₦airaland Forum

timota:
O didnot say the girl was drugged, but was asking was she drugged, which is still a possibility

And the person who drugged the girl didn't drug the boys?

baralatie:
If a 10 year girl was engaged in sexually act
Does she have a say?
Any sexual act against a 10 year is molestation
Wether she walked into a room naked or she was begging
If any body touches her body
It is called molestation

You get sense so?

She doesn't have a say yen yen yen...

Do you realize that the other participant was 13?

Or if you believe the later version, she is 13 while the boy was 11.

In your bid to paint the girl as a victim, it doesn't occur to you that the boys also need help?

Or is boys having sex at 13 or 11 NORMAL to you?

Abeg!

baralatie:
You are happy to share the sex molestation video of a 10 year old girl and you are happy

Who molested who?

GloriousGbola:
The parents of the boys had the emotional intelligence and common sense to know this is a scandal best managed discreetly.

Their sons were expelled. They took their L. It is the mother of the girl who is living in denial and refusing to face reality. It is far easier to accept that your 10 year old child was gang raped than to accept that she is enthusiastically outdoing piper perri and riding like a seasoned pawn star.

It is the greatest person indictment a parent can face.
Mother is in the first stage of grief

Denial.

It doesn't help that we are in Nigeria, a hypocritical, and misogynistic society. Of course everyone will blame the mother for starters.

@Bold:

On point.

It tells me the kind of parents the boys had.

And I am sure they would get back on track faster.

Mindlog:
Their full identity will emerge very soon.

I hope it doesn't.

If something shameful involved five people and only one person was shameless enough to wash their dirty linen outside, let the foolish person bear the brunt.

Let's leave the young boys alone so that their parents can re-train and get them therapy.

The girl & her family that wants SM attention can milk it for all it's worth.

LadyRosa:
Na true o.Some women no sabi keep secret.

But the mother is also a woman?

LadyRosa:
Your wife has more rights,which means to a degree your mother's input will be needed sometimes.Again,as a man you don't share all your secrets with your wife,there are some that requires ONLY your mother's discretion.
Some MIL can be troublesome no doubts and husbands need to draw the lines in other to maintain sanity in the home.
But there a ways one can try deal with such women,again some mother In laws can be die hard Antagonists.

My grandma is one of such
But my mom at a point decided to fight back,by coming really close to her even when she doesn't approve.After a point she loosened up,as I speak she is now retired in my parents house as she prefers staying with my mom that the home of other in laws.

@bold:

Na wa.

Acidosis:
Man! Give this man a doctorate degree already.

As in!

The OP is so on point! Dropping nuggets everywhere!



Just change 'His house' to their 'matrimonial/marital home'

The husband & wife form the home.

Wahala wa!

Take my card buy the bag you want....

Very unromantic.

Happy birthday Simi.

We4all:
There is something I know that I’m not; a hypocrite. I searched for that video out of curiosity and concern and I don’t regret it cos I also needed to analyze the situation. Even the parents of the kids watched it.

And from what another boy in the video said, one of the actors is 13 while the other is 11. Some people are insinuating that the girl should be the 13 year old because of her physical maturity and experience.

That being said, that video ain’t no child pornography cos no one was coerced and no adult was present. Without the video, everyone would have believed the rape story.

For that reason, I have no regrets watching it. You should be more concerned about the actors than the viewers and stop acting like you’re the Pope’s first cousin.

@bold:

You captured my thoughts beautifully.

I have not watched the video however, if nobody did, we would have cried blue murder that an innocent girl was raped at Dubai.

Those who started the rape story should have thought about the consequences of starting a false story.

Ybaby:
Kids need thier parents.

Thier Dad to provide, lead, discipline and give courage

Thier Mum to nuture and everything else

We need laws that force men to share their wealth with the mothers of their kids so the moms can nurture their kids not KPI at work.

[b]Women are extremely talented at spotting patterns and this gift to be able to spot any changes in their kids however (that is why a man cannot cheat his woman will catch him) the only glitch is that she needs to have available time to do this effectively- she cannot do this while chasing KPI at work seriously.

If a woman feels she will be left with nothing if the man chooses a younger model then she will put her job and business above all else, this is why our laws must insist the father of her kids provide for his kids so she can atleast (fi eyin ti to awon omo eh) use backrest to raise her kids properly.

We can outsource cleaning, cooking but raising kids and fccuking our man can not be outsourced and we need provider men for this to happen.

Now women!!

if you have a provider man and you choose to put anything e.g work, church, mosque ahead of raising your child just know you have failed no matter how rich you are ..no matter how impactful you are in other things.....those human lives are the ones God put in your care directly and you will account for them directly. You are also playing with your saved pension.[/b]

My heart goes out to these kids and they are much more of them in schools nationwide.... the schools are rotten but it is not the teachers fault at all... you cannot pay someone 100k and expect them to parent 20 kids... it is a formula that will fail and has failed. Teachers can teach arimethic but parents teach morals, manners and it is every moment and every day so very hands on job.

I blame Chrisland for hiding it and not looking after the kids properly in a country away but I blame the parents especially the mothers for not raising thier kids properly and it is not cane that raises a child it is words, stories taking advantage of teachable moments and all this needs time investment.

Lets retrace our steps and becos if women donot raise well baked humans then what sort of society are we going to have.

Before you reply nonsense to me pls know I am not on the internet to fight with faceless people but to share my valid thoughts.

@bold:

You want to drag us back 200 years abi?

God really help us to get our priorities right .

chatinent:
Ghen ghen! The indomie generation are coming with the spag!

They'll be the originals.

akeem0706514:
I remember some years ago a 14 years old girl and a 15 years old boy decided to leave their parents house just to rent one room so that they can live together ( I don't know how they managed to rent the room).
The parents of the boy said they have talk and talk to their son they are tired of talking he owns his life that wen time comes he will face the repercussions....I so much like the action of the parents of the young girl....they called both of them, talked to them like an adults, after four hours marathon discussed the mom asked the boy do you still want to continue the relationship at this age, the boy with boldness said yes! She turned to the girl, and said you nko? Na so small girl self say yes o..she want to continue..next thing na policemen I see from no where o..na so they bundle the girl and the boy go police station o..after marathon flogging..... when you hear better flogging na the girl first shout mummy I promise I no go continue with the relationship...na so they ask the boy...hid response was " I will face my book" na so the mama of the girl shouted nobody ask you to face your book o...you go continue with the relationship? the boy said he promised he will not...today as I'm talking to you the girl is doing well....
See enh... Not every students deserve flogging, some just need to see cane and they will do the right thing while some needs just the words of mouth alone and they will be fine

Funny story

This was when sense was still common to salvage a rotten situation.

Acidosis:
The consequence of this trend will be irreversible. Some guys will begin to keep records now and even video evidence to prove their innocence. We have a long way to go!

A poster once said he records every sexual interaction with women because he was set up once.

While the recording is distasteful, criminal (I think, because it is without their consent) and cheapens the whole affair, I do not blame him much.

Once bitten, twice shy.

Jennyclay:
Nigeria Elite schools are just loosing value every single day.

~No good morals
~Lack of discipline
~Bunch of lazy teachers waiting for month end to receive their peanut.
~No code of conduct

I feel Elite schools are just for mere business ground. They are just ripping parents off their hard earned money. I can't be paying over 400k in a term and you can't instill good morals on my kids.

Now, I think parents should consider registering their children in government schools.

It is not an elite school thingy

The students are just more stupid to put their stuff online.

I went to secondary school in the late 90s/ early 2000s and I had mates get pregnant, have multiple sex partners, pregnate girls, take drugs, seriously bully students etc etc etc

These things are not as strange as we want to paint them.

Efewestern:
His father doesn't own a pin. This is an ancestral property and quite different from properties acquired during the course of their marriage. Also, it will be near impossible to trade off such properties because they are generally managed and looked upon by the Ekru (Family) of which OP is a part of. Family properties are not your typical 100*100 piece of land.

The OP's father is no even regarded as a member of that family, how then does he have access to such property?

@bold:

Interesting.

Is this your cultural practice or obtainable for all ancestral land?

subsidywise18:
Of course not.

Honestly, some of you people quoting me, you guys cannot see something wrong with minors having sex?

We see something terribly and sadly wrong that minors of 10 and 13 are having sex, recording it, publishing it online, their guardians were not aware/on ground etc.

However, we will not stand for sensationalism:

The moment you introduce rape into the equation, it becomes an emotionally charged conversation which would never address the foundation of the issue wrong here.

Calling it rape makes the girl a victim and the boys the perpetrator which would be false.

It would make the boys, their parents and the school carry more blame/guilt than they should while giving the girls and her parents a free pass.

nazablossom:
Na only me never sew that style. Nigerians abuse things a lot

You sure?

Sign of the times

subsidywise18:
A boy who is underage cannot legally give consent too.

Maybe you should get your senator to pass what is called a 'Romeo plus juliet law'

Which begs the question again:

If you are going about calling rape in this case, who raped who?

The girl cannot legally give consent;
The boy cannot legally give consent.

Who raped who?

subsidywise18:
I don't know the law here, and as I put it up earlier on this thread, in some jurisdictions, there are specific laws that protect minors from being prosecuted if two of them have sex willingly and are under the age of consent. (that applies to the US, and in some states, not all).

At the end of the day, however, I'm going to err on the side of caution (and yes, I mean err)..and assume that a ten year old cannot give consent, even if her partner is also ten. Lawyers in the house should be able to give a better view.

But the main koko here is the fact that the school failed in its duty of in loco parentis big time.

Oh, you are viewing consent from only the girl's angle?

A boy doesn't need to give consent?

subsidywise18:
I think it was rape. Even with the 'they were all minors' schtick.

At the end of the day, I'm not going to make comments that would give pedos an excuse. There is a cold reason why we got age of consent rules.

So who raped who?

Who is the pedo in this case?

@Topic:

We know.

descarado:
Instead of them to try and do damage control, she is pouring patrol on naked flame.

Both are kids.
Why send children to dubai for heaven's sake.
These are just kids! No chaperone.

They will grow to travel round the world.

And that Franklin I'm sure won't expose his own kid this way.
Mumu mother

The rate of foolishness these days is outstanding.

ChoCho54:
Youminam?

Yes na.

GloriousGbola:
They did not advise the family well. And ubi Franklin has made it worse

From all accounts the video is out there in the open and the girl is an enthusiastic participant.

Now they have made noise, and everyone is in the mud. Now everyone will know the name of the 10 year old pawnstar. Now the school will expel her and no private school will take her.

Mummy and Daddy's problems are just beginning

As in, very very stupid parents.

A case that all parties should have taken their learnings and scrub off the internet (if possible) and move on.

ChoCho54:
Pedo? They are all underaged.

You don't know that a 13 year old boy is a pedophile if he 'sleeps' with a 10 year old girl.

@OP: Absolute shame on the mother.

Interesting