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lagusboyyy:
Lord save us from Kenya , Zimbabwe, Uganda and Malawi.

They are always in the news for weird and outrageous stunts.

Are Nigerian baby factories and ritual killings less evil? Puhlease

Zchi1052:
No type of bad news and strange things u can't see from this Kenya sef


Tufiakwa!!!

Nigeria is no better. At least we don’t have baby factories in Kenya so you can see we don’t have the monopoly of evil.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Rest in peace baby girl
This na person way nor dey drink enough beer and smoke enough weed o
Na she still get kidney issues so o

Abeg eee....make I light my weed jor....

Kidney disease can also result from untreated high blood pressure.

Luckidunbe:
I went to the church yesterday at ojo with some of my soldier friends, I took my brother and and his car, I called a truck to loose some of the AC and Fans, Electrical appliances having my brother's sticker, right now I tied him rope and I put him in my room until he return back to his senses, we calculated roughly Goods of 14 million naira that my brother donated to this church, to my surprise I took his phone and checked his history I almost cried, he just transferred 550k to the pastor yesterday being Sunday, his customers from North and middle belt has been texting him to know why he is not picking their calls, My brother was supposed to supply good worth 4million naira to one alhaji in Kano but he didn't care, I had to call the boss to act as if he is my brother and he should supply those goods but it should go with my brothers sticker ... the man has made transfer this morning... then I realized that my brother is loosing millions due to church activities he has put himself into.... At his age I never dreamed of having a car but God made it possible for him and he is misusing....

That’s for snatching him from those robbers camouflaged as Christians. While at it, please take him for counseling because brain wash is a serious problem. Also have a pastor who teaches sound doctrine visit and talk to him as well as do Bible study with him. Reversing his thought pattern will not be easy. To him know you look like the devil who is sent to terrorize the church. Save him from those conmen.

envoymedia:
Nigerian gay rights activist, Bis Alimi, has blasted hotel owners for keeping the holy Bibles in hotel rooms, IgbereTV reports.

Taking to his Instagram handle, he claimed that hotel owners are forcing their "religion down our throats" and that the act is "rude."

He wrote:


https://www.instagram.com/p/CNR9fRZn8kq/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

You can’t go to someone’s house & start dictating how the home will be run. You live on their terms because it’s their home. If the hotel owners are Christians they may choose to share Christian literature. If you are uncomfortable with that, then go to hotels owned by gays . You can’t go with your male gay partner to a hotel in a predominantly Islamic area because you know there’ll be consequences, but you feel it’s okay to bash Christianity. We don’t care how you feel, the hotel owners are not there to massage your ego but to run their businesses their way. If unhappy, feel free to go elsewhere.

rhythyson:
Good job.
Ghanian Slay queen landing the plane in bad weather
Nigeria slay queens landing on mens bed

Tale of two slay queens

The captain & her 1st Officer are Kenyans working in Ghana.

Kenyan girls making us proud in Ghana. Captain Gichuru & her 1st Officer njonjo are Kenyan girls. Keeping flying the Kenyan flag high.

hush15:
Don't balance it. Faith is the belief of things hoped for, evidence of thing not yet seen. It is different from all you typing. This is not about giving, faith goes beyond giving...

When you want to trust in God for something, you don't go to the poor oga. Am sure that guy is looking unto God for something. This is not being a nice guy. The funny part is it might just be they deported him and banned him from entering the UK and he wants to go back to the UK but we don't know the background story so I won't assume and speak for him.

The family are talking about him giving his house away, do they even know what is on the guy's mind? Do they even have the slightest idea why the guy would make such audacious move, person sow his car, like that isn't enough, he moved to give his house...

Its no joke bro. whether he na cajole or not, that is a bold move and I pray he gets answers to sort all these problem that could warrant such act.

Family is complaining now but if the move goes right, they would forget that they tested his faith sef

LOL, I belong to a different school of faith because at some point while I was in high school , I was in one of those mom & dad churches that want you to give almost to the point of giving your kidney . I thank God for deliverance. I am sure our argument will not change our beliefs so, let’s focus on serving God.

hush15:
Oga, the book of psalms 126: 4 to 6 shows the joy of sowing seeds. We must always learn to sow seed in our walk of faith.


One of the things that endeared Mary in Jesus heart was the seed of precious ointment she poured on Jesus's legs. While Judas was thinking like you, which is not suppose to be bad thing but in context it is cos lack of spiritual understanding, Mary was showing love, submission and sowing a seed of faith buy wasting that very expensive oil on Jesus's feet and with her tears.

That oil was an asset and could have been used to finance so many good deeds and just like Judas thought it was a waste, since they could make so much money from it and probably give it to the poor as you would suggest, Jesus saw it as an act of worship and ever since, Mary and her family, Martha and Lazarus kept experiencing the miraculous and been spoken of generation to generations.

The church will do the right thing when they know the real story, I believe and am sure theywill guide him on the right thing to do. They won't throw the man's family out but please, there is nothing wrong with the man's action of which I believe he owns the property and he only acted on his beliefs. We all do and the church has done nothing wrong either.

Let me clarify that am not against giving. Giving of tithes & offerings is Biblical. If you feel led to give something to your pastor, I have no problem with that. My issue is when the doctrine of sowing seed is overhyped at the expense of the true Gospel. Those preaching it come with verses to push you towards giving & making it seem like you giving that thing, will cause God to give you something in return. God is not like the genie On Alladin’s lamp where you rub the lamp & then he appears & disappears. God doesn’t need anything from you in order to bless you. Yes He requires your obedience & He May specifically ask you to give something. However , until you’ve heard from God, quit thinking that you have to give God something before He can bless you in return. The earth & the fullness thereof belongs to God! The Gospel
of sowing seed as it’s preached today, it’s been turned into a manipulative doctrine to brainwash followers into giving without being coerced. Manipulation & witchcraft are 1st cousins.

hush15:
No, don't get it twisted. Am sure there is an explanation to this. If the title document is with the guy and it is in his name, he has the exclusive right over the property and if he wishes to express faith with it, there is no crime in it. When it comes to faith, nothing is too big. In fact, the stronger the faith, the greater the result. I express faith and I get results. Its not about the church, its about the person.

Those that kill or does rituals, on what premises do you think they act on if not faith and belief. Tho they belief in the wrong things but it still works for the as they believe and such is only temporal.

But on the issue of the family, I know if the genuine story comes out, the problem the family has is that they can't comprehend and are deeply upset that the property they depend upon was sowed to a church. And am sure if the church is aware, they will either call the guy and let him know the right thing to do concerning his seed before it is been used for the intended purpose or completely back off where there is no amicable resolution but for the family to be blackmailing the church for the choice of their son, it is utter rubbish.

They should stop lying

This doctrine of sowing seed is making people go mad. I belong to the old school Christianity. He started with a car, now is a house. Wait a minute, does the church care about where he’ll be sleeping? Okay let’s even assume what you said is true that the family wants to keep the house. Isn’t there a blessing in honoring your parents especially now that it sounds like they have nowhere to go? Which kind of church is this that’s being driven by what they’ll get after selling the house without caring about where the old man will sleep? Wisdom is profitable to direct. Some of this faith is turning to madness. When it comes to giving it’s good to use your head, not just the heart. Worst is to give because of emotions, not because you heard from God. When it comes to giving, I’d rather support the poor or those in need. The pastors are already wealthy. One was even bragging how he acquired a 3rd private jet during covid, while some members don’t own a bicycle. God owns the silver & gold. He is not expecting me to walk naked in the name of giving all to Him.

Righteousness2:
If it is a Family house, the young man is absolutely wrong to do so without carrying the Family along!
The Church should do the Needful by returning the Said documents to the Family!

If the House belongs to the young man, then he can do whatever he wants with his house..

The church got to
Learn that the house belongs to the family . What are they getting a lawyer for instead of returning the property? I am a Christian but I hate the greed in some of these churches especially where their “ mom” & “dad” have the final say. Paul said , follow me as I follow Christ but am not sure who some of these pastors are following.

roli21:
I met this beautiful girl somewhere in ohio, i invited her over, we were both hot but she seems to push me away when we are about to have sex,
i was mad that night but the next day she confessed to me that he reason she didn't want to have sex was because she has herpes, instantly i became nervous and kind of resent her, but was happy she told me tho,
this is the first time i am hearing BOUT THIS STD,

PLEASE IS IT SAFE TO STIL BE WITH HER? because i think i love her but now this std is a deal breaker
i looked it up online and many people said herpes is nothing to worry about.
any body experienced this?

I’ve seen you receive very scary reports from “Nairaland doctors”. You’d be surprised to learn that some of those advising you may have the herpes virus and not even know it . People innocently share spoons or innocently share each other’s drinks. Just like the common cold virus, we’ve all been exposed to the herpes virus in one way or the other though some may not have the virus actively. That’s why you see doctor’s are hesitant to test for it because many people already have antibodies.Someone exaggerated that it’s worse than HIV. Don’t you think doctors would be doing a lot of campaigning against it? It’s spread through body fluids in both sexual & non sexual manner. It can spread through saliva if someone has an active phase. However, the virus lives quietly in the body but can be triggered by stress or hormonal imbalance. It becomes active for a week to about 2weeks at most. There are some drugs given to quicken the recovery period both in the form of topical creams for the blisters or in the form of pills.There are meds given to be taken when the symptoms are felt or doctors can prescribe others to be taken daily on a low dose for a certain period to reduce breakouts. You’d be surprised to learn the percentage of the population that has the virus. Talk to a doctor for more advice and for help to decide whether you’ll go forward with the relationship and how you can cope if genital herpes is involved.

Danhoys:
It's people like you that made me come here. Thanks for your advice!!!

You are too kind. You are welcome.

Danhoys:
I thought I knew what dirtiness was until my cousin's sister started living with us. We gave her a room, a roof over her head until she finds her bearing.

She's an orphan, almost going to 28 years, and sells food on Sundays for cash.

But, looking at her, she's the replica of the word 'unappealing.'

Her hair is always shabby, dirty, and she never attempt to even braid it to keep it in order. Black is beautiful, but hers comes in brown patches and acne.

She doesn't even care.

We have a water closet, and she's ready to keep popping without an attempt to flush. The last time I traveled and left the home for a week, the toilet was beyond what I could comprehend.

To the point I had to do renovation, repainted the wall, and had to hire a cleaner to help wash the toilet thoroughly.

I couldn't risk catching a disease doing it myself. That was how bad it was.

After doing all these, she stopped using the toilet, but would prefer to pop in the compound with a black nylon at night.

Sometimes, she even forget to throw them away. I had woke up very early in the morning. Saw her bucket and wanted to use it, what I saw changed my day.

I saw her feces, and since then I vowed never to touched a bucket that is isn't mine.

Aside from her protruding stomach which she does little to hide, the wrapper she wears every evening have never seen water in months.

Women are supposed to be conscious of their unclothedness, but not this cousin of mine.

She can avoid all the bathrooms, and choose to bathe outside in the open at night.

Like, around 8 to 9 pm when everyone is still very much awake.

Sometimes children will bump in on her unintentionally, and the kid will run away traumatized by what he or she have seen.

I dare not go into details to recount how she prepares the food she sales, and how dirty her coolers and kitchen utensils can swim with maggots for 6 days before she finally washes them on Saturday and prepares food on Sunday for her esteemed customers.

She's not beautiful facially, nor wear makeup or earrings since it's against her belief.

Doesn't wear clothes that suit her. If she dresses like an mbeke, that wouldn't be a problem. I just don't understand her dressing at all, coupled with her dirty look.

When it comes to religion, hers is the worse, jumping from one church to the other. And worse, we hardly sleepy at midnight.

She is always in battle with demons, with her speaking of tongues that don't just sound ridiculous, but deafening and irritating.

She's just 28, and I doubt if any man has ever stopped her on the road, and I still suspect she have never laid with a man before.

She's not mentally unstable if that is what most of you might think.

She's lively, knows how to joke and hold conversations like we all do. But when it comes to her body, grooming, overall cleaningness, she's zero.

There are grades of dirtiness, but when it comes to a stage where someone now dines and wines with feces, then there is a problem somewhere.

She's shapeless and doesn't want to do anything about it despite my numerous advise. She eats junk, like...

She runs to the backyard, gets some vegetables and fry it up with some concoctions and food is ready.

I know all their foods, and the things she cooks is nothing less than a concoction. I've eat her food once and my stomach testified.

A thoroughly analysis of her personality fascinates me to some extent. Is this her personality? Something that is genetically engineered into her that she has no control over?

Can she change?

Do you think I can help her, how?

If one has a deep wound and they want it to heal, they must be willing to expose that wound for cleaning & dressing until it heals. Covering it up will only leave it smelly and infected. With that said, it’s you that has to deal with your cousin on a daily basis. I am just wondering at what age her mother passed on & if there was a lady who filled that gap and played the mother role? What was the environment she grew up in like? Let me tell you that people do a lot of crazy things to numb their pain. It could be a loud cry for help. However some are just ill mannered. Now that you are willing to help, I think it’s time you sat your cousin down & had an honest adult conversation with her. Let her know that not only is using buckets unsanitary but, it’s also making people very uncomfortable. Mention her love life & let her know that if she desires marriage, no man will take her seriously when she’s looking unkempt & doesn’t care to clean her environment. After that let her know that she needs to change her ways or you’ll no longer be able to accommodate her as others in the home are unable to cope with her mannerisms.No more shitting in bags and must clean up after herself. No storing dirty dishes overnight, must keep dishes clean. You can help get her a blow dryer for her hair if she doesn’t believe in relaxing & also styling gel which helps keep the hair neat. You also can get a female relative or friend to teach her how to shave, use deodorant & body spray & she doesn’t have to buy expensive ones. They don’t cost much.The lady can also help her shop for beautiful well fitting & modest clothes. Also, let her see a doctor for her acne. Let her know that she can be decent & stylish & doesn’t have to look like a grandma in the name of religion. Outsiders or Nairalanders will not do it for you. You must let her know how you feel.

We know you are tied. You have sacrificed your voice on the altar of greed and money. That’s why you cannot point out societal evils for what they are. You’d rather turn a blind eye & look the other way, because you cannot afford to offend your master. Such a shame! It’s like our African leaders have been bewitched. My native Kenya is no better!

onthehill:
Nollywood actor, Uche Maduagwu who recently came out as a gay man has shared a photo of himself rocking a red bra as he wished his followers on Instagram a happy New month, IgbereTV reports.

He wrote;


https://www.instagram.com/p/CKwGKSFLRLZ/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Tired of this fool & his stunts.

baratech:
He's looking for visa...in USA... They'll give him asylum visa

LOL even the asylum seekers here are yet to get papers, but just maybe Biden will change that. However, I still think bedroom matters should be between those involved, they shouldn’t drag the rest of the world into it.

ijustdey:
Nollywood actor, Uche Maduagwu, who came out to recently to declare his sexual orientation as gay, made the claim in an Instagram post.

He shied away from naming the people.

He slammed the anti-gay law former President Goodluck Jonathan signed in 2014.

The actor called on U.S. President Joe Biden to sanction Nigerian government over the 14-years jail term for homosexuals in Nigeria.



https://www.instagram.com/p/CKqn1uxlRUE/?igshid=1sggbftu8mxpq

This guy talks too much. Who asked about your sex life? After telling us you are gay, what next? What are we supposed to do with that information? This one & his older brother Reno Omokri, they’ll just say any trash to appear on social media. It’s annoying actually. Maybe it’s a way of advertising for some new rich clientele. Tired of this foolishness.

Another lie told for traffic. I mean, what are the odds of a man marrying his biological daughter unknowingly, only to find out that his own father has married the man’s ex -girlfriend who also happens to be his now wife/daughter’s biological mother? Liar liar pants on fire

Priscy01:
Nollywood actress Uche Ogbodo has celebrated two years of being celibate, Igbere TV reports.

The 34-year-old shared a picture of herself on Instagram on Thursday.

She said her life has taken a new turn since she began her celibacy journey.



https://www.instagram.com/p/CKSHcfCJyYK/?igshid=nd120t1zpbbz

Uche was engaged to football agent, Apo Arthur in 2013.

Their union crashed after a few months due to “irreconcilable differences”.

Some of these discussions that people bring in social media , I don’t understand what relevance they have when it comes to the general public. What are we supposed to do after receiving this information? Smh.

omojesu202:
It is no news that most marriages are collapsing.
Mine is just two years but I also see signs of collapse.

What's happening in my brothers marriage is painful to me because I know the financial investment and sacrifices he puts into it. I don't know what he did to his wife but she has turned his children against him.

Imagine that you cannot tell your 20 years old first son to wash your car like 7am, the mother will tell you that you should allow him to enjoy his sleep. Not once, not twice and not thrice.
This is the children you'll go hungry and borrow money to pay high school fees to make sure they go to good schools.

It is painful to me because I knew when he was paying 200k per term each on three kids while his basic was just 300k.

Now the firstborn and secondborn will disobey him on ordinary washing of car just because he can no longer meet up.

Please how would you handle such issues?
You might just hear that a man killed his wife and three children in the news. That would not be our portion.

From outside, she has been a good woman but she didn't blend the children to their father. The nature of his job takes him on transfer always and not stationed with his family but regular monthly visit is always there.

I think your brother needs to exercise tough love. I don’t see how children living under my roof & depending on me fully will disobey me. In this life, no relationship can thrive without reciprocity. If someone is always taking and adding nothing, the other party will soon get exhausted. With that said, he needs to come out of his shell & be a man. Seems like he lets the wife have her way. He should just stop giving money in that house & meeting their demands. As a matter of fact, he should let the children know that since they are old enough not to listen to him, they are also old enough not to need his support. He should even disappear on them for a while & cut Communication. How can someone be disrespectful to you & expect kindness in return? If he lets the those children run the house now, he’ll never talk in that house again.

Anfield247:
I am beginning to think that Dangote trucks are been manipulated by spiritual forces!

Anything is possible in the world today.

tutudesz:
Those who lost love ones due to his truck accident, chose not to speak up. Because if they decide to sue his truck company, he will educate his driver's better.

Am sure he’s getting all the information through the media & his insurance company. If he wanted to train them, he would have done so by now.

virginprincess:
Good evening nairalanders, pls i need advise, my counsin sister who is just 22 is demanding to live alone (she wants to move out of her father's house), but her parents disagreed with her decision.

This has brought a whole lot of confusion, because she is very serious with her decision and her parents (especially her mom) is totally against it.

Pls as a sister, what advise can i give to her, should i support her or i should advise her against it? and what are the of dangers living alone as a female?

Modified: My counsin is not a prostitue, I might not entirely know the reason she wants to live alone, but i'm sure her num1 major reason is noise, she is a very calm person who loves being alone, but since they are much in the house she doesn't have such opportuity, pls she's not a hoe, my question is what are the dangers of living alone as a lady?.

I started living alone at 22 & those claiming that it’s for prostitution, you need a renewal of your dirty minds. Every woman out there is not all about sex. There’s more to womanhood than getting laid. Here in the US, kids start driving at 16 &at that age some get a job.I see no big deal if she’s principled and can pay her own bills.

tutudesz:
Inexperienced drivers and over worked to meet up deliver.
But Government needs to cautious him.

What happens when one person has the monopoly of business ties with the government is that the individual becomes unquestionable. Nobody can say anything because he is connected with the high & mighty. Life goes on as if nothing happened.

Dangote trucks again! Is there something we don’t know? Is it only Dangote that owns transportation vehicles? His vehicles for sure are involved in a lot of accidents.Very worrisome.

Museveni has succeeded in turning Uganda into a family business. His son is the head of the army and that makes it almost impossible to overthrow him. His wife is a minister. The man has been president even before I was born. Days before the election, Internet was shut down in Uganda according to my Ugandan workmates. On the day of elections, electric power went out & so votes had to be counted manually. This man doesn’t think anyone else is capable of leading Uganda except him. Such a shame!

OyedejiIfedayo:
If his/her conscience says nothing after posting something as horrible as that, that means he/she is also capable of perpetrating such.

It’s terrible!

NwaAmaikpe:




He must have hurt her so bad emotionally for her to have hurt him this bad physically.
Newton's third law of motions says; "For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction".
Well, if this husband has not obeyed this simple law, why should I pity him?

He now looks like an ogre while his wife can still rub foundation and concealers.
He should keep going about radio stations looking for sympathy. Better still, he can get an enamel plate and begin babi-allah.

Weak man.
Kuku buy her a bouquet of roses and get all of your relatives to beg her for pushing her to the limit of sanity since you are on TV stations expecting NwaAmaikpe's father to come and help you.

I’ve been in Nairaland for quite a while now & I've always seen your comment. There are things people write to sound funny or to gain a following. However, with all due respect some things should never be written down by someone who has a conscience. It’s obvious you lack sympathy. Regardless of what this officer might have done, he didn’t deserve this & no one does. It’s easier to judge others when you are not the victim. This happened a few years ago & TV stations have been inviting him to share his story. He’s not looking for sympathy.I don’t know how old you are but , always posting nonsense in order to appear tough doesn’t reflect you in a good light. I don’t know whether when you are done posting , your conscience judges you.

fineboynl:
Christ once said to his disciples, when they were going out to preach and to heal the diseases of the people,

"Behold I give you power to tread on serpents and scorpions, and nothing shall by any means hurt
you." Luke 10:19 KJV

they came but God deliver.

I live upstairs

I saw this scorpion dead at the corner of my bed. before you talk about my environment I live upstairs. and sweep and clean my appointment at all time as you can see for yourself.

Am a Christian but very tired of religious fanatics. Nothing to them is ordinary. Everything must have a spiritual cause behind it. Let me remain in my old church because I no longer trust the doctrines taught in some of these new churches. Not to say my church is perfect but Atleast they don’t teach crooked doctrines.

Dpundict:
Sometimes it could be caused by infection but in most cases when the testicles are not too descended it occasions sweating down there due to friction between the thighs and the balls. So the best is to see if no infection and then observe the techniques I outlined in my post. I know this because I am one of those not too big or too descended guys. Let's not lie here.

LOL, I can’t relate because am not a guy, but I hope he finds help.