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Travel › Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by bigtt76(f):
Yea check Innovate 1 website for their support email (I think they also have a charge-back section or rather email NIS (if you applied from Nigeria). As last resort, contact your bank.

Midex88:
Thanks. Pls how do I request refund please. Is it from the bank or NIS. though I have sent a mail to innovate1 already.
Family › Re: I'm Tired, My Husband Is Mentally Challenged by bigtt76(f): 1:48pm On Jul 30, 2023
Encourage him to go see a doctor or if he has medications, continue with it. You can't abandon him now that he needs you more.


beautifulsoul12:
Good morning everyone. I have to create this account to post this.
I can't even sleep at night lately.

I'm so tired and I need help right now. I have been doing this all by myself for so long now, without much complain but now, I need help.
Before I got married to my husband, I didn't know he had a seasonal mental health challenge, but not violent.

I met him in the university, he was in medicine, he had dreams, very ambitious, one of the best in his department, Working his way to travel abroad to continue his education. We were just friends, but I liked him. He kept on asking me out, but I declined. I wanted to graduate first.
We parted ways in year two. He changed school, so, I knew nothing about him again till years later.
Reconnected with him years later after graduation, to my greatest surprise, he didn't graduate, wasted all his resources and couldn't travel out. We still love each other, so we got married.
after the birth of my first child, I wanted to leave him, but I couldn't because he was a good man, but with too many changes and I was the only one who truly care and was there for him.
Three years ago, he became much better. He got a small job, Started bringing in little for upkeep. I saw change and I was happy. We had our second child last year after 8yrs.
Since early this year, the whole thing came up again. Since then, he became jobless again.
The financial burden is all on me. Right now, we can't afford to renew our rent.
I lost my business capital some times ago in wrong business, since then, it has been so much struggles.

I'm trying hard but it's not enough.
I'm thinking of working away, but to where? what about my children? Who will be there for them? What about him? But I'm tired of being in a marriage where I have to struggle for everything, where I can not depend on my man.
Pls, help us renew our house rent.

What do I do?
Sports › Re: Nouhaila Benzina Becomes First Player To Wear Hijab At World Cup by bigtt76(f): 1:10pm On Jul 30, 2023
Exactly and they would be campaigning against politics in football angry The lady, her other team mates did not cover their head, is she more religious than them all? angry


DaveHarry:
FIFA just need to ban this act that I s about to become the latest women's football trend. It's nonsense to bring religion into football
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by bigtt76(f): 8:46am On Jul 30, 2023
Screenshot shows application expired. Request a refund and re apply.



Midex88:
Good day my people.

While trying to process my passport renewal. Funds were debitted from my account but my payment didn't update on my NIS portal as its still showing ''application unpaid''.

Has anyone experience this? and how was the issue resolved?

Please I need advice on what to do. Thanks
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by bigtt76(f): 8:44am On Jul 30, 2023
Yes go ahead. I renewed mine with 6 months to go. Saves you time and stress. Remember to apply to keep your existing booklet pending issuance of the new one.



hustla:
..About to pay for my new passport application but the old one is yet to expire (expires Jan but I heard its good to start early)

Can I proceed with the payment without issues?
Family › Re: My Husband’s “runs Girl” Used Juju On Him; Wife Of Defunct Skye Bank Chairman by bigtt76(f): 6:01pm On Jul 29, 2023
Nor bi diabolic means ....de geh de give de man things you nor de fit give am cheesy cheesy cheesy


dre11:
My husband’s “runs girl” used juju on him, says wife of defunct Skye Bank chairman Tunde Ayeni




Tunde Ayeni, the former chairman of the defunct Skye Bank, is the subject of a messy paternity scandal involving his former mistress, Adaobi Alagwu.





https://gazettengr.com/my-husbands-runs-girl-used-juju-on-him-says-wife-of-defunct-skye-bank-chairman-tunde-ayeni/
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by bigtt76(f): 1:11pm On Jul 29, 2023
Thank you for this clarification. kiss


LagosismyHome:
If Ma remains as Ma then it counts. ... if Ma switches to dependent and vice versa the clock starts again if on the 5 years pathway

However if for any reason they are on a 10 years path then any legal stay would be counted such as time spent as Ma or dependent
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by bigtt76(f): 5:24pm On Jul 28, 2023
Interesting. Thanks for sharing. So this means for it to count, all man must de dem de as either MA or Dependent all through the journey for ILR? angry


hayesconcept:
Check this link to know which time can be counted towards the ILR. Dependent Tier 2 Visa wasn't Included. https://www.gov.uk/indefinite-leave-to-remain-tier-2-t2-skilled-worker-visa/time-uk
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by bigtt76(f): 4:51pm On Jul 28, 2023
How so? If both are in the same sector - one MA and other dependent for 2 years on one hand, and one MA (former dependent) and other dependent (former MA) for 3 years ...I'm curious to understand this more.


hayesconcept:
If they go that way, the counter to ILR will be reset.
Romance › Re: My Wife And Side Chic by bigtt76(f): 4:46pm On Jul 28, 2023
You were selfish. You wanted children desperately but forgot your wife too wanted them. How would you feel if she had gone outside to knack and come back with children? Don't abort the side chic though ...let it be the legacy of your cheating days


eglobalcafe:
Good evening guys, please I need some advice, my wife had pcos then that she couldn't get pregnant and now it's almost our 4th year in the marriage, after doing 2 ivf I told myself not to do it again because the money was not there and adoption is not my thing. So I was worried because am not the kind of man that like polygamy.

Now after we stop the ivf my wife started taking supliments and now she's pregnant after 7 months of taking the supliment and now because of my wife condition I decided to have a side chic who I can marry for the sake of children because it's not easy after 6 years between me and my wife and we are 4 years in marriage, so now as am talking to you my wife and my girl friend are both pregnant same month and from the scan results my wife might likely give birth to twins because two sack was found in her.

AND now I love both of them so much and I don't know what to do now. My girl friend is two weeks pregnant. Am not a bad person but I feel bad hurting my wife but the condition is not easy for both of us that is why I went out for another woman. Does it make any sense to abort my girlfriend pregnancy. Because even if I want to keep both of them it won't be easy for me to have two women pregnant for me at the same time. I wish it's different time I would have allow my girlfriend keep the pregnancy and my girlfriend really loves me ans she said she needs the pregnancy too.

Atleast am doing financially okay because I can feed both if them but how do I handle this kind of situation.

I have been having sleepless night because my wife can nit give me children at that time and now the blessings are here please advise me.

It's won't be easy to keep two women and it's not my thing but what do I know. Guys help me no insult please, if you ask me why can't I be patient the I will say am my mum is old and am the one taking care of my mum. And am 35, years now but if I don't what I did when I grow old who will take care if me? This are the quei asked myself daily before going ahead to impregnated my girl friend. Please advise me

Should my girlfriend abort the pregnancy?
Politics › Re: VP Kashim Shettima At Russia-Africa Summit In St Petersburg (Photos) by bigtt76(f): 6:31pm On Jul 27, 2023
Interesting ...so Naija don play their card so fast cheesy


WriterNig:
@Senator Kashim Shettima tweeted;
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: See The Response I Got From A Job I Applied To On Indeed by bigtt76(f): 5:19pm On Jul 27, 2023
Na you carray yourself go there naa cheesy


BEANSANDBREAD00:
I applied on indeed for the role of an administrative officer and I got this response on my mail. Its so sad. All this procedures for a N50000 job
Sports › Re: Alex Iwobi Beats Victor Osimhen To Become Highest Paid Nigerian Footballer by bigtt76(f): 2:54pm On Jul 27, 2023
Osimhen is currently in a wrong location, when he moves, he probably would earn more


robosky02:
Do you think iwobi deserve to earn more than osimhen
Travel › Re: Seeking Honest Advice: Considering Relocating Abroad - Need Your Thoughts by bigtt76(f): 2:45pm On Jul 27, 2023
Who told you this? Don't write yourself off. First thing you should do is take a breather and don't stress yourself too much, do a gap analysis of your skills. What you have now and what's required out there. Up-skill yourself and your wife, Start applying to jobs in the UK which practise a similar accounting system like Nigeria. With 15 years working in a private sector, you obviously have transferable skills needed outside Nigeria especially financial reporting and auditing skills. Throw in a bit of data and business analytics you might be up to something. All the best.


Alejo2000:
It is hard to get sponsored visa for my field of study. I'm a Chartered accountant.
Travel › Re: Seeking Honest Advice: Considering Relocating Abroad - Need Your Thoughts by bigtt76(f): 2:31pm On Jul 27, 2023
Another good advice


Usefulsense:
At OP,

I foresaw your predicament in my case 2 years ago. I am currently 48 and my wife is 39. 2 years ago I made a life changing decision.

I sent my wife to Australia on a student visa utilizing all my life's savings. Today, she has stabilized a little. Though she is still a student as she had to change her course of study from accounting to social work.

Currently, her employers are planning to sponsor her nomination for PR. All the necessary documentations have been completed.
She is doing pretty well and has progressed in her pursuit of CPA certification.

She has advised me to commence study for CPA immediately and that is what i am currently doing.

Hopefully, before the end of this year, I will be on my way to Aussie with my 2 children.
Travel › Re: Seeking Honest Advice: Considering Relocating Abroad - Need Your Thoughts by bigtt76(f): 2:30pm On Jul 27, 2023
Very good advice


Validated:
At 45 years old you could still land a great job in Canada, but before leaving, endeavor to upscale your professional profile. Pursue ACCA, ACMA/CGMA or CFA. Look up on CISA and CISM, but the knowing doing gap may be a problem. Ensure you are mid-way into these programs before leaving, so you can close them in Canada.

Apply to take an accounting course in Pacific Canada area in University or college, then move over to Ontario as soon as you get CPA.

As for your children, DO NOT BE DESPAIR!!! You may think they will be wayward in Canada, but hell NO! Infact, your children are more vulnerable in Nigeria than Canada. Trust me, I will not tell you what I do not know.
Travel › Re: Seeking Honest Advice: Considering Relocating Abroad - Need Your Thoughts by bigtt76(f): 2:30pm On Jul 27, 2023
Certified Public Accountant

theamazonguru:
Please what does CPA mean ?
Thanks
Sports › Re: Asisat Oshoala Is The Only African Woman To Score In 3 World Cups. by bigtt76(f): 1:47pm On Jul 27, 2023
Religion people go soon begin blast her for almost displaying bresss cheesy
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Australia : FIFA Women World Cup (3 - 2) On 27th July 2023 by bigtt76(f): 1:43pm On Jul 27, 2023
I agree but for how long would they keep winning with this squad that played poorly? Aussies flunked a lot of their chances else Nigeria would've been many goals down. We need to work harder against Ireland to avoid surprises.


jswitch:
Well, better teams don't qualify, the winning teams do. In this case, Nigeria is the winning team.
Crime › Re: UK-Based Nigerian Doctor Loses Custody Of 16-Year-Old Son For Flogging Him by bigtt76(f): 1:41pm On Jul 27, 2023
Oshey Lamba detector cheesy


Padipadi:
I think it's very good to understand the hypocrisy of UK in cases of first to report. And the demonic teen friends that lied against their friends that in order to further indulge in their life spoiling practices like watching pôrn and not studying well.
If only the father had contained his anger and make a video evidence of those crooks. Then reporting his child formerly to the govt that how do you want me to handle this boy cos I don't want to beat him to the point your govt ll say I beat him with anger.
UK is a theoretical place where you can pretend like you swallow all their bullshits but hypocritically go behind the scene to scheme things to your taste.
Chai, my Nigeria. That father ll trash both the son and friends together. In fact if it's one woman I know, she ll craftly lure those kids, lock herself and those kids up in a store, apply fresh pepper in their eyes, buttocks, armpits, ear and nose, carry 3 brand new koboko and flog the hell out of those kids. That store ll be a mess! They ll see them the next day and ask if they were caught stealing at the market.
UK dey fall my hands when they don't farabale hand civil cases. It's not all first to report that are innocent. They v used this to give wrong judgements especially on issues of husband and wife's issues where wife ll be the first to rush and lie against her husband cos they know the law there is sympathetic to women.
In all, may we not be unlucky in this life, amen.

Lamba. Lambadowsky from a fake female. Your story is fallacious. We know sending stubborn abroad kids to Nigeria resets their brain. But as you can see, this story fit no work that way cos he's already taken away from his dad. In all, you cooked up your write up to gather share and likes for your coconut 🥥 head ego.
Wail, I ll drink you tears cos I just want tackle you today. I get your time. Don't call me agbaya, I just want to drink the tears of this shim (he/she)!


Lamba united, twin brother of Jennyclay. The both of you aren't practical in your lies. Not all kids eventually visit Nigeria. So how do you effect the correction. The best option to correct kids in UK is to gather enough evidence against the kid which ll make the govt to not believe the child when you actually do mild scolding. You outsmart their system. The scolding you ll do must be very minimal.
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Australia : FIFA Women World Cup (3 - 2) On 27th July 2023 by bigtt76(f): 1:35pm On Jul 27, 2023
Lucky team, the Aussies were a better team today.
Politics › Re: Nationwide Strike: Full Statement Of NLC Communique by bigtt76(f): 7:00am On Jul 27, 2023
People wen dem go soon invite go Aso rock, fill dem pockets, suggest court exparte motion to prevent strike and all would go cold. nonsense people


References1:
https://www.nlcng.org/communique-at-the-end-of-the-central-workingcommittee-cwc-meeting-of-the-nigeria-labour-congress-nlc-held-on-tuesday-the-25th-day-of-july-2023/
TV/Movies › Re: Christians Watching BBNaija, Football Lovers Are The Same – Joshua Bamiloye by bigtt76(f): 6:57am On Jul 27, 2023
All these gas lighting behavior is what I hate among people like this. You mean I should have no live outside the church? Just go to church, watch church movies and programs and nothing else? Werey


Odewaleadesoye:
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Travel › Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by bigtt76(f): 6:51am On Jul 27, 2023
You comot from jungle wan go enter another jungle cheesy The UNDP job is good though and would help boost your profile in the future for another UK job. Milk it to the max. Congratulations.

heroshark:
Abeg make una put mouth for this abeg.

A sub £40k consulting role in the UK (sponsored and yet to spend 3months with the firm) and a P3 level role with UNDP, salary $93k but duty station is Mali 🇲🇱.

Which do you advise and why?
Family › Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by bigtt76(f): 6:26pm On Jul 26, 2023
And when you are no longer around, your son wants to marry, ends up marrying his cousins (your steps siblings' daughter vice versa) shei na dat you go like? cheesy


Tayorshd87:
From a friend though


Am the last born in my family and there are too many ups and downs and wahala in my family because it was a polygamous home and my father was one of the man I mistakenly ever met on earth and unlucky for me he is my father 😭😢
So how I wish I should start my life with my own fresh lineage from my wife and children. Like I don't want to be part of the father tree again.

I gave birth 3days ago and I don't want my son to bear my surname 🤔 I want my own name to be his surname so my father lineage will be cut off
☹️

Please is there any future implications in this decision?
Or rather something bad behind this decision??

Thanks 😌
Business › Re: CBN Raises Interest Rate To 18.75% by bigtt76(f): 8:52pm On Jul 25, 2023
It can lower the exchange rate though cos with less naira in circulation, the demand for forex will reduce especially among traders who borrow to import goods but of course it will affect the price of goods and services on the market 😏
Politics › Re: Emefiele Pleads Not Guilty To Unlawful Possession Of Firearm by bigtt76(f): 10:24am On Jul 25, 2023
Health › Re: 529 Foreign-Trained Doctors Failed Medical Exam – MDCN by bigtt76(f): 11:46am On Jul 24, 2023
Header should've been ***We failed 529 foreign trained doctors 😂😂



FreeStuffsNG:
https://punchng.com/529-foreign-trained-doctors-failed-medical-exam-mdcn/
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by bigtt76(f): 6:20pm On Jul 22, 2023
Your school (assuming you are a student) should grant you access to this. Grammarly, Quilbot and Microsoft Word online have features to allow you do this but not as comprehensive as Turnitin provided by your school.



Focus99:
Is there an app to review similarity and plagiarism?

Thank you
Travel › Re: Which African Country Can I Migrate To With 2.5m by bigtt76(f): 5:51am On Jul 21, 2023
But



gabazin080:
try get sense
Family › Re: Drama As Trader Allegedly Finds Male’s Private Part Inside Food by bigtt76(f): 2:57pm On Jul 20, 2023
Cow preek cheesy

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