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Family › Re: Please Share Your Opinion On This Matter. by bukatyne(f): 7:08am On Mar 22, 2020
neutral2000:
Let me get straight to the point.

A couple (Mr&Mrs John) were in their house, preparing to go out in the morning. Suddenly, a neighbour started looking for his car key, then Mrs John, started to assist in the search, that she even went outside to look into the man's car, in case he forgot it in the car. Then she found it in the car. On her way inside, she met her husband by the entrance and told him he found the man's key in his car, and recommended that her husband should inform the man about where the key is. The husband in an obvious, mildly angry and jealous tone replied "since you found it, go tell him yourself". Despite hearing and noticing her husband's countenance, she went ahead to inform the man by herself. She later got angry and challenged her husband on what that attitude earlier was all about. Mr John went ahead to explain that her gesture to have stepped out of the house in search of the key is too extreme. This she did not agree with and even got angry with her husband for insinuating such.

My question now is, WHAT IS YOUR OPINION ABOUT THIS MATTER!

Is the gesture extreme?
Or is the man wrongly /extremely insinuating?
No matter how hard I try, I can't picture the scenario.

Husband and wife are dressing up in their house (worse case a room) and neighbor starts looking for his keys.

Did he knock on their room door that he was looking for his keys? If yes, do they share cars or keep their car keys in the same place?

Why would the wife help the man search for his keys? You only help people search for things you have an idea where they would have kept it, have unrestricted access to their space or you know how they place there things.

For the wife to tell the husband to inform the man means he was not with her when she found the keys in the car. Why did she carry the matter on her head like gala? Doesn't she know her husband well enough to know when he is sarcastic and when he is serious?

What does the neighbor mean to her that she would prioritize the neighbor's gratitude/happiness over her husband's feelings?

This story sounds like an amateur's attempt at fiction.

At least write what we can relate with.
Health › Re: Coronavirus: Three New Cases Confirmed In Nigeria - Punch by bukatyne(f): 5:34pm On Mar 21, 2020
chloedogie:
God!!! The main reason why this useless government didnt shut down the airport borders totally is because of their useless families and friends that are still outside the country. They just want to get them all back and in the process they are endangering almost 200million Nigerians . I want to believe at this time that president Buhari is totally cut off what is happening in the whole world because if this man watches the news then he will be more proactive than this. And one begins to wonder what a whole vice president that calls himself a professor is doing with his intellectual strength and cant do something meaningful. We had all the chances not to have a single case as at this morning but the carelessness of a very useless government is putting us in danger as a country. But God will see us through because my own faith and fate lies with God not with a useless government
@bold:

I sort of believe this.
Family › Re: Is This Not Witchcraft? by bukatyne(f): 5:38pm On Mar 20, 2020
MadelnNigeria:
The baby that survived the burial too will also be 12years old now since this is 2020
True.
Family › Re: No Woman Is A Gold Digger To The Right Man. No Man Is Stingy To The Right Woman by bukatyne(f): 5:37pm On Mar 20, 2020
RisenPhoenix:
1. What happens when your business partner fails to fulfill his part of the contract?




It is part of my master plan. I don't trust that a single woman can keep me comfortable enough in my old age. When the time is right.
1. Tell me na

2. So we should wait till you are old? Hian! I want to eat party jolly jare. Marry number 2 now and number 4 can come in old age.
Family › Re: How To Divorce? My Sister's Husband Is About To Kill Her. by bukatyne(f): 5:32pm On Mar 20, 2020
Born2conquer:
If I don’t act FAST, I might lose my sister

She made a mistake marrying this beast and I can’t keep on looking.

Please, what’s the fastest way to institute a divorce in lagos?
You want to initiate divorce proceedings on behalf of your sister?

Is she incapacitated to do so?
Family › Re: Is This Not Witchcraft? by bukatyne(f): 5:31pm On Mar 20, 2020
RisenPhoenix:
It is probably due to the parents' behaviour with the 11 year old. She likely felt neglected due to the presence of the baby.

That is why it is always good to behave nicely to your children and to show equal love to all of them. I am sorry to say that Yoruba parents especially, are not very good at nurturing a sense of equality, kindness and emotional intelligence in their children. They are also often too prone to be harsh and to speak rudely to their children just because they can. And the cane is never very far away from their hands.

Or what would make a young mother tell a two year old kid; "shut up joor or I will slap your face" while the child is trying to talk to her on the way to school? Happened in my presence this morning.

If you are frustrated please don't have children. You are only breeding a future generation of psychos.
Na you be this?

Nice. cheesy
Family › Re: Is This Not Witchcraft? by bukatyne(f): 5:30pm On Mar 20, 2020
MadelnNigeria:
The girl would be 21years old now since she buried the baby when she was 11 years old (2011)
Interesting view.

Curious to know what became of her.
Family › Re: No Woman Is A Gold Digger To The Right Man. No Man Is Stingy To The Right Woman by bukatyne(f): 5:24pm On Mar 20, 2020
RisenPhoenix:
It depends on what she means by financial assistance. I provide for my wife (present and possibly future ones) in return for her childbearing and child caring services as well as to keep me sexually content.

Of course, the provision is contingent on the fact that she performs her duties efficiently and effectively, in which case, I don't mind even throwing in an occasional bonus every now and then to keep the motivation running high.
Interesting grin

As long as you keep motivation high, she keeps up her duties and everyone is happy.

What happens when a party can't keep up their duties?

You and this polygamy sha.

Hope you will invite us when it happens.
Family › Re: Help A Brother In This Situation!!! by bukatyne(f): 8:35pm On Mar 19, 2020
LewsTherin:
I have never been able to understand the unwillingness of people to use simple protection once they have decided to have extramarital sex. I mean 50 card Goldcircle would have saved all this drama. (It is N50, isn't it?)

Well, if all what you have said is accurate, then it is just too obvious that someone is trying to trap someone with someone else's baby.
@ bold:

Somebody is a somebody grin
Family › Re: I Need Advice Pls by bukatyne(f): 8:18pm On Mar 19, 2020
Ngo24:
Yeah I know
I'm actually the one not ready for marriage, cos I don't want to get married because I got pregnant.
I'm through with school already and will be going for service soon.


When he accused me of seducing his friend, I was in secondary school then and I never had any boyfriend not to talk of having sex.
So, it was after I few years I finished from secondary school I started dating and that's the only person have been with so far.
Funny enough every guy that rented any flat in his former house when I was still living with him, he will call a meeting with them and tell them, I'm his child and they should keep an eye on me ,and take me as their sister and should always report me to him if they see me with any guy.



I was really slim then, so if anyone ask me why I was so slim,if my dad was present at that moment, he will start telling them I'm wayward and only God knowns what have done with myself for me to be slim. And this man sleep with anybody, even girls that just start developing breast and he thinks that what all his female children are doing. Now I have a child for one of those guys he asked to be monitoring me then, which he is the only person I have been with and still with

I don't just know, I'm just confuse, if I have to tell him that I have a child, he will see it as another way to justify his saying, and among all his kids I'm the only graduate
Why are you not ready for marriage?

Your relationship does not seem like a casual one so there is no concern that you don't know each other.

If you consider your man good enough to sleep with and maintain a relationship all these years, please get married.
Family › Re: We are been intimidated by a CEO by bukatyne(f): 8:12pm On Mar 19, 2020
OmayieHenry:
Wow... let us wait for the elders and lawyers in the house because this seems to be an intimidating, child abuse, use of power to oppress amongst others.
What kind of a CEO is that.? undecided undecided undecided
Oh please!

When sisi was collecting house, what was she and family thinking?

And the OP confirmed that the CEO (I find this funny grin grin grin) was always interested in the girl.

SO his intend was clear.
Family › Re: We are been intimidated by a CEO by bukatyne(f): 8:09pm On Mar 19, 2020
@VirusVaccine:

You all lost your claim to 'responsible people' when you were comfortable with a 17yr old girl
1. Working a motel
2. Staying in an apartment rented by a man who obviously has interest in her.

It is this greed manifested by the family and girl that led you into this mess.

The girl was lucky that things went sour between both parties and had opportunity to start afresh yet una 'longerthroat' and 'entitlement' still thought somehow, you can stay in Mr. CEO's house for free.

A CEO that can use police to claim a child that is not his will also have the 'powers' to frame you guys up. Just ignore the 'CEO' and move on. No more sharmawa peddling, osho free housing and the likes.

Cut ties with the man and MOVE THE HECK ON!

Except you want to pawn your sister to him; then do it quick before the CEO gets another offer. undecided

And while at it, treat that girl so her reproductive system is not ruined.

This event will teach you all that there is no free lunch in freetown and conduct yourselves with more self-respect and contentment.
Celebrities › Re: Rick Ross Celebrates His Beautiful Daughter On Her 18th Birthday (photos) by bukatyne(f): 7:54pm On Mar 19, 2020
realmedia:
Rick Ross' daughter, Toie Roberts turns 18 today and the rapper celebrated her on Instagram.

He released new photos he took with her and wrote: "18th big day #Mine."

Toie is Ross' first child with his ex-partner, Lastonia Leviston.

SEE ALL THERE BEAUTIFUL PHOTOS>> https://kupelove..com/2020/03/rick-ross-celebrates-his-beautiful.html
Happy birthday omo Rick Ross.

She looks too mature for 18yrs

She needs to take it slow.
Family › Re: Proud Dad Made 6 Month Baby Food In 5 Minutes by bukatyne(f): 7:30pm On Mar 19, 2020
illicit:
If nobody taught you how to make a baby, why should you be taught how to make it's food....
Just pondering....
grin grin grin grin

Na wa o!
Family › Re: Proud Dad Made 6 Month Baby Food In 5 Minutes by bukatyne(f): 7:27pm On Mar 19, 2020
LadySarah:
He is a learner where my husband is. Been away for 2 weeks and he has been preparing our boys for school, Cooking, cleaning, still going to work and updating me everyday.
No help in my home. We do our chores together.
He, my dad and other hands on dads are legit.

Can't wait to see them tomorrow. kiss kiss kiss kiss

I have missed them
I don't think there is a need for comparison.

OP might have come from a family where men in kitchen or handling childcare is seen as a taboo or he has never done it before.

The thoughtfulness, the effort, the resourcefulness is very commendable.
Christianity Etc › Re: Coronavirus: 3 Nigerian Church Buildings That Can Be Used As Treatment Centres by bukatyne(f): 5:40pm On Mar 19, 2020
ajl:
Useless people, they know how to build big churches that can contain 50,000 worshippers but can't build facilities that will serve life-threatening purposes.
Is it primarily the duty of the Church to build hospitals?
Christianity Etc › Re: Coronavirus: 3 Nigerian Church Buildings That Can Be Used As Treatment Centres by bukatyne(f): 5:35pm On Mar 19, 2020
NgwalandAbia:
Your evil plan for nigeria will catch up with you why not use the Abuja mosque ode
I honestly don't know how you guys read your Bible.

Of what use is locking the churches if people can't meet when it can be used as a hospital.

How great would it be for churches to open their doors to be used as a hospital and donate members in the medical field to them.

The medical team pray for the sick daily and surely God would heal them.

Do you know what kind of evangelism that is?

Think outside the box!

God has given us the capacity to think: think!
Christianity Etc › Re: Coronavirus: RCCG Amends Its Worship Schedule In Lagos & Ogun States by bukatyne(f): 11:44am On Mar 19, 2020
Mizwisdom:
Your country with top notch medical facility can't beat Corona because you people are gay supporters, you practice sodomy and all kinds immoral acts.
Sorry I am quoting you up and down!

This post is funny.

You think morally Nigeria is better than the US?

China that banned churches just told us that Corona has stopped spreading. undecided

You think Nigeria would survive faced with America's level of attack?

Please don't make a joke of whatever grace or advantage Sub Sahara Africa enjoyed thus far.
Christianity Etc › Re: Coronavirus: RCCG Amends Its Worship Schedule In Lagos & Ogun States by bukatyne(f): 11:09am On Mar 19, 2020
Acidosis:
And people like you wouldn't want to close your 5 naira shop for 5 hours because of greed and love of money.

Before you criticize people, what measures have you taken personally? Would you shut the door of your shop or would you agree to a "no work no pay" rule for the next 3 or 4 weeks?

Pastorpreneur bla bla has done his bit, what have you, Alphapreneur, done?
Are you comparing the Church to a revenue generation business?
Christianity Etc › Re: Coronavirus: RCCG Amends Its Worship Schedule In Lagos & Ogun States by bukatyne(f): 11:06am On Mar 19, 2020
Mizwisdom:
It's trying time for the Church.
How?

Is it also trying times for schools that will be shut down on Monday?

Hotels that are trying to stay afloat?

Countries like China and Italy on lock down?
Christianity Etc › Re: Coronavirus: RCCG Amends Its Worship Schedule In Lagos & Ogun States by bukatyne(f): 11:03am On Mar 19, 2020
Mizwisdom:
Witches and wizards will be happy about this, the devil will be balling now. May God help us, we Christians have been warned not to forsake the fellowship of brethren. We need each other to strengthen ourselves in this difficult times
undecided
Christianity Etc › Re: Coronavirus: RCCG Amends Its Worship Schedule In Lagos & Ogun States by bukatyne(f): 11:01am On Mar 19, 2020
Sunnycliff:
This is a trying time for the church. God keep us
Trying times for the church ke?

Is the church under persecution?
Family › Re: . by bukatyne(f): 10:21am On Mar 19, 2020
easyconnect:
Some of you claiming we can't marry single mother are not even capable of loving yourself not to talk of loving a single lady. I blame the @op who brought her personal life here in the first place.
You don't need to be sorry. You are harsh already
Everyone has the right to their choice.

I know a lady who did not marry a single dad even though her own sister was a single mom.
Family › Re: . by bukatyne(f): 10:18am On Mar 19, 2020
easyconnect:
Deserve as how? Like the men are too good for her or what do you mean?
If she levels up with the men she is interested in.

Just how a guy wants to chyke a lady and they tell him 'he is not in her level.'

Water seeks its level.
Family › Re: What Have You Bought This Year That Was A Waste Of Money? by bukatyne(f): 10:16am On Mar 19, 2020
I bought unsweet and unripe mangoes after having a high expectation. undecided

Would need to seek the other seller I got the older batch from.
Christianity Etc › Re: Coronavirus: Apostle Joshua Selman In UK, Shocked As Members Refuse To Hold Hand by bukatyne(f):
rattlesnake:
My concern is for us to be relevant in future

in technology
in heath
in education
in research

not only in priesthood...etc
Hmmmmm.

It is not the Pastor's duty to teach you to be relevant in Science.

You can however apply your Pastor's teachings to be a better scientist, excel better in school etc.

For instance, the Bible says 'you see a man diligent in the work? He will stand before Kings and not mere men.'

If your pastor teaches on diligence and you apply it on your job, you will excel.
Christianity Etc › Re: Coronavirus: Apostle Joshua Selman In UK, Shocked As Members Refuse To Hold Hand by bukatyne(f): 6:15am On Mar 19, 2020
rattlesnake:
exactly
what is the application of priesthood
this is what am saying
priesthood
apostolic dimension
prophetic veto
seeing in the spirit

what do we apply these messages in
The Spirit rules the physical.
Family › Re: Does He Want You Or Does He Deserve You? by bukatyne(op): 8:33pm On Mar 18, 2020
crackkhaus:
I guess there are a multitude of low self-esteemed women then, extremely beautiful and classy ones too...because some of his topics while controversial, are actually the reality of things.

I guess it's up to people like you to focus on making women discover themselves...but until that happens, let gamers continue enjoying.

Afterall na women dem dey play, dem no kill person. grin
@bold:

If there is a word more than 'multitude' sef. There are beautiful, rich, classy, classless low self-esteemed people.

Unfortunately, some parents over compensate and breed narcissist women and men.

Hopefully, more people would discover/build their worth.
Travel › Re: Coronavirus: US Consulate In Nigeria Cancels All Visa Applications by bukatyne(f): 8:13pm On Mar 18, 2020
wonuks:
Wait are there people that still wants to go out of this country?
Honestly, I don't get.
Family › Re: No More Pack Your Load And Go,divorce Your Wife And Forfeit Your House To Her by bukatyne(f): 8:00pm On Mar 18, 2020
proclinician:
Lol to be honest I am not the man that will build a house just like I'm waiting for heavy rain to start my foundation and a woman I marry will take my house from me. This is real funny. A woman that has spent all her years on embellishments with nothing useful to her name except Brazilian head and pubic hairs lol while i toil morn afternoon and night. Lol It's not just possible. That judge that's telling me to leave my house for such worthless woman is a joker and should be in the cliques of akpos and bovi
You mean out of all the 3.5 billion women in the world, you chose a worthless woman?

It says more about you than her.
Family › Re: My Husband Is In A Quest Search For A Girlfriend by bukatyne(f): 7:52pm On Mar 18, 2020
Whyzaid:
you are funny
How?
Romance › Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by bukatyne(f): 5:55pm On Mar 18, 2020
Phadg:
Hi guys i just joined NL and from what have been reading on here bfor i sign up i feel i might get a response from nairalanders

Am a lady that believes in building with a man and not looking for an already made guys am also an independent lady so i dont really need your money,i work for what i spend, Atimes i end up giving out of the little i earn to my partner, now this is the sad part these guys take me for a fool some just start acting up like some1 with psychosis{apologies} but it the truth well i just broke up with my boyfriend cause i cant deal with his bullshit anymore. now my question is
1. IS IT BAD FOR ME TO SHOW YOU I LOVE YOU?
2. IS IT A SIN FOR ME TO WANT TO BE INVOLVE IN YOUR LIFE{I BELIEVE WE ARE SUPPOSE TO BE THERE FOR EACHOTHER}?
3.IS ASKING FOR A LITTLE TRANSPARENCY A SIN?
4.WHY DO GOOD GIRLS HAVE BADLUCK WHEN IT COMES TO GETTING A GUY?

APOLOGIES FOR THE LONG POST.
1. Understand yourself
2. Develop a healthy self-esteem
3. Love your own company.

Don't apologize, you are just learning work for long posts. grin

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