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This man aged like fine wine.

Great family man, terrible politician.

cococandy:
Look who’s helping mommy whip up meat pies (like she knows what she’s doing).
So many things still left to be done but we will get there. Hopefully it won’t be too much food left after.

We didn’t really celebrate the first time we bought a house but this time I believe it should be different.
Gratitude and joyfulness go a long way to make a content and happy life.

Awwwwwww

Our baby is all grown.

She is surely a natural in the kitchen.

[quote author=oikcnpwa post=79394518][/quote]She looks insane.

Insanity to cure depression.

CorperKola:
I mean, no one knows what his wife does for a living.
And she goes around kneeling to greet everyone.
Cultivating an image of a humble n dutiful housewife.
And this shortman devil is now telling ue this trash.
I expect nothing but lies from pastor, let alone a politician and a pastor rolled into one.

I will actually believe this message better coming from Buhari.

Aisha has a beautiful carriage.

Decent, modest, beautiful, confident and sure of herself.

She doesn't move about like Mrs. Osibanjo who looks like she is mourning something.

He should go teach his wife confidence first.

Even his wife carries herself as a subordinate.

No offense.

Explorers:
First picture: 1985 vs 2019.


Second picture: 1986 vs 2019 (My dad holding me vs holding mine)

Happy Father's day.

She is your replica and could pass for you if she's on low cut.

akingonline:
FATHER'S SACRIFICE - BEYOND PROVISIONS
And when they were departed, behold, the angel of the Lord appeareth to Joseph in a dream, saying, Arise, and take the young child and his mother, and flee into Egypt, and be thou there until I bring thee word: for Herod will seek the young child to destroy him.
When he arose, he took the young child and his mother by night, and departed into Egypt:
And was there until the death of Herod: that it might be fulfilled which was spoken of the Lord by the prophet, saying, Out of Egypt have I called my son. Matt 2:13-15

Joseph like every other man and father must have been properly settled down in Bethlehem with good accommodation, job, friends and relatives. He must have been comfortable to some extent before the instruction to relocate urgently due to the threat to the life of their baby. He could have given it a second thought of sending just the mother and the child while he remain to make some money. His plan must have been greatly distorted, he probably had to disconnect all the partnerships, agreements and relationship he has taken time to build just because of the child. The financial strain and stress might be great on him especially due to the fact that it was impromptu. Apart from the impact of such relocation on his business and finance, it will definitely take a toll on him physically, having to carry some loads, with a nursing mother and the baby. This is an example of what it takes to be a good father. It involves a lot of sacrifice, commitment and diligence. Father's responsibility is far beyond provision of material needs for the family. It involves so many things including spiritual sensitivity and leadership as we can see in the case of Joseph, the angel spoke to him not the wife now. Good fathers needs to maintain a good spiritual atmosphere where they can hear what the Lord is saying concerning them or any member of their immediate family. This entails studying the word, praying and fasting regularly.
Another key responsibility of a father apart from provision is to ensure that the family is protected. Protection is not only physical, but emotional and social protection. Sometimes we found ourselves in an environment in which there are abuses, immoral values, hatred and other evil vices, we must ensure that are our family are properly shielded from them by consciously impacting sound training in a joyful way. Just like Herod was a big threat to baby Jesus, there are so many things that threatened the wellbeing of the lives of our children and we must endeavor to preserve our children from such, usually in a sacrificial way. For example good fathers must stop watching some TV shows, some drinks and other things not proper for the child's wellbeing.
Another responsibility of a father is good attention. The instruction given to Joseph was that he should take and not send your wife and child to Egypt. Sending them (mother and the child only) will make Joseph irresponsible, his physical presence and support is very crucial. Good fathers must not be too busy that they don't have time for their children. They need to create time to be with them, play with them and interact with them. Fathers actually need the grace of God in order to discharge their responsibility effectively. Develop a good relationship with God to tap into this grace, if you have not given your life to Jesus, it's a must to do that before you can establish a relationship with the father.

http://thewordinspiration..com.ng/2018/03/fathers-sacrifice-beyond-provision.html

Very lovely post. Hopefully it gets front page and people learn the money is the least thing a father provides.

Sex before marriage is fornication, outside marriage is adultery.

Sex is only allowed and celebrated in marriage.

And except you have the gift of celibacy, sex and music are food to the soul.

chuks34:
women will never change, they will always bleach
only the daughter has a different colour

It is her DIL

RiyadhGoddess:
Happy Father's day to these great men of God. Thank you for answering the call of God. Thank you for transforming lives. I am a Testimony. I celebrate you Sirs @Pastor David Ogbueli & Pastor Shola Olapade.

What about your dad and/or husband?

Noah2gud:
To all father,
Happy Father's Day

And to all Mother's,
Try to make your husband happy all the time

Father share this with your wife so as to leave a fulfill married life


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XvtP1-jS-TU

Nice one.

deliveryboy:
Stop this good father narrative. Sometimes fathers have to put down the strong foot even if we don’t like it, his job is not to appear good most times. Thrashing fathers all the time has made young men not look up to being fathers because fathers have been made villains. Just wish fathers happy Father’s Day.

I don't know what you mean by a father's job is not to look good always.

However, when a parent who has the moral capacity to do so corrects you in love by punishment or spanking, it sinks.

Children do not hate parents because of discipline, they hate them because the corrector often times doesn't have the moral authority to do so.

Happy fathers day to all fathers.

Very informative

Thanks OP

lawman88:
I really need help and strategies to handle this matter. My wife sister came three weeks ago to live with us. She is 22 yrs. My problems now is her dressing mode which my wife is not careful about.
This lady always wear see-through singlets and night gowns. She has big breasts and always displaying them. I don't know how I will tell my wife to talk her sister to cover herself. She may feel bad that I'm attracted to her sister.
During the sallah holiday, I was with her alone because my wife don't holiday in her place of work, I have to leave the house and stay in the accommodation given to me in my place of work.
This morning, I carried my undies to wash, she crossed me and told me to give it to her to wash, the towel she tied because she was going to bathroom before was removing and showing her full breasts and she never worry about that.
Our marriage is just one year and I never cheated on my wife and she trusted me but her sister is really giving me emotional trauma. Can you imagine, yester night, my wife went to a programme, I was with her. So I called her around 8 pm that we should pray and go to bed. This lady came with a see-through night gown with a push up bra that put all breasts outside. Even her pant color was visible. I tried to control myself....
Even this morning, she came for prayer with the same gown and my wife did not caution her.....
How can I handle this matter?

Is there any specific reason why the girl is with you?

If no, it is time to go.

If yes, she needs to learn how to dress to the level of modesty OP and his wife has set for their home.

Curdlebug:
Hello Nairaland users,

I need advice on where I can get best deals for my late mum gold jewelries... Pure gold engagement and wedding rings and a pair of ear rings

Why don't you keep it and gift it to your wife?

sisisioge:
You kuku refused to read their advice ba . They said once values, visions, purpose and everything in between are misaligned, nothing can work. These two are true to self. By the way darling, which church did you recently join fa? May we find truth, peace and wisdom around us. Cheers darling .

Church I recently joined ke?

My point is that if they are civil enough to compose this together, maybe they could still salvage the marriage with compromises.

Well it is true to discover yourself before marriage (I say that a lot here), people change.

For instance, Rihanna is a musician who has evolved to a business mogul and actress. According to some sources, she made more money in her makeup business than music which is her core. Imagine if she was married as only a musician and her husband is not willing to grasp that his waist winding musician is now interested in numbers.

Michelle Obama was a brilliant lawyer who transitioned into a housewife and now an author.

Arole the comedian has added movies under his belt.

Victoria Beckham changed from music into a business mogul. Etc.

No one stays the same so we need to be very flexible.

If on Feb 1st 2018 someone told me that by Mar 2018 I would have a book manuscript, I would have thought the person was crazy.

We need to be flexible and ready to grow with our partners.

Any reason they couldn't start afresh rather than divorce?

Carlyscales:
But if them Sabi all these good advice.

Y dem com divorce las Las. Infact celebrating it sef.

My pale n malee wey no Sabi reach half of those still they together after 40yrs

Longetivity of marriage does not necessarily mean that all is well.

That is one thing we forget.

ifyalways:
No better amala joint for Lekki,Ikoyi, Vgc area sha

If you know please mention. Abeg no mention Toyin lawanis place

There is a nice joint at Ologunfe B/stop Awoyaya.

I am surprised the school let her play.

If she wants to be king Tonto, she should be kinging in her room.

When they call fathers to a public event especially where there are impressionable kids, she should stay clear or invite Churchill to represent.

essenceplus:
Is this how you want to stylishly escape from answering the question

Question is 'Men, why do you hate outspoken women'?

Am I a man?

essenceplus:
Cc Bukatyne Queensekxy

It is the men that will answer na.

I really love Aisha Buhari's composure.

Decent, modest confident with a smile always.

Negative criticism breeds Low self esteem which manifests as bullying or timidity.

Unfortunately, most Nigerians above 30 were brought up like that.

To compensate, this new generation parents have gone extreme and do not correct their kids appropriately.

We are looking forward to a selfish and narcissistic generation.

When younger, I used to scrap irregular patterns off my wooden desk and that of my surrounding seat mates with the open bottom of my pen.

Those pictures are ewwwwww!

A is the stage you pass to the youngest when eating chicken as a snack.

Boiled chicken, D
Fried chicken C

I hate wastage

pocohantas:
The guy is a civil guy.

He started with salutations. GOOD!!

She gave that "fyn nd u"

For me, (fyn nd u)= abort mission. I can't be typing in full and you reply me with that nonsense. Not at this point in my life.

Anyway, he didn't stop. He proceeded to introduce himself. EXCELLENT!!!

Now, he didn't need to ask/beg for her name. Her response to his introduction should be her own name and some nitro!!! NOT THAT DUMB "OKAY".

Okay what? Okay the name is fine?
Okay, continue talking while I reply in 4 letter words?

She says he is interviewing her. It is an interview because she was not giving him cue. When someone starts a conversation, you reply and add something to keep it going.

Don't say, "Gloria" then shut up.
Don't say "Okay", that's dismissive.

Finally, she says "MUMU...COMMON MEANINGFUL CHAT WITH A GIRL, YOU CANT DO".

She just had to finish work with that entitlement mentality of sit back and allow a young man stress himself to keep you talking.

Chick is actually an ODE, the guy is right on that one. Bye

Very insightful.

The guy even tried

What in God's name is fyn n u?

Are you an illiterate?

And how does a guy chat with an ill mannered girl?

The lady is rude.

The guy is a pretender. The lady's rudeness brought out the real him.

Amakavula:
The guy started off with too much respect, don't over respectful women, it shows us you lack capacity.

Be bold ( not arrogant ) fearless ( not stupid ) and careless( with subliminal tact ) about chatting with ladies, that shiitt ticks us off with good vibe, shows you are in charge and have capacity.

If I was the guy, I would start off with something, a little negative, have the lady on the defense from the go; then swoop in to save the day ( gets a few laughs too)

Maybe talk about:

You: "..my friend always say ladies on filters are low key scammers ?"

she is curious, asks why,
You : " pretty and worwor ones hide behind it," hard to tell which is which.."

she laughs
You laugh

You: you know you can't hide forever?
She : " that I worwor ? "
You: " are you saying you are cos I never concluded ? "

Now you have neg her, have her high esteem in check, you can just ignore the conversation and ask other things. It becomes easy for you. ( don't try this with me you will fail , but it works for my Male friends I advised )

A man with power, money, or fame would never over respect anyone.

Imagine Wizkid chatting her, he wouldn't try to over praise because he is the prize. You are to him anyone, adopt that mentality all women has.

Why I agree the Gloria in the OP was rude and unfriendly, only a girl with low self esteem and something to prove will fall for this bullshit.

And no offense, you sound like someone with low self esteem.

@OP:

No.

Every family needs a fantastic father and mother for grooming.

donbachi:
Are you talking about women taking over sectors or the role of a father?second fiddle or not..the first role of a father is to care for his family,which has to with financing his home..you dont expect a man that leaves home by 6am and comes back by 8pm from daily struggles.only to wake his kids up to join him outside for them to play football or run round the compound.saturdays and sundays are ok for family outings,assist in home work,have fun with them and spend quality time together.lastly,every man is the lion of his own home..they says"spare the rod and spoil the child....and na still una say "no food for lazy man"

Women run that schedule and still manage to participate in their children's affairs and contribute all the OP listed.

Mellowbandw:
I have no definition of any of them and that is while I am eager to hear from experienced people because my father is talking about need for me to consider marriage as I choose my career path.

Discuss with your dad on what he means with practical scenarios.