₦airaland Forum

Dfazz:
Wetin carry Agbalumo matter enter corona virus Lol!!!!!?!!?

abdul824:
After all we are not that advanced.

Cityqueengirl:
I learnt that Nigerians are generally selfish. Here in Lagos they started raising the price of sanitizers and face mask.

Very selfish lot. Instead of helping to promote prevention and saving lives, they were putting money above life.
Every problem wrong with Nigeria isn't actually the leaders but the common man. Very selfish lot

crackkhaus:

NextD18:
99.846% of Nigerian ladies don't have strong connection and good relationship with their mothers, reason they hate and detest mother inlaws so much, especially if their man is so close to his mother.

So calm down and keep pushing positively, you are not the only lady that isn't in good relationship with her mother.

sweetmelanin:
I've seen a couple threads now asking Nigerians abroad how they are "coping" with the unprecedented spread of this viral infectious thing called Coronavirus.. and on reading most of the posts, I've observed the sarcasm and subtle gloating of Nigerians back home as they delight in the potential downfall of Western countries while subtly mocking Nigerians abroad for moving overseas for a better life now there's an outbreak.

Nigerians abroad, please know that even your so called friends and family back home who call/text you to ask 'how far' are not doing so out of genuine care.. they want to hear bad news, they want to hear how devastating things are or that you've potentially caught the virus, so they can feel better about their pathetic situation back home while comforting themselves that they 'escaped' a bad situation by never getting the opportunity to move abroad. They just want to be assured that their own situation is better than yours!

There will always be a few exceptions to the rule as some people do genuinely care for their relatives abroad, but what I've stated is the absolute truth for the vast majority.

Jman06:
I think some people just get emotionally entangled with the wrong kind of people, and mind you, IT COULD HAPPEN TO GUYS ALSO.

I have seen relationships where the guys were being treated so harshly by the ladies! Some of such relationships even ended in marriages. How the guys managed to cope, I don't know. I sha know that someone like me can't cope with such harsh ladies.

Farki:
Because the men that treat them like trash can. Think about it, the man probably has one trait or the other that's keeping the woman with him, looks,money, status or his bad behaviour is in line with her weird idea of masculinity.

Sometimes the woman feel like this is how men are supposed to be and she needs to put up with,which is why you hear women constantly complaining that men are dogs, players and brutes.

If you're waiting for women to love you for being 'nice' you will go gray because women's attitude to them range from indifference to utter disgust at amiable, overly helpful, selfless and non physically or sexually aggressive men. If you possess the above traits women will either use you as a free ride, food or ATM, or call you names like gay, creepy or doormat. Women only care about 'nice' men once it's time to settle down and other options have been exhausted.

Hahjascho:
Guess it happens randomly.

•But ladies who go for bad ones usually have either one or two hidden traits of such toughness....so seeing someone who is an ideal physical manifestation of their inner tastes just make them click.

•Such ladies might be insecure while some ladies love those who make them go extra miles.... being too available might break it out.

Meanwhile those who settle for the bad ones rarely get good marriages and even they do, it requires great understanding to last or work out.

But realistically, women of good worth and values rarely settle for bad ones.

jayaim:
Very true. A guy that is ready to treat a Lady like a Queen will be treated like thrash. I met a queen recently, wanted something serious. But a yahoo yahoo chap shows up flashed some cash she followed like a dog following bone. The yahoo guy later left her in a hostel after poking her & left huge bill after escaping. She called me to bail her out. What a life

BodySh0pByEvie:
Nope we don't love guys that treat us like trash, it just happens that the ones we truly love are trash.

Antoeni:
This Materials Need to be Properly Examined and Well Tested Before Releasing into the Public... Nor be Every Help dey be Good Help...

Gaggi:
Same signs apply to both sexes. I was once with a beautiful girl whom I was crazy about. At first I couldn't get enough of her but later I started getting irritated with her attitude- temper, insecurity, ill manners etc.

I started reducing calls, her presence was no longer exciting and I wasn't eager seeing her or hearing from her. She noticed and spoke to me about it. I actually tried to get things back on track but I just couldn't. The relationship died a natural death.

When your partner is tired of you, if you are sensitive, you will surely know.

Jman06:
Op, go ahead and marry the girl. Don't mind those talking about age gap here. The age difference is not a problem in your case. If the girl is 18yo and you're 36, in the next 30years, you'll be 68 and she'll be 48. Even some 70yo men still chase girls in their 20s and carry them as sugar daddies. Who has time for 48yo women Even ladies in their mid to late 30s are not finding it easy getting men let alone 48yo woman.

However, after marrying her, make sure you finish birthing your kids before enrolling her into school.

Acidosis:
Joro should shut the keep up. His hypothesis has never worked.

Emodeee:
His true love. despite veering away, she stood by him. Quality of a wife material. That is why he married her. Happy Anniversary to them.

Graxie:
Another BS, the same pattern, the same story. At your age, prophet is telling you who to marry, you are kneeling down to beg, enduring six months of emotional torture, attempting suicide, being blackmailed on not leaving with kids yet ready to die and leave them. Madam, leave nairaland, carry pen and paper and start writing about your life, decide from now till July what you want from life. You are even confronting side chicks yet you can't confront your wandering penis. I hope you are not an orphan?

24kmagic:
I promised myself never to sympathize with any woman in any abusive relationship or marriage.
They deserve anything being thrown at them.

It is only a woman that will see a drug addict, woman beater, an alcoholic, and all sorts of bad habits in a guy and still tell you that she loves him.

The more days I spend on earth, the more puzzled I am by the choices women make when it comes to choosing a man (whether boyfriend or husband).

When it comes to choosing a man, most women are destined to pick the wrong ones. And it's mostly due to the fact that they don't know what they need, they only know what they want.

And what is it that they want:
A sweet talker
A 7 inch preek
6 packs
A fine boy
A rich man.

The surprising thing is both the teenagers and the so called mature ones all have a warped idea about how to pick a man.

They come online to console themselves but they soak their pillows in tears everyday.

Beejaynma:
Hmmmm,
i married him because prophets (about 5 different prophet) told me he's my husband and I will regret it if I did not marry him.

rain21:
I don't understand you, you seem to be confused yourself

You don't want to leave your kids but you planned taking your own life

It's the later not permanent separation

ImaIma1:
Not when he's treating his wife like a subject

faithfull18:
He will surely be treated as one if he treats his wife like a queen not a slave/ subordinate.

She is his better half.

Sotland:
Most men are emotionally insensitives.. Let him with his mistake... But it just getting worst.. Most girls has turned to jezebel these days.. Could it be that our parents failed our generation? Certainly, some of our parents fail abysmally... Again most girls have the wrong ideology and often emulate the wrong part of the Western culture... "Feminism and gender equality" has caused more harm than good to a lot of girls now

ImaIma1:
Some people should not bother getting married. These kind of men have a twisted idea about marriage probably from what they saw growing up or their own formed mindsets.

They just want to be treated like kings.

ahnie:
I don't even know what to say....let me invite the elders...

Crackhaus (chief analyst on marital affeez!
Sisisioge....the FA crooner
Bukatyne...




But like seriously why must one experience all these shits in marriage.
Is it ill-luck,fate or what?

Funny enough those men appears responsible looking and respectable outside.

Beejaynma:
I married this man 10 yrs ago and i have never enjoy the marriage even for one day. He had nothing when I got married to him because I believe everything will be fine if both of us join hands together and work hard. I wish I married a rich man that is giving me all I want and maltreating me as the one I married is treating me.
Several times I have knelt down to beg him for offence I did not commit just for peace to reign. I hate malice and he likes it alot. He can keep malice for 6months without talking to me. I know I have made the gravest mistake of my life because this is not the marriage I prayed for. I wanted a friend as a husband but God gave me a boss that always see me as subordinate. I don't ask him money even when I know he has numerous girlfriend that he's spending for. He always defend his girlfriends anytime I challenge them. Honestly am dying slowly, i decided to end it all last year by taking poisonous liquid but I survived. Am just so lonely and I don't want to cheat, honestly I don't want to. Am trapped already and he told me I can't take his 2 kids away because I told him I want to go and get apartment. My kids are my life and I can't leave them.
I know there are lots of responsible married people here, please is this what marriage all about

Graxie:
Hypocrites but you guys are going to market, close markets.

Mizwisdom:
Scientists who created the virus now rant people to stay home and worship but they still go to shops and markets to buy groceries. How many hours do people spend in churches and how many do they spend in Markets and shops? people of God Satan is attacking the church of God through this engineered virus.