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Belafonte:
I generally agree with this dude, even though I think he made quite a few generalisations and wrong statements.

I'd probably rate the info in this video 4 out of 10

t00dugged:
bestie or potential. . Anyway,shey they always say "marry your best friend and marriage will be easy", well girl I think you are on the right track.congrats in advance.

Chinkos99:
Am not mad
I can't/don't want to marry him
But I just like him being around me till he gets married to another girl, not that he pays my bills, but because I feel safe and secure around his arms

StacyO:
Why settle for less when there is more??
As a lady,setting principles for yourself is bae.


I don't even like bend down select love.

GoldenJAT:
Life eh!! Just take it as it comes.

Clinghton:
Every man is under obligation to value and love wholeheartedly any woman he choses.

Olude193:
Yes the gist was they did have issues... She threatened to walk out of the marriage... Families were called into the matter.... just when she had made up her mind to waka then she realised she was preggy with the second kid.... So she changed her mind to stay put...

Beverlyjean:
Look at her washing plates in america ...but here some of my friends will say men should b doing dishes ...I will cook wash and do the dishes for my husband... if u wanna destroy ur marriage, ur luck

Munzy14:
You people always use lagos to generalize work time.

And you forgot, not everyone stays in lagos.


The issues you stated above are one out of many reasons I avoid lagos... A lot slavery in the name of work.

Some of us off lagos, take few minutes through and fro to work.


Coming to lagos for me, is mostly business and transactions... voom! am off.

Life is fun in lagos + opportunities , but the fact that somethings limits people, is a huge impedance na. I easily get bored, that's why you can't find me doing one thing repeatedly.

Av worked and resigned.. To work for myself and combine lecturing later which give enough Time for personal business.

Munzy14:
6am-8pm? no, I can't. You won't even have time for the wife and kids especially.


I am talking 8am-5pm... For normal white collar.

And 10am -2pm for business executives.


6am - 8pm is slavery especially in the bank sector.. Of which I don't subscribe to..

genq:
My guy, don't take her stupid comments seriously.

Bukatyne is simply reaching for acceptance from the misandrists in this section after they all roasted her a couple months ago on a pathetically derailed thread she created.

Now in a desperate bid to prove what side she's on, she's been saying all sorts of foolishness in support of wives, feminists etc.. whether it makes logical sense or not

genq:
May your son also "send you to the back" and "put you in your place" over a harlot in the future - that's if you ever have a son.

Unnerve:
Lol, this is another angle.

Casemiro:
True.


But some of these couples were living a fairly happy life before the lockdown.


Don't you think such level of closeness may lead to 'see finish' ?


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kestolove95:
yes sex is great ND very swt most especially b4 we go to work wen u HV sex it makes u feel like d company CEO

Casemiro:
it's alright.

don't you think it could lead to some minor issues especially if the wife stays home too?


For instance, this lockdown turned some lovers into haters

drnoel:
Oh! Well before the madam got there is another kettle of tea. Then again why would one marry a Wifey that is that petty?

Ybaby:
Hopefully you are not apologizing on my behalf?

Casemiro:
It is known that some men prefer housewives who are always at home.


Now let's look at it from a different angle. What about househusbands? How does it feel like to be one.


By househusbands, I don't mean a man who sits at home washing the dishes, cooking, and doing the laundry while the wife is out there doing one business or the other to bring food to the table.



By househusband, I mean a man who makes his money passively and doesn't need to go out everyday to bring food to the table. He probably has a business that fetches him money, maybe he is into real estate, works online as a freelancer, has many shops with boys, or any other source that gives him ample time to stay at home.


such men prefer staying at home than hanging out all day.

So, how does it feel like to be a househusband?

Your input is highly appreciated

Mindlog:
Reality is that most women whose voices are very loud in their son's/daughter's homes, do/did not have a healthy marriage themselves and do find "validation" in being a visible third person in their child's marriage.

drnoel:
Ur comments are wrong. There is no how the son would have sent the mother back. It will translate to taking sides. And vice versa for the wifey.
The mother should though have respected herself and gone behind. But since she is Infront the son can't force her.

Munzy14:
Terrible @bolded....Which sane man does that?..smh did the car manufacturers stated that the front seat is for wives?

You can sit anywhere, first come, first serve.

A smart Wife will simply hop in and say honey oya move o... with humor. The wife was simply transferring aggression. Probably she isn't in a good term with the MIL.


Besides, I hope she knows, one day she will turn MIL?

Even a smarter woman, will reject it if the hubby orders the mom to vacate the seat.

FlordFlorez:
I hope you are not one of those girls that wishes their mother in-law dead

FlordFlorez:
Mothers always address issues pre and pro their sons' marriages.

FlordFlorez:
Marriage na scam!!! You cannot expect me to dish my mum to the back and allow my wife at the front seat. When my mum was suffering for me, where was she?? Probably f**king some other nigarz.

Unnerve:
Did you watch the clip? Lol
You mean he should send his mother (who looks aged BTW) to the back seat because his wife is throwing a hissy fit?

The ONLY wrong person there was the ratchet, and I guess we all know who that is from the video.

Missyajoke:
She might be the one footing the bills or might be true love

My own be say we no wan hear story in the future say na you propose to me