I will be 30 years in a few months and I have never felt so much unease as I do right now. I work with one of the federal parastatals and I am currently on level 10 going to 12 next year. I have a Master degree athough it is not exactly relevant to my current job.
The problem is that my organisation uses the Ministry salary structure and my monthly net is below 80k even as a level 10 staff.
I am not married and I am academically inclined. Asides having a Master degree, I have over 8 professional certifications.
I have been trying to clinch a transfer of service to a better parastatal where the remuneration is better and where my knowledge/experiences as a science graduate will be better appreciated but it has been a bit difficult.
However, just before the COVID-19 episode in Nigeria, I got the right link for a transfer of service to a better parastatal but the process got stalled with the COVID-19 palaver.
I have 4 siblings who are Canadian citizens and they have been on my neck to migrate. I never took the calls seriously until this lockdown period. My siblings are arguing about the uncertainty of the Nigerian economy post-covid and advising me to seize this opportunity to migrate and start a new career over there?
My question therefore, "is it wise to stay back since I have gone quite far in my public service career and just wait for the opportunity to transfer my service to a better paying federal parastatal OR do I migrate to Canada and start a new career?
Your honest inputs will be highly appreciated. Thanks!
@CrazyMan @1forall Please I need your help in pushing this forward for a wider view. Thank you.
Guy , hear wetin you they talk? Canada / Nigeria, It's un-comparable nah. you don't even have to rethink anything just tell your brothers you want to Migrate and be a citizen of Canada.
Leece: i sincerely dont want to do anything immoral with her, but we know how difficult it is to get a job especially with this covid drama, how do i keep my job and avoid this woman?
Bros ride ON while it last , meanwhile you must be extremely careful not making it obvious by letting her know rumors goes a long distance, and i believe as an experienced and matured lady she will know how to handle that aspect. you never can tell, it may be a stepping stone to better connection.
PhenomenalAustin: I'm sorry for bothering you all but please hear me out.
I'm posting this on behalf of my uncle.
I was working in a company, and was being paid 40,000 a month not including other allowances. A new company called me to work with them as an Officiator and we negotiated a salary of 60,000.
Both companies produce the same products.
They agreed to pay and I resigned from the other company. I started my new job in Oct. last year and was paid all through Oct., Nov. and Dec.
Earlier this year, January precisely, I had a little issue with my boss. The misunderstanding was that I complained to him that the chemicals we use during productions was adversely affecting me. In the previous company where I worked, I didn't work during the production of the products as I was allergic to the chemicals used.
On a working day, during the time for production, he asked me to join in the production but I politely reminded him about my allergies to the chemicals being used. He commanded me while shouting that I should go back and work. I normally have heart burns, dizziness and severe migraines when I'm exposed to these chemicals. I left during production as the chemical adversely affected me.
The next day, he came and asked if I had finished the work he commanded me to do the previous day. I apologised to him that I didn't because of the chemicals rxns which he knew about. He didn't say anything but from his body language, I thought everything was alright.
I returned the following day, only to receive a 2-week suspension notice. I was surprised and asked about my offense which the General manager told me, the boss was really pissed and so mad at me which I also explained to the GM and he was really surprised as I did no wrong. Nonetheless, he advised I serve my suspension sentence.
After suspension, I was given a review of my salary and my salary was slashed by 20,000 to 40,000 because of the issue...
I was really confused and bewildered because out of the revised 40,000 I receive per month, the company takes 15,000 out of it for my rent loan...
I've been apologising while also pleading with my boss to reconsider his decision as I'm a family man and 25,000 realistically, will not be sufficient for I and my family. He hasn't yet changed his stance.
I'm so confused, please I need your opinions, suggestions and help whatsoever..
I'm sorry for bothering you.. Thanks
Please help me out please... My uncle is really down at the moment...
Thanks!
Seems your company is yet to adhere to HSE Policy? how is the safety of the workers within the environment? you can confirm on how you can deal with this issue if you have someone vast about the policy and how you can use it for your advantage .
And those that have packages there for over a month now will lose it even if such goods wasn't affected , Naija with too much criminal sense Na God go arrest all the people involved .
funkmrflexx: We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents, we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old and she’s 22 .
I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village. My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends. My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me and I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes. I’ve spent even more than her father for her school.
Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material. She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her. Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship
But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues. I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type. I don’t like hitting a lady execpt once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone. Not me, not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her (we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign. So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out
So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over. So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry.
My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself. Then my mom (she is the type that always shouts at every body. The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na).
That was the only thing my mom said. Then she sparked. Started shouting at my mom. That she should stop talking to her like that, that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home. So she carried her bag and started going home. Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way. She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry (na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her
The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry. At least she should have waited till we got home (this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me. Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said. After all the fracas, she went inside the room till we left. I just told everybody to just leave her.
So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue. But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) and that he would talk to her .
I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue. My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom. But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)
I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her
So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)
But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her. In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allow his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat, a guy who takes care of her does everything for her .
I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house.
Guy i don't know if you want to use this gather traffic ni oooo or you for REAL? If na true all the thing you talk here , then you deserve resounding slap wey go reset your brain to default... Your mother dey talk ur so called girlfriend get the confidence to reply her back , not just reply shouted on Her? walahi if to say i dey dere na better resetting slap i go give you because immediately she insulted your mother publicly that is the End of anything called relationship between the 2 of you yet you still allow her into your house? and still went ahead begging her. If you know say you wan live long depart from her with immediate effect.
She go cause family wahala if you continue with her.
ken711: I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.
From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.
She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.
Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......
She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)
I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....
Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.
The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...
The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........
Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...
Please help!
You be Mumu, i decide not to finish reading your write up because you be idiot , if your mother have requested for 50k you will say you don't have, or your good friend request for 20k you will say you are broke, but pussy wey be General Service to the public they request from you like ATM Machine and you dey vomit cash.
Guy go and think of your life properly and do the needful.
Dantepet3000: First and foremost most girls don't realize that most men spend more than they earn. All in a bid to enhance affection towards them.
I dated her for two years until that faithful day she found my salary voucher on my bed. Tho I do other side hustlE that enabled me pay her bills.
I've always known that when she discovers the amount I earn in my company, she will be scared of the future between us. I remember the days in shoprite that I was only able to afford bread. Oh my God, I don suffer. Anyway I had plans for us despite my 45k salary of an MSC holder. There is no financial hole I did not help her block. Infact I did what guys who earn more than me couldn't do.
She started misbehaving towards me ever since she saw that pay cheque. What she didn't know was that I did not use my other professional qualification in the company and when she left me.
I decided to forward other qualification to our management. Like play like play my salary rose to 75k after 3months 100k after 6 months 120k, now I am a site manager and I earn 360k. I believe the whole graduates in her family don't earn what I now earn combined. I am not proud or beefing anyone. Am just reminiscing. By the special grace of God I will even go higher...
PS. Now I am spending my money on my mum and family. I thank God for another chance. Bless
WELL DONE BRO, Now you can identify true love from GOLD DIGGERS, Next time shine your eyes well well and do better test for that woman that will love you for whom you are and not for your money. I;m Happy for you brethren.
Money no enter like before , you come dey complain about face mask and science? Befre yo talk about science, take 2 drag of Arizona den come back and explain science...
Please no ethnic banters. One of us is from Ekiti, and the other is from Benue. I am married for 8 years with 2 kids. It has been one problem to another.
I must be very frank, before marriage, my wife had many very questionable characters, but unfortunately we did the marriage counseling in a church were the pastor happened to be her family member. Many of the issues would have been resolved, but when I raised those issues about her character the pastor promised me that everything will be fine after the marriage. Although this is not an excuse, but looking back now I would have been more patient and taken my decision myself instead of rushing into the marriage. For this I HOLD MYSELF ACCOUNTABLE
There is hardly nothing we do not quarrel about, I have always been the one to initiate settlement. The only way I ensure that there is peace in the house is for me not to complain about anything. Even at that, there is always trouble. If the children do anything wrong, she always says those characters the children are exhibiting are not from her and that she is not surprised that they inherited such characters from me.
She can go for months without talking to me, even if I tried to, I have done all I could do, I have begged, cried prayed. I just feel tired and exhausted from trying to make the marriage work or have peace in the home, the sad part is that she often reminds me every time there is misunderstanding that I should remember that she can stay on her own without talking to any body. Just to add, she is very prayerful.
OTHER INFORMATION. 1. I can say conveniently that there is no money problem at home. Finance is okay. 2. I went to see her father 2 years ago, the man said unfortunately he can not do anything. This is true because she was raised away from her Father, she has no contact with any of her fathers family and her father has a zero say in her life. 3. she has 5 elders ones, non of them is in communication with her because of many unresolved issues. Of her 3 younger ones she only maintains a relationship with the last boy who is just 14 years. . 4. Her mum can not talk to her because she simply dares not. However, behind, her mother use to beg me and she kept saying she understands her daughter's character and that she is doing her best by praying and doing deliverance for her. 5. She is not in contact with her maternal uncles and aunt because she said they supported her elder ones when she had problem with them.
So I am stuck with no one to help call the both of us and resolve the issue.
Every year for 5 straight years, she always forgets my birthday, last year, she forgot also, three days later, she bought me a present and I refused to collect the present and I asked her why does she keep forgetting my birthday, year after year for 5 years. She just said sorry, but I left the present in the room, she never bothered to bring the present to me. Another birthday was gone yesterday 2nd May, and as I write, no happy birthday yet.
I literally cook for myself, and all domestic things I do for myself.
I will end this by saying that in fairness to her, her character was not too different before the marriage and courtship, sincerely only once, that was like one year before the marriage I broke up with her, she came to apologize and promised that she will change. Her mother also came to apologize to me also.
This woman has refused to change or allow peace to hold sway, she is right every time, while everybody around is wrong. Sincerely, I do not know what to do anymore.
I am tired and exhausted. I do not know what to do anymore. I am 42, I was diagnosed of high blood pressure 2 years ago.
Bros for your own good and Happiness dissolve the marriage once and for all, apologies if i'm too Raw with my words / decision but fact is a woman that her mother has no say to talk to , and her father is nothing to her , bro you are more or less a nothing to her, i know what i'm saying and fact is she will never change, forget all those sweet words of she will change. she came into the marriage to hurt you or any man that Marries her. he who have ears let him hear.
Many people above me just dey comment shii***. The woman said she was slapped by the police before doing that.
The police assault hundreds of civilians everyday, so why is NPF quick to react on this.. OP even claimed the stood like a lamb waiting to be slaughtered, na Jesus?
where is the evidence he slapped her? Seems na your aunty for village she be abi? she even molested the female officers that came the following day to pick her up for interrogation and gave one human bite? Abeg where your sense they?
Useless Bank , always stealing from my account, and wont even resolve the issue. still have a pending issue with this useless bank since last year December and they are yet to resolve it
Please hawkers should know they are not immune against Corona. No sanitizer, no face mask, no gloves....haba!!! Stay at home please..you need to be alive pic.twitter.com/Hny9ICjyXT
— Senator Dino Melaye. (SDM) (@_dinomelaye) April 29, 2020
This clown has started making cheap recognition again. Since no one is talking about him.
Lordsonn: Greetings to you all. I want to go straight to the point. I opened this account because of my marital problems.
From the day I met my wife, she was after marriage. In less than two weeks of meeting her, she started pressurizing me to meet her family members which I succumbed to.
These are what she told me at the beginning of the relationship:
1) She had HND from Kaduna Polytechnics 2) She has Diploma in Computer Science 3) She is a professional cake baker 4) She was three months pregnant 5) That she was 27 years
My discoveries after marriage:
1) She doesn’t have any HND, infact no good WAEC result 2) She cannot even connect laptop to printer and print. She don’t know much about computer at all. 3) She doesn’t know how to bake cake. I discovered that the cake I asked her to bake for me, she gave the contract to her friend. 4) She was never pregnant. She had fibroid and that made her tummy big 5) She was 33 years.
NOTE: the reasons why I believed all she told me at the beginning was because she was a prophetess in her church. She speaks in tongues and prophesy many times and most of the prophecies came to pass.
I was even surprised that in less than two weeks of our relationship, she made move for sex and we started having sex. I did not even think of pre-marital sex because I thought she was a holy woman.
The problems after marriage: several people began to beg me to forgive her and continue with the marriage. I find it difficult but she was still living in my house. I was just being forced my her family and her family members persuaded some of my family members to beg me too. I tried to love her but hatred for her was just building in my heart.
The fibroid surgery was successfully done and she got pregnant and gave birth to a baby boy. I thought the coming of the child may make me to forgive her but I could not recover from her betrayal. I even hate her more.
She wrote WAEC last session and got nine credits but the memory of her betrayal is giving me a lot of psychological trauma. I love an educated woman and cannot see myself glued to an illiterate woman in the name of marriage.
Major problems that made me sent her out:
1) She refused to go to my church. She always want to go to her church and even want me to join her there which I refused. 2) She doesn’t like education at all. She hate going to school and will never carry book to read. 3) Anytime I have disagreement with her, she will call her elder brother. And they will come and talk to me, sometimes in a very condescending manner 4) She is not submissive, very arrogant and talks with anger, authoritatively. 5) She is a societal woman, she loves joining several associations of women and be going to meetings every sunday which I don't like. 6) She value clothes more than human being. She can use any money from the family purse to buy Hollandis, lase, George etc just to dress to her church for show off. I am introvert but she is extremely extrovert.
I sent her out of my house three weeks ago. She is trying to come back in the disguise that she doesn’t want her child to be only one, that it will make the child suffer in the future but I told her I cannot allow her to my house again. I love my little child and I cannot live with such a woman who is full of lies and pretense. I just have hatred for such kind of people. What do you think I should do?
How long have you been living together ? why did you fall so easily? because she is a prophetess? Baba before anything you fuckup big time , and you must learn from your mistake , if you ever want to take her back you have to put some Lay down rules for her and it has to be duly documented , signed and agreed upon . 2 weeks into relationship she is asking you to come see her family for marriage, na there u suppose know say na set up and na desperate woman she be.you believed everything she said without doing any background check. Its either you take her back or forget about her .
ninety5: Hi everyone, hope y'all safe. I am going to hit the road straight up.
My wife's sister, 24, visited us two days before the lockdown in Lagos and was hoping to travel in the next three days. Unfortunately for her, the lock down thwarted her plan.
Now, my wife, together with our 3 year old boy, always leaves the house during the day to go gossip with her friends, living only her sister and me at home.
The problem is, my wife's sister has been looking at me somehow, like she wants me to have sex with her. The other day she saw me and was smiling like I gifted her some money, like a fish. Yesterday, she wore a blouse that left her n.pples dangling back and forth as she walked around the house.
Guys please, I am in a dilemma. And, good god, the girl is finer and hotter than her sister, the gossip.
What do you want me to do?
No insult please.
Wetin Punnany go cause , you self no go wait to watch the movie finish. you want to dey form holy, its either you ignore her and respect your wife, else you go regret am.
United State of America has the highest rate of Corona virus cases Worldwide with over 1Million cases and the highest death rate in the world with over 57,000 deaths , and the president is calling Nigeria President to send Ventilators ? Abeg who needs Ventilator most among the 2 countries? I smell something fishy as nothing is free, not even in Freetown.
Julietsim: My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.
Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?
You are complaining of him having sex almost everyday , hope you won't come tomorrow and complain your husbands is cheating on you? try as much as you can to satisfy him sexually, you are just 2 years into marriage and you have started complaining , i doubt if you will be able to cope for the next 2 -5 years to come. He is your Husband and not your ordinary boyfriend . After-all he is a good man and not the cheating type ( Meaning he is taking good care of you).
I have a pressing issue on ground and I need your contribution. My boyfriend has been working for about 5 years now. We've been dating for a while now and he has been so nice and caring. The best ever.
In my past experience in relationships, I have been quite generous but the guys turned out to be ingrates so I vowed never to give any boy my penny again.
When I met my man, he melted my hardened heart with the love he showered on me. On one occasion, I have borrowed him money and he paid me back. Now he's asking me to borrow him another money. Because of this lockdown, he has gone so broke and he opened up to me. Initially, I did not believe him but when I noticed he has run out of food stuffs and the provisions he normally stock his house with, I believed him. I have more than enough money. The money he's asking for is like chicken change to me. But I don't want him to get used to borrowing from me and I have vowed never to give a guy my money again except if he's my husband.
Please I need advice. Fellow ladies like me, what do you think? Should I borrow him?
It doesn't make sense coming here to seek advice either to borrow him money or not, to me this is just show a mere show off . If he has been caring and showered you so much love , you wont come here to belittle him because of chicken change. Abeg borrow urself small brain and do the needful .
Princess Shyngle took to YouTube to cry out about her current predicament.
She revealed that she's pregnant, her fiance is in jail and she's struggling alone without help from her friends or family.
The curvy actress said life has been hard for her ever since her Senegalese fiancé, Frederic Badji, was jailed for fraud in New York
She called out those saying she's sharing her story for clout. She said that if she wanted clout, all she'll have to do is go naked or twerk and she'll get people's attention. She added that she decided to share her story to strengthen anyone going through the same ordeal.
Crying in the video, she said: "My man is in jail, I'm going through all these. I've been by myself for months, I'm struggling, I'm paying my bills, I'm going through it.
She added: "It took a lot of courage because I'm the only one in this. Nobody is in support of me, not my family, not my friends, nobody, nobody is in f***ing support of me."
Na who you help when the money they flow enter? your man enter gbege , you come dey make noise here. If you have been nice with your friends and family im pretty sure they will assist you. Yeye dey smell.
Obabajo: after this covid19 ,u go poor die because it can't last 4 longtime mumu. go look 4 job
who be mumu inside the 2 of una? person they try hustle to survive you dey insult am. Because you dey see chop no mean say na everybody dey see chop. Use your brain Dude.
JustAwesome: Lagos State has started distribution of food stuff They recently brought this to my residence in ebute metta.
The bag comprises of rice and garri and a loaf of bread all tightly sealed with threaded sacks
Messed up country, can you imagine a family of 5, and you are giving this for them to survive for 1 - 2 weeks? Im pretty sure this was repacked by the people distributing it and the large part of it shared among themselves to be resold.
Xsem: Fake news Of what use is Africa to the world, if i may ask?
Technology 0 Education 0 Leadership 0 Etc ... Give me any tangible reason for the efficacy of your conspiracy post.
Those quoting me and saying rubbish...even football that's minimally biased we still under perform there. We suck at other sports too So SPORTS 0
Because we have bad and greedy leaders thats why u cant see what dey are seeing. He maybe right because Africa has loads of natural resources but these are been mismanaged by terrible and greedy leaders.
RiyaGoddess: The resident pastor of Dominion City Lagos Headquarters, Pastor Shola Olapade on Wednesday 25th of march gave out food items to some number of persons who do not have the means to stock up for the COVID-19 lockdown.
Briefing the people who came in numbers to collect food items at the church headquarters in Lagos, the resident pastor said the gesture was done to show support to members and people in the neighborhood who do not have the money to stock up during the stay at home period and he also gave out welfare numbers to call if they run out of food supplies.
The pastor and his welfare team didn't stop there, they also visited two orphanage homes within the church axis where they donated food items and toiletries as part of the church contribution for this season.
The cleric urged everyone to be careful and not fearful, observe the health precautionary measures, be prayerful and reach out to someone in need even as we trust God for the answer to our prayers for the eradication of the virus globally.
God will continue to bless you for giving the needy food to survive.
staga: When you were forcking him, you did not consult us. Now we are thinking of how to survive this coronavirus, you are disturbing us. Which Kain nonsense be dis?
A problem shared is a problem at least half solved, stop acting irresponsible here and be a brothers keeper, covid-19 will go as it came, no room for covid-19 in Nigeria.
Ngozey: I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.
Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.
I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.
I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.
One of the greatest of sin is abortion, we all make mistakes i know ,but i will rather advice to call your sister one on one, beg her and explain what happened,its better than killing the innocent child. If i may ask, how old are you?