₦airaland Forum

descarado:
Here parents especially mothers failed woefully.
Why can't a man cook for heaven's sake?

Guys in my family both extended cook better than females. You must cook o.

It's just a custom that men love because it means they can put up their legs and relax and magically food appears without stress. Then the men cultivate it by acting like—read pretending— they can't cut things and cook so that someone else(women) will take over and do the work for them while they relax doing nothing—mostly when women are present.

The people who began that is actually some mothers, when they segregate household duties from childhood. It results in dirtier and lazier adult men, because they know they won't be the ones cleaning up or doing dishes or cooking.

Everyone must cook and clean. I'm always surprised to read topics like this. How do these people expect their sons to be functional?

Kobojunkie:
Pacifist inciter? Heck no!

Nazi pacifist then?

Shegzy8:
I asked you simple questions and you have no answer to it. Last time i checked, is yahoo legal in Nigeria?

Nicca, tone down on your stupidity and sentiment.

You accused them of advertising hypnosis or whatever, and you've been made aware of how men indisputably do the same via Yahoo.

Now, without ranting more stupidly, tell us where kayanamata is illegal, compared to the verifiably criminal nature of Yahoo under the law.

If you can't do so, reasonably, shut up.

Shegzy8:
Are you stupid or you just chose to be for the main time?

Last time i checked, isn’t yahoo a crime?
Don’t they dupe male and female?

Do yahoo boys get arrested or not? Even tho so many get away through corruption.

Do yahoo boys open shop at ALABA and make their scamming activities open?

Never you quote me if you do not have anything reasonable to say.

You are the stupid sentimental one, and your post shows it.

Go and arrest the women after proving their crime.

Decryptor:
But it is hypnosis!

Anything that you give to someone who makes them lose their minds where you take advantage of them and make them part with either cash or valuables which they wouldn't want to in ordinary circumstances is classified as theft!!

How is it hypnosis? Where's the law for it? How can you prove it?

Kobojunkie:
Huh?

You usually aren't that aggressive. You're more of a pacifist inciter.

What happened to you today?

Shegzy8:
This is totally unacceptable. It might look funny and not hold meaning to so many people but it’s an act that should be frowned upon. Men are being hypnotized and are being required to do things out of their wish.

The society isn’t frowning at this cause women aren’t the victim. They even have the effrontery to own shops and advertise on social media cause people see it as a norm.

Just imagine men owning shops and making social media ads and awareness on products that can hypnotize women, make them do whatever you want, be at your mercy?
Now imagine this and also think how the outcry would be.

Aren't men already doing so with their fake Yahoo accounts and businesses they use to lure people into their own hypnotizing traps? Isn't Yahoo bring boldly advertised and bragged as a way of living?

Seems men are only angry when they are the ones at the receiving end of what they do.

Decryptor:
This life is totally unfair.

People will sell what women will buy to lure men sexually without their consent openly and nothing will be done about it but let it be heard that someone is selling something to make a woman love or get sexually attracted to men, they'll term it rape and mug the place!

Can you prove scientifically that it lures men? No. Then tell us how it's rape.

It isn't a date rape drug.

Kobojunkie:
Why do you believe males can only learn from males? That very myopic thinking is part reason why the monkey probably ended up an eejit to begin with.

What happened to you today?

And some troublesome people said he's dead.

TMKsouth:
Sun City in Nigeria.

And some people dispute that BBC report. SMH. Nigerians and lying...

But how did ShopRite and pep manage that? It's surprising.

That's some good strategy. Perhaps the lack of any such thing made those places seem so good.

I wouldn't like to think Nigerians are poor, but the rejoicing at ShopRite... Spar is better.

TMKsouth:
Why did Shoprite leave Nigeria, again

Nigerians actually saw ShopRite as a tourism destination within the country. Funny people.

bodybuilder:
Why do Nigerian guys always think they were rejected 'cause they're broke.
Why do you have this mentality that your brokeness is your only flaw.
Might be another reason. That's girl you think rejected you cause you're might even be dating someone broker than you.
Sometimes you're not as broke as you think, it's just low self-esteem from comparing yourself with others.

It could be your bad looks, social awkwardness, bad hygiene, shyness and many other things.

Some guys underate the power of being good looking sha. So many girls can be gotten by just being tall and handsome, being rich is just a bonus.

Because it's easier to point fingers at females and abuse them as the source of their life problems and lack of money than actually working on their massive flaws.

Most of them are undesirable due to their belief that they are indispensable, that females ought to be desperate for them, that they are the prize, bad and oppressive characters, poor hygiene, failure at genuity, masochism, misogyny, huge ego and other things that strongly repel females. You can't hide these things.

Way too many of them believe that money will buy them women. It can't, not even in a brothel.

bepositive11:
That's not healthy. That's codependency. True, we need support from friends and family but if being alone would drive a person to do what he did, I think it goes beyond just needing a friend. I think someone like that would need a psychiatrist

How is it codependency to have someone looking out for you and you doing the same for someone else?

Most depressed/suicidal people need someone who will come and talk to them anyway, listen to them and show care for them. Even psychiatrists know that and do that. What is unhealthy about that?

What they need is someone who cares about them and truly cares enough to help them. Everyone needs someone at some point in their life: if not before, then later.

It isn't loneliness alone that causes it, but loneliness is a contributor to depression/suicide.

mfm04622:
When did 6 am become odd hours?

When they began killing and robbing people at that time.

Buckeyemedia1:
What business does any Nigerian so called Bishop have been amongst the richest clergy men in the world, isn’t Nigeria deemed amongst the Centre of world poverty?

They write books and have merchandise that has nothing to do with their churches. People like Oyakhilome are best selling authors internationally.

They have other merchandise and they get promotions from things like "travel to the holy Land" with me. Have you seen their YouTube pages with 1bn views etc?

Not to mention some members just like giving them money and expensive gifts. The average Nigerian wants to curry favor from their pastor. I'm waiting for the day when I'll buy my pastor a private jet and sit at the front row.

Of course you will argue that for all the donations their churches receive, where is the actual thing they did?

Buckeyemedia1:
So they won’t have to pay 10% tithes to JAH, & 39% tax to Government.

Lol.

They can't be running from paying tithes that alone form a significant part of the budget, can they?

The funny thing is that they are entitled to tenth of all their church income and should be paying a tenth of that, too. Maybe there's an old testament clause they can rely on like the tax havens.

Let us trust they are doing the right thing.

nniero11:
WHEN THE MEMBERS ARE VERY POOR?

YOU ARE SAVING UP WEALTH IN A COUNTRY WHEN ALMOST EVERY ONE IS POOR. I NO LONGER GO TO CHURCH. CHRISTIANITY IS A WAY OF LIFE. NIGERIAN PASTORS ARE EVIL

Members aren't very poor. Who said church members are very poor? Do all the deckings and people at the front rows of churches all over the world indicate poverty?

It's getting clear that whatever pastors decide to do with tithes and donations is between them and their god. It's just their manner of going about it that creates suspicion.

You're complaining about the Nigerian pastors. Probably because they are braggarts. Wait until you see the wealth of their mentors of the prosperity gospel in America. What will you do if those ones are exposed?

Charmingrascal:
"Seek Christ first and every other thing (Money, properties) will be added onto it"


Many of these Pastors started humbly from nothing, they were preaching the gospel of Christ when there was no monetary gain, after winning souls for Christ, God is adding other things which he promised to add and this is why their blessings keep on increasing and their coast is being enlarged.


So whoever is reading this "Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need" Matthew 6:33


I am not even a born again and in most cases I will be the one to criticize Pastor but I now know better

If their intentions are clear and they are so blessed, why are they setting up companies in a way that is known to be the refuge of money launderers and criminals? What is their reason for trying to hide vast wealth? Shouldn't they be proud of it?

Man's worship of money.

oriakuna:
Don’t just bother , when mine was stolen I tracked it to a point it was somewhere in palmgrove because my find my iPhone was on , Till I could no longer because they wiped the phone, police say make I bring 45k make dem help me I just had to let it go

When they sell the phone, they won't use the proceeds for more than buying weed and hard drinks and prostitutes. It won't even last them 3 days and they will be out to rob the next person. And the next.

femi4:
You don't really know Lagos. As early as 5am, everything is bustling

If everywhere is bustling, why is their such a high rate of crime at that time? That crime happens at that time shows that everyone isn't out then. It's odd hours.

femi4:
6am isn't odd hour

People in Sambisa, Kabul and Lagos beg to differ based on their experiences at that time.

In Light of the Truth, one of the best books to read. I never got the read the 3rd volume.

What I don't understand is certain perspectives on humanity.

sonofElElyon:
So we shouldn't go to work at 6am when work starts for some people as early as 7am ?

People ought to be more security conscious yes.. but moving around at 6am isn't "odd hours".. that's morning.

If they are robbing and killing people more frequently at that time, what will you call that time?

airsaylongcome:
How do you avoid moving at suspicious places? People have been robbed in traffic in daylight on their way home from work. Traffic! With loads of people around o! Is that "suspicious" place? And would moving at rush hour be a wrong time to move?

Let's focus on the insecurity and not "odd hours". In Lagos you see police at various points of the 3rd mainland bridge during the morning rush hour. I'm talking 7am to 9am. You know why? Because people get robbed on that bridge. Is that too suspicious location at "odd" hours?

Yes.

DeHorus:
The Police will do nothing, bro.

But what else can OP do? At least it will make them sit up and be aware that such is happening under their watch.

Kajaard:
My dear some people don't have a choice. You see over 60% of people that work on the Island live on the mainland and need to leave their homes as early as 5.30am in some places so they get to their offices on the Island before 8am. All fingers are not equal.

At the bold faced, I suspected you will take offence . Happy Sunday

There is a choice. A 5 minute delay makes a difference.

You just want to talk.

sonofElElyon:
6am in the morning on one's way to work is moving "at odd hours"

If they are robbing and killing people more frequently at that time, what will you call that time?

airsaylongcome:
Loads of people have been robbed at 6pm with enough daylight and other people watching while they are being robbed and doing nothing. So 6pm too should classified as odd hours

If that is the case people should avoid moving at suspicious places at that time. They are odd hours for that reason.

I'm not saying people shouldn't move, but there are times these evil people are on the move too.

beautyhd:
Do you know people need to be on the road early to make it on time to work.

Traffic issues and the urge to beat traffic in lagos has exposed many to danger and increased robbers on the road cos its the best time to rob hustlers and get away with it.

Cursed set of people.

I live on the mainland and work at lekki, i leave home sometimes 5am and I'll be the only one walking to where i could get a bike to the bus stop. Every day of my life I'm always thankful and grateful to God for his protection.

I understand that people need to move early, but that is the same time these people use to strike. It is good to adjust some things and avoid certain outcomes.

It's unsafe for you to be out at that time and it is unfair for employers to give early working hours. Why can't they begin work later in the morning, say 9, knowing the high risk involved in causing movement at 5am?

There are too many wicked people who don't even need provocation to strike. May God keep us all safe from them.

Kajaard:
6am is ODD HOURS in Lagos? Or you just feel like talking

It is odd hours considering how many people have been robbed and killed at that time. Is there clear sunlight to see the next person at that time? No.

You just feel like talking. Once there is any form of darkness these criminals strike. It is only a person who doesn't care for their safety that will move at such times in such a place.

NPTJ:
This is not about seperation sir/ma

My mother never treated her parents nor siblings like that, same with my dad

The man was almost 50 when they met, while she was just 23 or something

I don't think igbo culture is like that

With those ages the man is closer to 60 now? What was wrong with your sister that at her young age she was roped in by a man on the run from the law abroad? What about his family over there? The age gap can give rise do control issues, but they both claim to be in love.

Your sister is old enough to know what she wants. Maybe she loves him. But one can't explain the phone calls that can only take place in his presence, unless he is controlling her? Or they agreed that she must never pick your calls ever.

Best believe they both don't want to contact you. If she's tired she knows the way back home. He isn't holding her hostage, is he? She sounds normal on the phone, doesn't she?