₦airaland Forum

solite3:
Are you a supporter of the devilish religion called Islam?

Islam is a violent and satanic religion that is the true face of Islam.

Did you read my previous comments?

SaintBeehot:
I'm sorry for that.
Regards.

Not a problem. Thanks

SaintBeehot:
What I wanted to know is, are you in support of his comment.

No am a Christian and I don’t support people being killed because they don’t subscribe to certain beliefs

SaintBeehot:
I can't remember qouting you at first instance. I guess the owner of the comment has the best answers to my questions.

You could have easily ignored since it wasn’t for me.

SaintBeehot:
I can't easily comprehend what you are saying. Come out clear stop saying parables.

Did I speak Swahili or do you need English lessons?

AgentNairaland:
Smiles.. That's the philosophy in which Islam is built upon.. Where Islam grows freedom dies!!!

They have a very myopic view of life. According to them, their religion is the only one worshipping God & so all others should be killed. They lack tolerance. All other religions co-exist peacefully but any time Islam comes in the picture, that’s the beginning of chaos. I blame Abraham for refusing to wait on God & taking Hagar. That’s how these ismael descendants came into the world and as the angel said to Hagar about Ismael, it’s the exact thing happening today.

Strangebuttrue:
in the name that is above all names in the next 48hours power will change hands in Kaduna

Don’t talk out of excitement, be sure you’ve heard from God because in 48hours by His grace we shall still be here to see if the prophecy came to pass.

solite3:
this is the true face of islam.

Devils parading as believers

SaintBeehot:
Please explain further before I make my decision.

The handwriting is on the wall. These are the suicide bombers awaiting 72 virgins. Sex is the only thing that rules their minds. Cursed people!

AgentNairaland:
Quran 8:12

I will cast terror into the hearts of those who disbelieve So strike above the necks and strike off every fingertip of theirs


Quran 8:39

"And fight with them until there is no more fitna (disorder, unbelief) and religion is all for Allah"

You together with those that liked your comment, you all need psychiciatric help. Followers of a paedophile that consummated his marriage with a 9 year old child. I don’t blame you because when the shepherd is out of order, the sheep cannot know better. You now want to force your evil religion down our throats like medicine. Whatever you wish us, May it be your portion together with your loved ones. The cup you had prepared for us, may you drink from it. Devil’s agent. Tufiakwa!

Multiplier7:
Why are you laughing now? Is it funny?


Anyway, you said you've mingled already

Sorry but it’s funny . Lies that men tell.Anyway, Goodluck as you search.

Multiplier7:
That's not a problem at all at all. I can,very well.

LOL

Multiplier7:
Hahaha

No na. Am not really. Just wanna know. Was just thinking, Nigerian/Kenyan collabo will make sense die. You know na

LOL would you travel to Kenya ?

Seebrian:
Apology my brother. Don't take that fellow seriously. If you check most of people commenting with civility except him.

Am a girl actually. Thanks so much, actually people have apologized on his behalf. Nigerians are wonderful people and can’t judge based on one.

edoairways:
hmmmmm! How did you know about nairaland?

Was googling Nigerian social websites and it popped up. Before then I only knew of Bellanaija & Naijapals.

Multiplier7:
Don't mind him my dear. He's not well trained

Are you single?

Sorry am not single

edoairways:
Habari

nzuri kabisa.

Multiplier7:
Don't mind him my dear. He's not well trained

Are you single?

Thanks will let it pass.Why? You want to multiply me?

Excuses:
You are a proud Kenya.. good to now..don't give it space it's not worth it.....peace!

Thanks will let it pass.

edoairways:
@Beey I never knew you were a Kenyan.

Now you do

SegFault:
Leave am. Hard blooded Nigerian that did not even read the post at first, then boom they insult a whole race, ethnic group or country. There are many of them in Nigeria.

Hahaa thanks, very bad habit.

Corporate2020:
Kenya better keep shut before we overun them. A country ruled by father and son. Backward bastards of 50 million nitwits. They better be grateful that Nigerians are coming to liberate them.

I’ve never understood why in this day & age people cannot pass a message online without insults. What has father & son ruling got to do with being bastards? Do you know the meaning of the word? Kenya is a democratic state & Kenyans voted Uhuru Kenyatta because they saw a president in him & it had nothing to do with his late father.I don’t know how you describe backward in your vocabulary but am curious to know how many Kenyans you’ve met in person or you’ve just heard stories. Let’s leave behind archaic habits of communicating disrespectfully on social media. Let’s behave like learned people please.Yes am a proud Kenyan.

muchroom:
A father decides not to spare the rod and spoil the child by flogging his daughter after she joined a whatsapp group she had been warned not to join. The girl is seen begging and pleading she will never do such again.

The video must have been recorded by a family member present and if it is another child, the belt will surely be returning to slay him or her.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p-ualtQ6B2c

Why must he hit her on the butt? What if she’s on her period? Stupid man. Behaved like a soldier in the house!

Bantino:
Every couple argues, and this is normal. However, if a conflict is prolonged, it can lead to a deplorable outcome. Below are some ways to end argument between couples most times, learn and practice accordingly.

(1) Remember there is another point of view:
Forgetting that both partners are involved in the relationship can cause aggression. Flexibility is always better: when you discuss both points of view, strong arguments come to the surface and draw attention from both sides. Don't always see things from your own view at all times.

(2) Don’t criticize the person:
Criticizing your partner’s personality will only aggravate the situation, especially if you do it deliberately. Do not insult your partner, but talk about the specific actions that upset you. Be kind enough to let him or her know his/her actions that hurt you but do not generalize on his/her behaviour

(3) Don’t discount feelings:
Speak your feelings and address the feelings of your partner, showing your interest in their emotional state. Let him/her know that most things he/she says upsets him/her equally might be upsetting to you too as a human being

(4) Do not assume your worst thoughts are true:
Don’t think your partner is always up to no good when away from you. This can only provoke a new quarrel. Clarify the motives of your partner’s behavior and don't assume negative things.

(5) Don’t look down on your partner:
Do not express your superiority over your partner. This way you show them they aren’t good enough for you. Suggest looking for a solution to the problem together. Don't say I know what is good for you, rather ask for his/her opinion and think it through together.

(6) Don’t look for someone to blame:
It is wrong to debate who’s guilty. The event has already happened. It is now better to spend time figuring out what the best exit strategy is. Trying to pinpoint who started the argument will lead to more degenerated conversation, it is best you channel that energy to seeking out the solution.

(7) Don’t recall old misunderstandings:
Reminding your partner of past arguments will not fix situations from the past, and it will provoke a new quarrel. Discuss what’s bothering you right away. After the situation is resolved, save yourself some grief and don’t return to it, this probably will bring back "forgotten anger" that will ultimately want to be addressed thereby heating up the argument.


Do you agree? Also feel free to add yours. (matured minds only)

Yes there’s another way. When they start their argument, just put water and swish it in your mouth & don’t swallow it till they get done talking. After they are done, get yourself busy with something.

What really bothers me when it comes to all the yahoo yahoo people ,is the fact that they lack shame. Stealing is not enough, they want to make a statement by rubbing it on our faces. They must flaunt all their ill acquired wealth on social media for the world to see how “rich” they are.Yet they cannot show a legitimate source of income. It’s such a shame!

Charleys:
Because he's going to turn the family members against the wife when he returns.

And the family will know that he (the man) has failed in not taking care of his brother.

And they will never forget...

You are wise.Get a cold soda on my bill. Chaaai family drama.

HigherEd:
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https://www.instagram.com/p/CCOy5dWDKla/?igshid=1xlxhfw6hdj1m

Aaaaah this one that’s invoking the spirits of the dead is the one that the so called prophetess married? What fellowship has light & darkness? In Christianity, the dead & the living have no fellowship. The power of money!

WonderWoman5775:
That's part of many problems we have in Nigeria family system, this guy is the last born and the responsibility to raise him up and help set up his future has been shifted to his elder brother... Why bring many children into the world if you are not ready to take care of all of them, what if the elder brother was not financially stable, now I'm not saying it's bad to assist the junior ones but parents should not give birth to plenty children and leave the last born to the mercy of the elder ones

I couldn’t even understand why the brother was threatening hail & brimstone should the guy choose to return to the village? Is it because he’s taking care of his shop without pay? You are right. That’s why people become slaves to their siblings because they are completely at their mercy. It’s a terrible situation.

Championxxx:
I am 23 years old guy I ave been staying with my brother in Abuja for the past 8 years , I help him with his shop and his house , everything was fine till he got married his wife carry his two sisters to the house 24 and 19 years old , he said I should leave my room for them I didn’t argue I let them have the room while I am sleeping in the parlour , during lockdown this girl will wake and come to the parlour to watch tv to disturb my sleep , I complained to my brother he said I should keep calm he will speak to his wife which he never does and these girls kept disturbing me meanwhile the older girl stopped but the younger one carry on and I told her to stop disturbing me she has a phone she can press her phone in their room , she insulted me and told me to go and marry I got angry and ask her to leave she said I should do my worst and I landed a thunder slap in her face she held me by my neck screaming when my bro and wife came his wife started hitting me on my back I had to leave the house and went outside to cool down , my brother followed me and said I didn’t do well by hitting his wife sister he said I should go and apologise to his wife and sister , I refuse and asked him why he didn’t stop them when I was complaining bitterly about them but he waited for me to take matter to my own hand now he blamed me he said I should apologise which I did to his wife but not to the girl but that small girl was expecting me to knelt down and beg her , I told her she will wait for eternity.

Since the incidence his wife stopped talking to me , she ordered her sister’s to stop giving me food , the older girl used to dish food for me sometimes when she is not around but I told her to stop because I don’t want her to be in trouble with her sister and I didn’t report to my brother, it’s not a big deal for me I buy foods and eat at work and I only go home to sleep , 2 weeks ago I came home to see my mattress outside in the rain soaking wet , I was confused because it was supposed to be inside the girl room that’s where I keep it and they always bring it for me when is time for me to sleep so how come it was outside in the rain , I asked them they both denied they didn’t take it out and I suspected my brother wife or her youngest sister were the one who did it because they didn’t want me in the house anymore , I told my brother he said I should sleep on the sofa and in the morning I will get a new mattress in his shop but the wife get angry that I will damaged her sofa she wanted me to sleep on the floor with a wrapper but my brother refuse and I slept on the sofa , the next day I spoke with my brother I told him because I am not wanted in his house I don’t have peace of mind there , I want him to rent a self cont for me closer to the shop so It will be easier for me to get to work he refuse saying when he has a bigger house why would I go and leave alone , he said he provide all my needs and the rest the way his wife and sisters are treating me it doesn’t matter that he will never allow me and I told him I want to go back to the village , he said if I leave his house he will disown me and I will not longer be his brother , for 3 days now he stopped talking to me even if I greet him he won’t reply I feel hurt. I love my brother I want to serve him but I don’t want to stay in his house . I don’t know if I did something wrong by asking him to rent a room for me to be living alone? Am confuse please advice me

First things first. Why are you living with your brother if he doesn’t pay you or has no goal like getting you a job or taking you to school? Are your parents living? Are they financially capable of supporting you?

vybzkartel:
I proposed love to her though knowing that she had a guy
Wanted to marry her but she said she will think about it. Later she said No so I moved on.

I decided to avoid her totally since I wanted the feeling I had for her to die since I couldn't get her...I wouldn't call nor message for about a month and then she would either call or message me. This cycle has gone on for about three years. Anytime I decide to forget her, she will call or message asking why I don't call and bla bla. When she does that and I decide to call or message her, she would give excuses and hang up or quit chats.

When I shun her, she will find her way back to call me or message me. Should I blacklist her and block her on messenger?

If she doesn't love me and can't date me, why can't she let me be? Please advise

What you need is to tell her by word of mouth that you are not interested in being her friend & she’s no longer allowed to contact you. If she doesn’t pick calls, text her the reason you’ll no longer communicate with her. There are people anointed by the devil to cause delay & confusion. She doesn’t value or respect you. You are just a spare tyre to roll her through when she’s bored. She sees you as desperate and keeps checking to see if you are still interested in her and so she’s turned your emotions into her play toy. Stop trying to please someone who can’t see your worth. Fix that esteem issue & tell yourself that you deserve better. She’s just an agent of delay who keeps you from meeting someone that will appreciate you. She’s just a toxic person that will constantly poison your soul. Warn her to quit contacting you whether by phone , email or social media.From there ignore her calls & texts.The nicer you treat these people, the more disrespectful they get. I knew such a person and am glad I drew the line. Put a stop to the BS!

bankulizer:
Yes i did board designed matatus with music, some with screens. I boarded one near that tall building that was bombed but rebuilt. I can't remember the name of that area. Someone actually took me there to see the buiIding. I took Bodaboda too. Then Mpessa is a nice fintech.

The cooperative building or the one next to it called Times tower? Anyway, There’s one matatu I liked. From town we’d be in Hurlingham In 10 minutes. Crazy driver ! Passengers especially ladies would be screaming but because I was young then, I’d be enjoying the ride.

bankulizer:
I have been to Nairobi and Mombasa few times for business holidays. Kenyans are very organized. Nairobi is a beautiful city especially Upper Nairobi, kileleshwa and co. Omg, English Point Marina Hotel in Mombasa is sweeeeet...Sweet Trips.. Corona, why?

Oh nice to hear you’ve been to Nairobi.Yes it’s a beautiful city but I don’t know if you got to board a matatu with their music? . Nigeria is on my bucket list & I hope that one day the dream will come true.