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deesnipes:
Recently heard this; distinction and success. Just because the man has a local nursery schoolso he decided to name his sons that. People call d mum ' mummy distin'

CzarChris:
I honestly tought it was just me that noticed this new phenomena of names, I've seen a man that named his kids, wealth, prosperity, harvest and plentious. Just hoping the wife doesn't bring another to the world cos i can't imagine wat else he will name the kid.
As for me nothing beats a good igbo name like:
Odumegwu
Agumba
Mbadiwe
Mbakwe
Olaedo
Ezemba
Ojiugoeze
Chimamanda
Yeah, that's exactly what am going to call my kids when they start coming.

omenziate:
Have a friend who bears Panadol as his name,tot it was a joke till I saw one of his notes. Panadol sometin. Another is Enchantment , I was like, does dis dude really know wat "enchantment" means.? He still dey bounce dey hail errbody wey greet am.

Ishilove:
The outlined reasons will not allow lubrication, which in turn will make sex painful or just plain boring.

Ishilove:
That's one of the explanations. Another is she has a very low libido. Yet another is she is circumcised.

Andrew13:
Both naija boys and girls are the same
No one better.

Zzor:
I will comment when I have found a man lol.Nice thread

solite3:
Deborah was never a pastor leading a church.
There is no single female pastor in the bible leading a church no not one, not even Jesus appointed a female Apostle, some think Jesus was just following a norm but that is not true Jesus was very bold and clearly denounce things that was not in line with the will of God.
A woman can be pastor over women to teach them but not over men.

truespeak:
I understand how you feel. I used to be put off too when I lacked understanding until I got to know and understand that God is Good, I call Him Mr Good and He does no evil!

That got me asking Him for understanding of these things. For with understanding came knowledge and with knowledge, I now work in that knowledge and I am happy to report that He is indeed good if only you understand Him and work with Him for your good.

He rewards Good Always and Punishes Evil which He Hates!

solite3:
no man who is a true Christian will defend masturbation, divorce, homosexuality,
transgender and feminism and all manner of antichristian doctrine.
A true Christian does not follow opinions of man, Jesus himself never did.

What we have today is that all manner of fake pastors, prophets and fake Christians has invaded Christiandom but one thing is sure by their fruit they shall be known

Pattypatt:
Can you be realistic, you ex who is your WhatsApp friend sent you hi and you won't reply abi? Common we all know we will reply to know what he has to say, also ex doesn't mean enemy.

yvelchstores:
@bukatyne thank you for the tag. This is such an interesting read.
If scripture is clear on a matter and one chooses to argue against then he or she doesn't know God and is not a follower.

It's a no Brainer, a woman should be under HER man (not under all men, scripture says her man/husband)

Its funny how some sisters in church carry feminism on their head. Why carry on your head the very doctrine that goes against the word of God. Such are foxes in the vine.

The last point is the only one that I don't completely understand. Jesus had male disciples to start the early church but I think there emerged other leaders in the early church who may or may not have held leadership roles who were female. Apostle Paul mentioned some women, tho they were not the preachers but they were helpers in the work. I will leave the last point for God.

LewsTherin:
1. Once I saw the mention all I could say was "Bukatyne has come again"

2. Few things divide opinion the way Christianity and the Bible do.

Also the diverse possible interpretations of the text of the Bible can be as close as a Baptist and a Methodist or as vast as a Pentecostal and a Jehovah's Witness.

3. But I'm a simple man. Love your wife and sacrifice for her as Christ did for His Church. That's good enough for me.

4. It's apparently good enough for my Lady too.

Lazycyndy:
I am quoting it all to show that i strongly don't agree with everything written up there.

Unnerve:
Lol @your disclaimer.

Anticipating the reactions

Lazycyndy:
All these are some of the reasons why I left Christianity, the Bible is just a book written by men and for men in line with a higher power (God) as justification for their misogyny.

Kobojunkie:
Western what? Oh please.... Women as full housewives is a traditional thing for Nigerians. Abeg consult your ancestors for that one.

Gabriel99:
The guy is not understanding at all. And it's a dangerous path when you're dealing with people that lack understanding because not only will they perish but you'll perish also. My counsel: any serious man in a long distance relationship with a lady that is still living with her parents and still expects her to come frequently to visit him is not a serious guy. You're lying to go see him, he'll use it against you tomorrow as a basis for disbelieving you when argument comes. Young lady the foundation is clearly wrong quit the relationship and save yourself. In a relationship always hold strongly your integrity, truth is a must and defend it, don't lie for anything, that's how you gain respect and value even when your supposed partner disagrees with you.

Exodora:
You are a typical examples of my cousin who thinks he can make everything happen not until he got married and then he came back late as usual only to sleep outside .
Me I kuku like this type of woman if only she can resets my cousin's brain is fine with me .

othenok:
You are an intelligent man/woman. A bad man is a bad man, simple! Being a working class mother will not save your marriage, Las Las you will be like most Nigerian wives "suffering and smiling", buying toys for their children to make up for their constant absence.
Being a stay-at-home mum isn't a crime and it's definitely not laziness (that's the part I dislike the most)
Note that I'm a working class mother living in the Mainland and working on the Island.

truthsayer009:
Your view on this is very true, but if you ask me, I would rather prefer my wife to work and bring in money, even though it falls into negative.

It would help her financial reasoning, and sense of responsibility that she has her financial part to play, I believe if she does that job/work long enough it would start falling into positive one day.

It would also give her self worth and a kind of fulfillment. It also helps my mentality as well, because it makes it easy for me to be completely open about my finances to her.

NiCurious:
Indeed, the opposite, as I believe you are suggesting. Proverbs 31. The good wife makes and sells her own products, buys property, gives to the poor. Sounds to me like she is not only very industrious, but makes and spends her own money.

Odunharry:
What do you drink? Need buy you a drink honestly

angelfallz:
May God bless you a million times for that quote. Many women are being deceived that working is a cure for marital problems like domestic abuse, adultery etc.

Nuttella:
A word is enough for the wise, don't say nuttela did not tell you. Just find a job doing, sha be going out everyday, respect go dey, your husband will not talk to you anyhow, do you even know the joy a man feels when his wife contributes in paying the bills? when gas finish, she fill it with her own money, when the man is not financially buoyant, she helps out, it gives respect, but when you are just there, your whole life is at a halt cause you are married, no sense of fulfilment, just a married woman with kids, I dont know about others o but I personally will feel ashamed of myself. Men come on NL complaining about their wives not doing anything, not contributing to the financial affairs of the family.

jornwhite:
i felt your assertions were wrong hence the correction, buh if you know you can justify your point go ahead ... afterall we learn everyday

Nuttella:
I thought it through, your comments on this thread irks me. Find something doing before its too late. My friend's mother spent 15years suffering immediately her husband died, she didnt have any job to fall back to or anything doing, she was just a miserable housewife. It was difficult finding something to do to feed her kids, the economy is hard, if you are a housewife, give yourself brain, or else your husband will keep controlling you and cheat on you cause you deserve it for being lazy.

Acidosis:
Well, I do not believe that taking up a job will solve marital issues that are related to disrespect, insults, and abuse of power.

The kind of men that insult women without a paid job will still insult you if you take up a job that takes all or most of your time.

If he insults you because you're jobless, he would still insult you for sleeping with your boss or spending little time with your kids.

You cannot help a bad man by taking up a job. If a man is bad, then he's bad. This is why I strongly condemn her message.

deliveryboy:
Good thought process.