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kolawaxxy: Are you finding it difficult to find the "deactivate" button since he dosen't know your username?audreybrian this is the answer to your question a wise man has spoken |
NewNigeriaMind: Lagos is not among the states supporting the program sorry. |
NewNigeriaMind: NOTE THIS PEOPLE THERE IS NO HOUSE TO BE OWNED O!!!!so the lending company will give you the money to go and source the house? |
Chillisauce: It's not about female, this is some serious ish.The unemployment in Nigeria is scary . Now someone who has been out of job over half a decade with a mental issue suddenly lands an attractive government position.Lol agree with you 100% |
Chigold101: i dont know what u mean by incubators however, (1) in igboland for a woman to have children of outside mariage is rare. Anyone born like that will need lots of prayers to survive what will follow when he grows up. But if the child is a girl, she will not have much problem cos she would married outside the kindred (2) Even if that child follows his or mum home, when time for marriage comes he or she goes back to the father‘s place. Cos no igbo man until tomorrow will give u a child to marry or marry u as a woman without seing ur father or ur father‘s family. (3) if ur mum was duely married ur mum‘s family will not give u any inheritance cos ur inheritance is in ur father‘s place. Unless that child has decided to remain in the city & not to have anything to do with igbos in igboland.1) And that is why the abortion rate is very high in the east. Also I see a lot of single moms and dad around in the east so maybe that notion is changing. Please what do you mean by needing prayers to survive. 2) Am not sure of that, some igbo bois have been marrying all kind of gehs all over the place. Should we take a stroll to Tejuosho market, I ahve a lot of charismatic members there and their gist dey sweet 3) Your mum's family will not give you ancestral land as inheritance, every other thing can be bequeathed. Cheers |
Me don apply o!. Even though i still don't get how much the interest rates are. I hope they have properties on the island along the Lekki/Epe express way. |
A time will come when "I didn't know he was that type of man" will not be taken as an excuse. Am happy for her that she was able to get out alive, I hope she finds happiness in the future. I hope her story serves as a lesson. Greed can be exhibited in various forms and excuses can be made for it. But in the end its still greed |
Ubenedictus: ok oh...With a big strapping male specimen like you already here. I have no fear ![]() |
Ubenedictus: the last time that happened you ladies were complaining.Really? But we need new blood |
We need new blood on this thread. Do you think we can get the mods to push us to front page. It would help |
Delightbaby: [b]Some men became unserious once you agreed to date then unlike when they could go extra miles for them to woo you. [/b]You cherish what you value no matter how busy your schedule may seems to be. My candid advice is just for you to move on with your life. It might be that he has gotten someone else but just for him to have somebody to rest upon in case of any emergency/eventuality. GOD will give you a man that will love, cherish and be the one that will be sending texts and calling you every now and thenI totally agree with you. It happened to me twice before I realised what it was. The guy may think since he got the chick to say yes, then she should be the one to work on keeping it going while he makes up his mind on what he really wants I @princess666 face your life, and especially your studies. The biggest distraction for female students is the relationship they keep in school. Use your energy to read and plan your future. And pray that the real one comes along |
Oya Sister Grayz, By now you should know what to do. we agree that the manner of approach used vy the guy wasn't the best but that's life. Maybe he put it that way because hr seriously couldn't think of another way. You guys should sit down with book and pen and list out your options. Efemena_xy has already provided you some. Maybe bros is just confused, who knows what kind of stories his friends have been telling him about house building, isn't it a time /resource's consuming activity. Please sit and talk it over. Then you sef try and contribute to the house project. I don't understand when you say you are not gonna pay for the wedding just support, how far is support for you? Pray for the wisdom that comes from above to help two of you get through this stronger and better |
woky: I am far from kano dear. thanks and may the souls of the departed rest in peaceTHANK GOD!!!! |
coogar: it was such an easy test & the OP failed it woefully.How should she have answered it |
Unfortunately a lot of women get married for the wrong reason, mostly just so that they answer "mrs" and remove the shame of "singlehood". And also we have the girls who think marriage is an easy way to a meal ticket instead of trying to develop themselves Then when the abuse starts its difficult for them to react appropriately because this was suppose to be their dream come true. |
Not murder abeg. Broke his collar bone, who knows what else they would have done to him if he didn't have his gun. the old man was in pain and terror. I hope he recovers well enough from the injury. |
Woky are you ok. Please who has his number. Is rich4god still in kano. I think one of them attends the parish that was bombed |
Yes Though some schools may require you to do a PGD or have work experience to cover up for the engineering courses you missed cutiedave: hmm tanx alot.nd can i do my masters in any engineering field |
cutiedave: wow.am also studying maths.so it possible to work as an engineerYES It isn't easy because of the competition but it is very possible. The first step...come out with a first class or 2:1 |
44chux: Entry qualifications determine career path.I studied maths and i work as an Engr. I can give you numerous examples of peeps like me in my industry. Its very doable |
Please i didn't see anywhere on this thread where people are encouraging others to be single parents. If anything some of them have shared how hard it was and how they struggled to surmount it. Nobody has said it was easy. They are just sharing their stories. Please lets not get all judgmental on them, single parent hood s not a new thing. Besides we are talking about all forms of single parents ( never married, divorced, death etc) Let them share their stories and we advise and rejoice we them as we can. God give us strenght |
Am am very ashamed I never learnt to speak igbo. I am making an effort now but it comes out so terrible when I speak, I just shut up. I hope I marry a guy who can speak his language well so that he can teach it to me and the kids |
![]() Swiftboy: We all know you can study Language in Nigeria and work in the oil and gas now. Naija I hail you o |
M4gunners: The boy that came to marry her is a loser.The Child is the pride of the Woman.Yes o! The boy is just making me proud, At times i feel like kidnapping him and making him my own ![]() |
Akinsbobo2: Pls,can you connect me with her?on a serious note,plsSettle me first and i will ![]() |
Ishilove: Stories that leave one introspective. Abortion is never an option (for those who were never married). The important thing is learn your lessons, don't repeat your mistake and love that child. Don't make the child pay for your actions.My dear the bolded needs to be emphasized. Don't make the child hate the other parents, hate men or women, think people are untrustworthy Don't turn the child into an extension of yourself, Give the child opportunities to get role models in the sex he/she is without and help the child not to repeat your mistakes. God bless us all |
Swiftboy: Lol am already in the industry...Engineers works in every industry...construction,manufacturing,mining,aviation...etc while a scientist is only in the lab or field.Ok have heard At all science graduates on this thread. Please there are a whole lot of opportunities for you in the Oil and Gas industry. Just come out with a very good grade and anything is possible. You can even go ahead and do a masters in engineering and behold you can do an engineers work. Its not by first degree but what exactly you end up doing. Cheers |
chineloSA: Those who are single parents ( those who were never married and married and divorced) I salute their courage, but I get worried when people come on social or public forums and bit their chests and say " I am proud of being a single parent" ( particularly those who were never married )Why concentrate on missing dads? what of missing moms. After all we have single dads on this thread. My mom died when i was 10yrs and my brother 1yr so he has been trained by a single dad his whole life. Nobody actually sets out to have kid out of wedlock, 80% are actually mistakes of the youth. The 20% who purposely have kids out may do it with ulterior motives (eg to force someone to marry or just wanna have kids cos they are getting old) Nobody said it is rosy and easy and this thread is to encourage them. Besides why won't single parents beat their chest and be proud. Considering all the odds they had to surmount to get themselves and their kids to where they are. |
freshdude2: They probably don't want to be raising another man's child. Don't blame them.I don't blame them, but its so ridiculous. One actually was shocked when She turned him down, infact he was like, I am doing you a favour you should be grateful lol. I had the pleasure of kicking him out of the house ![]() |
Swiftboy: LolReally! You think a B.Eng is better than a B.Sc. Ok na I hope you get into the industry and see what actually plays out there. Your mindset will change |
cutiedave: tanx bro.am just concerned abt there being job opportunities for maths graduatesI studied maths in Unilag and i got a job with Deloitte almost immediately after service. Most of my mates with good grades got good jobs as well. I left Deloitte to work in an IOC. I had 6 job offers when I finally decided on Deloitte and the IOC. 2 of them were international positions. And note this was with just my Maths BSc from Unilag, Mathematics and Physics are 2 very versatile courses, don't be deceived aand like a previous poster advised you a BSc in Maths is better than an OND in Engr. |
To be a single parent in naija is tough, to be a single mother is even harder. But with proper support especially from family. You can get through it |
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