₦airaland Forum

Angelfrost:
I blame Southerners and their selfish politics for this!

If we were really United in the South, these fools would have been put where they belong.

@bold:

If only!

Amotolongbo:
And you got to know the bolded part by what?

You people will just sit in Africa and come online to be shouting “Oyinbo do this, oyinbo did that” based on hearsay or one, two, three movies or tales you saw/read.

I did think these “oyinbo” people are saint when I was at home until I started living among them.
“Eranko” is plenty among them. Their media is just showing us their good sides and concealing the bad sides.

@bold:



No English word to qualify the way you feel

Let me help you complete it: Eranko lasan lasan.

On another note,

What is the aim of women who lie about their virginity status to men they will sleep with?

For strange reasons, I love the name Amarachi.

Interesting, all the ladies I know bearing that name are very very beautiful.

NOETHNICITY:
Forgive me if this topic is on the wrong section

I will go straight to the point.

It's 3yrs running now and I have never been able to keep tab of any money that gets into my wallet. Even though I sometimes wonder how quickly I exhaust my money, I am never able to track or keep any form of record. It's so bad now to the extent that if 10k last more than 1day without it being exhausted I feel a certain inner joy and satisfaction for being able to manage.
This is notwithstanding the fact that I also regularly make use of POS whenever I buy anything from anywhere POS is available as a means of transaction. Things like fuel and shopping for groceries in big malls like shoprite it's usually most certainly POS I use.

I'm beginning to wonder if it's a curse or some foolish habit that requires redemption or reorientation.

The fearful thing is I don't know whether or not someone pilfers from me as I don't trust anyone aside my kids which are still young. So what I do sometimes (not regularly, only when I remember) whenever I want to go take my bath I make effort to conceal my wallet.

Am I the onlyone who is like this??

Please and please no bashing, only sincere contribution

Track your expenses for three months and you will find out what gulps your money.

Even things like a bottle of coke should be documented.

Oro buruku tonu terin.

Olorun ku suru.

On the side, any studies why we have more men transitioning to women though?

LedRock:
Ordinary portable dey collect 50million endorsement, agbaya for industry dey collect just 12m. Naija actors need to step up.

Learn contentment!

Additional N12m is not small money anywhere!

jaytii:
Madness!!

How will any sane person justify why an NGO signed an ambassador for 12m.

Organizations that have made donations or released grants to them should ask for a refund ASAP.

I agree with you.

How can a non-profit organization 'sign' paid ambassadors?

placeofallure:
Really it is abominable.

Cousin brother sounds like you intended to say "my cousin's brother" who technically is still your cousin, you then arrive again to where you took off from.

Hahahahahaha!

Sit tight for 'my sister's sister's, 'my mother's son', 'my child's brother'.

meobizy:
I have a cousin brother, cousin sister, cousin man, cousin woman, cousin uncle and cousin aunt. I live in a cousin city within a cousin country which is ruled by a cousin government.

OP, if you no know, na you sabi.

Hahahahahaha!

Blunttruth:
There's no need sef, once they start using pronouns we will know the sex.

I did not see this before my post.

My female cousin's female sister

thorpido:
I won't lie,I have been irritated whenever I see the cousin brother or cousin sister.
Simply say my male cousin or female cousin.

You don't even need female or male qualifiers.

If you communicate clearly, we would decipher the sex.

Maybe the anchor cousin is their favorite one.

If the man messed up publicly and has apologized publicly (if from genuine repentance), it shows he has 'aronujinle' and decided to right his wrong.

It is left for Nkechi to accept his apology (different from taking him back) or not.

QuinModah:
Husband booked Uber to take his wife to the church. She was actually dressed for church.

The journey should be about 20 minutes.

About 10 minutes into the journey, the Uber driver saw that the woman had changed her clothes in the car .

The woman then told the driver to change destination and proceed to a certain hotel, which the driver complied with.

The Uber driver now has guilty conscience and was thinking of calling the husband in order to report his wife to him.

Do you think this is the right thing to do?

The story has k-leg.

Doesn't e-hailing apps tell the booker the exact point the ride stopped?

Or did the woman tell the driver to go offline?

If the drive did not get to the destination he was booked for, the husband would know. If he took the wife to another destination, the husband would also know.

I think the driver's concern should be exonerating himself if anything happened to the wife outside the contracted route.

If the husband wants to know his wife's whereabouts or why the route changed, he should ask his wife.

Real life Miracle in Cell 7.

God bless her and her mom.

Congratulations to the dad for holding out.

Your wife went through the procedure of egg retrieval to buy a phone?

You also did not notice all through the process?

Eyin married and living single geng.

Ogbeni, sha prepare your shoulders to carry your cross.

The Lord is your strength.

Abetterperson:

You need to heal from your childhood trauma before you can decide if you want marriage or not.

From your write-up, I can deduce that you are not anti- marriage; you are anti all the nonsense you think is peculiar in Nigerian marriage. This is why you are searching for everything a marriage offers (kids, companionship, love etc) without the marriage itself.

frozen70:
All the above reasons you gave are exactly what makes up a Nigeria marriage

You are really scared but for how long will you come out of this thinking

What you need is a man that will give you true love and that may change your perception about marriage

While you wait for such to happen, enjoy yourself and go into a relationship

In this Naija, every thing is trial and error

@bold:

Was anyone stopping you from polygamy before?

VictorUSA:
He is a man, you don't judge him.

I do not think it would be healthy to work in an environment where expressing gratitude with stickers costs you an offer.

The employer should have corrected the prospective employer considering that he qualified for the job.

WantsandMore:
You are wise and the bible says wisdom is profitable to direct.

Read the Bible a little further and you will see where you shouldn't do evil at all and whatever a man sows, he will reap.

Won mo enu e nigbati o kere

Awon 'owosiya' geng

virginchaser:
Shebi, Shell or Mobil will lay you off one day and family will be your comforter. Also, your palee (dad) will also kick bucket and go too. We men can be somehow atimes but it takes good women to mend fences. The issue ought not be an outside decision nor discussion. Be as it may, forgive and forget.

If i am your husband i would not bother myself over such. I will keep my pride.

Since you men can be somehow, the fictional OP has decided to be somehow also.

Nobody has the monopoly of madness so when you are tempted to be 'somehow' remember that the recipient of your actions also has the capacity to be 'somehow'.

What's with the recent 'what is/are the benefits of a husband in a marriage'?

No father, elder brother, uncle, godfather, colleagues, religious leader/book etc. to ask from?

Congratulations to the couple.

We4all:
Wawu! Marriage that won’t last. She will marry him and still shag her side hot dude.

Did someone hack your account?

Abuja Stadium Mgt should consult the Akwa Stadium Mgt Team and learn from them.

Measrrtr:
Ok

Is this not identity theft and fraudulent?

Fraudsters now advertise their services openly?

These Twitter stories:

Man & woman get comma

@woman: her family should transport themselves to the wedding. If the husband to be offers, they should graciously accept what he offers and augment to their desired means of transportation. Insisting he does flight is foolishness. Shows an ungrateful, entitled, wasteful woman.

@man: saying you don't have that type of money to waste speaks volumes on the value you place on your in-laws. Shows a man who doesn't respect his in-laws, can't negotiate and jaam talks when angry.

@in-laws: if they are aware; look for money to transport yourselves biko. If you can't afford flight, graciously accept the bus offered. It is called gratefulness and contentment.

If the source is your wife's shop, then you guys should work towards the following:
1. Relocating her shop to a more child friendly place;

2. Get a minder/relative that would stay in the child so she doesn't play with other kids (since she is not willing to stop her kid from mixing with other kids);

3. Get a minder/relative that would stay with the girl at home.

oluwaseyi0:
Very risky, those broke men won't mind using the girls to change status

Broke men are the most desperate

I'll advise girls go for mid-class guys

Not too rich not too broke and most importantly have a variable work he's doing

@bold:



Wahala wa