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tunapawizzy:
I like the statement released by the elder brother. It has every element in it ....Says he and the entire family are not in support of it, Says Yul is an adult that can live his life and people should mind their business, Consoles the first wife, TAKES A BIG DIG AT THE SECOND WIFE, Takes a slight dig at Yul, points out that religious rules are just rules based on ideas of men

Lovely speech.

It is obvious a lot of posters did not read the OP.

@OP: Acting is a high risk profession. Their spouses get mind.

Their women are not any better.

Unfortunately, nothing.

The Christland's case is still fresh.

No consequence whatsoever for the girl's mother who wrongly accused the boy for raping her daughter.

qtguru:
I don't see what Yul saw in the lady over his wife, the wife looks way more beautiful. Unless he's a chubby chaser

If he is a chubby chaser, he should have fed her fat

qtguru:
Ha not me o, anti-drama, I like to sleep peacefully.

Same here.

qtguru:
celebrities are now hailing him for being honest, when he never told his wife.

No serious minded person takes them seriously.

You can count on both fingers those who are not sleeping with married men/women, are gay/lesbian/animals, swapping husbands/wives etc.

So what do you expect them to say?

descarado:
Family members are denying him already.
Lady came with package too.
I wish him whatever he wish himself

He is the one who knows what he is looking for.

qtguru:
You don't even know the context for my statement , you NL people love drama

I do.

Drama sadly is the spice of life

qtguru:
Eya and the wife is a beautiful woman.

Would an ugly wife have deserved May's fate?

WoundedLamb:
They're just trying to appease her after turning her life upside down in the blink of an eye. Conscience is a strong thing.

Which yeye conscience can the idiots claim?

You cheat on your wife, have a child and marry your married side chic and still claim she's number one.

You sleep with a married man yet claim she is a queen.

Now this is the kind of nonsense that is most painful.

Crazy lots.

Wait, NBS is in another relationship?

Maybe the guy is just a bed mate.

No source.

pocohantas:
That is a small something compared to the encomium he showers on her daily o. As at lst two weeks, they gave us “God when” moments. I am sure the wife never knew until recently.

Your brother has done another one.

Office buzz made me check his page:

He has uploaded his wife as 'My number one' with thousands of peeps chanting yes!

He has also uploaded himself as 'a man who takes responsibility unlike small boys'.

He is having serious fun.

Who knew he was this crazy?

Pakute:
You're overreaching. Look well, that's Edochie's family.

I asked a simple question, I did not react.

And his wife is not a part of his family?

descarado:
Seriously

My sister.

Dude obviously hustled backwards.

Mariangeles:
Hehehehehehehehehe

They want to practice religion of convenience.

That is the word: marriage of convenience.

faithfull18:
Lol, do what works for you as long as God is pleased. This is to the women.

@bold:
This is the end of the matter.

Chiquitq:
I don't blame Yul at all. I blame the hypocrites in our society. The so called second wife was having an affair with a married man and she has friends and relatives that were comfortable with it. I am sure there were women present when the bride price was paid. There would be friends who would continue to be her friends. None of the women in the above categories want such for themselves or their daughters. Even the thief called Mercy Aigbe made a pose that she would shoot whoever came for her husband.
It is this society that trivialises such vices. In the olden days, polygamy might have thrived but in modern society, it is betrayal and only condoned by shallow people.
[b]The nature of man is so selfish. Even Yul would not allow his daughter to be a second wife if he had a daughter.[b] He and Mercy Aigbe should be so cancelled, they would not come out of it.

@bold: Gold.

He would not sit still if his daughter's husband married another wife either.

His actions are not new maybe that's why I am not having an 'epiphany' on how to deal with 'Nigerian' men/husbands.

I will always believe in giving your best and playing your part.

I have also read stories how Yul was 'forced' to marry her:
If he did not like her enough, he should have stood his ground or put in his best if he couldn't resist.

On the other hand, if the woman/girl knew she wasn't liked enough, she should have moved on (not easy, but better than living a life where you try to please a man who doesn't love/want you. At the end, your best will never be enough and he will move on to a woman doing way less than you have done).

Nobi Yul leave cha Cha wife he probably disflowered to another man's wife with two kids?

MadamVanessa:



YUL informed his wife about his decision to take another wife, the wife is just a jealous person that doesn't want to share his man with any woman. For the fact that Yul wife commented on the post " God will judge you people" doesn't mean that the husband didn't informed her of his intention to take another wife, maybe she didn't agree, and majority of women wouldn't have subscribed to it.

@bold:

You are catching cruise right?

LadyTara:
With the way he was praising his wife who would have thought he will circle back and hurt her like this. Humans sha. Smh.


Well nothing new under the sun, some women don't mind staying in a polygamous marriage, while others can't,it's a matter of choice. If she can't stay, let her leave.

He made his choice, it's time for her to make hers.To stay with a co- wife or not to stay. The choice is hers to make.

@bold:

True.

descarado:
Sighs.
You can never understand them.

Just look at a promising young lady settling for baby mama.

And I saw some idiots defending him up there.

Is it poverty mentality or what.

And tomorrow he will beg the first wife, she will take him in again. If you ask her, she will say she did it for the kids.

Our ladies need re-orientation.

Promising young lady bawo?

They said she divorced her hubby + two kids to be his side chic.

lexy20I4:
When I say the Bible support misogyny people say I am crazy.
The Bible support polygamy but does not support polyandry?
Imagine say na woman been do wetin yul do I swear we for no hear word for social Media again but guess what everyone feel we men are Superior and that anything we do is always right and cannot be objected.
Very bad.

@bold:

Have you read the Bible & understood it for yourself?

JovialJune:
She actually left her husband and kids to be Yul's bedmate, before pikin enter the equation, and fools here were commending Yul for getting a fresh meat, eye go clear very soon, e no dey tey.

Hol up!

Yul's new wife was his married side chic?

Orpe7:
Yet he impregnated her 4 times

He could have had sex with her four times

Just saying.

Foodqueen:
The useless baby mama put him up to this.

She started playing all those u don't love your son enough card.

You are ashame of showing me to the world. I will take your son away and u will never get to see him again bla, bla ....

May, should relax, time will tell.

The baby mama also made Yul start an affair with her?

Which yeye May relax, time will tell? Yul don give May grand slam mbok.

Yul 1000, May 0.

Let her pick up the pieces and start again (with/without him).

NOETHNICITY:
My dad got a second wife when I was young and my mum was very upset. She expected us kids to be upset as well. But the woman my dad married was super nice us, plus she gave my father 2 sons who happen to be very great guys today. We kids love ourselves till date without any discrimination. Also, the woman my dad married is a Christian widow who was suffering the condemnation by the christian faith to a life of permanent lonesomeness.

@bold:

No serious Christian woman would be a 2nd wife to a Muslim man

Two: Christianity encourages remarriage of widows as the marriage vows is 'till death do them part'.

Infact, the Church is advised not to add widows to the 'list of widows' till 60.

Anybody can marry anyone; don't twist the Bible to achieve that.

After all, Yul a professing Christian has married two wives with his full chest and Christian name.

Collinsaik:
instead of the first wife to be tanking god for expanding the family, she is there vexing?

as far as she retains her position and respect in the family as first wife, i dont see any reason why she shouldnt be rejoicing.

And your signature says God is the greatest

Which God?

The Nigerian one?

knowyaself2:
Can a man marry two wives? yes.
Did he promise his first wife she would be the only wife in his life? we don't know.
Is he happy with his decision? Most likely.
So, why are we hard on him? When has it become a crime to seek happiness?

Congratulations Yul! Don't mind those speaking scandal against you, my brother.

@bold:

You forgot an equally important question:

Is his wife (first) happy with his decision?

8stargeneral:
lesson learnt never force marriage on someone to avoid stories that touche.

Hmmmmm

Good lesson there.

Although he had the responsibility to resist the marriage with all his might and if he couldn't, seat his ass in it and make it work.

Mariangeles:
New testament Christianity? Now, that's a new one!

I was amazed myself.

I am sure the OT Christians would not embrace the stoning part sha.

Or they should tell us if they kill rams for sacrifice.

Yeye dey smell.

TOPCRUISE:
Blah, blah,blah. Didn't you marry him for better for worse.

For better for worse is not about the husband's bad behavior.

It is about storms of life such as illness, childlessness, joblessness etc etc.

pocohantas:
Men are cockroaches

He actually said the below?

Well, he is his father's son.

I thought it was a joke or skit.

Reminds me of a colleague whose father was struggling with his wife and as soon as 'God did it's, he celebrated with marrying a new wife (colleague's mother).

They are Muslims however when he told the story, he instinctively knew that there was something 'wrong' with his father's actions.