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Romance › Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by BRATISLAVA: 3:17pm On Oct 15, 2021
Smartb0y:
you sure!??
Are you?
Romance › Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by BRATISLAVA: 2:53pm On Oct 15, 2021
embarassed

You make it so easy to feel flattered.
I've been enjoying your posts, too. Very nice!
Hyerin:
Excellent post as always! Spot on too, I love reading your write-ups grin You're so smart.
Romance › Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by BRATISLAVA: 2:52pm On Oct 15, 2021
[quote author=Smartb0y post=106760569][/quote]Thank you for repeating what I said. It's good to know that you agree.

Now, be gone.

No time for you.
Romance › Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by BRATISLAVA: 2:46pm On Oct 15, 2021
sanpipita:
They say all that because that's only way they can assure themselves they are superior to women, these ones will degrade their mothers and sisters just for an ego boost
But what is the point of superiority, rather than just living?

TRP is low self esteem in steroids. It seems its chief aim is to make women feel as demoralized, worthless and hated as they themselves feel. It's a poor method of revenge, because they will end up lonely or in pointless relationships while they feel they are having revenge or in control.
Romance › Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by BRATISLAVA: 2:43pm On Oct 15, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Fear/anxiety of any kind as far as engaging and communicating with another is low self-esteem or confidence related. It does not matter what tag you give that fear or anxiety. undecided

What you instead ought to work on is building up your confidence level, not hedging yourself into a situation that will ultimately result in more mental damage than actually resolve the original issue. undecided
That was brutal. Brutally hilarious.
Romance › Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by BRATISLAVA: 2:42pm On Oct 15, 2021
Smartb0y:
blah blah blah .
go sit down somewhere secondary people
From that picture, you are the secondary person here, not me.

That picture represents the red pill now. Go and take a seat on the forest floor.
Romance › Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by BRATISLAVA:
ProphetJeroboam:
I knew something like this will come up when I wrote this.
You people don't know what you want

Is your only aim for getting into relationships with women to make them thirsty for you and reject their attention so that you can feel good about yourself for once in your life? Isn't that the manipulation and control you put yourselves in a fight against women for with the red pill? That means you are taught to become what you hate in the red pill.

Too many of you are bitter, jilted, narcissistic, have low self esteem and are obviously looking to gain advantage in relationships and hurt females for your pleasure/sense of self. No normal female has time for your manipulative control games, which are easy to spot and a huge turn off. It's why red pillers are after virgins who are most likely 16 year old prey, so that they can mould them to be feed for their egos. No other female would tolerate it. Afterwards they lie that older women have lost value; but the truth is that they see through the nonsense easily.
Romance › Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by BRATISLAVA:
Hintona:
See the picture here cheesy
Is this really the picture of that guy?
Romance › Re: I Think I Took The Redpill Too Far, I Dont Recognise Myself Anymore by BRATISLAVA: 2:27pm On Oct 15, 2021
Hyerin:
You asked for a civil conversation, I gave you just that yet you deleted my post because there's no time for you to scurry for regurgitated talking points in bid to counter my reply.

There's literally no point in making a thread. If you couldn't give proof or nullify my points by specifically responding to me then I doubt a thread will do much justice except for the reason of ulterior motive in that, a horde of redpillers come to your aid so you can feel right by the majority agreeing.
Goodness! You know them very well. They have a collective IQ represented by that of the least intelligent member in their sheep colony of jilted, bitter XYs. They can only thrive with their herd comments and regurgitate the same drivel their masters taught them. Seen one, seen them all.

For boys who claim to be logical, they've been brainwashed to see themselves as victims of female "manipulation" and "control". There's no RP sermon that doesn't have those two words. And there's no follower of TRP who isn't jilted and looking for revenge on females. Hence words like, bitchhh, sluttt, whorrreee, and hypergamy grin. They are quite pained and demented.

How they got to believe one man's opinion, and have decided to change their brains to think like the jilted man is amazing.

Feminists don't have indoctrination camps where they need support, but strangely the self-acclaimed logical gender need to be taught what to think and feel about women. Shows that TRP is a false movement. The funnier followers of the male cult believe it is out to "smash feminism". Most men who murder women belong to their narcissist cult.
Romance › Re: Ladies, What Are The Qualities You Want A Man To Have Before Dating Him? by BRATISLAVA: 9:52pm On Oct 14, 2021
BigJoe19:
You are so funny, I feel sorry for you. You got a troubled mind, do well to stop having sleepless nights cause of Redpillers. You bring redpill to the discussion even though it has nothing to do with it. You will be fine, if you see the psychiatrist three or four times, I know you can be helped.
You're still making pitiful noise.

It's you that is in need of repeated psychiatric visits so that you can be helped, not me. Stop trying to project your reality on me. Get back to guzzling your pills.
Crime › Re: South African Mother Of 3 Accuses 2 Nigerians Of Raping Her In Cape Town by BRATISLAVA: 2:36pm On Oct 14, 2021
lomprico:
Lies!

A Nigerian man can get as many SA ladies as he wants legitly
Then why are they using the same format of the akwaibom serial killer, Mr Uduak, in putting out a fake job interview to lure in female applicants?

Call a spade a spade.
Crime › Re: South African Mother Of 3 Accuses 2 Nigerians Of Raping Her In Cape Town by BRATISLAVA: 2:27pm On Oct 14, 2021
Unsurprising with the way they strongly defend public masturbation, rape, stealthing, pedophilia and inappropriate relationships. Then they deny consent as if it's depriving them of their lifeblood.

Been saying it for a long time, that that is why they end up in jail abroad. Nigerian men are their own enemies because they never treat females as humans, rather as sex dolls and maids.

The woman should pursue the case and nail the rapists behind her ordeal. Right now seems the xenophobia victim card is in use rather than logic. But if they tell them they're marginalizing women...

They're abroad perfecting the crime they used to end a young lady.
Family › Re: Marginalisation: Women Playing The Victim Cards by BRATISLAVA: 8:29am On Oct 14, 2021
cococandy:
Nothing to add.

I’ve stopped replying them
Done, too.

One can't expect them to accept the truth. That would mean having to share privileges with females and accord them respect as humans. And that would be unacceptable to them. It would mean making Nigeria like the West that they love to hate.
Family › Re: Marginalisation: Women Playing The Victim Cards by BRATISLAVA:
CHoccolaTE:
I really admire the strength you and cococandy have to answer these woman haters and confused women that go along with the crap they write.

I wish you guys more strength to continue.
Lol, I'm not continuing. The thread is now theirs.

We usually get these triggered retaliatory/trivializing threads once there's Mother's Day, International Women's Day and No Bra day. Even Mother's Day of all days, the day of their saintly mothers!

Most males can't stand women as fellow humans.

Everyday they say there's no marginalization, yet go ahead to perpetrate some. There can't be marginalization because their mom has a job, or maybe their sister is a hospital unit head. Or maybe because Beyonce earns more than they do. And the women talking, some will never reach their peak due to marginalization yet they are content.

It's like people saying, "I'm not racist because I know some black people".
Family › Re: Marginalisation: Women Playing The Victim Cards by BRATISLAVA:
Once males have to face the reality about female lives, their myopic reflex thought without even listening or thinking about it is always that women must be pulling out victim cards to "control" them.

The same males who want the same rights as white men to vote, work where they please, eat and drive wherever they wish to, and get married without inhibitions. They suddenly want their black lives to matter, with their victim cards. Why should white people care, when you claim to be marginalized and they have institutionalized freedoms so it doesn't concern them because blacks must obviously be card carrying members of the black victim club?

The same people who complain and lament, and try to change their IP addresses et al, when employers reject them in freelancing because they are Nigerian. They've forgotten that they have the same opportunity to achieve things then and stop looking for sympathy.

But just mention females, and it means they are asking for too much and faking marginalization.

Misogyny is truly a brand of hypocritic senselessness.
Family › Re: Marginalisation: Women Playing The Victim Cards by BRATISLAVA: 12:19am On Oct 14, 2021
cococandy:
Ask anyone reading this thread to question themselves what they would think if a woman rose up today to run for president.

Would they think “oh here’s a human being running for office. Let me see if they are qualified and I’ll vote or not vote”.

Or will they think “a woman is running for office. Women are emotional, illogical, irrational bla bla bla, so I’ll be voting for the man”
Thereby excluding a whole group of people based on social conditioning. But they’ll tell you because there’s no specific law that powers their actions, then those women are facing no barriers.

This shouldn’t even be a conversation.
Especially not in our dear Nigeria.
Places that rank higher on gender equality still recognize they have issues with inequality much less our country.
You've said it all.

All this anger and denial because of International Women's Day.

The person who created this thread needs to conduct an in depth interview of women and not work with their assumptions.

@your first paragraph, there was actually such a thread and an overwhelming majority of male posters were against women climbing the ladder, yet in the same breath claiming that females were pretending to be victimized. I can't go back for that link, but in that thread one can see that men deeply hate women doing anything that challenges their position. They claim women cannot hold power and that they would never vote a woman even if she's competent, yet they are here paying lip service.

The usual gaslighting. In real life they think women are too dumb, beneath and unsuitable to achieve anything, then claim the women in their circles are doing so much. These people are just running after their tails in denial. They go to university with females and yet still feel females don't deserve the opportunities that they do, and should work hard to prove themselves (as usual), because women are emotional and can't handle pressure and are better designed for house wifery, etc etc. Under this thread they have ignored that part and are hard at trivializing women issues by claiming they don't exist.

There is a glass ceiling for women, there are just things that men will never have to go through. And to say that because women are achieving things means that there's no such thing is just the usual twisting and turning of males who want to hold on to their misogynist, segregationist ways.

It is only in Nigeria that men will claim what is and isn't for women. As you say, there is gender inequality worldwide, but it is in the deeply patriarchal Nigerian society that Nigerians claim it doesn't exist. Lol. These people and imposter syndrome.

It's like they are pretending that with all their patriarchal ways they've been transported to the West and suddenly regard human rights.

This thread is the usual mansplaining.
Family › Re: Marginalisation: Women Playing The Victim Cards by BRATISLAVA: 10:15pm On Oct 13, 2021
angelfallz:
There is no need going back and forth with you. I gave you a list names you claimed they're the exceptions. Now you want more names?
Guy go and Google it.
The fact is nothing is stopping any hard-working woman from achieving her dreams and goals in Nigeria, the same applies to a man.
Stop carry victim hood mentality. It would not take you anywhere.
Conduct an interview and stop making assumptions. Even the way most of you comment here, looking down on opinions of women is a sure sign that you don't want women to speak or be heard or seen. You would prefer yourselves instead.

Anyway, do the interview on hardworking women who achieve their dreams and goals. Ask them how they got there, if there was any marginalization, etc.
Family › Re: Marginalisation: Women Playing The Victim Cards by BRATISLAVA: 10:06pm On Oct 13, 2021
cococandy:
Do you believe you have more personal responsibility for your own life than Ini Edo (for example).

What I see some ladies do on here when it comes this topic is due to limited understanding of the scope of this discussion.

“Oh there’s so called marginalization but how was I able to get educated and get a great job and support myself?” Nobody stopped me. So it must mean that those women who speak about this issue are lazy and irresponsible for their own lives. They want things handed to them but I’m different because I’m responsible for my own life.”

That’s how it comes across.
Hun you do not have better initiative or more personal accountability than the outspoken women who chose to talk about the issue. Some of them have achievements that we all know of at national and international levels. So at the very least, we know they are not lazy and waiting for someone to hand them things. Case in point chimamanda for example.

So who exactly is it that’s passionate about this topic that you would consider lazy and irresponsible for their own lives?

In fact I’m presenting this question to ladies who consider others as having victim mentality or as being whiners when this topic comes up.
Which popular feminist do you consider yourself more hardworking than?

It’s giving joining the men in their age old tactic of trying to use shaming to shut down discussions.
You would think only men are Keen on trivializing women matters. This is like some women trivializing labor pains, because they never went through it. Just as all men would claim it is women playing victim.
It doesn't invalidate the experiences of those who are also mother's but went through it. It doesn't mean they are lazy or incapable of childbirth, too.

Some women forget that it is men who created those experiences for other women, and that they have never come across it doesn't mean it doesn't exist. This is like saying fgm is untrue and victim playing.

Working with men sometimes means you don't get real opportunities even when you're clearly fit and more intelligent than they are. That certain women don't experience that is fine, but to say those who have met it a lot are not in control of their lives is pushing it far. Sometimes it's only if your parents can give you that post that you will have it, otherwise men out there wouldn't let it happen for sentimental gender reasons.
Family › Re: Marginalisation: Women Playing The Victim Cards by BRATISLAVA: 10:01pm On Oct 13, 2021
Magnoliaa:
Pure wonderment, mah sistur. grin grin grin

Feminists; be giving alfas headache since 19-ojukokoro.
Nowadays you need to be male to know everything about females. Seems the person who created the thread was touched by women's day, something that shouldn't exist by his standards. Oh, and those women with the words on their bodies. Perhaps even the no bra day thing.

If males don't trivialize women, and aggrandize themselves instead, who will?
Family › Re: Marginalisation: Women Playing The Victim Cards by BRATISLAVA:
A thread for men, by men of women.

Wonderment.

How it reached FP with barely any comment has laid bare the agenda behind whoever pushed it.
Family › Re: Next Of Kin Issues: A stranger Has Taken Over His Dad's properties Please Advise by BRATISLAVA: 4:05pm On Oct 13, 2021
Favfables:
In the absence of a will, the next inline to inherit a deadman properties is his next of kin...

And sometimes people use different names as next of kin for different stuff, for instance, when opening a bank account, I can use you as next of kin and then not use you as next or kin when I get a land(or make a business transaction)...

Their best bet is to know who the next of kin is in the individual property of the man...
This is the most misleading post on this thread. And it is the first one. If they listen to you, they are going to be worse than sheep in a storm.

What do you know about inheritance laws in Nigeria? How did you come up with your post?

This is how people come for advice and are told misleading things by inexperienced people, and they go home and practice them on their wives, children and parents.
Romance › Re: Ladies, What Are The Qualities You Want A Man To Have Before Dating Him? by BRATISLAVA: 10:12pm On Oct 12, 2021
BigJoe19:
Take care, little one. Red pill? Lol
You don't like my posts because they are bitter truths and what else can red pill males do except bickering?

Run along.
Romance › Re: Ladies, What Are The Qualities You Want A Man To Have Before Dating Him? by BRATISLAVA: 10:07pm On Oct 12, 2021
BigJoe19:
Lol where is the misogyny? In your little mind you know all they say here is the truth, all in my head is lovers and females? grin grin Funny you. You are too low to have any impact in my life. Enjoy your time of relevance.
Clearly my post got to you.

More of your boring red pill ramblings. Small-minded noise.

What made you think you have any impact in my life by screenshotting my posts and pasting them? You're too low. You don't like my posts because they are bitter truths and what else can red pill males do except bickering?
Health › Re: My COVID-19 Vaccine Experience by BRATISLAVA: 9:34pm On Oct 12, 2021
rottennaija:
So I took the second dose of the moderna vaccine. I took it on saturday 9th october, 2020. Today Tuesday is the 4th day and in reality, I expected worse side effect after the second dose but it turns out not to be the case. I have not taken even paracetamol since that day. I had some sore arm which did not get as bad as the first dose and I am feeling fine. I still continue to supplement with Vit C1000, Zinc 50mg and Vit D3 (some days). Generally, I am fine.

The fever I complained of had since subsided. Life is generally normal though I feel short of breath when I climb stairs or exert myself vigorously. I am thinking of trying Vit B1 to see how it might affect my shortness of breath after physical exertion but I do not have the money for now and those people refuse to retail it. I am also better able to control my anxieties compared to last year when I did not know what to do or what I was dealing with.

Generally, I feel better by the day, more than 90% improvement from this date last year.
It appears your cure is in the vaccine. Can't wait for the day there's a proper vaccine for this. Do you feel the supplements make a difference? Especially the zinc. Will you continue taking them indefinitely? I don't know why zinc is one of the management medicines, it's like it has unpleasant effects. Scaled back to vitamin C only.

Will you be taking the jabs more frequently if they become standard like the flu ones? Any improvement on the clotting symptoms? Can you now do slightly more strenuous exercise?

Keep us updated, please. If you can scale this after a year, there's hope for other long haulers.
Culture › Re: Kayanmata: What I Observed At Abuja International Tradefair by BRATISLAVA: 9:04pm On Oct 12, 2021
Decryptor:
Continue supporting evil till strange women uses kàyamata on your husband and sons in future.
You're being sentimental. You know the answers to the questions.
Celebrities › Re: Female Celebrities Join Simi's #NobodyLikeWoman Challenge (Photos) by BRATISLAVA: 8:59pm On Oct 12, 2021
Silentgroper:
What truth? .. D truth here is, u have been yearning for males attention on here bcuz u're really lacking some in real life. It's no surprise u hang at d religion section lately nd have been reading d bible so fervently. I bet u cant wait 4 dz shiloi to come so u can go on ur knees nd beg God to provide u a man, an alpha male to be precise so he would notice u for few sec.
You again? Are you the alpha whose attention it got?
Romance › Re: Ladies, What Are The Qualities You Want A Man To Have Before Dating Him? by BRATISLAVA: 8:48pm On Oct 12, 2021
BigJoe19:
The guys on this thread are here catching cruise, but you are here pained, talking about males every time, you are a female but didn't respond to the thread topic. All in your head is males. You go just kill yourself with thinking soon, your last lover did a good one on you.
If misogyny is "catching cruise", why are you so pained and copying my posts? All in your head is lovers and females.

It seems you're the one who will just kill yourself with thinking very soon. Seems I've done a good one on you.
Programming › Re: This Is What A Recruiter Told Me About Software Developers From Nigeria by BRATISLAVA: 8:21pm On Oct 11, 2021
islamics:
There is a slack community opened by qtguru though it has not really been active. Why not make leverage/build it up from there. Some peeps here are part of the slack. He opened it with this same goal of remote stuff but Oga don busy now dey juggle two job. grin
Such a community exists? This has to be one of the best threads in a while.
Romance › Re: Ladies, What Are The Qualities You Want A Man To Have Before Dating Him? by BRATISLAVA: 8:14pm On Oct 11, 2021
Another thread for males to pour into. Anything to do with females always brings the worst of them out.
Celebrities › Re: Female Celebrities Join Simi's #NobodyLikeWoman Challenge (Photos) by BRATISLAVA: 8:12pm On Oct 11, 2021
Glycolite:
What negativity are they talking about ?
These gender are always playing the victim cards.
If there is any gender that's most abused,underated and undervalued , it's male.
You're not recognise as a human being ,if as a male you're not providing .
You're deem useless,if as a man, you're not living up to the societal standard of a responsible man.
A woman is not judge on such.
You're all appreciated and loved for just existing ,but you still claim victims.
You all wanted feminism, feminism you got,you still play the victim card.
This is so unreasonable.
You all claiming victims and magnalize by the men and society should be a man for a week,and have a taste of how really tough life is for an average man out there.
You will all want to remain female!
You all are bunch of spoilt brats !
According to you, it's only money that men are judged for. Oh, and being responsible, something men don't like, apparently.

Did you actually read what they posted on their bodies or is this the usual trivialization work of the male gender?
Celebrities › Re: Female Celebrities Join Simi's #NobodyLikeWoman Challenge (Photos) by BRATISLAVA: 8:06pm On Oct 11, 2021
This is an interesting challenge. Seems the usual angry red pill boys are out to trivialize and deny truths once again.

Imagine a men's challenge with all of them going: you don't have money, I can't date you

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