Hassanmaye:

Don't waste your time on this guys please. I spend 5 good years to Master tailoring 🪡. Your can't learn any skill and be top notch in six months. Except you don't want to be professional

He never said you will be an expert in six months.

Hassanmaye:

Data science data this data that, as if its easy to get jobs on Upwork. To make money with online skills you have to be top notch and excellent at your work. But you will be hear telling people to learn skill in six weeks and be millionaires. Is alright

Did he actually say six weeks? I think he said six months.Nothing is easy in this world.Start from somewhere and keep pushing.

Franzinni:
ok

Good and matured answer. God bless you bros

letstalksense:
There is this lady I plan to marry, which I have made known to her already even before she travelled for her NYSC. Although she just came back from NYSC service recently. We are just discussing the way forward and on the process I was asking her about her sexual life and how recently she had sex. After insisting for her to answer. She opened up and told me she had a sexual relationship during her NYSC service. And the reason was because I didn't call her at a particular time so she thought I have find anther woman. And that was when I was having some personal challenges. According to her, they ended the sexual relationship in the camp. That she is sorry and all that. I didn't really expect that attitude from her as she seem to look responsible and Godlily. I was just disappointed even though I pretended like everything is well. And I was also thinking she had the courage to tell me the true.

Now I have to make my decision, but needs a matured advise and guidance from a mature mind please.

Do think I should continue my marriage plan with her?

Pease what do you advise I do?

Thanks in advance.

Oga, forget about that lady and move on. I do not know why some men like punishing themselves

Ezeeboiy:
Hello! I will go straight to the point

I am a mason (labourer) there's this engineer that hired us to work in his site outside the city where I live far away from my state of residence in the North East we spent 1 month and 5days working at the site we agreed that he will be given us daily feeding allowance but our remuneration will be paid after the completion of the project.

So after the completion of the project we calculated that I have 115k for the period I spent working . Now it has been 5days since we finished the project but yet to pay me I have families that depend on me and he now want me to go home empty handed after this long since I left my family. I have been asking him but now he doesn't even take my call. please how can I handle this issue?

Wicked and satanic man. This same man will still be praying to God to show him mercy. Nigeria is a jungle.

general111:
Hello good people of Nairaland.
My fiancée to me today that her ex is requesting to meet her,and she was asking for my permission to go.
Should I grant her this request or should I be worried?

My brother you are so annoying. Op, you better discard that THING you called your fiancee.She will ruin your peace and joy for life. YOU ARE A VERY WEAK MAN.YOU DONT HAVE SHAME.

Coolsat:
Some so-called men are just very annoying.

If you are in charge of your games, where she for see liver to come up with such request.

Smh

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dopedan:
E shock me

What are you doing with sugar?

nairagenone:
A woman is threatening a man that she will cancel the marriage in 2023 and the man is begging ?
Definitely, your brother will wear the skirt through out the life of that marriage.

For the wife to be to threaten him shows she is not into the marriage and marrying him out of pity. He will suffer in that marriage just like the f.ools before him who have enterred into a marriage without exerting authority and respect.

The lady already sees him as a weak and spineless man, what pains me most is the lady may even have body counts in the double digits.

Men, learn from this story, if a woman cannot respect you just like Sarah did to Abraham, dont put yourself in such bondage.

Go to shiloh, countless single women looking fpr husbands, men learn this, you are the prize.

Stop making a fool of yourselves like the OPs brother.

Please, tell them ooo. Most of them cannot honor their parents but they will be fooling themselves because of a lady. Real men are very few. Tufiakwa!!!!

Keepamsafe:
For two weeks now, my next door neighbor who is a young single lady has been constantly bringing different meals for me after cooking.
Please note: I have never asked her for food before, as I cook at home and enjoy doing my things myself.

The second time she brought me a meal she wore a skimpy dress. I didn’t mind tho, I just told her she is a very good cook and I enjoyed the first meal. Since then, she’s been bringing different dishes to me now. Sometimes she even calls to know if im back from work that she’s cooking something.

Also note, I have never given her any money for this meals she’s been giving me.

My question now is, should I continue eating? do I have anything to be scared of? Could there be another motives behind this her kindness? Or maybe im over thinking?

Advise please.

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Stop eating her food. Stop being careless and learn how to be careful.

There is nothing you will do that will please a woman. If you love yourself just do the much you can and dont take them serious. Make sure you are taking good care of yourself.

Rubyjade:
From DM

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Chijeep:
It all happened like this...
I(a single man) and a married woman with 4kids who we both work in the same restaurant fell in love with each other, though we never had s3x but we use to have hot romance because I don't think I can bear sleeping with another man's wife.
These hidden relationship have been going on since 2 months now.
Like a joke, she asked me that will I marry her if she's single and I told her that yes because she's a spec both physically and otherwise.
BUT NOW I'M AFRAID OF WHAT'S COOKING NOW BECAUSE THIS SAME WOMAN HAVE TOLD HER HUSBAND THAT SHE WANT OUT OF THE MARRIAGE JUST FEW DAYS AGO AND THIS WEEK SHE HAVE INFORMED HER PARENTS OF HER INTENTION OF GETTING OUT OF THE MARRIAGE THOUGH HER PARENTS ARE NOT IN SUPPORT OF IT.

THOUGH I TRIED CLEARING MY MIND BY ASKING HER WHY WILL SHE LEAVE HER HUSBAND AND HER 4 KIDS AND SHE SAID THAT SHE NEVER LOVED HIM IN THE FIRST PLACE AND IT WAS HER MOM'S IDEA TO ACCEPT THE MAN'S PROPOSAL BECAUSE SHE WAS JUST 19 YEARS OF AGE WHILE THE MAN IS WAY MORE OLDER, AND TO CROWN IT UP, SHE SAID HER HUBBY ISN'T GOOD IN BED THAT HE PRACTICE HIS CHRISTIAN WAYS OF HAVING SEX SO MUCH THAT EVEN THE LITTLE SHE'S ENJOYING IN THE S3X OF A THING THAT SHE'S THE ONE TAKING IT UP ON HIM.

PLEASE HOW DO I GO ABOUT IN THIS KIND OF ISSUE, THOUGH I LOVE THIS WOMAN BUT I DON'T WANT TO HAVE A HAND IN THEIR SEPARATION.

Op, you have finally destoryed another man's home. Just wait for the consequences. You will see the result very soon. I pity you

speedy0420:
Get a good pc and. Go into IT
Or move to places like Cotonou where processing oversea travels are cheaper

When you say go into IT, what exactly are you saying?

LOGICALKEN:
My brother met a girl two years ago at a friend’s bachelor’s eve. They were kinda dating and some months after the girl said she was pregnant, at first she said the pregnancy wasn’t for my brother, some weeks later she came back and said the pregnancy is his.

My bro accepted all responsibility and took care of her while she was pregnant. We even went to the family to let them know my bro is responsible for the pregnancy.

During delivery my bro paid all medical bills which was a bit high because she delivered through C.S, now my bro has been taking adequate care of the child and mum.

When the child was about 3 months old, a friend of my brother’s baby mama called and asked my brother to conduct a DNA test on the boy, my bro was surprised, when he told me about it I adviced we conduct the DNA, when we informed the girl we want to conduct a DNA she sounded confident and was like “una get money to waste na”. We travelled to her city and did the DNA and about a month later the result came out, surprisingly my brother is not the father.

Now my bro is demanding a Total refund of everything he has spent on the boy, the girl’s family has been begging. Should my brother just forfeit everything and move on or press charges?

I FEAR WOMAN SHA, with this experience even if I born 30 children for this life, I go do DNA for all of them one by one.

Just thank your God that your brother discovered it on time. Let just forget everything he has spent and move on with his life. He is even so lucky to discover it on time.

DaudaTheSexyGuy:


To be honest married women are sweeter in bed because of the added adrenaline rush you get when banging them

You just have to be very discreet and try and go for the ones that are polished and sensible

See my brother another man will do the same to your wife. Do not rush to a pastor when it will start.Because no amount prayer will save you. You will reap what you sow. Do not forget this post.

Kingosytex:
They are in a session and nothing more.
If you condemn this but supported the woman who her brain dead Islamic husband divorced for letting a male doctor attend to her during child birth then you are a unstable.

Oga stop speaking English. This is not morally right. No man In his right senses will allow this to happen. If you like continue speaking english

LewisHamilton15:
Late last year, the company I worked with decided to reduce workers as a result of the high inflation. I happened to be one of the victims of the mass reduction.

I decided to use my little savings to buy a tricycle so I can be using it to do town service but my fiancee outrightly rejected such idea stressing that my societal standing is above that. After intense argument I went ahead and bought the tricycle. Since that day she has not picked my calls, call me or come to visit me.

I have moved on.

Just sit down and thank your God. A very big burden has been lifted from your life. If you are wise, what should be bodering you now is how to salvage your situation. Allow that parasite to go.That is if you are wise.Have a nice day

kestolove95:
God answer all prayer ..

Which God? The God of Abraham ,Isaac and Jacob can NEVER answer such wicked request.

Emmanuel909090:
When you see an unproductive woman avoid her in every means necessary, so if the man was late ashawo is her only source of income,?

I really don't know how we got here, failed society.

Oil dey your head my brother. Failed society

solmusdesigns:



Imagine if a kind woman like Bovas gets lisence to import fuel and sell at good price

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Bovas na better woman that has conscience.

Your pastor is a human being. Just pray for him.

May the almighty heal your heart my dear. I am sure with time you will pull through. I really understand what you are going through. You will be fine.

Evestar200:
Have you ever lend money to someone and when is time for them to pay they will tell you or do something that will make you regret ever helping them?

Share your stories.

My late dad taught me not to lend anyone money. The only thing i can do is to give anything i can afford to loose. i will never ask you to return the money. If you like talk from now till next year. All i will do is to give what i can afford to loose. Chikena!!!

Persephone1:
Forgive her , fight for your home, fast and pray for her. That she played away match outside doesn't mean she doesn't love you. Wear sexy underwear for her, attract your wife again. Don't forget to fast and pray again.

"Women" are polygamous in nature.

Please do not listen to this person. If a woman loves you she will never cheat on you. Even when you are sick and cannot perform for months. She will stand her ground and stick to you.Be wise my brother.

My brother just thank God for your life. If it is me i will never allow my wife to go spend the night with even her female collegue. If she is bored she can simply file for divorce. It is that simple. Do not listen to anyone who will start telling you to take her back. My brother please send that woman away. She might send you to your early grave. I have warned you.

Very smart and intelligent man.

Nemesis0147:
u are sick!!
OP don’t allow her bring her old mother into your house…marriage is between you and your wife and not between you,your wife and her mother!!

Since your wife is doing well financially too.,,let her pay someone to be taking care of her mother too!!
Wetin dy do all these men?
Who peace help?
She didn’t consider peace when she was being hostile to your own mother…MENT!!

Op, for me i will not allow her to bring her mother.Period!!

MikoB:
Atiku greediness destroyed him, in life not every opportunity is for you to grab, there are some opportunities that look good outwardly, but are destructive, pdp had the opportunity of producing the next nigeria president especially with the failure of buhari's govt, Atiku should had influenced the pdp in chosen a marketable southerner and match the person with a popular northerner and by also making sure there is no division in the party, it would have been a foregone story by now because pdp would have won easily....

God bless you for saying the truth. Pdp should go and rest.

May God bless fr Obiekezie for saying the truth. Prof Soludo does not have common sense.

zanebaddo:
Nigerians were not created by God

YOU ARE VERY CORRECT MY BROTHER. HUMAN DEMONS/ ANIMALS ARE MORE THAN HUMAN BEINGS IN NIGERIA.

MrEverest:
Wow, SE really mean business this time around. I see the region experiencing unprecedented voter turn out on Saturday. Imagine 98.9% of everyone that registered in Anambra collected their PVC The highest ever in the entire country!!! With the discovery of thousands of PVC that was thrown away in Nnewi and its successful redistribution to their owners, that means almost everyone now has their PVC in Anambra

Other SE states also tried despite efforts by unscrupulous INEC staff to disenfranchise them. If 70% of these registered voters in SE vote for Obi, that's a massive 7 million votes for him. A huge advantage that will be difficult to surpass, considering that he is also ahead in SS and NC.

However, SW (excluding Lagos) now has the lowest number of collected PVCs. Most of them refused to collect their PVC. An indication that they will likely experience voter aparty. Worse still for Tinubu, most Yoruba supporters of Obi are passionate about voting while Yoruba Tinubu supporters doesn't show same enthusiasm, for obvious reasons. Getting 25% in all SW states becomes much easier for Obi.

Obi has won already.

Remember it's papa, mama and pikin logo!

God has remembered Nigeria.

God bless every Nigerian of goodwill who is going to vote for Obi on Saturday. Posterity will remember us all for good!!!

God bless Nigeria. God has remembered us. Obidatti is our only hope. Please let us come out and vote.