₦airaland Forum

Daeylar:
It's really disgusting reading stories of policemen brazenly arresting women just to rape them and the excuse is that they are prostitutes which is supposed to make their arrest and rape ok.
And these are the animals women are supposed to report rape cases to.

Animals that are looking for how to rape women themselves.

Can't these policemen be killed? The misogyny in the Nigerian society is disgusting.

There is no misogyny in this story, just misuse of power and authority. That's why SARS would arrest innocent guys and kill/arrest them etc.

Who brought this to FP?

jnrbayano:
I read your advice to her and that is nice

I can't add anymore

Thanks.

PropertyBlogger:
You welcome.
Will really like to hear what you want to joke about though, maybe it will help to improve our articles. Anyway please recommend our blog to family and friends. Thanks

Hahahahaha

Never mind.

jnrbayano:
But she says it's not

She said young able bodied men turn her on.

Her hubby is 40+ while she is just 20+

MrBrownJay1:
Yet he was willing to marry this known prostitute.... Ok sir!

I wonder o!

Nigerian man owns Ghana House in S/A.

She's been around the world.

Is she related to Arnold?

Baba Don dey rock jeans with hmmm wife ke.

He looks too old for 60 sha considering his wealth.

Regina should make him glow again.

Xda59:
She is only pretending. She does not love that man a single bit. When dust settles and she gets accustomed to the life of luxury like she was born into it, she will become bored and sad again wishing her husband was young and handsome. It is just the way it is.

She should learn from Bianca and Shade Okoya

Whobedatte:
But ladies always say they detest polygamy

The only casualty in polygamy is the first wife.

Marbella003:
I have a main account but I decided to create this one to post this in order to avoid embarrassment or reveal my identity.

I got married 4 years ago to my husband. He was in his 40s and I was in my 20s. The age difference between us has never really been a problem as we are both educated, well spoken, have similar personalities and share a lot of interests, and as a result we mesh well. My husband is a very caring and thoughtful man. This is one of the traits that made me fall helplessly for him, along with his intelligence and fun personality. I will not reveal anything pertaining to kids as this might punch a hole in my wall of anonymity.

I've always loved my husband and I still do. But I've never really been sexually attracted to him. This is not to say that I find him unattractive. No. He is okay as far as physical appearance goes, but his look has never been the kind to turn me on sexually. To put it plainly, I find that I'm only sexually attracted to young men around my age with tall, athletic bodies and with the energy and agility to please a woman satisfyingly in the bedroom. I met this kind of man in my work place and after we talked a few times I couldn't help but become attracted to him. I realized he was also attracted me, and fast forward to a week ago, we had sex in a hotel room.

I'm ashamed to admit that sex with him was glorious, but it truly was. It was better than anything I had ever done with my husband. I loved how he tossed me around the bed and did stuff to me that my husband doesn't do and I liked how ever part of his body felt firm and strong. After the act I felt a wave of shame wash over me. I recognized that I had committed an atrocity and I knew I had broken my marriage vows. The guilt of what I had done followed me around like a stench. I hated myself for betraying a man that had always loved and cared for me.

The problem I now face is that despite the guilt and the shame I constantly feel, I still yearn to experience another period of sexual bliss with my colleague. I can't help it. I'm torn. I already told my colleague that that one time was the last but deep down I don't want it to be. I know that if I tell my husband about what I did, that it would mark the end of my relationship with my colleague, but I don't know exactly how my husband would receive this information. I don't want him to look at me and see a betrayer of trust; a woman lacking integrity and virtue. No. I even thought of resigning from my job or requesting a transfer so as not to be in close proximity with my colleague but I know that wouldn't solve anything as I still have his social media info and occasionally stalk him(yes I do). I'm so conflicted. I don't know what to do.

This thread is one of the first I am seeing men give concrete advise as regards a cheating wife.

None of the dramatics, we are getting there.

@OP: You married your husband for money hence the 20yr gap while you desire a young guy sexually.

So far, your husband has been good to you, doing his own side of the bargain. Still you found a side bobo and after round 1, you want more (naturally).

These facts tell me that you are currently not capable to think long term or deep enough to match actions with consequences.

If you were,
1. You wouldn't have married papi when it is a young man that sets you on fire.

2. After sleeping with the young man, you would have cleaned mouth because you know that long term is destruction.

That side, except you have a mind shift, you will sleep with the young guy again and again and when he is done, you will pick someone else.

It is good that you did not lay the blame on him however on yourself so the solution is not him changing or gyming but your mindset has to change.

Unfortunately in sexual matters, the intended heart wants what it wants.

So you need to retrain that heart to desire your husband and learn styles that make up in charge so you tell him what to do.

You would be shocked that your husband also desires to flip you but is scared you might not like it.

You can also initiate role play where you are his girl and ask him to do whatever he likes.

Again, older men marry younger women for their youth. Have you brought youthfulness to his life or are you waiting passively for him to initiate?

Worst case, get good dildos and fvck yourself to stupor if that would satiate you.

Need I say you should go and sin no more?

However, if you want to destroy your marriage and future of your kids, you can ride on with the dude.

meobizy:
Ah, this is a very simple situation.
In the same way you cheated on your husband with your colleague from work, you can easily uncheat on him.
Too much will not kill me.

Too much sense abi?

truthsayer009:
It's mentally not the same feeling with women at all, emphasis on Not at all, you can argue this all day long. Polygamous marriages have been fine for families without Women complaining for decades but a Man cannot stand this thought of another Man climbing his Wife.

He'd rather hang himself & die.

Are you a transgender man?

You know how you feel like killing your boss but restraining yourself because the next paycheck is coming from there?

That is it is for those women.

Acidosis:
Your love for adventure and fun will definitely lead you to more sexual explorations.

You haven't even started adultery yet. You're still rehearsing. I can place a bet on this, you would sleep with at least 5 guys before the end of 2019. Just keep calm and prepare yourself for a divorce.

No ONE man can satisfy a fun loving adventurous woman (sexually or not). The single ones cope since they have the privilege of jumping from one man to another, but the married ones? It's the most difficult task ever.

Your man isn't the problem here. If e like, make e relocate go gym centre, your adventurous lifestyle will never be satisfied.

Hmmmm.

For all we know, she might have married a virgin.

The problem is the age gap.

truthsayer009:
Spot on! I use to say this to people, everyone thinks I'm childish. "If you spend enough time with a Guy & you don't naturally feel like Fvcking him, he ain't the one". Irrespective of whether it is a no-sex relationship or not, once the thought never comes in. Bye!

There is this line I read upto 10 times, Chaiii the thing sweet me die.


I can bet my 1 month salary on it that she will go back for Round 2, Round 3 even 4. Usually at 7 is where It stops, as my Pastor use to say, 7 is the number of perfection.

Hahahahahaha!

So he killed his first wife in 2003 because she stole N450k.

He broke out of jail in 2013 and met this GF.

Along the story, GF aborted 4mths pregnancy and carted away his belongings.

Guy man decided to do what he knows how to do best: kill and this time, 8 people.

They need to trace the first prison he broke out and make the people there pay.

Again, people need to go background checks, we have many psychopaths around us.

Jayslicky:
For the wages of sin is death, the guy simply implied it for her, same treatment would be given to him.
I'm sure if was a female that did what he did, different excuses would have been brought up for her, people would say he was wicked to her he should bear all the cosequence.
We are truly living in a hypocritical world, am not justifying his crime but just saying the truth.

Read your post slowly this time and make sense.

IamD18:
Rejecting a woman's food is one of the best way to punish or make her feel bad.

But trust me; You'll hardly see a woman accept this fact.

Too much African Magic.

True.

She should meet their father(s).

I was going to joke around but...

Thanks for the informate.

Poverty of the mind.

sowilli:
when married men decide to have sex with their maids. Sometimes the maids aren’t forced. How did you come to conclude she wasn’t forced, thought they denied it sometime ago. It’s obvious this girl is still a child. Given her background also, you will agree with me she knows little. If she was well travelled and exposed, I am not sure she would make this choice.

While I do not support this madness, I doubt she was forced to marry or sleep with him.

A maid is an employee and that element of fear of job loss is there and could be a deciding factor.

lepasharon:
These guys caused it. When they keep breeding with different women and creating single mothers upandan

Creating broken families upandan

It is not only the men that are to blame.

Ishilove:
She seems like a 'wherever the wind blows' kind of person and is unsure of her true calling in life. Six years is quite a long time to still be floating in uncertain waters

True.

Hence she needs to discover what she wants.

And if it is staying at home, so be it.

kingcalipha:
I see a man rejected and intimidated by ladies when he had nothing taking his revenge.

Revenge on whom?

His first wife who accepted him?

She is the only hurt party.

cococandy:
No need for sharing old dickk with depleted sperm bank when you can make your own money.

Honestly I don't understand.

She has the potential to make her own money.

I am sure Regina is not a poor lady on her own.

There are also countless young men who are not poor who will marry her.

Such a waste.

I would have thought Caroline was lesson enough.

mvem:
...59 vs 18 isn't that paedophilia ...if na north now una go shout child marriage ..... Am not in support of anyone bashing her online but let's call a spade a spade...will you be proud to marry your 18 year old to a 59 year old ....Regina is a star with lot of potentials, the 59 year old man can't be the only best opportunity for her as a husband ....look at the long term, the money she will get used too and start looking outside....what about kids etc...its not just right

She wasn't forced.

delishpot:
That was what his first wife thought and said

Hmmmmmm

So sad.

After hustling with him.

Deep!

CandidNotes:
Now I understand Annie's strange statement of yesterday...

What did she say?

I wish he could raise them under one roof.

Part-time fatherhood is not it.