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sisisioge:
Well...we've heard the I didn't cum inside but he did...after the belle landed, he claimed it must have been precum.

That was 11yrs ago, he was a worker, she was a student. They have two kids now

GboyegaD:
Aunty, it is better to move on than had I know. Freedom is way better than wearing an orange uniform for live. More so, he can buy a small unit in a condo if he is so concerned about property.

GboyegaD:
Many do, some wouldn't because of time and maybe other things. Both can't be studying at the same time. The most important as far as I'm concerned is everyone should keep developing themselves and be content with whatever they have.

naptu2:
https://www.nairaland.com/2722226/video-documentary-untold-story-nigerias#39815555

sonnie10:
1) The Nigerian mentally about male nurses.
2) Big man mentally to start college courses at 40years plus, when they actually have nothing
3) Pressure from other demanding responsibilities and bills. Nursing is a full time program
4) Qualification for the program (both educational and ethics)
5) Over attachment to previous worthless degree most times from Nigeria
6) Shame from peer pressure. How can a titled elderly man be carrying backpack
7) Lack of support. You need support while in nursing school if not, you might drop out
8] It is actually tough. Some of them tried and failed
9) Distraction from other rat race hustle that leads to nowhere
10) Emeka has completed his two decking and I am here reading biology 101. It is better I go and hustle.

VULCAN:
It's unfortunate that you started off well but went off point.

You completely ignored the actual reasons for these murders and went off on a tangent that although perhaps somewhat valid has little to do with this actual topic.

The point is the women tried to destroy the men by taking away their home and children. The women found out that the Family Court in US is heavily biased against men. So they took advantage.

Most of what you wrote completely ignores that salient point.

How many Nigerian men kill their wives who divorce them and leave with what they themselves own? Probably none.

I don't know whether you support destroying a man that opened the door to a quality of life you may NEVER have been able to enjoy simply because he isn't perfect. Perhaps you do as most toxic feminists see nothing wrong in it.

The ironic thing about these women is that when loneliness comes they are left to sleep with small boys or married men. Most of whom are no better than the husband they divorced so cruelly.

Idiotmod:
Some ladies like old men

FEGNO:
Just like someone pointed out in a video i onced watched last year, there are also women of other Nationalities who are also Registered Nurses in the US. Why is it only our own women who suddenly lose their heads when money begins to come?

Elder0001:
Shey you once said Christianity isn't a religion?

onadana:
Bro its serious oo.My elder bros sent his wife to the US because she is a nurse.The idea was to bring him over with their two daughters. Fast forward 4years down the line.She abandoned them all.Gives the husband attitude.Sent money to her dad to buy land for her.....I can go on and on.He was warned,he did not listen. My wife, my wife..see it now.Since she got to America she has not told her husband I love you.

sonnie10:
No bias. Male nurses are even preferred because of their physical strength in lifting and turning patients.

GboyegaD:
Does it matter? This is what I tell friends who stylishly convince their wives to go study nursing cos of whatever future gains. Allow her live her life and make her choices and that way, both parties are happy. You lure her into nursing, she makes the dough and you want to Lord over it, why?

I met a man in Columbus, OH who was advising against bringing one's wife abroad all because the wife no longer respects him. He sits at home claiming he is into auto exporting and barely sells four cars a year and yet, wants to Lord over the wife's earnings. That is highly unfair.

I know couples who make good cash and you don't see this frustrations. You know why, the husband is as hardworking as the wife as such, there is mutual respect.

The key remains that the man should work harder and not think he is going to reap ROI for sending his wife to study nursing. Our women should also know that money isn't the end of the world.

nokatakata:
The women will continue to get killed gruesomely if they don't change their evil ways. How can someone work hard , bring you all the way from Nigeria to the USA or UK with him, assists you in going to school and when you get a job, the next thing is to start treating him like trash and wanting a divorce so you could own everything he laboured to get for years. Most me especially Africans will hardly accept that bullsh.it. they'll rather kill the woman and get killed as well. No winner. If you leave them back in Naija while sending money to them, they will say you have abandoned them and married someone else. You struggle to bring them to join you, then they betray you. Ogun kill any woman wey attempt that nonsense with me. Na juju I go use finish her and return he back to Naija. If juju no work, we die there.
But if the nursing was giving the women so much money, why can't the men also go to nursing school so they can also make the plenty money .

naptu2:
Of course, historical stuff from 1825 have been posted on the forum before. I have personally posted stuff from 1945.

This is not a news site. It is a general interest forum

GboyegaD:
This is terrible. Why not take a walk out of the marriage at some point?

My opinion:
Some of the men have a big fault in this. You should marry a woman who's dream is big and not one who never sees herself making it in life otherwise, once she makes it, she will likely misbehave.

Also, while developing the women, the men should develop themselves so that there is not too much disparity. Most importantly, the men should learn to start again at the worst.

For the women, we understand you are making the money in the cases presented however, when you know your husband is the highly traditional man, don't start misbehaving because you now have money. Money is important however, it is not the most important thing.

Lastly, the society should learn to condemn whoever is at fault even if it is our family member. That way, when we misbehave and we know we will hear the truth, we will be watchful.

Skyfornia:
Not true...I have a professional reliable event planner in Asaba Delta state who is always ready to work with people's budget. I can boast for him...cause I have used him severally.

mariahAngel:


Don't be a dunce!
I don't enable foolish threads that demean women period!
Buka does that all the time, reason why you guys "adore" her and urge her on.

Oh! And...apply your punctuation(s) in the appropriate places for easy reading and comprehension Mr Literature!

Skyfornia:
Contact a reliable event planner..tell him/her your budget...and he/she will give you his/her quotation according to your budget.

mutter:
It's very important that the girl agrees to a low profile wedding otherwise she might have regrets later in life and feel she is missing out on something.

Lesbihornest:
It has been on my mind for a while.

We often hear of women intentionally getting pregnant to keep a man but are there men out there who have thought of it or even gone ahead to intentionally sabotage protection or birth control just to get the woman pregnant and tie her to them?

Please share your experiences or response and why you ever tried to do it.

Lalasticlala help get this to a wider audience.

I want to see something.

poiunt:
Money does not have any wing nor does it fly away.

The only way people get broke easily is living above their means, bad investments and also no saving.

poiunt:
I will like to ask you a question

who will you go for in marriage

A financially stable man or a man without income aka Poor man?

Pls answer my question without being bias

LordKO:
It's only people who haven't witnessed, first-hand, savvy and erudite multibillionaires turn to paupers within almost twinkle of eyes, and paupers with grit and grace who've risen from obscurity to not just wealthy but also influential people, that will always cast aspersions on the kind of person under discussion and his marital and reasonable reproduction choices.

Many a time, it takes grit rather than ignorance or arrogance to begin such phase of life in such an unfavourable fate.
So, personally, I'll always accord maximum regard to people who've his kind of grit, provided that they acted on self-conviction/conscientiously. Don't count him off until he dies.

With grit, definiteness of purpose and good support system/grace, which can come from anywhere and anytime, that same man may become economically better than 99 percent of you within less than 1 year, all things being equal.

LewsTherin:
Damn dude! This was awesomely harsh!!

Too many misguided young people on Nairaland who have chosen to blame marital relationships for all the wrongs they percieve

Heiterkeit:
I know two other of his monikers in this forum and I know his personal struggles.

Heiterkeit:
What other people do not know is that the owner of that thread has personal problem and may not be able to marry all through his life. He is trying so hard to discourage as many people as possible from getting married just to be like him who among other things has difficulty keeping relationship with women.

He has an agenda, but not anyone of the contributors of that thread were able to see it. Forget about the story in his thread.

poiunt:
I will just say this

Being Poor is not a virtue in present day earth.

A man need to be prepared financially to get married, a good and stable income is very important.

Isnt it stupidity for a poor man having 3 or 4 kids?

Why bring them to come suffer, as they say, cut your coat according to your size.