₦airaland Forum

Very good one from Guinness.

Hopefully, others would follow.

Kobicove:
I can understand the excitement concerning the paternity leave bit what's the fuss concerning maternity leave?

It has been increased from 12 weeks (3mths) to 26 weeks (6.5mths)

The woman is dumb.

Like my firm belief: know your leverage and work with it.

Except she is slow, she should have known that life/women in Saudi is different from where she is coming from so looking the guy in the face to divorce him would not fly.

From her cousin's narrative, she goes home for Christmas so why didn't she wait for Christmas and just disappear?

Saudi doesn't even sound like a place where 'verbal and emotional' abuse against women is a thing.

Solution:
1. She either figures out a way to leave without her daughter

Or

2. She goes back to the marriage cap in hand forgetting her American background and learn how fellow Saudi women manage their homes and husbands with emotional/verbal abuse. Since her heart has led her to a Saudi man, her body should be ready to pay the price.

By the way, the husband allowed her keep her business after marriage? She still has access to her phones and lives with him even though they are divorced?

How generous of him.

Something tells me it's all about the money and the mumu thought she could play a fast one like in Amelika.

ifyalways:
Of all the men in this world, she chose a Saudi Arabian and as if that is not enough, left her country for Saudi with him?

She's found what she's looking for.

Hahahaha

Funny thread.

According to some wives, it is an opportunity to get the attention of their husbands which they would never get again.

For some others, it is his baby and should invest in him/her too.

WarHorse1:
The real reason Mr. Biggs fell this bad is little to do with bad customer service. Rather the business they are into was the cause. Many will say Mr. Biggs was into the business of fast-food. For me, capital NO. They were into the business of selling class satisfaction. Why did you ever go to Mr. Biggs to get whatever you eat? My guess? You wanted to please your girl or you wanted to give yourself a treat for a month end pay or your financial level demanded that Mr. Biggs was the place or you wanted to experience eating in a cozy cozy conditioning. Hardly, maybe a few times, did you go there because you wanted food that fast.

Now, I was in Benin when Mr.Biggs came in. The queues were busting the glass doors. It was the only one back then in time. The wealthy in town flocked there. I remember see some Edo house of Assembly guys there. It was a thing of pride to walk the streets with a Mr. biggs paper bag. Guys saved money to give their babes a one time treat there. Then came another (can't remember the name now) at Airport-road - I think it was owned by the one Mr.Prest. People started to opt for the new one in town. Yes, maybe there were some difference in the taste of the food. But one glaring difference was the look of the place. It was far better than that of Mr. Biggs. Then came Kaddies, with new looks and new attractions, it won people from the previous operators and so on and so forth - Tantalizers, chicken republic etc.

It was clear. The only way to stay competitive in this business was to put on added impressive looks or physical attractions. Interestingly, operators like GT foods are still in business. Why? Because their business is selling food not selling class satisfaction. GT sells food at comparatively lesser price in basic decent places. They even open outlets in student populated areas.

Much of Mr. Biggs outlets are still wearing the looks they used in winning the so called class market. It is just that those looks have been obliterated by the new ones. Just imagine if Mr. Biggs opens something like what Orientals have in Lagos at VI. Men!, they would be back in Business but for a while - while "it" lasts.

McDonald is operating in a country that is less class oriented as Nigeria. Selling in a class sensitive society requires difference rules of the game.

Mr. Biggs has two options and option one is - build more attractive outlets (possibly name them after some of our celebrities)and sell the same thing as they do now (Nigeria funny o) or sell food in basic but decent outlets to the average class. Doing business in Nigeria na wahala

This is insightful.

Now, I am relating with how fast food has grown in Nigeria.

They now position themselves as a place to eat away from home.

Some have also keyed into healthy living stuff and stocking more natural alternatives.

Yewandequeen:
this girl is gradually loosing it.

Gradually ke?

This one don enter gear 5.

Finally.

deebrain:
No matter how this generation paints it, the concept of being a baby mama is degrading the woman gender.

Maybe they do not want marriage however want kids.

The baby mama arrangement suits them perfectly.

See how fresh girls turn themselves to baby mamas.

Except they also do not want marriage sha.

virgoquin:
Congrats to her

This Nairaland sef only alfa males everywhere

No bi only alfa males, na woli males.

Dannyset:
Mtchewwwww!
Toothless bulldogs. I was expecting to see something like "The Supreme Court" not some 50kobo Coalitions.

Rubbish

That 50kobo coalition can wreck havoc if not checked and placated.

meobizy:
Ah ah, them swear for these akatas?
Which kind of-.
If the mother is alive the aunt has no right over the child except in cases of abuse, imprisonment or drug-induced negligence.

I am shocked.

@OP: this is a bra top.

blank:
I used to have so much respect for this woman. But lately, I have started rethinking.

Hahahahahaha

King44:
married men who loves their wives but found of cheating does it for fun of what it is, when push comes to shove that is when your would know they don't joke with their wives

Only the stupid among men would cheat on their wives to the extent their wives would start feeling the impact

my advice if your husband is found of cheating but he loves you till death, see you better don't break up you family, kill your self or disturb the peace in your life and family cos if you do you are indirectly preparing the way for side chicks to take over your position and your family, just wrap a pack or two packets of condom in his box and put him in prayers also reason with him nicely once a while, shikene don't kill ur sef

Also don't forget to always dress smashing and be at your best so that his conscience won't let him rest, even if you know the side chicks look down on them like flies and live your life to it fullest

Your ability to give an advise you can't take must be commended.

Flip the man for woman in your post and read it again. It makes no sense abi?

Radarada.

Parents need to bring up their sons better.

thelastorca:
this woman is stupid

more likely than not, the side chick is the one taking the lion's share of the husband

madam is most likely juggling work, pikin, domestic etc etc and is too tired to put out, has maybe gained weight she has been unable to lose.

meanwhile sidechick has no worries, is hot curvy and can ride oga in 15 positions

who do you think is chopping the 'remnants here?

and a smart and scheming side chick can take over the man, turning the wife into obscure, hidden, first wife.

it dey happen wella for naija.

this is very very foolish advice.

Everytime I see, leave the side chic, she is eating remnants, I laugh in Japanese.

She enjoys all the goodness in the man and sends his shaft back home to his family for them to cater for.

Daviddson:
This is totally unbiblical.

Thank goodness you can see it.

When I talk of the Church breeding unsaved husbands, it seems like blasphemy.

How can a Reverent who should be challenging husbands and wives to stay true to their vows in spite of the sinful world say this?

Or did she discover her own husband was /is cheating on her?

I wan to believe she was quoted wrongly.

udemzyudex:
Never I repeat never.

Even my mum told me that it is not always right to consult your wife in every plan you have with your own family.

Like helping your mum,sis, brother or any other family members.
There are some decisions you have to make without consulting your wife.

Your mum told you that?

Hmmmm.

Calm4good:
Lordko and Bukatyne. And Antibrutus also, even as she is my rival for something I will not say.

Awwwwww thanks.

I appreciate that you have observed me enough to like my comments.

May I ask any particular one(s) ?

Lovely pictures, just a few days apart.

God continually bless our homes.

Ijawwomaninoyo:
There MIGHT be an atom of truth in his write up.
It has been mentioned several times that the members of his family have no access to his properties like Regina.
Does anyone have pictures of his other wives and children posing with his properties that Regina is displaying?
I guess NO!
Polygamy comes with a lot of issues.
We all experienced the rift between Bianca and Ojukwu's children, they are not even on good terms up till now.
He made her a priority over others.
Okoya celebrates Shade's birthday and wedding anniversary every year but never does that for his first wife who was with him from the beginning.

I just imagine how the first wives feel after building with the men.

AdaNri1:
Lol they have time. It’s still shacking them. Nice to see

It shouldn't shack them?

4ckz:
I have always wanted to take cute pictures, but looking at this pot I call a stomach, I just relax and stay indoors.

Maybe one day, 6 pacs would grow out of fashion, then I could model then.

Hahahaha

You write well.

lilianofentse:
Come to south Africa and you'll know what real cheating entails. Nigerian men cheat also but they know how to love thier wives fully. They don't beat thier wives as much as South African men.




It might be he's just a flirty person, but you have to sit him down and tell him you don't like it.

How can a man cheat on his wife and still love her?

djon78:
Did I at anytime talk about that
I was just responding to those that say they only eat out.
Domestic help is a must
It is necessary
I was never against that
But those that claim career and work to neglect there home front
Even me I am a well domesticated man
There is no chore a woman will use to do guy for me
I ain't lazy

And I still run my company
I was raised well
And my children will also be raised like that

OK, I get you.

TheFacelessMan:
On another thread, was a HE. Attention seeker he is.

OH!

It is a shim?

Awon eyan bobrisky

Oluromantic:
A 10 month schedule you mean?

There's no justification sis. Cooking for yourself equates catering for yourself. At least 5 times in 10months

So once in two months is fine by you?

I would agree with you she could cook more often.

It is healthier.

alBHAGDADI:
I'll rather quote from the beginning to show you that it still says a man is the head of a woman


1 Corinthians 11 King James Version (KJV)
Be ye followers of me, even as I also am of Christ.
Now I praise you, brethren, that ye remember me in all things, and keep the ordinances, as I delivered them to you.
But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.
Every man praying or prophesying, having his head covered, dishonoureth his head.
But every woman that prayeth or prophesieth with her head uncovered dishonoureth her head: for that is even all one as if she were shaven.
For if the woman be not covered, let her also be shorn: but if it be a shame for a woman to be shorn or shaven, let her be covered.
For a man indeed ought not to cover his head, forasmuch as he is the image and glory of God: but the woman is the glory of the man.
For the man is not of the woman: but the woman of the man.
Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.
For this cause ought the woman to have power on her head because of the angels.
Nevertheless neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without the man, in the Lord.
For as the woman is of the man, even so is the man also by the woman; but all things of God.
Judge in yourselves: is it comely that a woman pray unto God uncovered?
Doth not even nature itself teach you, that, if a man have long hair, it is a shame unto him?
But if a woman have long hair, it is a glory to her: for her hair is given her for a covering.
But if any man seem to be contentious, we have no such custom, neither the churches of God.

How did headship enter this discussion?

If you wanted a Biblical quote to tell her she was created to please a man, Genesis 3 where God cursed the woman would have been more apt.

The passage you quoted further tells us that all men are birthed by women and so they are independent.

AntiBrutus:
Lol. Very true.

At my former job, I cook almost everyday. Sometimes my siblings will cut and keep every, waiting for me to just get home and cook. Right now, I don't even have that luxury of time to sit and make my own hair. Now I know why wigs be trending.

One actually mentioned that maid snatching her husband thing. She finally got one child of 12yrs, which I spoke against and they said I was speaking plenty grammar. I just commot hand. If at all my fear is my husband's universal manhood, I would rather he impregnates a grown woman than a child.

Hmmmmmm

Child labor, poverty.

Some of these parents give up their kids for the maid thingy.

BiafranBushBoy:
No.

The generation that saw working hard, toiling to provide for the family. Whether their wives were earning much or not!

Don't respond back. I don't wanna have any chat with your myopic mind!

You won't know myopic if it hits you in the face.

AntiBrutus:
Burn

They seem not to understand that there is difference between I have to do and I love to do.

That is part of going up.