LadyTara: It's scary , thought I was the only one having phobia for dating .
A guy killed his girlfriend of two years for ritual,so it's not even a thing of how the long you have known the person or how wealthy they are. It's not even about you being greedy as lady, anyone can fall prey to these monster who can be lurking in the shadows waiting to strike.
It's just scary outside for single ladies.
Pele
The fear is everywhere and in everything.
I went to the saloon last week to beat my face for a party and I was wondering if a dog lover has been there.
Just take a breather, guard your heart, look extremely well & pray.
Anonymoususher: The rise of social media and our entertainment industry fueled these killings.
We already know that the country has failed us for not engaging our youths with something meaningful to do and that gave room for a lot of evils.
You see the lyrics in most of the songs released these days, they encourage these ritual killings.
Imagine a song by VIP "if your boyfriend no dey do you well, away! "
Imagine " Bye bye to yeye boyfriend, and in the video you see the girl cruising in exotic cars after dumping the so called boyfriend "
The same Zlatan sang " Las Las school na scam "
HDT came and sang " oya credit me, I wan do big boy I wan do dorime credit me"
Another one came "Ahhh finesse if I broke na my business... "
Then another "suffer e no dey finish, make you try dey enjoy... "
These songs encourage one thing? And that's desperation.
Then hypemen joined the trend with "You no get money, u dey talk love, who u wan impress"
Another came with "I love you no dey pay bills oo, I like you no dey pay bills ooo"
The trend is endless and youths jump into them, borrowing motivation to live the life these so called celebrities preach in their songs.
Then you come to social media, you see the likes of Cubana, E-money abusing the naira notes anyhow in a show of affluence, you see them allowing a scammer like hushpuppi and Ponle oppressing people and building cult like fellowships. You see people jumping up and down into different trends on social media, people living fake life pose by celebrities just to keep up.
When there is joblessness, these things will thrive. Only an idle man or woman live to impress, anybody that is conversant with all social media trends and just jump at it, watch that person, he or she is one step away from getting used or using someone because they must surely live to impress.
Our censor boards need to sit up and take a very hard stance to cleanse our entertainment industry & SM to curb this madness.
Acidosis: The man did not think it was a wise thing to buy his wife a car. He probably learned from his father who also failed to buy his wife a car.
The desire of most male children to buy cars, houses, etc. for their mothers is a result of their father's failures. By trying to take the role of your father in your mother's life, you're also ruining your own life because when your kids grow up, they'll do the exact thing you did for your mother.
100%
If your father took good care of your mother and showered her with correct love, she won't have your time when you get married.
Persephone1: In as much as your post seems right, the bolded is erroneous. Being married does not necessarily mean cutting off friends.There will certainly be a change in time spent with friends but not total cut off. That's barbaric! She's married not serving terms in kirikiri prison, right?
Cutting off friends does not connote respect, That's a sign of social imbalance.
Solacemk: Yeah she do. I caught her several times making calls in the middle of the night before we were Married, she always says she's sorry she won't do it again. But why won't i worry? Thank you
If you caught her several times doing same thing pre-marriage, why are you complaining now?
Confront her, she would apologize like she always does and you move on like you always do.
BadNews: A Port Harcourt based woman, Efe Okoto Oruambo, has cried out for help after she was allegedly assaulted by her husband, Reports.
She Shared Photos of her back showing what looked like teeth bite marks, on a Christian marriage/relationship Facebook group on Friday May 6, alleging that her husband has been physically and emotionally abusing her.
VEHINTOLAR: America can't afford to tow any ungodly path,it will spell doom for her ! It is a God's own country and that's sacrosanct ! Abortion is ungodly;it is a sin before God unless it is carried out on health ground. God,save your nations and people from evil men and antichrists !
So I have a problem here. I’m 26. I had a child with a man, we are yet to get married because he had some issues with documentations, we live in the US. We have a son together and we are living in the same house.I’m Yoruba he is from delta.
I’m a very reserved introvert naturally but unfortunately my personality is becoming a problem. My son is 2 almost 3 and I’m being blamed for his developmental delays. He claims I’m the reason my son is the way he is, because I don’t take him out and socialise and it’s affecting my son. Granted I could try harder but to be totally blamed is unfair. I believe his dad can help me in that aspect and step in. Im a good mother, and a good housekeeper and I still try my best to work. This man makes it a point to abuse my personality, he says I act weird around his family and friends and that I’m an emotional liability onto his life. He has let it be known that he is waiting for the right time to leave me. Sometimes I give him the benefit of the doubt… maybe he says this when he is angry but I don’t trust this man because he has a very shady character. To the public he is a born again Christian saved man, behind closed doors he is something else. This man is not perfect, I am managing a lot of his flaws. He drinks and smokes and other things, when I met him I thought I could change him, a mistake I made. Maybe he thought he could change my reserved nature too.
I’m just in a state of confusion about the next step to take because I feel used. I feel stuck. I feel depressed. I feel like I have no hope where do I go from here.
If all you said is true, what is making you still hold on to this 'dead end relationship?'
angelfallz: The fact that she does not want to associate with him because her father is around is grounds for ending the relationship, especially if that relationship was getting serious.
This is a joke right?
How many people 'boldly' introduced their men to their parents especially fathers before they are at proposal/sure to marry stage?
Going through his other posts on this thread, he doesn't sound like someone ready for a serious, mature relationship.
deltateam: First of all this thread is meant to table things as they are. It's not meant to appeal to everyone but merely to say the truth of the situation concerning marriage age.
This write-up is inspired by Yul Edochie vs Judy Austin and Ned Nwoko vs Regina Daniels.
The truth of the matter is that girls have a marriage age whereby if they miss to get married, it reduces their chances: 18 - 30 years. Any girl gets multiple suitors between the ages of 20 - 27 but because of the attention, they feel time is in their hands, they suddenly come to their senses by 32 - 45 when suitors have disappeared. You see them in night vigils, different online forums searching for husband. Some just like Judy will capture any man even if he's married with pregnancy as a result of desperation.
Women are greater in population than men.
Let me put it clearer. A lady is like a ware in the market, buyers price her. Remember that wares depreciate with time. A woman doesn't marry a man, a man marries a woman.
Men on the other hand can marry at any age as long as there's money.
Finally the reason for this write-up is to open the eyes of women to make hay while the sun shines. Happy Sunday.
KiNg0G: no man she just sat there, but she disrespected my friends and most especially I for making us look like mumu who just came to chop. the celebrant don't even know us
Her mistake was not rapping up a male cousin to act like your friends.
Talk to older men, they have probably been in such fixes while much younger in the dating scene.
My girlfriend invited me to her cousins birthday party that held yesterday, at first I didn't really want to go but she kept on insisting few days ago.. when she noticed I might not come, she went ahead to invite a buddie of mine who we do things together 24/7 so that guy had to press me on yesterday afternoon.
We were three who went, getting there it was filled up with lots of guys and girls... since we were invitees from her, we just sat down observing the crowd untill a girl came to bring us drinks filled our table With meat sauce..but where my girl now? she's no where to be found.. untill I saw her from afar sitting with her cousins and some other people. I wanted to go meet her, instead I called her on the phone to look at my direction where I was, she said she knew, oya come say hi.. she was reluctant to stand up to come meet me.
We ate and drank then stood up 30mins later and left the party ground, according to my guys, they said she might have some other guys in the crowd that's bankrolling her, hence the ignoring....but why did she still insist I come?
I know how the dating scene is today but y'all (male & female) should try to analyze situations outside he/she is cheating.
If it is her cousin's birthday then it is not far fetched that her uncle/aunt invited his/her brother (who is her father).
If her father is at the party and she is not old/independent enough to have a boyfriend (according to her parents) or they expect husband straight, she would leave you hanging there.
I do not believe that she would expect her other boyfriends/sugar daddies and go the length she did to make you come.
More likely that she wanted to show you off to her cousins and unfortunately, her father showed up.
Also, why would she need a man/men to bankroll her cousin's birthday
How sure are you that she wasn't the one directing all the goodies to your table at the back end?
Instead of you to discuss your grievances with her, you have blocked her and perhaps the relationship cools off and you both move on to the next.
Jahlivesforever: You don't criticize what you don't understand. In the holy Mass which is the same sacrifice that Jesus offered on the Calvary, we ask God to please forgive our dead brother and Grant him heaven.
God cannot refuse the prayer of the church. That's is why Catholic faithful that they said mass for at death WILL NEVER EVER GO TO HELL.
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It is appointed for man for die once, after that is judgement.
Even if all the religious leaders gather to pray for a dead man, the prayer is ineffectual.
Once someone is dead, that is the end of a chance to repent.
Znation: Good morning and happy new month nairalanders.
I will not be calling the name of any church, but why do some churches takes the deads to the church and pray for their sins to be forgiven before they are laid to rest?
Note, that most of this person are kept long in murtuary for months, and some even last up to years in the murtuary. But when it is time for their burial, they are first taken to the church for prayers. This prayer is mostly centered on asking God to forgive their sins and accep their souls into his kingdom (heaven).
My questions;
* Is taken dead bodies to the church good in the sight of God?
* Is the fate of the dead decided immidiately after death, or after they are burried?
* Can our sin be forgiven after death?
@OP: just a ritual to create an order of service/event.
Realists: There is Beauty in polygamous marriage, those against it, are victims of broken homes, which happens to any marriage irrespective of been monogamy or polygamy.
You know this did not make sense abi?
Only people from broken homes are against polygamy?
In the US where they should know this is sexual harassment.
Anyways, if you have studied both genders (male & female) well enough, you will know that they would display certain stupid actions irrespective of the rants online.
So when the rants come, either laugh or tackle them to expose the flaw in their logic.
Folarin Falana, the famous Nigerian rapper, popularly known as ‘Falz’, has revealed that he has never said “I love you” to any girl in his life before.
The Bop Daddy crooner revealed this in an interview with media personality, Taymesan, where he talked about his love life.
A clip of the interview shared by Taymesan on Friday showed Falz stating that he has not been romantically involved with any woman.
“I’ve never been in love. I’ve never said to a woman, in a romantical way, that, ‘I’m in love with you’. I’ve never,” he said.
Reality3080: u are d idiot here,u can correct him without insulting him if u feels he's wrong n besides that is his own personal opinion which he's entitled to.
The dumb u don't understand that anybody is entitled to live their life anyway they like once it doesn't hurt anyone.
How does yul marrying another wife affect u idiot?
@bold:
Take your own advise and 'correct' her without insults.
Family › Re: How Can One Find Genuine Spouse In This Era Of Ritual Killings, Organs Harvest? by bukatyne(f): 9:47am On May 07, 2022
