Romanoff.

O. Yes.

Sorry her story.

JovialJune:
You see, this is how a balanced healthy family life should be, where both couples join heads to make it work no matter the setback any is facing at a period of time, I tell people that the marriage problem and high rate of divorce we see today is cos one is lording himself/herself over the other, when couples see each other as equal partners, everything will fall in place, even the bible says "two become one" as in same in body and everything.

LoL!

Since you're quoting the bible, the bible didn't make men/wife Equal partners in the home though.

However the story of the family you described is graceful.

spice123:
My brother, I was out of job for like 6 months and wife took care of all the bills excluding rent and school fees and nobody noticed or knew I was out of job. No negative attitude showed up and I will tell you why. A close friend gave me this advice and I will share same with you. When you get your salary or business profit, remove your t-fare/car fuel and give the rest to your wife to manage the home. I was very hard for me to do but t I summoned courage and since 3+ years I started it, I have complete peace. Infact, my wife was praising me on how I was able to pay all bills and manage funds. By the time your wife will mismange the home funds (feeding, rent, kids sch fees e.t.c) she will wake up and realize that paying for gas in the home is the least issue. You will have utmost respect bro. I have been married for 7 years now.

Tfare & fuel alone?

So you have no personal savings other than Tfare & fuel expenses from your salary?

I would really be surprised if your wife believes this.

Ha!

JovialJune:
Lol, jobless married men should be useful in the house by doing the chores, cooking, and taking care of the kids, believe me, no woman will insult or demean a man like that, instead, she will make it her life's goal to get him back on his feet again. A man cannot be useless at home and useless in providing leaving everything for the breadwinner to do, then expect respect and cuddling, mbanu, it doesnt work like that, you guys should stop the whining, make yourself useful at home.

As for what your wife did abi is doing, carry your cross like that, rebuke her, or ignore her, you knew who she was before you married her.

"No woman will..."

Shouldn't this be "No reasonable woman will..."
Certainly there are women who are hard to please even for men who "help out".

Nice.

Wow.

[quote author=Esseite post=106137582]This is not good... these guys are mentors/idols to billions. It's bad for the relationship institution and its meaning..[/quote

Generally, rich people are not good models for relationships.
Anyone who's serious should know this already.

Relationships can require extreme patience, tolerance & understanding.
Humans tend to lose the ability to show these traits in any relationship (i.e. Business, familial, etc) whenever they think they can afford to(i.e. become wealthy).
Only God fearing people can.

Jerryherd:



The Sun UK and Daily mail with all sort of Bullshit News to sell their tabloid and scare some people

Why not wait for an autopsy or return of test before publishing the News

RIP

.

Sad indeed.

You have a point but it is we (the gist loving readership base) that keep them in Business by clicks & buys. If the readership really avoids such news, they wouldn't sell it.

Wow!

So there are riverine non motorable communities in Anambra? One would never have thought.

I guess there's a lot one doesn't know about the most populous black nation.

Interesting15:
Afterthought 2:

Yes, Success is a potent revenge!

Success shouldn't be a revenge though.

Besides the fact that a 'vengeful' disposition isn't Godlike, DO WE PLAN TO BE LESS SUCCESSFUL if our enemies weren't there ?

tamdun:
Oga he's saying the truth, ask anybody that stays in kwara about the story, Kwara state govt built a house for saraki (part of the benefits of ex gov), saraki sold the house and this mumu Hamed bought it back for him

Sure he is. Just pulling his legs.
Check his personal text (on his profile) to get my joke.

Crossroad1:
I know that house
Fatai Ahmed, that guy smokes igbo pass naira Marley..
I remember when we were in ilorin during his tenure and we decide to take the route where he ws smoking, omo, this guy collected gun from his security and wanted to shoot.
The only man that smokes igbo and his red eyeball is visible through dark shades

Nigerian politicians are bastards..
Only one man, almost 15 known properties.. Only God knows how many unknown..

I did my I.t at bukola Saraki's house at g.r.a,that house cost 968m..or thereabout.. Saw it with my corocoro eyes..
He sold it and Fatai's government bought it for him again through proxy..
The level of corruption in this country will cripple you if you don't hold on to something..
Both he and saraki Co own that estate after F DIVISION

Wow , Really?

I doubt it. After all you said to never take whatever you post here seriously since it's your 'mischevious' account.

LoL!

sonnie10:
AMCON people no get sense. A house that Spyder880 here on Nairaland can build for less than #50M (Fifty million) is what they are happy to seize for #5B debt,

Seizing the house is not in full settlement of the debt owed. It is one of several measures to secure payment.

saintopus:
After giving birth to the most useless President in the history of Nigeria JEGA feels he can give birth to a formidable political force.

Snake pikins na still snake

Hahahaha!


But Jega never 'crowned' PMB. now. Did he?
If Jega made Buhari President in 2015 did he also make PEJ the president in 2011? Since he handled both elections.

I thought some said it was the Southwest that made PMB. Others said it's Tinubu. Some folk said it's Obama, a few said it was the Old woman who gave him(PMB) her last savings. So who really made PMB? Jega? Nah. I say it was PEJ's failings.

LoL.

rottennaija:
That they did and invented things that the world uses use and that has help humanity in many ways does not justify their high handed dealings and misuse of power. Besides, as a global power, they can't expect to remain that position for another. They were world powers before the US became and they will be another after them. Nothing will happen, Las Las, they na nuclear war where we bomb ourselves to the dark ages and start all over.

Hahaha!

God would protect us.
Amen.

rottennaija:
There was a time wlwe didn't have the west OS, vaccines, drugs, cars. They day, most of what we use are from China even the phone your u are typing from. Is it hurting your hand? Most of the works I made, I order items from China which makes it cheap.

True.
I don't hate the Chinese.

The phone I am typing with too (A Xiaomi) is Chinese made. But that's globalization at play (as well as china's Ingenuity).

But ask yourself the 2 most important things that made this phone desireable to all of us using 'smartphones' are the Chips & the OS (Android/iOS/Windows). All US developments.

You think it is a random coincidence that 98% + of all the OS' used globally are running on an American operating system?

Most of us (at least in Africa) would have been crippled today if not for the Marvelous works of an American scientist — Jonas Salk — who developed and freely gave the World the Polio vaccine.
No country in the World has contributed to global medicines development like the US.

It is a random coincidence that important things like drugs & Planes used world over are not developed by China yet? I'm not talking basic radios, generators, doors etc. Currently sourced from china.

The point I'm bringing to you is that at the core (the cutting edge of technologies we use today) of valuable Global inventions, No Country (currently) has done more than the US.

The US is an Imperfect institution. But it's the greatest humanity has achieved on earth SO FAR.
Only God knows tomorrow so I can't say ever.

rottennaija:
Yes. Based on china's interest in building infrastructure around the world, yes.

Ok. Oh. You'll also prefer Chinese Drugs, Cars, planes, Operating systems, Vaccines etc.

All of (the above) which you most likely don't use.

rottennaija:
If China or Russia signs a nuclear deal with another country or produces new weapons, its a threat to world peace. If the US builds a new weapon system or upgrade it's nuclear weapons or signs pace to sell nuclear weapons to another country, it is not a threat to world peace.

It's interesting to see how the US has been crying up and down about weapons developed by China and the Russians but keep quiets when they are developing their own. Are they expecting us to ask Russia or China no to develop their own systems to defend themselves especially considering the more aggressive posture the have taken against China and Russia? It seems the US has forgotten that no country remains a world power forever, eventually another will overpower you and you fade into insignificance.

The US are far from perfect. In fact they have done some terrible things around the world.
My question to you and me is : Would you Prefer a Chinese or Russian Superpower in the stead of the US ?

This is a case of manageable bad vs ... Bad.

There's no 'right' person.
The idea of right person would be judged in hindsight. When you both have made heaven.

God help us.

spirul77:
Me I have few questions, does YouTube pays when you post videos that are not originally made by you? I mean, does YouTube pay those channels posting football match highlights? Those people that post football matches highlights, how do they make those highlights videos, what tools do they use and how do they possibly do this few minutes after the match? If an adsense is linked to a YouTube channel will you be paid differently ? And finally can one Adsense be linked to YouTube and a site at the same time.?



Dem say who dey ask question no dey miss road.

Yes they generally do make money. (I.e. those that are monetized channels & the specific video is not demonitized for any reason including copyright).

Those channels adopt various means to bypass copyright flag down. Including editing the video inversely (i.e. left to right) as well as editing within video game plays.

Editing generally use Adobe premiere. Etc.
But they have decoders that record the parts of the game they want to have on their highlights right from the advanced decoders.

However, those highlights that show up 2/3 minutes after a game are usually poorly edited. Often incomplete & incoherent. The top notch editors take hours as the results eventually show.

TheKingIsHere:
What the heck are you talking about.

The coefficient for this season is not concluded. Any one can be top or bottom at the end, thats why as it stands, France is the 6th on the coeffient table for 2020/2021 season. They use data from the recently concluded coefficient. That's how it works.

Hahaha.

You haven't answered the question.
Why does UEFA have those 21/22 figures if they are
useless.

Besides it's stated there Pos (meaning position) : 5.

As we speak, based on UEFA figures, for this season we are in (Forget the past), Ligue 1 is the 5 the UEFA league in ranking. I didn't create the ranking.

TheKingIsHere:
Guy, stop embarrasing yourself.

Check the coefficient well. France was ranked 6th as they had a lower coefficient than Portugal.

All the coefficient for the top clubs for 202/2021 season are listed there

Hahaha.

You carefully ignored the 21/22 right there because it doesn't fit your narrative.

We are not in the 20/21 season.
Messi did not play in League 1 in the 20/21 season.
Why did you conveniently ignore the Current coefficient.

So if you are asked NOW which League is the 5th league in Europe, you'll see the current standing but you'll still be pointing at 20/21 season right?
Why not point at 17/18 when Ligue 1 was 4th.

We are talking NOW. Not the past.

pocohantas:
Mtcheew

Some women don’t mind praying a side-chick dies all to ensure their horseband doesn’t cheat.

Some will rather employ a minor as maid, than a grown girl.

You will see them dressed in ankara and hideous head tie, moving from one crusade to another. All this to protect the supposed head of the house. Leaves me confused. Who is supposed to have this mantle of praying and protecting?

Do this for 10 years straight and you wonder why women age faster than men? You must age na. The day Nigerian men call themselves to order, you will see that pastors will stop making plenty money from aggrieved and stressed Nigerian wives.

LoL.

You may be taking this too far.
This is perhaps a case of misunderstood simile.