₦airaland Forum

BusinessHub1:
Just two days ago I was brainstorming with my cousin. Told him a lot of women marry for just 3reasons; footing her bills, child bearing and a cover/protection. Give a woman power, money and fame and see her ditch marriage.

Women don’t love naturally, maybe in the olden days, it doesn’t work anymore. Your family background, fame, name or weight of account balance determines the level of love you get.

Even this “miss bread hawker” proofs me right.


Guys, please leave love let us HUSTLE HARD!

What do men offer in marriage?

OKorowanta:
You dont know her father yet you are saying Chris is not her father's name.

Hahaha

On a serious note, this us rather very sad.

Thought their marriage was stable.

okohjay:
Hello from the other side

Hi from the richer side.

jconsulting:
Is always a problem when women are richer than men

Really?

Restoration to Sri Lanka in Jesus name.

Starpro87:
Olajumoke Orisaguna just separated with her husband.

So what is the whole story?

RTSC:
Seeest thou a virtuous woman, her price is far above rubies.

There is a scarcity of virtuous women.

Every man proclaims his own faithfulness.... A faithful man, who can find.

Johnnycife:
All this people attacking the guy, just pray you don't enter into this kind of mess. Because where I live, I mean the house. The woman is richer than her husband that's how she shouts on him every time. Infact the man has no other option than to leave the house when her madness starts. In this life that's a way you'll talk to a man as a woman, you'll talk out the N from the spelling of MAN, and the man will become Ma.and that's exactly what she does because of her money. All this rich woman they behave like confused people most of the times

Were you there when they started their marriage?

Are you sure the man has not sown the wind and is now reaping the whirlwind?

Macnnoli4:
It is unfortunate some igbo people have this retrogressive mentality. Even the university in the east, I am schooling in, a good number of males are against having a female SUG President, busy citing that a man is the head of a home.

Hahahahah

AntiBrutus:
He simply means, BUY SUBMISSION.

Why then do they cry when some women say they do not want broke men?

I don't even know why people are attacking him, he only said the mind of lots of Nigerian men. Wasn't it on this same Nairaland that one went on a 2k date, only to come back emasculated because the girl gave herself a treat.

If you see the average Nigerian man talking about his worth in a relationship, it ends at MONEY. If you see his female counterpart talking her own, it ends at WIFELY DUTIES (sex and domestic chores).

The man is scared of the woman having more money, because he will lose his hold, since he knows he has nothing else. The woman is scared of the man being a hit and run because she wonders how many more will hit and run.

Outside these things, they are totally clueless and useless to someone who desires and wants more.

You are very wise.

An average Nigerian man has nothing else to offer than money so they need to put their women under so they keep having the advantage. They do not know the first thing about leading a home.

Their women are no better.

Only money can buy their submission.

They fit themselves.

247naijamedia:
A Nigerian man on Facebook has advised men to ensure that their wife is never more successful than them.

Echezona Enebeli said it's OK for a man to support his wife but he should never do so to the extent that she becomes richer than him.

He wrote: "You can never know the true color of a woman until she starts making more money than her man..... she will even expect the man's entire family to be worshiping her..

"The word 'SUBMISSION' does not exist in the dictionary of a successful woman...

"Therefore....umunwoke ibem.....the antidote for the above scenario is not to ever allow your wife to be more successful than you.....

"Support her...yes... but dont ever allow her to be richer than you..."

In a separate post, he criticized women who expect their husbands to do domestic chores, writing:

"Women of nowadays have really lost it.....
How could a well brought up woman...who knows the values of tradition and the place of the man in the family...expect her husband to be involved in domestic chores...especially in the kitchen department.......
What are the women of this generation turning our men into.....

"I really dont get it...."

https://www.everyvibes.com.ng/2019/04/Never-Allow-Your-Wife-To-Be-More-Successful-Than-You-Man-Nigerians-React.html

Hid wife is lucky.

She knows who she is marrying.

Better than a man who promised heaven and earth when he has same belief with the man in the OP.

Acidosis:
It all starts with poor parenting: the girl child is meant to cook while the boy sits with his idle father to drink and debate Chelsea vs. Man Utd match. Funny thing, many women of this generation still make the same mistake. The very thing they dislike about their husbands/fathers, they condone with their male children.

As in.

I am amazed women raise sons they cannot marry.

It is a sick cycle.

But bia, you are someone who believes in rigid roles na

Young03:
What your husband is doing is not bad but he's over doing it

new genration wifes baffles me

my mom will leave house by 6am comes back at 8pm n will still cook akpu

and before she leaves in the morning. she sweeps the compound


Reduce your working hours


Do u even support the family with 40% of your earnings?

Have you engaged your mum on how she really really feels?

To sweep and leave by six means she wakes about 4:30am which would not be bad if she slept early.

She gets home late fourteen hours later and prepares Akpu?

When does she sleep? Rest? Recreate?

Samshumy:
Then I’ll never assist in paying any kids school fess

Interesting.

You would not pay your kids fees if your wife doesn't contribute financially despite that you would not do house chores?

Hmmmmmm

Samshumy:
In marriage, i come first and by so, i can’t loose myself

Bros abeg, don't marry yet.

AreaFada2:
So if a man has very wrinkly ball sacks, he shouid display them for the world to see?

Whether you have pert or saggy boobs, that should be be your private matter. At most only your hubby shouid care about it.

As in.

Some people are fish brained.

She is doing the very thing she supposedly wants to prevent:

Using her boobs to make ridicule of herself.

And what does she want to achieve by showing us this?

Social media madness.

Sad

Please give me.

solasoulmusic:
Trust me they did and it was obvious they just couldn’t bring themselves to because sometimes even with adversity with very little you can do more than those who just have money but no ambition.

Its the same way when you have positive news about your progress only a few applaud we know them it’s like those who come to you for the inspiration and expert opinion on the outline of the business idea and then go to your competitor to complete the business.

I am saying I chose to be there for family whenever they need be based on they have been there for me over the years giving an example we have received life and even seeds from them as well over the years even if they can’t be there for me

I’ll be there for them Christ only died once so we could live and learn to forgive.


Money won’t throw you a funeral so ignoring them will only ensure you as well will be ignored when that time comes. We all close our eyes one day regardless of account balance.

I don't think you are responding to my quote.

I am not against helping family. So someone has a project, fell on hard times and kids are in school, aged parents, someone working where salary is not paid, dwindling business, sick child/spouse, helping some set up a business etc, please help.

But random sending money to people, maybe if I have excess and I am done investing in my and nuclear family's future.

Most people would use the money you give them to do things you can't afford.

On the flip side, a lot of people showoff what they do not have so the family wants to partake.

Yakzo:
I used to be one not until one of my cousins who pesters me from time to time bought a plot of land while I did'nt have one!

Hahaha

A lot of people's story.

solasoulmusic:
People that don’t know God’s Grace are in constant denial and will always be stingy.

On the 1st Of January while everyone was celebrating New Years my laptop went dead I took it for repairs and basically I needed a new one it was a mac and I didn’t have enough for a new one and my job requires that I have one especially for my music. I didn’t sleep that night I prayed and also cried myself to sleep basically. Luckily for me my birthday was coming up and decided to ask every family member for a token towards replacing the Mac well in 48 hours I had enough money.

Even those I didn’t expect gave something for the first time and also those I thought were ride or die seemed to ignore my plight


I shared my story because everyone remembers when they gave but not when they received when you can receive you will learn to give. I don’t give more than I can afford to let go by the wayside.

Without our parents we won’t be here without our siblings we won’t be able to interact globally I have drained my account for family and will gladly do it again because when I asked they answered

The new album Karma Kafe is as a result of that seed

This is not the OP is talking about.

You had a one time genuine need and they helped.


And hear yourself: those you thought were ride or die ignored you.

You feel entitled to their money not considering that they might not even have.

Hope it is just dinner.

The bile in that woman can sink Aso Rock.

MicroBox:
Omotola got married when she was younger than her...

To who?

TooNoisy:
This girl is way too young for what she is getting herself into. Where are her parents? I will really love to hear their views.

Parents ke?

Her elder brother told us to mind our business some weeks back.

Tallesty1:
Tallesty1

Ok.

Stupid to the power of 100.

While I do not blame her for the nomenclature of her boob's, I blame her politicizing it.

Now, instead of her husband/only men she sleeps with to know about the saggy state, we all do.

Who even names herself 'slumflower'?

How many men make politics out of their body parts?

She is sick in her mind.

Destruction of a whole family.

Tallesty1:
The mother will hate the son forever for killing her husband.

Says who?

Disadvantages of too much freedom and individualism.

She would never have tried that in a communal setting.

When people are on life destroying missions, why can't a big stone drop on their head?

Now that boy/girl will be introduced to his native people at a later age to subtly embrace homosexuality/ transgender people.

Blacks need to raise up and think!

ifyalways:
She adopted the child. . .
And now leading her on on the perversion highway with that very stupid excuse.

How painful.

Would she do this to her biological child?