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Ayanwukoma:
I was rushed to a mental asylum early this year due to substance abuse and had to spend a month plus in government centre hospital in my town.. the psychiatric section.. though my case wasn't at the mad critical stage but it was getting to it.. when I got there I realised that the doctors and nurses doesn't care if your mad or not as long as your their patient they treat you the same way they treat a mental violent patient....

the doctors insisted my mum can't be the one to look after me, that they required 2 able bodied men to be at my side at all times...but I wasn't misbehaving..like the violet ones there, they still insisted saying I won't be admitted if that's the case, we had to plead and employ a guy who works there and pay him 15k every week for doing nothing.

my elder brother was in school then, and we couldn't involve my cousins that means the matter will escalate farther.

it was a big hall with constructed chains on each bed, I met about 5 patients there.. 2 were violets while the rest were just like me calm who had the migraine in the head that comes and go. (like my head and ear wants to block from too much consumption of the drug that month) the expression on my mom's face really hunted me, her tears..because she was very scared and couldn't believe we were in this situation sleeping on a bed that had restraint and be looked at like a mad person from visitors who came to visit their people and passerbys in the hospital...

from what i observed been a mental patient, sometimes you can't just get a hold of yourself..it just like a container that's sealed tight and no penetration of air...the brain doesn't function at all.. like it's blocked from all sides....it's only God that saved me.
plus the expensive injection they injected me with everyday that costs 7k.. daily..(I took it for close to 3weeks)....that injection helps to make me sleep.. and when I wake up I feel refreshed and okay. but as soon as it wears off, the migraine starts coming back....

I could have opted to be discharged, but I needed thorough examining because I knew the road I was unto. thank God for my life, anyway it's been 3months have been discharged and doing mentaly okay.

please parents tell your children out there, to stay away from drugs it ruins...till now people who knew about my predicament..whenever they see me they still look at me as if I'm not balance yet. which is very annoying. but it's okay.
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Lol sorry what drug were you doing ?



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ojun50:
You are a useless Man

I like the directness lol



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Please write one for us that don’t wish to get married too



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EmiDon11:
na orgasmgiver123 go carry those ones

Lol no wam comrade


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VeniJu:
This life, just like a fan rotates, can change at any given time.. What would have been a tragic heart break turned out to be a blessing in disguise. I'll be brief with this.

I met my Ex., a beautiful charming and wonderful young girl of 20 in the University. We dated for two years. During this period, I was supporting her in ways I can. (Normal lady's requests)
Later, things became a bit rough and tough. She started acting. I saw the signs from how she responds to my calls, no much visits as she used to, given excuses and all. I pleaded with her to be patient and believe in God for a better change. (Not the APC Change) but she openly told me "I no fit suffer"

I felt bad because like a flash, she seem to have forgotten the good days. And that was it. Two months later, I decided to give love a chance again. I met this beautiful and curvy lady of about 24. I shoot my shot and boom! Were off. Everything a man could ever want was in her. And she was like and Angel because after we started dating, things immediately turned around for the best. As fate would have it, she turned out to be a sister to the man my Ex. ended up with. We got married, and moved to Abuja. Life was sweet with her.. One day, she told me her brother and his wife would be visiting us and I said there's no problem.

Days later, on a weekend, we we're seeing a movie at home when her phone rang. It was her brother and the wife at the gate. She went to usher them in as the gate man instead they should call for confirmation. When they got in, the whole atmosphere changed... Like a dream, I was shocked to see that the wife was my Ex who didn't want to suffer. Apparently life hasn't been good to them and they needed help. I asked them to give us some time to see what we can do... (Honestly, I don't feel like helping) Though my wife is pleading on their behalf.

While I brought this up is to encourage men out there. Do not feel rejected because a woman left you. She might actually be an obstacle to your progress. It might be tough and painful. But see it as a blessing.

A very deep lesson to all young girls


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EmiDon11:
until i find my own virgin wife

Those ones wey you spoil sir who go come manage them ?
Say no to fornication and adultery



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Oturatetuala:
Drug is not a big boy thing, but I can't stop taking them because I love them, I'm addicted.

If I die now or later, all that matters to me is living a good, fun, forgiven life style and helping others the little way I can.

Op thank God for your life.

Repent sir.

I was heavily addicted as at June. This is july. I stopped all “cold turkey “ style which is quite impossible according to most scientists in the case of hard synthetic drugs . I didn’t even show much withdrawal symptoms. Apart from sleepless night due to my body adaptation to meth ..I’m good rn.


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Your family and friends
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Candidlady:



Speechless

She was murdered in a/an hotel they'd call her a hooooe

now she was murdered in her house what would you call her?

Men got nothing to offer. They bring only pains and tears to this peaceful world of ours.

You raped her like that wasn't enough you stabbed her multiple times.


Dead gender


poor woman
Na wa o

I believe there is a probability of an unseen backstory behind it all. Tho NO reason can actually justify such criminal act

Rip to the fallen

Quick reminder:- your dad is a man too



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Godoverevery:
Am sharing this with a sad heart and using this to beg people to please stay away from drugs.

I never liked weed or anything smoke growing up.... the first time I smoked in 2007 (100l) I didn't like the feeling at all so it was never my thing, I loved alcohol and I drank alot then....in my final year first semester I was introduce to something that almost killed me.

We were preparing for exams so night class was the thing....for ladokites in the building y"all know night class is something very common during exams....one day I attended one at (mko lecture theatre)....it was a group reading for a general course (basic in accounting.....imagine we mech engine student were force to do management courses in our finals) ...I was feeling sleepy so I beg a guy to give me some water to rinse my face to clear away sleep...they all laffed and told me to take something instead that wont make me sleep (I was giving tramaldo 50mg) and that was the beginning of my addiction to this drug......I was so addicted that I was even buying packs (it was very cheap then).

The feeling was great at first when I started using but has years roll by I started having health issues.....the major one was difficulty in sleeping.
After my nysc (2013) I was in my parent house.....I took about 300mg a night before, when I woke up, went outside to check why the dogs were barking seriously, I got back in my room and I had serious seizures ......I was unconscious for about 30min.
I saw my mum crying and my dad holding me when i opened my eye....I was already very wet ,urinated on myself with spoon in my mouth.
I could have died that day......but God safe me...I guess my parent prayers brought me back.

I asked my mum what happened she was just rolling on the floor thanking God....my dad pulled me up, I felt pains around my right shoulder, I have dislocated my shoulder during the seizures.(Till today that shoulder stills give me issues).

My parent thought it was a spiritual attack but I knew it was the drugs I took that nite before....I actually OD on.

I vow never to take it or any other drugs again and am still holding on to it.

Am sharing this because I lost a childhood friend on Sunday......he died from drug abuse.

His liver was 3 times the normal size and divided......Crystal meth was the drug that actually nailed him.

He was from a rich home and last child.....I cried when I saw his corpse because I remember the first time I saw him smoke a cigarette In 2005....that night I was really shocked and he told me this what big boys take in boarding school.

Please stay away from drugs.......you might not be lucky like my friend.....you have the power to beat the addiction by just making up your mind and cutting off friends that can influence you.

RIP Ayobami.....dead at 32yrs.

Crystal meth is so underrated . Drugs rampaged my life early this year until God took control.
Easy to start extremely hard (or impossible ) to quit. The rehabs can barely help. Trying to quit Heroine addiction without medical help can actually kill you … same with cocaine and meth ( they can make you lose your sanity and commit suicide due to depressive episodes they cause when you stay away from them )

Say no to drugs … celebrated one month clean last week



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Stephen2324:
Between Betting, doing drugs and womanizing, which ruins a man faster, and why?

Drugs Abeg

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Datboredberri:
Truvel, you're not very smart...

I'll ask you a question...

Do you know what renewable energy is? Can you list them? And those that are non-renewable?

It doesn't matter how rich you are... Wealth might make it easier for individuals to practice polygamy but it does nothing for the society... Our already depleted resources can not take care of the population, esp here in Africa...

You should know that the reason most in Nigeria can't afford health care and accommodation and electricity and even clean water is because the nation is poor...

Nigeria is an example... A population of over 200 million... We used to be the petroleum gaint but not anymore... We are now relying on Agriculture and only those in rural communities give a fu** about it...

There's not enough in the ground to help us... And the exploding population is making things worse... The more children we have, the poorer we would be... That's a fact...

If you want the single ladies in your church to get married, pressure the men to date them and propose... Women and men are nearly equal... There's no much difference... Societal standards has only made women eager to get married early while their male counterparts wait till their thirties before settling down... Different values... So many young men aren't interested in marriage... Not that they aren't available...

Hope you understand?

There’s nothing equal about a man and a woman
Both in strength and productivity
I’ve been watching you for a while now always ranting irrelevantly. You need to stop



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VeryWickedMan:
Learn to take a bath & stop typing jargons

Omo
Comrade you wantu kill me o




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Jovialjune1:
You've forgotten your mother, a married woman, is the public toilet? Better tell Abiodun not to forget to post her nudes on the internet for all to see, or have you forgotten you paid aboidun 200k for the privilege of seeing the nudes of your mother and the dilapidated down below where you came out from

You’re obviously bitter lmao



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theotheegodd:
Shey them put the redpilled attitude for your head?... Idiot Bastard!
Any woman wey go dey depend on you for money hate you...
You will learn the hard way sha... No be me go tell you

Simple sir



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Jovialjune1:
You all are women haters, it has nothing to do with entitlement mentality

Is it only women that asks for money? What of your guy friends? You mother, sisters, cousins, your Dad, your brothers? Why don't you create threads to rant about them?

Or you think men don't ask us for money? Have you ever seen any female screenshot a chat she had with her male friends who asked for money?

Most of you here are childish and women haters.

Stop crying and ranting
You obviously support her criminal (entitlement) attitude


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Wetin I just read again. ?




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Nonexisting:
Again, this is happening to a very nice and understanding man. Men, refuse to be nice and cut your problems by half. The more you are nice to vaginarians, the more opportunity you give them to ruin you. Well, tell your uncle that I don't pity him because as simp, he had it coming. I have zero pity for simps.

Comrade calm down



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Lexkenny99:
I dated this bi*ch 4 a year and 3 months. I loved this bae like my our souls were linked together from birth. I even introduced her to my family. As the first and only son, my mother wanted me to settle down quickly. My mum loved her. I really had plans for us, our future. I noticed mid last year that her attitude towards me changed drastically. I go call am, to pick na problem, chat am, no reply. I go buy gift go visit am, she go dey gimme attitude. Only for her to visit me and tell me she's ending the relationship. She said she dated me cuz made a bet with her friends. I narrowly survived that experience. Yesterday marked exactly one year she bitched me 4 an america returnee . Only 4 her to match to my apartment today, crying and begging me to take her back that the guy's a scammer and he duped her of her life's savings. She almost created a scene. Now am in a new relationship. She said she'll kill herself If I Don't just forgive her but take her back and her ghost would hunt me. Wetin make I DO?

Tell her you have forgiven her and forgive her
But anything love Abeg Comot am
And watch her well as such girls always try to play smart
She will cry when she see you and your new girl happy.



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WatchYourSix:
The mumú will take her back..
He's still professing love for her...

Love is often like that
Blocking her might be the toughest thing he had ever don but it will be work it when he looks back one year later ( my experience)

Love with your brain not your heart



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Jmichael1:
Hi guys....

dis question goes to the single ladies/ gentle men in the building...

were do u wish to marry from and wats ur reason?

As for me,i want to marry an ijaw grl bcus they got almost all the stuff i nid in a woman.
i mean they got the dark complexion...the killer curves and they are frdly to be with..

so guys tell us,were do u which to marry from....

cheers.....

Never been a tribalistic person. Any tribe is allowed as far as them no kill me with billing or tell me to chop 30 strokes of the cane.



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One man go still come marry this one

The thought of marriage scares me these days



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Ezendimmuo:
I feel like hurting my ex
I wanna hurt her so bad
I wanna hurt her for everything she made me go through while we were together...
She's older than me by a year...
She's 26 and I am 25..
She's in her final year...
I noticed she found it difficult talking about how many people she has been with...
I noticed she was always on calls even when I was present demanding things from guys..even when I gave her everything I had
I had to go through her phone..
She was flirting with other guys... denying she had a boyfriend...
I also there was this married guy she was always going to see then...
Whenever I objected...
She'd turn it into a huge fight..
I'd just have to finally let her go see him...
I found out that she has been fucking him and even had an abortion for him 3 times(according to the chat she had with the guy)
This is someone that refuses my own advances because she is either tired or has headache o..
I went through her browser and also saw she has been researching about abortions as well
She was complaining about serious stomach pain saying it's ulcer..it all started making sense
When I confronted her..
She wasn't sorry...
She was angry I went through her phone...
The next morning....
She came and apologized..
I stupidly accepted her back...
There is a particular guy I always see around her in her lodge..
I became suspicious and confided in people I trust in her lodge...
One told me she was always sleeping over in the guys room..
The other stupid person I told when to tell her about it and she got angry??
Do you blame me??
She came into my life and made me insecure...
I was having high bp anytime she doesn't pick her calls (most times, she will tell me she was with "a friend"
I just had to end it all...
For my mental health..
I still love her... that's the annoying part...
I stalk her status...
Today...she posted a picture with a tag "I need a hug"...
That's how cheap she can get...
I hate her for making me love her!!!!
I know I'll get over her soon sha

Guys..
Don't ever let any lady take you for granted...
You are the prize!!

Block , delete and ghost her forever
She’ll return begging tho so be prepared


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Nigeria is slowly becoming a killing field
Thanks to the aso rock men




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willi926:
My younger sister aged 19 years is the baby of the house( last born). She never know wetin life dey talk, we still dey pamper her. So it just happens that she fell for the wrong guy almost her age mate(20). When the guy was coming for her, I would see both of them outside our gate, and would always ask her who be this guy wey dey visit u sef, him no get work?. She will just reply he is just a friend. I started noticing the closeness was becoming something else wen the guy don dey get mind to enter our compound. I personally called my sis and told her I don't like the guy, that from the look of things the guy just want to have his way and move on, that she shouldn't give into any of his sexual advances, they should just be friends. Called the guy separately as guy man and asked him wat he wants from her, he said nothing oo, just friends. I told him it should be sooo. After some few weeks ago, I started noticing she have been quiet and reserved, her fair face, pale and red. The calls she always make and recieve don reduce drastically, I already know the signs, she was heart broken.
Na so I called her yesterday night, told her God blessed me with small money, that she should join me to an eatery around our area,( I just did it to bring her out of the house and ask her few thing). When we got to the eatery I saw she been lively again, we ordered what we wanted, I begin ask her questions, she opened up and told me the guy said he is no longer interested, that he has seen another person he truly wants, that she should no longer call him, neither will he pick her calls. I asked her if they had sex and she answered yes and apologised. So I adviced her not to ever call him again, that he will be the one to call wen he is sex starved, immediately I finished the statement the guys call entered, it rang for 2 times, I told her to pick the third call and put it on speakout, the guy just dey, dey propose love, dey talk how he missed my sis, asking of her were about, after two, that he couldn't sleep. I laughed cos the plans I have for that guy is not of good..

Tell your sis to stay away from him
And warn the guy to stay from your sis. If you find out he’s pestering her ( after she stays away o because these female folks can be confused as anything) waylay him and punch some sense into his head. A guy of 20 should be busy making his future not running after young emotionally immature girls. Na why I no dey pity some poor people sha because they use their own hand build a perfect foundation for poverty.



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Normalguyy:
I don’t know what else and no one should blame me I have tried all legit works and what this government is doing is putting an end to all of it with some stupid policies shit … Guy, I’ve done so may legit work even tech self mobile development I no still see job…Feeding has not been easy , omo my eyes don see..I’m 25 so don’t think I’m a kid ..I’m thinking of starting next week if there’s anyone that can teach me here I will appreciate…I will be so grateful.. please help my life I can’t continue like this… I have nothing to show other than my family …. No babe no friend
Please help me God will bless your hustle

No bro don’t. It will only bring bad luck to you. Forget all the flashy lifestyle and all. The fact that you’re obtaining money from people illegally and living off it is shameful

Learn a skill ( that only requires a short time to learn
Forget about the babe thing Abeg. Most of them depend on drugs to keep them from feeling humane again.


Go the the career section and see if you can handle any job there then you learn a skill while doing it based on the time and other stuff ( if possible because I’ll never encourage anyone to depend on a salary job for life )





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https://www.nairaland.com/7228989/how-should-return-greetings-non-muslim

In reference to the topic above
I see Muslims as hypocrites and very aggressive
Ion care if I get banned but I gotta speak up now I see why these various Islamic terrorist sects are the way they are

The only problem with some of these kind of people is that most of them are terrible hypocrites. (Speaking from experience)

May God help us all to combat the spirit of hypocrisy AMEN



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khreus:
inspiron 15 processor is whack?. lol. are you typing thru the smoky haze of your fav M.J. Well, i shouldn't overrule your take tho i'm contesting it. inspiron 15 as with most dell laptops comes in i3,i5 and i7 and it is the only i5 series that's littering the street so i'm guessing that what the op is going for. And the processor being whack? c'mon, Dell as moved from AMD processor components to INTEL so there's nothing whack about it. if your laptop go spoil normal normal, nothing go stop am from spoiling

He stated a pentium processor that’s why I said so
Btw it’s still below mediocre ( if it’s what’s in the image )



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Calibrator:
Sometimes I wonder why craze people like your brother's girlfriend don't cross my path...... The only language some people understand is pain and I am very fluent in vawulence

Comrade calm down e never reach that side na �



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What you wear and how you dress says a lot about you shikina
If you respect yourself people will respect you




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