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Eberechi24:
Women are not dummies as being projected on this forum. Just like you and l,other women equally spend their time on those threads.

I am glad we are on same page.

They should keep providing us with free resources. What do women know? Nothing. We are dummies. Lol.

MOnkeyBabe:
but JeSus ChRist placed a high PRemium on himself )( yet he offered his life to Save people who treated him like CRaP. He said father,"foRGive them for they do not know what they do".

berbz:
I really need your advice on this please...

My wife and her mum went to pack everything in our matrimonial home because we had issues. She said she can't live with me anymore. She packed everything and left me with nothing.
She's a legal wife and her mum followed her to pack things from my house.

Can I take her back

kennybabs1980:
I dated her while in the university, she was a very nice girl. She got another man while I was still hustling around looking for jobs, so we couldn't get married. We actually discussed then and I released her to go and marry because she is my age mate, we were born same year and I wouldn't want to ask her to continue waiting while I continue to hustle. I married 4 years after her. We have been friends on Facebook since 2010 and there's nothing unusual between us. She live in Ibadan with her family while I live in Akure. In January 2020 she asked me to assist her financially to meet certain personal obligation which her hubby couldn't meet because his business isn't doing well of late, she said she'll need the money by end of February and that it's I who she had in mind that could be of help. I promised to do something before the time. She didn't tell me the details of what she wanted to do with the money. Mid February, I was able to sell off 2 plots of land I bought some years ago, In have been trying to sell of the plots without success for sometime. I transferred something tangible to her account which she appreciated so much. Last week in February, I saw a lot of pictures of people in beautiful dresses on Facebook and Instagram. It was a big birthday party for her hubby. I just wrote congratulations. One thing with me is that I hate spending money on parties, I'll rather give it to people around me or invest in buying land.
She later chatted with me on messenger and informed me that I made the birthday party happen, that she used the money I gave her to organize a surprise party for her hubby. I was so amazed.
Why did she have to tell me she used the money I gave her for the party?
Why did she had to seriously beg me for such money?
Where will she tell her hubby she for the money from?
Why didn't she tell me what she wanted to use the money for?

oshozondii:
http://muslimrightsmuric..com/2020/04/right-of-reply-mind-your-own-business.html?m=1

Ladylite:
Am in the UK and I know how you feel.

Sadly you can't seem to see the bitter truth. A man who really cares will be there. True love always finds a way.

shekhaz:
I didn't say he doesn't believe I miss him. The lock down with nothing to do aside take care of the kids makes me miss his companionship.

Eberechi24:
Being on this forum should teach you a lot. Many threads on this forum may be projected against women but there is bright side of it.

I recommend every woman to read Miseducation by Ubunjà esp the one's written for men and Dating drills by Harddoón You may not enjoy what you read but it's gonna help you guard yourself (heart)

Sometimes, you need read what you should know and not what you want to hear. Just like this thread. This thread is "undebateable" true.

Alooone:
Why are you asking

Depriest2020:
I don't know if it's sex you miss most about him? If it is, then I advise you be collecting from your ex till he comes back. But don't forget to apologise to him.

shekhaz:
I opened this thread to get views and advice from my fellow women who are in my shoes. I got married in 2012 and we are blessed with two lovely kids. My husband had always travel even before we got married. But last year he decided to stay back to work his way to getting green card. I have been trying to manage his absence by keeping busy with work and the kids. But covid 19 is making everything difficult now. Often times I have always cried myself to sleep at night. I never saw myself living in this situation but these past few weeks has been hell. Presently I have insomnia, I miss him so much I think I might break down soon. I don't know what to do anymore. He never takes me seriously when I cry to him. He believes I am not being emotionally strong since it will only be for a short while.
I know I can't be alone in this. Please I need advise from women who have been in this situation. How did you cope? Are you guys together now? How did deal with the kids when they miss their daddy?
Thank you for your input

Resurgent2016:
It seems you gone past the point of deciding if she is the one you'll like to spend the rest of your life with. However, I'll advice you to give a second thought to what people are telling you here. Indeed you may actually find more happiness there than with non-single mom. However, the people reading you the riot act also have a point, these relationships can get very complicated once you officially go in because there are more than two parties at the center. Stay safe, stay happy...

https://www.nairaland.com/5731810/husband-doesnt-want-son-come

Imogenn:
I’m wondering if a married man can keep a close female friend, who is single with nothing attached. They were friends before the man got married. They talk and gist, advice themselves, but they are strictly friends. Is this possible?

RisenPhoenix:
Child care is primary. Husband care is next. Whatever she likes to do after that is her problem as long as there is no negative impact on the first two duties.



Ubunja has his methods and I have mine. I studied red pill techniques long before Ubunja started his miseducations here, and I have discovered long since that Ubunja's theories of spinning plates, and pump and dump do not work any longer for me. I suspect that he will soon realise this too when he gets tired.

Lol; and you of all people should know what a simp is. You're one of the biggest on NL, despite your pretences and aspirations to the contrary.

GreatResearcher1:
stop this madness and what she does is just sex?

ubunja more redpill is need in family section. husbands are becoming simps

RisenPhoenix:
For real bro. No be joke.



You just have to know how to train them from day 1. Women will actually do anything for you if they are still attracted to you, and if they are not stressed and tired. That is why I preach that men should be responsible for all finances and if possible, to pay for a househelp or two. When wives are rested, husbands enjoy them; from experience.

OlawaleBammie:
Ahahahahahaha, guy abeg free me joooh.

laf wan kee me here, how belle take show wen u no gree pour the aqueous solution na

Wat if u no do d withdrawal, na so so triplets u for gather take arange house oo.




Eeeh!! Do housewives perform BJs as well?? wen no b oloshoes!!

lilyheaven:
If you continue to wait to see them stabilize, it means you will never marry. If your sister who is living with a man still request money from you, it means you will be the one to train her children in school.
The truth is that if you are not there, they will still survive.
After this covid-19 pandemic, don't send money for three months and you will be shocked how fine they will be.
Don't give yourself headache please, we live this life once.

Naanlong01:
My people, i need advice on how to escape being a victim of a saying that ; one rich person among six other people that are poor, they are togetherly poor.
I am the only son and in-between two female siblings that are not doing well at all, i am 29 and planning to marry by next year but whenever i remember the enormous task of improving the living standard of my parents and two sisters, i'm always overwhelmed with thoughts and worries. Its not that i'm comfortable yet but i can feed myself and manage to save up 30k monthly while am still trying to expand my business to attain at least 100k monthly savings before the year ends, but the thought of how to help my family and who to start with beats me all the time.
So if you have been through this successfully, kindly help with tips. My babe is understanding and she is also my dream girl i don't want to loose her due to lack of desired attention because of my family needs, she needs me too.
I can't even dare tell them that am courting already.

APCNig:
She asked for advice, not insults nor curses.

Deltatoto:
which kind dirty vow.One Toto Dey Kill prik

genq:
Nope!

This lockdown will cause the breakdown of many marriages.
Couples who are used to having their own space will be forced to deal with the reality of their already broken relationship. Husbands and wives will get sick and tired of each other, children will be bored and will end up witnessing numerous arguments between their parents.
It's gonna be a sh!t show!

eni4real:
We need to cancel that word 'shame'.. We used it to make a lot excuse nowadays!!
Don't shame side chick
Don't shame side guy
Don't shame boob exposer
Don't body shame fat ladies scantily dressed..

Excuse can't cover for any wrong.. Those side chicks are Marital thieves...
Mercy Aigbe even encourage them to secure the bag!!
Some of them be like: "I like Married men, I don't do chewing gum guys"

GboyegaD:
Na only married people dey keep side things? It is general and shouldn't be restricted to a sect. What do you call someone dating her friend's boyfriend?

Julibet:
Don't be bias. The single people in most cases know what they go into. Especially the ladies who accept to go into relationships with the married men because of financial gains. Both are wrong!!!! End of story.!!

lalasticlala:
Star actor turned politician, Desmond Elliot is under fire over his 'kick out coronavirus' buckets and basins for washing of hands which he made available for his people.

Desmond Elliot excitedly shared the photos on his Instagram page and wrote:

"So we constructed a makeshift cleansing mechanism, where passerby’s or people entering streets could wash their hands with soap and water and also sanitize before entering the streets -pilot works can be seen in these areas
It was located across the environments. Olodeokuta, Ojuelegbe both sides, love garding, Hugan Bassy, Masha bus stop, Shirts bus stop, Adelabu, Iponri, Bode Thomas and ishaga road."

While some are hailing him, majority are blasting him.

Aksnoopy:
Only poor people sound exactly the way you do, just because you can't afford it doesn't mean someone else can't. Get a life so you don't die of covid-19 or covid- foolishness.