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NerdyRudeGyal:
She must be very mad. You should feel violated because she did violate you. Rather than pretending like you were sleeping, you should've opened your eyes and made a fuss or better yet, given her one mega slap. It would've been difficult for her to deny it had you reacted right then. You should definitely still speak to her right away: let her know what she did constitutes sexual harassment and that she should NEVER try that shit with you again. If she had any sense, she would apologize to you. Moreover, put a stop to the sexual talks the next time she initiates them (she really shouldn't have the audacity to, after this incident) and keep your relationship at a nephew to cousin level only.

Sixfeetbelle:
And while I agree that humans can be witches, they are usually known. Witches don't hide their craft, the same way native doctors don't. So anyone who terms another a witch must first have evidence of such, otherwise they're making false allegations.

vickydankal:
Kudos to the Pastor and his team but to vide the event and post it on social media is the part I don’t understand.

femalecobra:
What goes on in the marriage for the next ten years?
What’s a typical day sitting down in the house like with each other? Considering you can’t even really talk to male or female friends like before ??
Does it now become more boring in years to come?
Cus I feel the emotions at a lower level like just 6months with my boo now. So I am confused ��. How do we work on it to always be as interesting as the beginning?
No sex yet, yet I feel we at see finish stage already...Everybody just relaxed or calm...like extra efforts of month 1 has gone down. No one is putting extra ginger as in the beginning....where it was lovely and all that.
We just jist If there is jist n face phone n do some cooking or items buying together.
Is that how marriage becomes ?
I know I came out of a house but as it is now I am confused whether I was seeing clearly then or had enough sense to understand what marriage really meant.
How do u keep it lively when there is nothing to say to each other?
How do u strive to continue to make each other besties n desire to talk or jist with each other only as was in the beginning?
The man that was so crazy about u....in terms of hugs, touch, kiss etc that just drops....and you are wondering why it has dropped dropped dropped in 6 months....how do U cope with those realizations and reality?
I am scared that if I feel this way now....what would be left in the remaining years wen year1 never do
Yet this is a friend or someone I have know for 2 years and I am free or at least comfortable with....I wonder how those who marry strangers or someone u must over respect etc cope??
What’s day to day in marriage like? It’s feeling like trap...something boring....stuck place...don’t know how to expalin

truthsayer009:
Monitoring Spirit ahn ahn. I didn't even notice the dates on the discussion.

Well, maybe it ended in entanglements & they called it a day

Deshalom:
Yea, he loves wines. As suggested i will get him a bottle of wine.

yvelchstores:
lol. It's not every day you wake up to amazing write ups like this.

yvelchstores:
What can i say, your future wife has been blessed by God.

PS, most of the stupid replies u will get for this beautiful piece you have written will come from men and boys from dysfunctional homes, with no real sense of value to what you uphold.

Kudos to u, most importantly to your father.

AfroKnight:
You are war and you’re the fight!

donMIG:
Oga
U just used n dumped her stop sugarcoating thus shi... Na u go complain give her say based on u no get moni?
I'm sorry I didn't come here to give u n asna came here to find out for myself too
That girl played u out man!


As for me
We didn't really breakup... But someone u'd talk to erday n den y'all don't talk anymore do u need to b told yal no longer together?
Mines left coz she got tired of putting up wit ma shisss
She said I don't tell her I love her anymore
Said I don't spend much time wit her no more
That I ignored her call... N I got mad wen she complained about this shiiii
Fact is,,, I did love her
I didn't say I love her like i used to
I didn't spend time wit her like I used to
But mehn I was busy wit work need to hustle
Shiii hit me like a brick on the head... I threw away my pride called her begging to know where it all went wrong... Notin really really serious that this was her not complaining anymore... I wanted to hear her say I was a cheat or she heard shiiis about me
Tins didn't go well wit me ever since... I hated girls, I haven't been in a relationship since march n I don't even feel d need to
I miss her even as I type this shiiii
I don't think she misses me or my borin gists but I do miss her a lot... I'm just forming hard guy n wen she eventually comes back I promise myself not to take her back coz I've never loved a girl so damn much that I didn't have to cheat not for once on her!

Babanlagenius:
Bro please don't make the mistake I made. Since we broke up I haven't seen any lady of my choice. As a matter of fact, they all want my money. I totally regret ever leaving the lady and I don't even know if I will see anyone like her. I recently met one on Facebook, we had nice convo, I asked her to be my girlfriend. She called me 3 days ago that she would come and spend one week at my place, since then, my feelings went off totally.

It left because we've not met before yet she wants to come spend the night.

That means Na so she dey with other boyfriends.

Right now I don't know what to do. All I think of is my ex

akinade28:
Those of you guys breaking the heart of good ladies, all in the name of I'm helping her to have a better life or I'm not ready for marriage, just because you don't have your dream job, car house or account balance yet. When you are ready It is your type that eventually end up with bad ladies who don't love but are just after your money and you will come and tell us marriage is a scam. By then, you won't be able to complain because deep down you'll know you blew up your chance at having a good woman in your life. You will have no choice than to manage and endure.

catwalq:
She stopped calling and talking to you don't mean she has moved on, she might be holding her peace to make you think that way cause that's what you want.

Besides, she's a woman and may not want you looking down on her for hanging around after you told her to go.....see finish no good.

If you still want her just talk to her and ask her out again instead of assuming. It's better you say something and Bleep up your pride than keep quiet and let it Bleep you up instead


But it's none of my business though....

Babanlagenius:
She was more emotionally attached to me. As in she used to call me more than I did. She didn't sleep without talking to me and more often than not she would ask me to send her voice notes on WhatsApp even after our convno before going to bed. I felt the love within and without. She showed me so much love and made me to have extra focus in live because she was in full support of everything I was doing.

She saved money from work to buy me gifts. She was down to earth. She always give guys my number when they asked for hers. I was only bothered that she was 26years and just maybe the pressure of getting married was there. I sensed her mood swings expecially on Saturdays. I left her way back in 2019 because I couldn't secure a job for myself and needed to give her a better life by giving some other guy a chance to get married to her quickly.

Speaking of beauty, she is the most beautiful lady I have ever dated. As a matter of fact the first thing I asked her on our first date was

DON'T YOU THINK YOU ARE TOO MUCH FOR ME?

Now that I am stable to an extent all I could think of is this lady. I just don't know how she managed to forget about me. I'm even afraid of contacting her cause I don't want to hear that someone else is presently digging that hole and probably about to get married as well.

PrimadonnaO:
Period!

I have a very unpopular opinion. Why are unmarried women even taking contraceptives? I mean, it doesn’t make sense. You’re taking contraceptives to start having sex with reckless abandon, yeah? You’re taking contraceptives to shield the man from possible responsibilities? But what is he doing in your Favour?
Did he accompany you to the doctor’s?
Should anything go wrong with the contraceptive, will he be gallantly standing by you? When you start adding weight uncontrollably, will he love you regardless or start hunting for a new babe?
Do you realize that some studies show contraceptives are a contributory factor to cervical cancer in women?

Woke woman! Continue!

BLUELemon:
You already said the person on the pulpit is a woman. What she said has a targeted audience. She's simply saying what her audience wants to say.
You will be surprised she treats her husband like a king and doesn't say all that to her man.

mariahAngel:
No, it's not.

For someone to think to create this topic tells that it's coming from somewhere...either from experience growing up or...
As for me, I don't relate.

kingreign:
Xynerise, my brother man, you aren't far from the truth.

We have a lot of dead beat fathers in these days who's only job is to birth children then abandon the responsibility of grooming their offsprings to be properly train and responsible people.

Some weeks ago, I saw a man parked by a shopping mall, he had his son sit beside him in his car, he was busy smoking and drinking and the poor lad of no more than 4 years old was busy trying to disturb and tell his dad that smokers and drunkards will die young.

I sat in my wife's car just a car space away from them and was shaking my head in great disbelief and shame.

Emuf:
A friend of mine want to know if it is normal. He's close to 38years and doesn't feel anything about getting married. He has enough resources to get married, but he's just indifferent. What could be responsible for this?

Thanks for your inputs.

Orubebe01:
He has a spiritual wife, should go for deliverance

Hardtalk:
Is either he has been keeping too many relationships and cannot see himself been married to just one or he missed his calling of being a Reverend father.