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neonly:
Dat one church facilite in destroying my own marriage too
Though my union had shackes ground o but they come really help to destroy it finish
But me am happy now sha at least my future is ahead of me not from one useless pastor
When pastor mess up u go hear he is human too
If they want to exploit you they will say listen to d man of God he represents God
Though am not a Muslim but that religion still have morals that pastors is just for der sucide and bombing they make me fear them

Please try to read the Quran. If someone is performing suicide and bombing, they are going against the teachings of Islam. You should seek the truth to set your heart free and to be at peace with your Creator and the created.

Salaam

They were English translations as well as other translations.

@timojerry
What you described sounds like an abusive situation. It’s unhealthy for you and your children. And your wife. I am unable to locate your original post So I am unable to quote it.
Please find a social worker and have a discussion with them on the way forward. At the minimum, they will document it.
This will serve as a witness for you if anything were to happen. Because if you say she’s yelling at you all the time, things could escalate at any time. And even if she’s a woman, she has no right to do (be emotionally abusive to her husband) that even in the UK.

kbower:
I have been handling this over the last 11 years, not like am being complacent, but God will handle the rest for me.

It sounds like things are turning around for you both. The reality is that it is tough and challenging. If you were verbally or physically abusive to her, please do not attempt that when you get to the UK. At the same time it does not mean that she should be abusive to you. Even though women are listened to, you are a human being as well and she has no right to abuse you. Try to understand the community/society and adjust your behavior. I wish you well, there is a lot of good that you both can still do for your family.

Heathrow44:
simple, isn't it much better he's over there than over here? He should take his time, very soon if he pushes too much, she would use dat as excuse to quit d relationship and marry a Brit or a well to do Nigerian man there, and Op has lost many things
1. Japa to the UK
2. His beloved wife
3. Shared custody with children and if care is not taken when it gets to divorce half of his assets would be shared and he mandated to pay monthly Upkeep for his wife and children, which makes it hard for him to even talk of marrying again or starting up a business

Na so Brit and well to do Nigerian men full ground for after 3 woman in the UK? Have you met the single young Nigerian girls still searching? I am not even talking about the British ones.

This man senses that his marriage is heading a wrong way and I will give him kudos for trying to reign it back on course. But that is all he can do, try….

A lot of good advice have been given. It sounds like he invested a lot to get his wife to the UK. It is important that he gets himself there, and establishes himself properly. It is tough to imagine that your wife is playing games but he should just control himself and not beat her or abuse her and continue to try his best.

Mummyimbecile:
there is how this things work...the waiting times varies...mine didn't reach that 14years.

They normally use visa slot not used by other categories and push it to F4( siblings of US citizens)

How many years did yours take? I assume yours was siblings category. Thanks

DIY Abeokuta update

We visited the NIS office with our documents. They requested the additional items that they needed from us. And we will return to present those prior to the date of capture. Will update the house on the day of capture.

Lifestone:
Nope he's wrong. If Nigeria is a company, the shareholder will hire a competent Chief Executive who is capable of bringing out the best from her huge assets and human resources. They will hire the Chief Executive not based on tribal or religion sentiment but purely on merit.
This is the challenge before Nigeria as we go to the poll in 2023 to hire a new Chief executive

He is obviously disqualified since he sees no potential in Nigeria. Also disqualified is anyone saying “Nigeria is a failed country “ or “a zoo”.

Let us for one moment assume that vigilante arrested one of the criminals, why is there no single picture of the culprit that was handed over? Could it mean that not a single member of the vigilante had a camera phone? Especially given how everyone loves to record and post things online?

It is sad especially as policemen lost their live lives protecting this individual. If this is his first released statement after the event, that’s really sad.

simplebukky:
If you are booked for your passport in Abeokuta, kindly reschedule date for capturing as days are now available for October. I just rescheduled from December to October for my family this evening.

This is really helpful information. Thank you so much, I was able to change my appointment date also.

DIY @ Abeokuta office

Hello house DIYers

We have an appointment for a minor at Abeokuta and we spoke to someone who works there.
He said we would be sent back on the day of the appointment because we are supposed to certify/verify our documents before the appointment day.
The immigration website does not indicate this at all, nor does it request any uploads.

Please anyone with any information about the practices at the Abeokuta office, kindly share.

We, the people must be ready to make Nigeria work. Let everyone stand their ground, do things the right way and stop bribing people who are paid to do their work.

Space saved


Just a chronicle of a different type of vac.

Hey, did you sell the house?

adenigga:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/house-of-reps-provocative-hijab-bill/%3famp

It is exhausting to listen to Nigerians complain about girls wearing hijab. How exactly does a head covering worn by a muslim girl impact your own life?

Punch is definitely using its reach for something that benefits no one.

jjbest123:
is there any poultry property available for rent?

Poultry is already leased out

TempleHouse:
I hate to say this :Muslims Asians don't tolerate this nonsense, and could waste him for honour killing as they can't bear such ridiculous status.

You shouldn't have said it. It benefits no one and you spread hate about muslims. This has nothing to do with Mr. Okupe and his son

plaindealer:
The saddest part is the father throwing his own son under the bus while ignorantly hiding behind religion and running away from perceived societal shame when in fact this is the moment to rise up as a parent to love, cherish and protect your child.

He's claiming to be saved and a Christian while at the same time doing the most unchristian and evil thing just to absolve himself from his responsibility as a parent.

Where is the sense and wisdom in throwing your own son to cruel and insensitive evil people to be mocked, ridiculed and despised as an unworthy human being.?

Your own children comes first, your job is to love, cherish and protect them no matter what, you don't thrown them out to the cruel, hateful and bitter world just to please the immoral, intolerant, ungodly and hateful society.

What a terrible and horrible parent.

Am I missing something? You have judged this parent a bit too harshly.

Does he lose his own self to align with his son's choices? Note that the son did not lose himself in order to align with his father's beliefs.

Again, your statements are confusing as he has not denied loving or caring for his son, who is an adult.

Ajide1993:
The CNN investigation have laid to rest every contentious issue about the massacre of #ENDSARS protesters at Lekki. Anybody who tries to drive a narrative that our heroes weren't shot dead by the leprous govt. We must never forget

How? CNN never lies? Right
Took them this long and they had videos? Or videospatial evidence?

Yeah right.

Empiree:
Salaam Alaikum sister,

Four years later, what do you think about Trump?. Compare his foreign policy with Obama, who was better?. See how peaceful his regime was?.

And that is very human and again, Allah knows best.

I stated what I felt, I have no knowledge of the future. Whomever Allah places in office, my prayer is that they do not oppress the ummah. Trump is not a pleasant individual. Period. My sister said he speaks like "ki eniyan tu kelebe"

Bayley:
"Anyone who takes a life,whether his own or another's,will suffer eternal damnation".This statement threw me off balance,and I've been researching google for a topic or people that will prove the speaker wrong.So after suffering in life for many years,I'll still suffer in death?For eternity? Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha. Kikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikiki.WHAT A JOKE!

It is true. Don't do it

tegrianonigltd:
Jonathan started reviving the industry, Amaechi even gave him credit☺️, Jonathan was just ousted, lied upon, betrayed, used Boko haram against him, Yardua would have done a lot better I wish he never died, he would have united that nation. Buhari is never a man to lead a phone boot business, talkless of a nation, how can you compare Saudi Arabia to Nigeria ?

What did I just read?? We've got some really weird folks on nairaland.

Jonathan was voted out.

Confirmed landing at Lagos and Abuja airports.

Virgin
Turkish
Ethiopian

Can we start a list of airlines that have actually landed in Lagos or Abuja since the lockdown was lifted. This will be helpful for people purchasing tickets. Everyone is selling flights to Lagos including airlines that have not been approved so I think this will be helpful.

I will post another message after this. You can quote it and add the airline you used in your recent international trip ( location from is also helpful)

Thanks!

2013 Ford Explorer for sale. Will provide VIN, one owner, no tobacco or pets.

Price is $13,000

I do not ship or clear but can connect you to a shipper who also clears. If you have someone in Michigan who can test drive it for you, that is fine by me.

125000 miles. Few paint chips and slight bumper dent from one minor accident. Recent strut replacement, regular maintenance, tires and battery less than 2 yrs old.

Leather heated seats, moonroof, bucket seats, spare tire and jack in trunk.

Serious buyer only please

I will post pics once I figure out how to make the size smaller.

ojeysky:
Not really am just an enthusiast, it's not what I do for a living.

That's really kind of you. Maybe I can get your professional input when it's time

The job is in Ibadan. Not sure what the distance is. I plan to buy some of the needed components that may need to be imported. So, if you and your electrician will take a job in Ibadan, add transport and lodging - email me so we can talk more.

ojeysky:
Ado-Ekiti is certainly a long distance from Ibadan, it's better to get installer in Lagos than in Ado. However @ayinba1 if you need an installer in Ado you can reach me. I have an electrician who I have worked with over time for solar set-ups; I talk the theory most times while he does the practical and now does set-ups independently.

Updated- Thanks to all responders to the post for an installer in Ibadan. We are all set.

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Please let us invite this man into the beautiful deen of Islam with kind words.
He needs peace and it's sad that he has carried a grudge for so long.

May Allah have mercy on him/her/numerous banned user ID and grant guidance to the individual, ameen.

Remember that your good deeds are multiplied in the days leading to Arafat. May Allah heal our lands and grant us the best in this life and the next, ameen.

Mvici:
I Lost Confidence In My Girlfriend The Moment She Asked Me To Marry For My Mother.

I had a girlfriend some few months back before the covid 19 outbreak, that was after we went home from school due to the strike and the pandemic, we both are in the same school which is IBB university lapai, in our final.

So at home this faithful day, I put a call through! We both were talking, laughing on phone, so she ask about my mum, I said she was fine and she now ask abt her loneliness because no one at home, I told her but I'm still here with her, she ask what if school resume and what if we should go for our service next year, she now told me to marry another man for my mum.... lol... telling me who knows" that my mum might like the idea if I should table it with her. Gosh! I actually laughed about it then on phone with her but inside me, it wasn't funny at all.

The next day, what she told me was still bordering me, so many things were just running on my mind...so even if by mistake I wife her in future and the Lord decide to take me when we have a grown up child like me, who is planning on becoming a graduate this year and have even spent 30 years in marriage already....she won't even mourn me for long before accepting another man's proposal or bleeping with another man or probably her one time ex.

I decided to ask my mum with play, mum be sincere to me, you and my dad have been married since far back 1986... U both were in marriage for about 30 yrs before he past away few years ago, may his soul rest in peace..this is 5yrs now are you considering on marrying any one or having any kind of body movement or even can stand the presence of another man in your life?

Guess what her reply was....
Mum said my dad was the only man she know in her life and that's how it going to remain by God grace, period! and I shouldn't ask her such again with cry/smiles on her face because she has me and I will give her groundchil........

Seriously I don't know why I brought this here but pls tell me, any girl that can ask a 52 Year old woman to re_marry even after she has a child, isn't it clear that she can't stay without having sex to anyone as long as her husband is on a peace keeping mission or even travel abroad?

Thanks everyone.

I feel that she means well for your mom. Women do get lonely and it is better for her to have a marriage than an affair.

If she chooses not to, then okay but your girl actually cares more about your mom than you realize

KingMicky3286:
There is a report that most Nigerians are stranded abroad due to the closure of many Nigerian Embassies abroad. Many Nigerians have been arrested due to overstaying as they can put visa in an expired passport,

Please this is an awareness to let the Nigerian Government to with immediate effect instruct Ambassadors to reopen embassies to solve the problems of Nigerians living abroad.

Other foreign embassies are open 24 hours attending to the needs of their citizens, I wonder why Nigerian Embassy should be closed thereby causing untold hardship to Nigerians abroad.

To be a Nigerian, is it a blessing or a curse?

Let this information reach to the relevant authorities.

My first inkling was to type "Rubbish"

Stop spreading false information.
You can travel to Nigeria with expired Nigerian passport. People are stranded now primarily because COVID 19 means a lot of airports are closed and you need an open airport to land a plane.

Love your country or at least say something nice or true or nothing at all.
People are not penalized over overstaying visa because of COVID 19, there are very few or no flights unless the government provides an evacuation flight.

This is absurdly lazy journalism. A lot of the so called educated posters here did not even question why there is no single picture of a flight leaving, arriving or people coming off a plane.

Anyone can put a story together but if you were not at the airport, don't claim that you were there and saw the flights.

0monnak0da:
You answer the question yourself


That link you provided is what exactly?
Link to a blog of Amotekun website?
Is that website associated with or owned by any of the SW governments?

Why don't you post the requirements to join Amotekun?