Bifwoli: But you have greedy kidnappers, heartless ritualists ,corrupt SARS ,area boys ,bloodthirsty Boko Haram and more in your own backyard Nigeria.
You don't see the big log in your own eye but you're afraid of the tiny speck in someone's eye? I guess you'll never step into USA bcoz of their gun violence either.
Very dumb comments. Village mentality highlighting a lack of exposure. Even someone who has never crossed the border to their neighboring countries, all of a sudden has an opinion about Kenya. BS!
The police have been warning that her shooting skills are top notch. No reason given at this time but some conspiracy theory was that she could have contracted a disease from one of her lovers and since she doesn’t know who among them, she set out on a revenge mission. Like I said, it’s just another theory, we don’t know for sure. I don’t know how she’s been traveling undetected and managing to board bikes & buy new SIM cards.
NigeriaNawa: Kenya full of violent promiscuous women
Stop character assassination. How many promiscuous women from Kenya have you met? We Kenyans don’t have the monopoly of evil. Kidnapping, ritual killings & baby factories are also a type of evil. Humans committing crimes is a thing as old as time. It’s not unique to Kenya.
pocohantas: Probably one of the lessons she picked from her last is that marriage won’t make a man faithful or treat you any better. Happiness with a partner isn’t tied to an institution called marriage. No be today e start.
This “woke” generation keeps trying to prove a point. Trying to change traditional institutions and for someone who claims to to be a born again, should know marriage was designed for love and producing babies.Not outside of marriage but the woke folks will be quick to say am judging. People don’t want to be “tied” down. I think the issue of a man being faithful sometimes lies on the kind of man you pick for yourself.You choose how you want to be treated. People treat you how you allow them to.
I’ve always been a big fan of Tonto in movies. I see how she posts about prayers & all which is good. I do really pray & hope this current relationship will work. However,why would she get pregnant a 2nd time for a man who hasn’t walked her down the aisle? Am assuming there was no wedding because the way she loves social media, we could have heard about it. When we go through issues, let’s not lose the lessons.
RadioMOUTH: I have been dating a girl over a year now, she has been so nice to me over this one year, I was in another relationship before I met her... she was so nice to me that I had to dump the other girl which I dated from 2014 till early (2020... about 6 years)
Right now, I don't know what to comment on my relationship anymore.... she helped me stop crack and other hard drugs which I was taking...(I appreciate that from her)
Before I met her she has a 6year old daughter which is now 7... ever since I met her.. I've been doing my best, I Normally spend my money in hotels and clubs but now it ends in the house... I love her daughter like she's mine, and she knows that... I pay her fees..
BUT HERE IS THE PROBLEM
I'm a hot tempered person, words annoy me rather than action... I destroy things when I'm angry... I'm just 27 years old and she's 28... a programmer by profession..m I own a land and a personal car today...
She's respectful and does what a woman will do to satisfy every man, but most times when I'm broke, there's always trouble in the house... and I feel loved when I have money...
I have never hit a woman my whole life till I met her, now I'm used to beating and shouting... now she's even telling me I talk too much when I'm complaining..
This was never my life...
Please I need options..m what do I do, I've just few hours ago hit her, because I saw her texting someone and she rescued to open her phone... causing damage on her left eye .... please what do I do....
I don't want to kill someone because I now feel I'm obsessed about her... I'm confused
Modified:
My old relationship was worst... I found love and care in this lady...
If I call you stupid, you’ll say I insulted you but you are stupid in every sense of the word. You are a boy who’s yet to grow up mentally and become a man. I don’t know why you are living with a woman when you cannot value her & you treat he her like trash. Why did you start dating someone you don’t trust? You want to read her messages & inspect her phone? Are you the police? Is she under investigation for a crime? Dude I feel like slapping you over the phone. You should be ashamed of yourself woman beater.You said that you never hit a woman before but now you are used to beating. Why don’t you find your match? You break things when angry? Truly you are dumb because you’ll still replace those items. You need to let go off someone’s daughter before you come back to tell us that you killed her. Go seek therapy for anger management and leave women alone until you can control your temper.
9jaRealist: It’s barbaric alright (and personally I also find it abhorrent)… But unless you’re Nigerian (which I suspect your are anyway), you’ll never understand why some Nigerians resort to barbaric means.
PS: Of course, “necklacing” is NOT a uniquely Nigerian thing. >
I would never lie about my nationality. You can go through my profile if in doubt. Proudly Kenyan! I understand because in the 90s while I was growing up, it used to happen in my native Kenya. The government put it to a stop. I’ve seen people beaten black & blue before being handed over to the police, but they don’t get killed.
I probably shouldn’t have an opinion because am not a Nigerian but am a human being first. I don’t like this thing Nigerians keep doing. The killers are guilty of murder. I don’t know how you set a fellow human being on fire & then sleep at night. That’s why we have courts of law. This shit needs to stop. It’s in humane & we are no longer in stone age. Let’s behave like humans, not like animals.
Chinedu was a “businessman” who married a Kenyan lady but was into yahoo things. He had lived in Kenya for 18 years and even spoke Swahili.They had a public divorce which turned very ugly. He left his Kenyan wife & kids in favor of a Nigerian lady. The government had been silently following him for some time & discovered her was a drug peddler. It’s obvious he had connections in high places during Jonathan’s reign because the Kenyan entourage that deported him was grounded in Lagos for days till the two governments had to have a discussion. It wasn’t long after the Kenyans were released , we heard Chinedu was back in Nairobi as if nothing happened. The daughter of one of the former Kenyan Parliament speaker is also married to an Igbo guy.
Bifwoli: Oh yeah, the sanctimoniousness ,self righteousness and self appointed "judges" wameanguka sana hapo.Can't present oneself as the moral /cultural yardstick for other nations while keeping such brutal practices.
Sasa ona hapa they don't see the big log in their own eyes wanakula samaki toka maji yenye kinyesi cha binadamu.How's that any different or better? Watch it here you'll be shocked.... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=757vYI7cZfU
Hahaa Oh my God! In this day & age? Good grief! R u serious? This is gross. Wameniboo sana btw.Nilingoja mtu ajibu lakini bado sijapata.
slawormiir: Damnnn niggarrrr Rest in peace baby girl This na person way nor dey drink enough beer and smoke enough weed o Na she still get kidney issues so o
Abeg eee....make I light my weed jor....
Kidney disease can also result from untreated high blood pressure.
Luckidunbe: I went to the church yesterday at ojo with some of my soldier friends, I took my brother and and his car, I called a truck to loose some of the AC and Fans, Electrical appliances having my brother's sticker, right now I tied him rope and I put him in my room until he return back to his senses, we calculated roughly Goods of 14 million naira that my brother donated to this church, to my surprise I took his phone and checked his history I almost cried, he just transferred 550k to the pastor yesterday being Sunday, his customers from North and middle belt has been texting him to know why he is not picking their calls, My brother was supposed to supply good worth 4million naira to one alhaji in Kano but he didn't care, I had to call the boss to act as if he is my brother and he should supply those goods but it should go with my brothers sticker ... the man has made transfer this morning... then I realized that my brother is loosing millions due to church activities he has put himself into.... At his age I never dreamed of having a car but God made it possible for him and he is misusing....
That’s for snatching him from those robbers camouflaged as Christians. While at it, please take him for counseling because brain wash is a serious problem. Also have a pastor who teaches sound doctrine visit and talk to him as well as do Bible study with him. Reversing his thought pattern will not be easy. To him know you look like the devil who is sent to terrorize the church. Save him from those conmen.
You can’t go to someone’s house & start dictating how the home will be run. You live on their terms because it’s their home. If the hotel owners are Christians they may choose to share Christian literature. If you are uncomfortable with that, then go to hotels owned by gays . You can’t go with your male gay partner to a hotel in a predominantly Islamic area because you know there’ll be consequences, but you feel it’s okay to bash Christianity. We don’t care how you feel, the hotel owners are not there to massage your ego but to run their businesses their way. If unhappy, feel free to go elsewhere.
hush15: Don't balance it. Faith is the belief of things hoped for, evidence of thing not yet seen. It is different from all you typing. This is not about giving, faith goes beyond giving...
When you want to trust in God for something, you don't go to the poor oga. Am sure that guy is looking unto God for something. This is not being a nice guy. The funny part is it might just be they deported him and banned him from entering the UK and he wants to go back to the UK but we don't know the background story so I won't assume and speak for him.
The family are talking about him giving his house away, do they even know what is on the guy's mind? Do they even have the slightest idea why the guy would make such audacious move, person sow his car, like that isn't enough, he moved to give his house...
Its no joke bro. whether he na cajole or not, that is a bold move and I pray he gets answers to sort all these problem that could warrant such act.
Family is complaining now but if the move goes right, they would forget that they tested his faith sef
LOL, I belong to a different school of faith because at some point while I was in high school , I was in one of those mom & dad churches that want you to give almost to the point of giving your kidney . I thank God for deliverance. I am sure our argument will not change our beliefs so, let’s focus on serving God.