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musicwriter:
This's a whitewash!. The man is a British sponsored mouth piece to control what Africans should think. Is he drunk?.

How on earth will smart students create more problem for a teacher?.

If anything, a class full of smart kids would make teaching easier for teachers as they'll have less to explain, since they don't have to spend much time dealing with everybody's ignorance.

boxypane:
Hi NL's, I need sound and matured advice on this situation.
I am from Edo state(Auchi) and my Fiance hails from Delta State(Urhobo). We've been dating for over 2 years now, then just sometimes ago, I decided to take her home to see my parents.
They asked about her background and I told them everything, only to meet the stiff reasons of 'don't bring her home' because;
1. Our stars does not align
2. Coz she's Urhobo
3.That is not my wife.
Most of my achievements for the past 2 years has been based on the support we have for each other, she means so much joy and gladness to my heart.
What should I do? Coz I have confronted my parents several times but they refuse to see her. What should I do PLSSS!!!!

forexbinary:
Religion can be a very big challenge when not properly understood. Which GOD does the Church of Christ worship and which GOD does Winners Chapel pray to?

I think it is high time we stepped out of the boundaries of our religions and step into the reality of the existence of GOD. Some people are for Apollos, others for Peter and some for Paul, is Christ divided?

I am a catholic to the core, but I have books and tapes from Oyedepo, Benson Idahosa, Johnson Suleiman, Fr. Mbaka etc. And each day I grow in grace and anointing.

So what am I saying, you guys need to understand that GOD is the same, working through different men of GOD according to their gifts and ministries. Agree on the church both of you will be attending, whether Winners of Church of Christ.

If you cannot agree on a simple thing matter as this, then perhaps you are not meant for each other. I will not advise you to attend separate churches, because a family that prays together lives together.

#Peace...

In other news, if not for the poster above me, I would have been FTC . Others are buying gifts for their loved ones on this boxing day, he is buying space on NL .

#somepeoplesef

elantraceey:
Nice one and very true but how many knows him and is close to him , hears his voice and is led by him? No matter how eager the holy spirit is to reveal something, he can't reveal it to a blind eye.

YourMain:
Some things really are. For example what if she/he was something she/he wasn't really proud of in the past. And he/she had completely changed their ways. Obviously if you didn't really love him/her you'd hear this and run. You'd let a good girl/guy go because you'd judge them on who they were in the past not who they are now.

Yeah I understand but somethings are so big you'd really have to love them to be okay with it

Truckpusher:
The truth is if someone is into you , your past wouldn't really matter as long as one's past isn't affecting the present negatively.
Girls and lies be like Siamese twins.

Toks2008:
Have you always wondered why some people are quick to say "i don't want to talk about it" whenever a new person in their life asks why they broke up with an ex?

I guess most times people who are quick to waive the discussion might just have something sensitive they do not want to share because in many instances we tend to allow the feeling of initial gragra cloud our sense of reasoning and just fall in love with someone who was really a nightmare to his or her ex(es) no wonder why many companies ask for letter of reference from your past employer or someone that can really vouch for you.

My advice to ladies or guys who seem to lose their sense of reasoning due to "desperation to get married" is to calm down and do serious research on whoever they want to settle with.I believe if we all imbibe the culture of insisting that we speak one on one with an ex of our potential new partner or dig into their past,we will save ourselves unpleasant surprises and avoidable heart aches.

This is not just about believing whatever he or she tells you due to the decietful nature of people but its about making a thorough due diligence by speaking to a friend,neighbor,sibling,co-worker or even the ex of that person just to have a good picture of who you are about to commit yourself to.

I know this sounds funny but i believe its reasonable and this is the secret of long lasting marriages of our parents because in those days,they don't joke with due diligence up to the generations of the great grand parents of the potential spouse..lol!.

Many men have lost their lives indulging with married ladies who lied to them that they are single as well as many men losing all they ever worked for to a dangerous gold digger as well as evil ladies and many ladies have ended up getting deeply involved with a married man or even a notorious guy without having a clue.

No matter how seemingly innocent and responsible that guy or lady may look outwardly,trust me on this,it is always better to scrutinize the past of any new person we want to start a real affair with because when it comes to character, more often than not, humans are like leopards who never change their spots


Hope this makes sense.

Dahkogrin007:
And datz aw Arsenal made me waste my hard earned data to watch dem beaten to stupor.... Is it tym to call LVG to tak Wenger wit him wen he get sacked tomao mrnin (the players betrayed Wenger too tho)

cold:
Once a lady has lost her libido that's it. It's gone for good. You're chasing a lost cause. Try other alternatives or suffer in silence

Chidoks:
No matter how much you love animals,an animal is an animal, less than a foetus,less than a human.an animal will always be an animal,nothing more!

Eddygourdo:
My strong and unwavering belief that babes ain't loyal and never will be has always fueled my cheating ways, but today I realised I love my bae above all else and should start considering a change of lifestyle.
I remember giving this tall, pretty bootilicious babe a lift many months ago as I approached lagos from Benin - ore axis. The mere fact she told me she was a bini babe scared me a bit but I ignored my reservations and we had a little fling here and there.
I noticed she was too serious about me though, always calling, always professing love and all that nonsense, I really hated it cos I have always told myself my infidelity is strictly on a sexual basis never emotional, i love bae and my heart is emotionally taken, and to be truthful I refused to stop meeting up this lady cos she is receptive to the weirdest things in bed (fisting, backdoor , etc) but after this morning I realised that all the sex in the world can never replace the one you truly love and care about.

After we met up, and got down to our usual evil, she threw that useless female blackmail shot "do you really love me or you just using me" as stupid as I was I proceeded to give her a long sermon on how we just friends with benefits, how I love my gf, blah blah blah, she listened attentively while smiling sheepishly. Next thing this lady asked me to close my eyes if I at least care for her, i initially refused once she refused to explain her reason, but since i must finish this business to watch Louis van gaal disgrace my team by 1pm I had to agree, I closed my eyes thinking a kiss was coming, when u didn't feel a presence, I gently opened one eye and to my greatest shock, lol and behold this lady with with a weird feathery object in her hands and a palm frod between her lips, I jumped up in fright, she said I should cool down, that she would only touch my forehead with it and it would hurt only but a little and she would kiss the place for the pain to stop, I went hysterical, I wanted to kill her till I realised my name is on the hotel register, I was mad, I wanted to beat her up, she kept saying she loves me and if only I can allow her I will realise I love her too, I dressed up as fast as I could amidst her tears from fear I was going to physically attack her, I ran out of the room, while I sat in the car port, I realised had I not opened my eyes, maybe I would have been love struck to a stranger and lost my bae for ever, I realised I don't care about the sex or my need to reassure my manhood by sleeping with strangers, for the first time in my life I felt bad for my infidelity, I am at home now with the light in my life, and I realise what I almost lost to the craziness of a bini girl, guess I need a strong new year's resolution, terrible boxing day morning.

waley007:
I have been dating my girlfriend for 2 years now and we both loved each other so much,we were best of friends and we both enjoyed each others company. But lately for about 6months now we have been having issues.
She has a females close friend who is now like "d director of her life" .
She has always been a decent,what baffles me now is that she won't even let me know her phone password,if I ask her she will say she needs privacy.we fight alot on dis and she's always busy on WhatsApp and bbm one way or d other.infact she now has alot of male friends and we never I ask her she tells me they are just her friends.
She now nags at every little issue dat she gets me so annoyed everytim..last week she was still with my family when she came visiting and her family likes me too,yet she claims she loves me but she has totally changed..she doesn't even respect me again and when we talk about the male friends she claims shes having,she said I can't stop her from having them,and this is because her females friends have them too.
Right now am so confused about her and she doesn't even make me trust her again.I love her and I don't want to loose her but she's driving me really crazy.
What do you guys think I should do..mature advice please,how do I change her back and how do I handle her situation.am tired of everyday quarrel

Phero:
There is this gal I saw at a club then I collected her number and followed her up den I asked her out on a date and she says she wanna take her sister along.I don vex so I called my guy because they are planning to maga me so my guy would follow me and we will make dem order plenty things then leave.I want to teach her not to be covetous.Buh my guys are saying am being wicked dat I should cancel d date instead.

Eddyitaly77:
Good day NL....

a week ago I met this beautiful and charming babe she has everything that a man look for, so I gist her and she accepted, everything was going smoothly... We fixed a date and she decided to come to my place, she came yesterday as we planned it..she cooked and we ate together, drank together... I make her feel comfortable play with her, cracked jokes, I did all the things a man should do to make a woman happy and she were comfortable with me she play with me too, kissd me, hold me ...b[b]ut I didn't make any attempt to have sex with her because I want to build a good relationship with her[/b], I don't want to rush things.. Evening came and she decided to leave then I gave her money for her transport to my greatest surprise she refused to collect the money she said she have transport money that I shouldn't bother myself,I said ok and take her to the bus stop and she left ,.( For my mind, see correct babe).....but now I don't understand what's going on I have been calling her since yesterday, messaging her, WhatsApping her, Facebooking her,yet no reply and no return of call as I am writing this now I still called her and she busy my call... Am so confused I don't know what I did wrong...seriously this girl proved that am ok for her, she really likes me I felt it... But now am thinking it's because of I didn't sex her.....

Please whats your opinion?

magabounce:
D last chic dia!!!! Dafaq is dat!!!!!

FisifunKododada:
Rita needs a good kondo spanking - she ALWAYS looks dissatisfied because her boyfriends are not up to the job. Jim Iyke was supposed to take care of that and he could do nothing - just talk talk full in mouth. If I handle Rita her body go mellow die. Rita come aboard with me the one and only Capt. Fisifun(Nigerian Navy).

ahnie:
Yes father of my LIFE. who Who am i I not to obey your command?

ahnie:
Ogq were you there?the best thing z,lets hear both sides of the story.if truly the wife did this.....she'z somtin xxxx

RedCard1:
I seriously want to know cos I can't find anyone preparing yam, plaintain, beans or anything that isn't rice for the family....I mean it's been this way for ages. Why do we always go for rice?

I want to know

ahnie:
I have learnt not to jump tu hasty conclusions on nairaland,and tu be one sided....oga no offence,we need tu hear your wife's own side of this unside down marriage.

so is not that am afraid of her am only respecting the marriage institution

anangboy:
Happy holidays brother. I see your concise imprints everywhere bruh. Let me welcome you to the world of the sound bite and thought-free fact where it just got easier for assorted mental defectives to regurgitate simple bullet points to support their idiocies.

Thanks to social media, the darwinism theory has been defeated.

Tolexander:
It is not OK insulting another person's baby person.

olempe:
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