₦airaland Forum

Chii59:
More like husbands family is putting pressure on her to come back. Where were they when hunger wanted to finish her that she had to depend on her relatives? Selfish man, greedy family.

Swinger60:
Only if I can travel outside the country, I will achieve my nursing desire.

Definitely working towards it dear.

Swinger60:
there are age requirements over here in Nigeria. Unfortunately, I have passed that age

Swinger60:
Go read nursing instead of this social science course you did.

Nuttella:
1. Yeah but they could also trash it out like adults,
2. telling a man to go outside is not really good,
3.they could come to a reasonable conclusion. Its all about understanding.

Nuttella:
Are you sure she loves you? A woman that loves her husband will not even think of letting him go outside.

Spark2:
Good day.
Please, I recently came across this lady who is unofficially divorced and have three kids who are still staying with her.

We met at work and we were subsequently posted for an assignment in the same locality where we have had to share the same hotel room for days.

Though she was on her period, Some chemistry occurred between us and we had sex, it was my very first sex experience.

Barely 24 hours after sex, she started to vomit and since then till now she still vomits often and complains of fatigue body pain and other things.

Do you think she is pregnant for me?

What do I do please?

thorpido:
How will your company book two officials of opposite sex in the same hotel room?

Anyway, she's pregnant for you Don't deny the pregnancy.

Your naivety no be here.

Ningen:
What's there to even deliberate about??

He should send his wife and kids packing and make his ex-girlfriend his new wife. I sincerely believe they are meant to be together. She has learned her lesson and she's a changed woman.

A man that lacks common sense should suffer.

Jaraontop:
It's your choice. You can as well stay tuned and rejoice with those that will have their testimony soon. Life is a matter of choice, nobody dey force you nah.

chukel:
Self centered man. His wife's birthday but his name appeared 8 times in that report.

Vyzz:
Now who is reporting?

Wingarnium:
see I get her point. You've probably not been in that situation that's why. Telling your parents what u actually want to do with your life is not rebellious. But to them they're going to take it as that. I didn't rant here that they don't allow me go to night parties or that they complain if I get home late. It's something a reasonable parent would do. Im not a teenager, some of my mates are married with kids. I have to let them know things have to change because if I continue to dance do their tune, ill be 30 and still be complaining about the same thing. When I mean freedom it's not jumping from men to men, but to be able to make my own decisions at times. I can seek their advice and they can also advice me. Not the authoritarian way. Yunno, don't question me, just obey as I say.

How can you fix a wedding date when you don’t know what to do? Wonderment. Where is it taking place. We go chop rice

jendor123:
Thanks

Sazzy07:
Good Morning nairaland.
I want to sincerely ask all the overly protective parents abeg wetin be una problem. I happen to be around a particular mother hen (Pun intended), whose overly protective nature is becoming too annoying even for me.
The woman in question has two boys (twins) and yet still would not permit them out of the house, and they are over 18. I am not against good parenting, the current generations needs it,but please it becomes a problem where one can do anything at all due to the parent factor.
Now back to the story, the twins are in higher institution already, but believe me the mother vehemently refuses to let them do anything worth while, at the time for their Post Ume Screening, the mother followed the Children to their respective schools, some may agree that the children are new there and other things, but hello they are grown already.
How can they grow sociologically?
How do you expect them to relate with others very well?
This same woman locked the Children overnight at a police station (Life Story), that one of the son went out for days. The guy in particular let's call him (K) was tired of home, since lockdown na indoor things, decided to go out and the mother locked the door, when my guy jakpa commot na there wahala happen, the mother waited for him to come back and gbam he land for police cell, and his twin (E) in the spirit of solidarity land inside cell too.
Another time the mother whipped K, this guy is sporting beards already. I went to the house this money to seek the mother permission to introduce the guy to one job, na wahala for there fah the woman no gree, I kuku carry my wahala commot for there, the thing is overly excessive.
Parents and Guardians here, train your children, give them a chance to be themselves, all the overly zealous and spiritual parents here, that can quote scriptures if a child is found wanting read Ephesians 6:4 and Colossians 3:21.
You are to correct and guide them, do not limit them because of your own thoughts and perception the child has his own life to live.
Before tomorrow comes and out of anger the child decides to cut you off, it becomes a problem for you.
Mynd44, Seun

dulux07:
When cases like this happen, you question your partner's credibility. You start wondering what else the person has been lying about, if he/she can lie about such.
So it's less about the age now.

6Milk:
1. Forget that nonsense jamb you are writing every year and learn a vocation.

2. Have kids early.
3. Ignore people saying you should finish school before thinking of a woman.
4. Getting involved in crime may be your last chance to eat. Regardless, let compassion judge your decisions

Dalby:
Have you seen where a woman will allow you carry the kids

Hahaha, women use kids as leverage in situations like this, when marriage has broken down irretrivably ...

Ayemileto:
If he hadn't abandoned her, she wouldn't have blown

Jaapu:
You be better woman.

robinso01:
When it's ur kinsmen, it's wealth from hardwork, but when it's not ur kinsmen, it's corruption.

Unnerve:
Well, regardless who might be on the side of truth, he shouldn't have discarded the children along with her.

Yea some women can be a lot, and a man may need his space..but the children should have nothing to do with this.

His explanations just seem 'one kind' to me.

Unnerve:
A business is being set up for her, I'm sure of it. Don't know about the trust fund thing though.

WhisperedNoise:
Many, most of the people shouting simp are NOT married.
This I know.

This is a case for the elders.