₦airaland Forum

MissRaine69:
You assume the issue was with her? How do you know the issue was not with the man?

MissRaine69:
So people cannot practice family planning anymore? Not everyone has reproduction on their mind.

seunmsg:
It’s cool for Jonathan to remove a Fulani Sanusi Lamido and replace him with an Igbo Emefiele but a crime for Buhari to replace the same Emefiele with a Northerner. Una hypocrisy ehn!

chiraqDemon:
If I was white I wouldn't marry a Nigerian that doesn't already have a green card n a job. It's called sense. Can't trust Nigerians without those two things.

erifeoluwasimi:
You can say that again
Really I mentioned the word "most of women" not all
Getting married after divorce is usually a wrong way out because most times it ends same way.
Attitude of women with the issue of feminism has affected many homes
Compare statistics of 80's to now

MyGeneration:
There's no firm in Nigeria outside government that employs up to 150k people. I can say it anywhere

Raalsalghul:
Provided the Op is the lowest of them scum.
Does it warrant the woman to leave her kids.
Don't think you've looked at it from that angle.

kafulka:
bla bla bla..... People will just come online with one sub story some people without critical reasoning will just swallow it and start condemning the woman you have not heard her own side of the story

You fell sick and your wife showed no concern, a woman with whom you have two kids

It's said that in any action, there's equal and opposite reactions, some men had lost the trust and love from their wives do to infidelity and other bad behaviors, you won't understand how pained she is bcs she is still under your roof
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Mizwisdom:
Forgive her for the sake of your kids

grandlexuz:
As I look back at the last two years I acknowledge it's nothing short of a miracle to be alive. I got up on the morning of 2nd October 2017 feeling completely faint and light headed. Though I could get around I certainly could tell a whole lot was going inside me by the end of the day. Two days later when I couldn't take it any more I visited the hospital and behold my BP was 250/150. The terrified nurse in abit thought the BP monitor had malfunctioned..Lol With repeated readings revealing same numbers I was immediately placed on a Nicardipine iv drip..Whilst the Nicardipine drip was able to bring down my numbers, it bounced back to strastopheric levels as soon as it ran its course.. That was only the start of a long journey of consistently raised BP despite the best of treatments.

During hard times most folks would expect their spouse to be present lending emotional support and comfort. Quite frankly emotional support from loved ones during times of sickness is as good as the best medications. During my plight I hoped my wife and mother of our two sons will show me a tenth of the affection and attention I would readily give her had she fallen stead. How wrong I was!! I would describe my love for her in this way. If my wife had a kidney failure ( God forbid) and needed a transplant I would readily give of my one kidney without a second thought. If the operation wasn't successful and my second kidney was needed I would have given again. That is just how much I love(d) her.

To say I was abandoned by wife is an understatement. At the beginning of our relationship 11 years ago I knew she wasn't the most caring of women, but other things added up. Besides I wasn't looking for a Miss perfect and thus I indulged. One month after my health struggle I saw the true colours of the woman I had lived with for 10+ years... As I ran low on cash seeing different cardiologist so did my woman's attention diminish..Lol Infact her attention diminished faster than the cash.lol With a now restricted diet ( no salt, maggi, red oil, beef) I got up one morning to realise I had to go to the market buy food stuffs, cook them before I could eat. That was with Bp hovering around 220/130. As cash eventually dwindled I was now on my own. My life belonged to me alone and thus the responsibility to stay alive weighed heavily on my shoulders.. Shopping, cooking, doctor's visit alone, rushing to the emergency unit during points of heightened crisis etc.. I remember getting up at night with severe panic attacks, chest pain, shortness of breath to the attention of just my 5 years old son(God bless him mightily). Countless times I ferried my self to the emergency unit at odd hours unaccompanied..

By March 2018 my wife opted out of the relationship. I had taken 17 different medications over 6 months. Yet my wife didn't know the name of one..Medications that were scattered on the shelf of our room.. Fast forward to May 2019, my BP is now stable at 116/66.. That is after seeing 5 different cardiologist, 3 internists, 2 endocrinologists and 1 nephrologist.. I drink 5 medicines daily and its been a journey of extreme side effects getting to this point.. I now live with my two sons in a different town and despite the setbacks from the side effects life is still worth living and giving the best to my kids.. I still love my wife and is ready to take her back if there is a genuine repentance and willingness to make an effort in amending her ways.. Will I wait on her forever - No! If God brings a worthy woman into my life I will be willing to give love a try again..

P.S.. Blood pressure is measured in two separate figures.. The up known as the systolic ( pressure exerted on the artery walls when the heart beats) and the down known as the diastolic (Pressure exerted when the heart is resting between beats).. The systolic is expected to fall between 90-120 and the diastolic between 60-80. Thus the highest figure should be 120/80 now revised to 135/85.. Higher than that you are referred to as suffering from High Blood Pressure in different stages depending on your numbers.. High Blood Pressure is a silent killer and carries with it the risk of stroke, heart attacks, kidney diseases,coronary artery diseases, heart diseases etc.. So folks do well to check your BP regularly and get diet modification tips and or medications if appropriate..

Dottore:
Exactly my point. Her problem is worse than her daughter's and many other unmarried ladies copiously approaching 40

Dottore:
I tell you most solemnly, you don't know the angst and secret pain an unmarried lady in her 30s passes through let alone the ones being experienced by the ones in their mid 30s and above..

The pain is more when they come across their married mates, the pain is even worsened when they encounter their younger folks who are married with kids

Do u know that even the ones that married in their mid 30s are well aware of how their skin and body are less attractive when compared to ladies in their 20s not to talk of the fact that they are still apprehensive over their ability to conceive.
Compare the laps and arms of any lady in her 30s with the ones in their 20s and you'd understand what I'm talking about.

Forget about the social media smiles and so called feminist propagandists. These ladies are going through emotional hell.

Only gynecologists, priests, spiritualist, pastors and prophets can relate to this.
Argue with your keyboard

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TheAsterisk:
Get a new number, use it to open Instagram account, post pictures of one cute guy and DM her. Take it to WhatsApp and that's all. Or if you can lay hands on her phone, save the new number there with something like Zino or so. She won't notice it. You can download GBwhatsapp on your phone so you can run the two different WhatsApp accounts on one phone

atilla:
Dunno why I thot he married a man. I had to read the article like three times to understand maybe I'm sleepy. Happy married life to them

eyinjuege:
Gone are the days when Nigeria had tough men and women, all politically active and would rather die for their beliefs.
Now, it's only those as soft as Agidi we have especially this our generation of youths parading about like Yahaya Bello.
Gone were those days of Fela, Gani Fawehinmi, even Wole Soyinka in his hay days. Fela's mother's set was another set of tough people.
Na wah o, and we youths have more to lose smh

omoadeleye:
She doesn't need to go overboard on her dress

Seunosewawife:
I don't care how long it takes. I'll get him.

PEPPERified:
That is discriminatory against SS patients.

Bossjakande:
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khiaa:
Who are they?

Bossjakande:
if dey repent dey are saved. Jacob marry 2 sisters too.