Possible he was padding the loans up and build his own war chest in anticipation of contesting and winning the elections to cover up the dirt. He was ill-advised.
uzomakanaki: Fellow nairalanders, please I need advice from matured minds in this group.
I'm in a two year relationship with my woman, we're both working. I'm 34 while she's 27. My montly salary and commision is over 200k with other side hustle i do that bring in funds for me, i also just got a car i want to register with bolt/uber to still bring in funds in my free time.
My fiancee on the other hand is earning 75k monthly. I take good care of her needs and makes sure she doesn't lack anything I can afford.
We both plan to settle down by December.
Sometimes last month she missed her period, after the test we discovered she's 5 weeks pregnant.
I'm against abortion because of the dangers involved in the aftermath, i suggested she keep the baby while I come and see her family and do some necessary things before the main wedding. But she insisted in aborting the baby, reason being that she can't be pregnant and be working. Unless I place her on a monthly salary.
She has aborted the baby and had complications because of the quack nurse that performed the abortion. I spent a lot to make her back on her feet
I'm gradually losing interest in the relationship cos that single act of her. I've kept this to myself.
I just need advice on how to handle this. Cos I'm already fed up with her with her recent disrespect and the way she talks to me anyhow even in public.
woginid967: Forget about him, why dont you let me take you out of that apartment, to a short let and we get loud slutting each other out, while you sit on my face till you squirt and i cum inside ice cream and you drink it to stay healthy. Just do crazy shit like threesomes and orgies together. Your neighbor obviously wants to fuvk u, so he's frustrating you will u go up there and silence him with you labia.
What did you study gan gan? Are you in the UK? Are you applying directly to the companies or through job boards? Like Temi231 mentioned above, try going for IT support or technician roles and see where this get you to.
adedapodvirus001: Good morning my people, please I need someone in the field of data analysis to show me the way oooo. I have self learned it before and fortunately enough, my former employer enrolled me for a diploma course in data analysis. I have packaged my CV and threw out applications to so many places including the NHS but nothing yet( No interview, No call back). I have targeted entry level roles too but everything I've been getting is unfortunately we are not progressing with your application. I also tried to carry out some research on LinkedIn concerning the data analysis jobs of a thing and I discovered that almost all vacancies that I clicked on often have over 200 applicants, there are some with more than 500 applicants. All these things are making me to have a rethink on my decision to follow this path.
I have tried my hand on cyber security but I later discovered that this area of IT is not for entry level applicants. The feedback I got from some people that I know who studied master degree in cyber security in the UK is also not encouraging because they also find it difficult to secure entry level roles.
Selfkontrol: Good day Nairalanders. Pls I need some mature advice because I’ve been in a dilemma for a long time now concerning relocating abroad or staying back in Nigeria. First of all I’m not a japa advocate. I believe if you’re doing well in Nigeria then there’s no point relocating abroad but I feel there’s so much uncertainty and I don’t know what the future holds for me in this country.
Now I’m a married man of 30 years. I will turn 31 by this September. We have no child yet but wife is preg now. I have a B.Eng in petroleum Engineering but have never worked in my life. My current business is crypto trading which I have been doing for years now. During the 2021 crypto bull run I made lot of money and acquired some properties that’s currently valued atleast 60-70m naira in total. bought my car same year and got married same year to my long time Gf, settled some family members etc . I don’t have any other investments or business aside my properties and crypto portfolio because crypto trading has taken all my time and I won’t complain because so far it has been good. Making money in dollars while in Nigeria is bliss. Even though we have been in bear season since 2022, I still make some money every now and then that’s sustainable for now until we hit another bull run which is likely to happen from next year 2024.
My fear lies here, on the long run crypto trading is not sustainable. If not for 2021 bull run I don’t think I would be in this position and even the projected bull run next year is not 100% certain
I plan on learning a programming skill which is very difficult, I tried learning it late last year but stopped along the line because it was distracting me from trading and missing some opportunities in crypto because making money is most important. Coding would probably take me a few years before I start earning even though it is sustainable long term but crypto trading can be life changing but not sustainable long term . It’s more like a gamble most times.
My plan A, is to gather enough money from now till 2025 which is the duration of the projected bull run if it happens and start investing in real estate development, Like building and selling and other businesses too but I don’t know how feasible that is in our present day Nigeria and if I don’t make my target amount, I might have to start with the available resources present.
plan B, gather some money, learn a skill then relocate to Canada with my family via study route since I don’t have any real work experience aside crypto trading but that would mean me going to study and starting afresh.
For my wife, she also has a degree in Human Resources with just nysc as working experience. She learnt wig making and installation and has been doing her online biz selling wigs etc.
Abroad folks, what are my chances abroad considering my current profile. Is it worth it coming over there to start afresh And build? I have heard so many things how it’s hard getting a job and you have to rely on survival jobs for the first few years expecially for someone without any work experience.
I really don’t like joining the bandwagon cos everyone seems to be leaving, I love to weigh my options and hate taking unnecessary risk that might lead to regrets, at the same time don’t want to regret not leaving since I’m still young and have the opportunity that’s why I’m here asking these questions to learn from experienced and matured family men home and abroad the action they would take. We learn everyday,
For my unborn kids, if everything checks out, my plan is to give birth to them in either Canada or US for the passport and raise them in Nigeria and when they are grown, send them to study there and that is only if I’m not relocating. And if I’m relocating, what are the in-demand skills and professions I have to take since it’s clear I might be going to school because I hate survival jobs. What is your advice pls. Mature advice pls. Thank you 🙏 @justwise @Disguy
I'm sure you will get it where you designated for its collection.
crossbonehelped: I actually plan to arrive in Manchester on the 21st making it past the 10 days arrival date to get the BRP. And no, I haven’t received any message about my brp being sent by any courier
elisinho: For colleagues working in the nhs i was wondering if anyone have hints about questions likely to be asked for a band 7 role in an allied health field specifically for sonography please.
20th June is still within the 10 days period since you arrived on the 10th of June 🤷🏿♀️ or are we missing something here?
Once you've stated your collection point during your application process, it will be despatched there in wait for your arrival and collection date specified. Did you get any email from the courier service stating your BRP has been despatched? They usually send one.
crossbonehelped: Hi. Came in on the 10th of June and still staying somewhere around London but I’m supposed to get my BRP in Gorton, Manchester within ‘10’ days of arrival according to the BRP letter I got. Problem is, I’m actually supposed to wait for some reasons till 20th of June and that will be past the 10 days for the BRP. Don’t know if this could be an issue and if I should cal the post office ahead to say this or I definitely have to get it within the 10 days of arrival or I should just ignore and it isn’t much of an issue. Thanks in advance house
Exactly! And for those also wondering why pay in full - it saves you the stress and also help you build a good credit history. I could as well pay with my debit card and not use a CC if building credit history is not a part of my long term plan. Not everyone who takes a CC cannot afford to live life without one.
AKALAMAGBO: Bro no dey deceive urself, realities are different. People’s living condition are not the same, because you can’t pay in full doesn’t mean everyone else can’t… No be everybody get COVID that year when e dey do people strong thing… I pay mine in full before the direct debit date just so you know, and I have a combined total credit card of £8,000 on 2 cards ( Amex and Aqua)…
And how's that an issue if they could afford to do that and you can't? You need to grow out of this childish habit of trying to gaslight people into thinking your own way, very poor and ghetto mentality. Everyone is different from you or your habit. If you have a CC limit of £8000 and you chose to spend all and pay monthly £1 that's entirely your business. It shouldn't prick you if I have a limit of £1000 and spend only £200 out of it but pay in full ....nonsense
Tier4Dependant: You are seriously asking this? Guess you should go back to part 1 of this wonderful thread
Why would you think it is statistically improbable? Do you know everyone's debt appetite? Or do you think most people with credit card spend all their limit and more than they could actually afford to pay off their pocket? If you can't afford to pay yours in full why should it bother or be suspicious to you when someone who does mentions it? I don't understand you people's thought process really and that's why other country nationals are thriving better than we do as a community.
koonbey: The point the person was making isn’t that it’s an issue to pay your balance in full - obviously that’s best practice and what everyone should be doing.
The point was that everyone claims they do that, which is sus, to say the least, because it’s statistically improbable. Especially because it usually comes up when some people are encouraging ’newbies’ to apply for cards (without mention of whether they need it and can handle the responsibility).
Funny how people like criticising. If one chose to pay in full their CC balance, how is that an issue. Not everyone would like to owe much on CC if they could afford it. I do same - I pay in full my CC balance, reuse and repay in full. It has its advantages when you are intentional about your targets and future. Ignore them my brother @Justwise, you are not alone on that table. Let them say whatever they want. Thanks for always sharing
Sad how people don't understand how public service works. Shonubi is Deputy governor operations and is the best person to be handed over to.
Same way the directive for Emefiele to step down came from the Secretary to the Government and not Minister of finance or the permanent secretary. Besides that he managed NIBSS from inception introducing several novel products including NIP.
I don't disagree with the fact that we need someone who is more qualified in that role but for now he is acting until the president gets a more qualified person. Let us understand how these things work instead of chasing clout.
politicoNG: Social media critic, Deji Adeyanju has criticised the choice of Shonubi as Acting CBN Gov.
In a series of tweet, he questioned the qualification criteria of the Ag CBN Gov, stating that his preference was based on his tribe.
Knew this was coming. The way Emefiele was gesticulating the day Tinubu resumed work at Aso Rock, you could sense someone who is looking for soft landing 🤣🤣
Since October last year when I bleeped one my girl my dvck has never been the same
Blisters has now become part the of my dvck I was ashamed to visit the hospital and was rubbing funbact a on it….. the funbact clears the blister but just temporarily
After then someone prescribed a drug for me which I used it, it cleared the blisters but after a while they resurface but not like the first time…. the blister will grow then pus will on be coming out of the blisters on my scrotal sack and my penis
Mehn I’m so boxed up on what to do right now can’t even have s.x with my girl for some months now cuz I’m scared I minght infect her
So inconvenienced as the pus is afflicted with pains im experiencing pains on my divk and then can’t even relax properly most times
Is showing as its going but the pains I’m experiencing now is out of this earth I regret doing that shit
Politics › Re: How Emefiele, Nigeria’s Powerful Central Bank Chief Lost His Seat by bigtt76(f): 5:13pm On Jun 14, 2023
