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mgbadakaenyi:
I need to know how you guys and your boxers fare, I use two boxers per day, one in the morning and one at night
After pulling,it smells, what do I do to make it not to smell
I use deodorants for my shirts, is there any such provision for boxers?
Educate me pls

Have you considered seeing the doctor? It could be an infection. Do you have discharge, are you itchy or do you have pain? Some infections may not have symptoms with men as they would with women. Think it would be good to have a doctor rule out any infection.

SamJed:
So I am a primary 4 classroom teacher and I love my children and ensure that they learn in the best way possible.

Most times I gather them around me and tell them some real life lesson, current events, science, stories, and even show them YouTube videos of some topics or discussion we had.

I was just reminiscing about what these children have done to me innocently that almost put me in trouble.

One day, before teaching a particular topic, I decided to watch some YouTube videos. One of the talkative's in the class managed to find her way to my table and saw me watching the videos.

She went back to her classmates and of all things to tell her classmates, she told them that she saw me watching a video with two naked girls and a man.

Damn It was just youtube videos. I don't know what she saw that made her conclude such. I had to quickly call all the kids together and show them what i was watching, because I knew that from class it will definitely get to their houses and that could be the start of some problem.

Another day, one of the little ladies wrote me a letter detailing how she likes my teaching and don't want me to go. According to her, I should keep teaching her till she leaves the school.

She kept asking me for a reply. I still wonder how I wriggled out of that situation.

Another one was another little lady coming to sit on my leg and gbam it spread... I initially waved it off till the proprietress called me to be wary of the kids

The little guys don't have problem apart from always reminding me of the gifts I promised them for whoever comes out best in any challenge I give.

So guys have you ever been put into trouble by kids

Not really. You almost got yourself in trouble & you’ll soon land in trouble if you don’t learn to set boundaries with children. You are an adult, stop treating them like your age-mates. In the real world, we don’t use our cellphones while on the job. It’s surprising to learn that you were watching YouTube videos while in class.As a teacher, you need to know when to draw the line. A teacher allowing students to sit on his laps is not only inappropriate but has potential to land you in jail. They are kids and not your children or friends.You need to learn some boundaries. 1. Let the students sit on their desks as you teach. 2.Avoid becoming too familiar & comfortable with your students to the point of showing them videos or sitting together. 3. Let any student with an issue see you in the staff room where you have other teachers around. Also, if they don’t understand a topic, let them request that you explain while still in class.Avoid meeting with students while alone. Am not a teacher, never been but maybe teachers would be in a better position to give advice.

helpee:
This will only make sense if you stop schooling all together. Let them stop schooling so they can play very well and enjoy their childhood. This is a form of schooling. That he is wearing dirty cloths doesn't mean he will be abused neither does it mean he will be carrying engine. As long as he is not doing anything that is physically exhausting for his age, this is not different from.schooling

I am not very good when it comes to arguments. Everyone is entitled to an opinion and the one I gave is my perspective. You are allowed to think otherwise. In life people agree or disagree so it’s okay for each of us to keep their opinion. I don’t have to agree with your opinion and you are not required to agree with mine either. Think that’s fair enough.

Let the little kid enjoy his childhood. Let him go out & play with his mates. It’s not as if he has to start laying bills tomorrow. I understand that the parents are trying to instill the spirit. Of hard work. However, in life we have seasons. This is his time to be a child.When he becomes a teenager, he can start learning. Sorry if I offend some people with my opinion but, I don’t like this. Child labor. It’s abuse in the name of teaching.

tradebot:
Madam go and sit down.

Mmmmmh I wonder whether you’d say the same if this involved your child.

GOTVee:
As a born again Christian who is meant to speak the truth at all times, I think we Christians are deviating from the teachings of our lord Jesus christ. Jesus never told us to celebrate his birth but his death. Christmas is a pagan god celebration and real Christians should not partake in celebrating Xmas. Jesus wasn't born on the 25th of December as people believe but many have been misled to celebrate this abomination called Xmas for too long by irresponsible religious leaders who are meant to guide people with the word of God. Until we Christians starts reading and understanding the Bible, we will keep committing unpardonable sins against God in which Xmas is one. Do not celebrate Xmas if you don't want to end up in hell fire

My old grandma was born at a time when Africans didn’t know the importance of dates & records. She doesn’t know her exact date of birth. That doesn’t stop us from picking a time each year to celebrate her & make sure she understands how much she means to our family.It’s the same thing in our Christian Faith. There would not have been the death of Christ without His birth . When we celebrate Christmas, we are not saying that He was born on the 25th, we’ve just picked a day to celebrate the fact that God was so gracious that He gave us His son. Whether He was born on the 25th or not, the date is irrelevant. We just celebrate His birth.It don’t mean we’ve turned pagans . I don’t know your source of information that those of us that celebrate Christmas will end up in fire. People need to stop trying to wear God’s shoes. They are too big for any human to fit into. That’s your man made teaching. I didn’t see it in the Bible.

I’ll keep saying this, Africans let’s build or rent homes with fire escape route in mind. In the US, the windows have a mesh that comes off and one can jump off. The ceiling also opens up providing an escape route. All these metal bars on windows don’t help matters Incase of a fire outbreak.Plan your house with an escape route in mind to increase the chances of survival.So sad. R.I.P!

Ohhhh what a shame? Who bewitched Africans with the charm of electing clowns for leaders? From my native Kenya & now Nigeria? You’d think we are charmed.Kai! Did my eyes read right. They are already okay with child marriages. Are you Nigerians sure that they’ll not soon turn your country into a sharia state? Nawa ohh. There’s nothing we won’t hear from these gluttons looking for votes by all means. Just know their daughters are not in that category of underage brides. Greedy idiots!

NuclearHead:
Good day nairalanders, I have been wondering how to get rid of the black spots on my face ,it's not that much ...but it's still a black spot , how did you get rid of yours to get your perfect skin without any blemish ?

You need to see a board clergies dermatologist for skin peel. Also use of skin vitamin C helps with growth of collagen which in turn helps the skin look more youthful . Look for vitamin c with ascot jc acid. Stay away from lightening creams.

morgstreme:
You sef, tomorrow one mumu slowpoke will be deceived by you, a VIPEROUS DEMON, that obviously didn't suck in her mother's Breast milk and take you home to his mama and make you his wife..

You need to answer the altar call!

Another retard spotted.Don’t mention me again. As long as you are not the mumu that will take me to his mother, you should face your biz. You need that altar call more than me because you have legions of demons , you are the devil himself that’s why you are judging me without reading the insults thrown at me by your fellow retard but am not supposed to respond. I should pat him on the shoulder for a job well done. Stop poking nose in affairs you have no clue about.So you too go Fvck your momma and stay the hell off my mention. If you people want to come online and show us how you lack proper home training, we are ready to display our savagery.I stopped reading the other fools responses, that’s how I won’t be reading any comments from you so don’t even bother.Y’all can go to hell. Idiots!

BaddieFreak:
My step dad is maltreating my mom. What should I do?

He comes back home very late and drunk and beats my mom almost everyday. I have told my mom to leave him but she is adamant, I even rented a house for her at a point so that she can leave him but my mom only spent about a week in the house before going back to my step father's house after my step dad called her and was crying on the phone that he will change.

Yesterday I went to meet her and I saw her face swollen. When I asked her what happened she dismissed it saying it's nothing, I knew my step dad has done it again. I have reported the case to the police several times but all to no avail. I don't know if my mom and my step father made a covenant reason why they can't leave themselves.

Why are men like this? I am confused and heart broken

Have you ever confronted your step dad? What you need to do now is act crazy. I mean go to that home , throw pots across the room, trash the place and raise your voice to high heavens. Tell him because he has failed to listen to people, he has you to contend with. Don’t listen to your mother’s pleas. Give him a stern warning that if he touches your mom one more time, the world will not contain both of you and anything can happen & he’ll have no one to blame. After giving him the warning, don’t stay even an extra minute & don’t answer your mom’s calls. Then keep your word. If he tries nonsense after that, arrange for boys to instill some sense into him.Also, if you don’t live far , try see your mother every weekend maybe to see if she has new bruises. If he cannot hear a word, maybe he’ll learn from a beating. Enough is enough!

clarocuzioo:
She.made the greatest mistake bringing this to social media, time will tell.

She has a family, she should have reported to both her own family and the husband's family, and they will look into the matter.

she even has a big influential uncle in this.town that can call her husband to order, why bringing it in social.media?

She is yet to realise the damage she has even done to herself and the kids bringing this to social.media.

My sincere advise to you, when you get married,keep your family affairs off the social.meda no.matter what, E GET WHY.

Personally am not a social media person. I don’t take my issues there. However, we’ve all seen the power of social media
when people unite towards a good course. If a woman decides to look for help on social media, can I judge her? Absolutely not. I haven’t walked in her shoes. I don’t know what she’s been through physically or mentally.Whether he loses his job or not, I honestly have no sympathy because choices have consequences. She’s a Dr and can be just fine on her own.

luminouz:
If you dont care,why comment then?
Besides, the poster is saying she is not a saint and could have triggered the husband, being a toxic woman. Why is that truth so hard for you to swallow?

I think the one hi posted and I are having a decent discussion so I don’t think I owe anyone an explanation for my thoughts.

clarocuzioo:
That's it. That's her little and myopic thinking. She forgot that if the man looses his job now, her kids are most affected.

There's a reason why such issues are handled by families and not on social media.

I even understand this guy trained her while in school as a doctor, now she has ruined his life and carrier.

Once again I condenm domestic violence but social media is not where to resolve marital issues

Who knows if he was supportive to begin with? She said that he was lavishing his money on women. So it’s better for her to die in silence just so she can save the family name? Who knows if her parents are living? Most in laws will always take side with their own. I applaud her for taking the 1st step towards freedom. If she died in this man’s house, is it better than him losing his job as a consequence of his ill manners? Women are not punching bags.

clarocuzioo:
She's not my type, I ball very hard. My family won't even allow such a girl close to the family.

I have nothing to be bitter about her.

My concern is her bringing this to the social medial when families can handle this.

Yeah nobody is a.saint so why bringing this issue to social.media?

She probably knows that the man is influential and knows a public outcry will go a long way in getting her justice.

luminouz:
Lmaoooo....
See.how.riled.up you are when someone who knew her dug her shiit up. Why is that truth always bitter biko? Yet you were quick to denounce the Man as a wife beater on this thread.

Nobody is saying that she didn’t do those things but since he knows her very well, why not face her and tell her nemesis has caught up with her? Who doesn’t have something about their last that they are not proud of? Whether true or not, that’s not the topic of discussion here. We were discussing domestic violence and someone else is trying to prove that he knows her so much by painting her black. Some of us don’t care honestly.

happy200:
I'm a very quiet person, and i always approach everyone gently.

I think one of my neighbor's wife has mistaken this approach for romance hence she has taken everything to another length.

Please how do i stop her from frequent knocking at my door, from begging for petty things, from always telling me that her husband is not around e.t.c.

Even if she has not pronounced to me what she wants, but i'm now so uncomfortable with all these but i don't know how to stop her.

Is this an issue that needs you to consult Nairalanders really? Simply tell her that going forward she needs to stop coming to borrow things from you in the absence of her husband because you don’t want to end up a victim of circumstances. Tell her it’s against your culture to be talking with a married woman in the absence of her husband. Let your conversations with her be just greetings. Simple as that. I don’t see any issue that needs discussion here unless you are just scared of standing up to her.

LegendAnselm:
with the stories people Ar sharing i av gotten a confidence to stand my ground.....nothing bad...may be God just have mercy on us...we ar just two.. now we ar plenty

Enjoy the new addition

LegendAnselm:
nothing spiritual my brother. am back home now..am even playing with the kids and they ar calling me Uncle..
..my people will soon go to where dey came from to comfirm their claim

So you are claiming your person is dead and sired kids after death according to your own claims but you don’t see anything unusual about it?

LegendAnselm:
according to the calculation we did i took a year after his death to have that son...he lead hee to our house

Nawa ohh sounds like an excerpt from a Nollywood movie. Never heard of such and I must admit that am quite sceptical. However, if there’s truth to what the lady is saying, I don’t know what religion you belong to but , I think you need to go to your spiritual authority because really, the dead & the living should have no fellowship. Death brings finality to a chapter so that roaming spirit needs to be sent back where it belongs.

Zyxzzzz:
useless woman

Don’t be quick to judge when you haven’t walked in her shoes. We don’t know what drove her to leave the child in the bus. Much as I don’t support this, am proud of her for not throwing the baby in the gutter.

Ned Nwoko is a national cake that must be shared in every direction of the compass nationwide .Let everybody carry their own cross, choices have consequences, Regina cannot eat the cake alone.

Cousin9999:
And all the cheating Chinese and Indians will make sure all those questions and answers are online. lol

Not even necessary. That’s because once approved for US citizenship, The Department of Homeland Security gives one a booklet with all the questions and answers as well as a CD you can play in your car or home. You get the chance to read and memorize as much as you can before the final interview. It’s not like a secret test. The only issue is that you don’t know out of all those questions which the immigration officer will ask.

LegendAnselm:
A man died. Buried.appeared in another land where nobody knows him. Start a new life. Got married. Have kids.get a job.

Have u seen or heard such happened...
A woman just came to our house yesterday claiming to be my brother wife with children.

LOL judging but the age of the children, would they have been born before or after your brother’s death? How did the woman locate your family? How long has your brother been dead & could it be that you buried the wrong body? Happens a lot in Africa.

Macsjebs:
Earlier Thread: https://www.nairaland.com/6283905/kenyan-dead-man-screams-pain

Source: https://www.mwakilishi.com/article/kenya-news/2020-12-03/sad-kenyan-man-who-resurrected-in-mortuary-during-embalming-dies

As a Kenyan, I know different versions of this story have been given.Actually what happened is that the Doctor told the family to hold on because there’s apparently a required time frame that the patient should take before being transferred to the morgue. The family was however impatient and they refused to wait.It was the morgue attendants that discovered that he was still alive while trying to start the embalming process.

Pierocash:
Which family will have pastor Paul Enenche and won't be blessed. What a blessed family.

I always suspect that major Gen Enenche is related to Paul Enenche

I also always wondered if there’s a connection.Now we know.

CaptainZubi:
For about 5 years now I've been battling extreme tiredness . Asides that I sleep alot most especially at afternoons. At night,nonce I sleep around 11pm and not going to work the next day, I can wake up by 10am or 11 am.

During afternoon and night sleeps, the sleep is usually very deep (REM phase or whatever you medics call it, please correct me) and usually characterized by heavy dreams.

Even during work, I'll always take the risk to create some time to have a little sleep. I've been battling this for about 5 years now. What could be wrong.

Do you have other symptoms you may have noticed apart from sleeping too much? How’s your appetite? Do you eat too much or too little? Do you get agitated easily or cry easily, how is your mood in general? Are you able to focus on tasks at hand or do you experience absent mindedness ? Are you easily forgetful or is sleeping the only issue?

Smellymouth:
Osaze is giving off many signs that he may be suffering from Schizophrenia.

The religious behavior is also a bad sign. I sincerely hope he gets help ASAP. Please don’t joke about what is happening to him..

I didn’t know this guy before yesterday though I’ve heard the name. I saw him call out Amara Kanu & the Psquare twin & was in utter shock. It’s either something mentally is not okay or he’s joined all these cults that see everyone else as a sinner & those people seem to believe they have the monopoly of God and are the best Christians if you ask them.