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BrainResetter:

Nuttella:
And full time being cheated on.

NoToPile:
The way people just lift a line is quite alarming, I just watched the video and that was just a statement that was made.

Other things like humility worshiping the lord not being proud, being an asset to your husband and destiny were mentioned infact they were mentioned in fact they were the main parts of the short video.

Nuttella:
Housewife spotted. Find something doing before its too late, your husband might not be alive forever, God forbid he dies, how will you feed your kids?. Think!

Acidosis:

jornwhite:
In a bid to convince yourself you ended up confused, western learning brought self realization to women.
if we are to deduce from God"s curse to the woman i see no duties beyond what a full housewife does.

iamadonis2:
Nairaland men and boys are hypocrites. All of you castigating the boyfriend, sheybi you didn’t do worse?

All of you telling OP to forget him if he hasn’t proposed yet, sheybi it’s this economy your father built that a young man will go and propose just to quest natural God-given konji?

Y’all are hypocrites

Acidosis:
At 22, listen to whoever will stand by you if, on your way to Lagos or your return trip to Abeokuta, you break your two legs.

Softapplez:
People will Come here and start saying, it is a tale by moonlight story, this people are usually ignorant of the world they live in.

Even lucky Dube said we are living in a crazy world. There are things happening in this world that is beyond science.

Some people have been trying to tell us with their movies and books but as usual we still have not read in between the lines.

Where do you think the knowledge of ghosts movies and books came From?

Do you think they are mere fiction? But what you all do not know is that they were all gotten from real life experiences.

People do not know that we still have vampires even till today.

Are Aliens real? Yes they are real.

A girl In school once told me she is from the Indian Ocean. This is not hearsay.

Nor be everything Dem dey talk Sha.

Our prayer is may we never experienced such things or come across such people and this is why i always tell my friends.

Wherever you go in life, always be good to people, don't delibrately offend people and always be humble, do away with pride.

This was how James in school said in broad day light that no witch can harm him in our hostel.

But he got the beaten of his life in his dream and lo and behold, he couldn't get up from bed the next day. Me i just looked at him, shake my head and Said to him. "James na small picking dey worry you" next time be careful how you boast.

One of The worst place you can show arrogance and pride in life is in school.

You see that your work place ehn, be very careful in your work place.

In your compound, be very careful.
I have entered a compound and i saw (as at 2017) the 2019 latest Bugatti Veron being packed in the compound but the thing was that, even the compound people can't see the car. The man that owns the car is very poor in real life, even to eat self na problem but he get Bugatti for the other side.

If you know, you know.


by the order of the Peaky blinders.

JovialJune:
Straight to the point


I came back from L.A in January this year after giving birth to my triple blessings, I got lots of gifts and some valuable ones, the most valuable of all was a complete set of jewelry worth thousands of dollars, when I got back to the country, I gave my family and Hubby's family things I got for them, gave my mum and his mum what they specifically asked for and more, all for me to find out afterwards that my expensive jewelry is missing, I was not happy, I actually thought it was stolen from my luggage by those nuisances at the airport, for weeks I was sad because that jewelry was worth millions in naira, it was an asset and investment to me, and coupled the way these country is going, dollars will continue to rise cos this government ehn.....


Fast forward today, my sister-in-law did naming ceremony for her newborn, all for me to get there and see my husband's mother wearing my missing jewelry, I was beyond shocked, the bitter taste in my mouth, how the hell did she have it on her? I was fuming all over till I got back home, I asked hubby how she had on my jewelry, he said he gave her because he needed to give her something that came from him, my eyes turned red, I couldn't cry, I couldn't hold the rage I felt and I shouted at him to go get it back to me, he said he can't, it will be a shame to collect it back, I told him he must it back, he stole it from me, we've been shouting at each other ever since, I had to lock myself in a room so that it won't turn to a fist fight,

I've been thinking of ways to steal it back cos that's the only way I can get it without her knowing, and I will definitely steal it back, I need all the assets I can lay my hands on cos naija is not smiling lately, my husband stole it from me, very heartless human, he knows how i almost cried when i couldnt find it, so pls i need different ways i can get it back without him and his mum knowing,

P.S anyone that wants to advice should pls hold it, I don't need advice from holy people preaching that it's material things, I should let go bla bla bla, we are all in this world in this world to possess what the world can offer, and I dey get my own small small, so shove your advice, if it was my mum I would have collected it since, in fact, she wouldn't take it without my knowledge, and I value and place she and my mum on the same level cos she can give birth to me,

So ways to steal it back from her pls, thank you.

GboyegaD:
Since you want people to be at your side, quick go get a gun and go face her that she has your asset with her. If fun is not enough then use jazz.

Now in reality, there isn't much you can do. Talk to your husband and see if he can at least pay you back for your asset. Don't soil your name because it will be tagged stealing since your husband offered it to his mom as a gift. This is a learning point for you and going forward, keep your valuables away from where he would be able to reach out before he gives out the remaining.

Lastly, you are free to insult me if my advice doesn't make sense to you.

saaphiere:
Glad you agreed

alBHAGDADI:
Yes, it's the verse that says wives should be keepers at home.

Titus 2:5 KJV
To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.

Ishilove:
I hear. She is promising heaven and earth the way the father of your child promised you heaven and earth.

See, there is an evil pattern here which you have noticed and as Righteousness89 pointed out, until that pattern is broken it will keep reasserting itself and messing you and your lineage up. Even your aunt who abandoned you is still moving from man to man. No stable home. Unless the foundation be destroyed, what can the righteous do?

That aside, we can say "don't give up your daughter" from the comforts of our homes but you that wear the shoes know where they pinch. BUT, even if you give up your child for adoption, what happened to you and your mum will also happen to this innocent child, so giving her up for adoption is not the solution.

Take each day has it comes. First of all, state your location here and whatever skills you have. While you're at it, like someone suggested, contact social welfare so that they can trace your he-goat baby daddy and compel him to pay child support. It is high time this country made abandoning pregnant girlfriends a jailable crime (aside the fact that he impregnated a minor, which itself is a crime). He must be traced and on the threat of public disgrace and imprisonment, made to pay for child support till his daughter is 18.

Mizflo:
Thanks for the advice. I have lost faith in Jesus because if he was there I wouldn’t have been suffering like this . I don’t want to look for him because he has never care about me and I don’t want to know him

Beosten:
There is only one female among my no msiblings. But mom was the one that usually cooked our meals. Whenever mom wasn't around, and I just felt like cooking, mom would know I cooked the meals, and would ask why my sister couldn't cook better than I do despite learning from Mom for years.

There was one food seller in my street during my formative years, If you miraculously bring a food cooked by that woman to me today, I will tell you instinctively that 'Iya Dare' is the one that prepared it.

My Conclusion: cooking skills may be inborn. It may also be learned.

serubawon:
We celebrated our 4th Anniversary last week. With God, all things are possible and that's the truth. Everyone stay safe out there in this new normal.

alBHAGDADI:
This thief of a woman should shut up. She's a false prophet who understands nothing about the Bible which says a woman should not preach or teach in Church.

The Bible says woman are to be keepers at home, not out there hustling. But this lying Jezebel woman says otherwise.

Titus 2:5 KJV
To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.

saaphiere:
The previous person quoted me talking about earning. Like I told her, the ballpoint here is not earning is being an asset. Note: you can be an asset without earning and you can be a liability with earning

saaphiere:
List 3 sis.

saaphiere:
It is full time suffering. You don't eat if he doesn't give you. What kind of life is that?

Acidosis:
Preaching the Bible won't get them the target tithe and offering for the month.

The only reason a pastor will teach this kind of message is because her followers are du..mb unbelievers, wife beaters, scammers, etc.. She needs to dispense weekly dose of defence mechanisms every Sunday.

Acidosis:
You're right my sister. I need to take it personal. I don't think the Bible gave any clear instruction as to whether a wife should earn money or not. There are many ways to support a man and many housewives are doing that so well.

This condescending idea about housewives has forced many women into modern day slavery. A lot of pregnant women and nursing mothers are going through high and severe levels of stress just to avoid being called a 'housewife' by these fake preachers.

OLULAW:
Yes. Apologies for not being gender neutral in communicating this fact.

ifyalways:
1. Zaynie
2. Giddyperson
3. Ujujoan2
3. Kanwuliaextra
4. Gboliwe
5. Sisisioge
6. Ishilove
7. Blank
8. ArmyofOne
9.Bukatyne
10. Ifyalways
11..Dominique

Essay subject : Pick any one out of the above list of female Nlders, write a 600 words essay on how you believe she spent her Covid lockdown.
You dont have to stalk or PM them, just look through their profile and try to get a hang of their e-personality then write something you think they'll like.

I wont be the judge so dont try to impress me, the ladies will be the judge. There will be 2 winners of 5K each per person and a total of 22 winners (110K)

To avoid spamming their mentions, Just indicate who you will be writing about with its corresponding number. There can be as many essays as possible for each person but ONLY the best 2 essays as chosen by the ladies themselves will be winners.

Submission of essays starts Monday 9am and ends Wednesday 6pm. Winners will be announced and credited Thursday and Friday. Goodluck.

PS: Dont quote me so we dont spam their mentions.

saaphiere:
I wonder if that is a female. A modern day lady won't think that way.

saaphiere:
I am seeing someone getting pained because women are about being emancipated from men cage.
Cry me a river

Acidosis:
The things pastors say without biblical understanding. Where did you get the word "housewife"?

She and her likes need to shut the fck up and allow husbands and wives make whatever decisions they want regarding their finance.

So long as they don't come to you to beg for food or advice, you have no right over their decisions.

saaphiere:
A woman should be her husband's think tank.
If your financial life is totally dependent on your husband, you are a psychological disgrace.
Fingers are not equal. Must your own be the shortest?
Don't die as a woman. Die as an institution.
Think more than you pray.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fh8LCRblAbw