₦airaland Forum

jaxxy:
Lol I Learnt early that pastors are very much humans and have their individual characters.

Procashtips:
Yes, men can be polygamous and still love all the women because men have the ability to love truly.

Or you think love is monopolistic?

Most of what men do for their wives and children aren't for any reward, it's inbuilt.

FuckTheMod:
You started with absolute rubbish, continued with rubbish and also ended with rubbish.
You people's main problem and senseless mentality is thinking the world revolves around you and that the mission and vision of a man in life is to make you happy. The funny thing is you people don't even think this for one man, you love having options.

If they ask you what you bring to the table, you'll say that you're the table... If me as a man call myself the table and I have nothing to show for it besides my good looks and bedmatics skills, won't you call me stupìd?


MOST MODERN DAY WOMEN ARE SELFISH AND GREEDY BASTARƊS.
THEY HAVE ABSOLUTE NO LOVE TO GIVE BUT THEY WANT TO BE LOVED AND CARED FOR.
GIVE THEM THE WHOLE WORLD AND IT'LL NEVER STILL BE ENOUGH.
ONLY A VERY FOOLISH MAN GOES FAR LENGTH TO SATISFY A WOMAN...


See Will Smith...
See Bezos
See Steve Harvey
See Elon Musk
See Oyakilome etc

BoldBrainz:
You're certain that's a conversation you're ready to have?

Procashtips:
I don't know why men still believe women have the ability to love one man till death.

The ability to love one person till death is only found in men, not women.


Majority of women don't love completely even to the so called children they claim to have.

Women put themselves first before anything.

The children they often claim to feed and do everything for (even though most use money they get from men) is to secure their future (old age).

They mostly use this to blackmail and manipulate the children when they're old and need to be taken care of.


It's very rare to see men depend on their children to feed them in old age no matter how much they must have spent raising the children unlike most women.

To a woman, everything is transactional/conditional


All men should know this.

jaxxy:
The disobedient pastors wife.

BoldBrainz:
Aunty, leave it! Marriage is hard.

jmoore:
This man is a pastor, his daughter got married and relocated to UK.

His wife went for omugo in the UK and have stayed up to 9 months. The daughter has told her mom to return home but she has refused. She got a cleaning job in the neighbourhood. The pastor is contemplating on taking a 2nd wife.

Prettyclown:
You're wrong...he didn't sacrifice himself for Gbotija, Gbogunmi had already disobeyed Ogundiji's first order, so he dare not disobey the second one, during the fierceful battle between the duo, Gbogunmi saw Gbotija saying incantations into the charm he gave to him, which will be used to kill him, Hence, Gbogunmi quickly said an incantation and he collected back his charm from Gbogunmi, though we already know Gbotija as the protagonist, so he was going to kill Gbogunmi anyways.

Nice2023:
Put ur sisters name oh.

Don't bring emotion to issues like this. E get why.

MarketDispatch:
[se YoungDaNaval

"Mr and Mrs Surname".

Don't bring division by putting only your sisters name

Mindlog:
This reminds me of a couple who came to the UK in September 2021 via study route. The husband was the student while the wife was the dependent and working full time as a domiciliary care worker to support clearing her husband's outstanding tuition fees as the husband was strictly working 20hrs weekly as a student and covered their rent and feeding. Few months down the line, the company gave the wife a small car to be driving to their different service users' homes to provide care, the company gave her a fuel card and were responsible for maintaining the car which she drove home daily even when off shift, the car was with her.

When she was off shift and the car packed in front of their residence, oga go dey insist on wifey to give him car keys so he could drive around for a while but wifey would refuse, reminding him that should he get involved in an accident or got fined for traffic violations while he is the one behind the wheels, she will be in trouble and insurance would not cover the damages. That caused a big strain in their marriage, oga reported her to relatives back in Nigeria of being selfish and arrogant.

boldx:
If I were your sister's husband and you buy a car in your sister's name, I may not take it lightly. It is a very sensitive issue. It depends on your brother-in-law. If he is a traditional Nigerian man, he will read meaning into it - like - are you trying to say I am not taking care of my wife?

So if you are not being political about it, buy the car in your brother in law's name. You are mixing up 2 things which are not related: 1) you want to give them a surprise 2) you want to buy a car for your sister, in her name to aid her in going to work due to distance (to avoid stress).

I wish you the best sha

Villa12:
exactly sis. I have a friend like that too but I don't support his lifestyle. Infact, he was my good friend but anything pertaining to women he dare not discuss it with me. I have made him know my stand and who i am

Obviously this my friend wouldn't even dare try that shit close to my sister. Ordinary a female friend he saw with me, he was really scared to tell me nonsense.

I suspect OP and his friends are birds of a feather. I also suspect OP friend has money which he spends on OP too for him to have that liver to go after his friend sister without his friend consent.

Dimaya:
Chris Rock best said it:

" Only women and children are loved unconditionally. A man is loved on the condition that he provides"

biyiwyle:
Another one is Gbogunmi knew Gbotija could talk and command trees yet he dropped the sword and used a wooden knife. He might have sacrificed himself knowing what Gbotija has not told anybody except him

Christistruth03:
Not even a 12 year old girl

Not in a Nation where even Police are going missing

Many people are not ok

Chigozie321:
I'm sure everyone here has a friend or relative that has JAPA in the last two years.

My siblings have all migrated. I'm the only one remaining in Naija. I do not intend to leave the country for some personal reasons at least for now.

At times I feel lonely and unhappy seeing that most of my loved ones have dispersed all over the world. No more going to weddings, house warming, naming, etc. together

Where I work, my closest work pals have all migrated. Even most of my church co-workers and neighbours sef don commot.

As an individual/family, how has it affected you? And how are you rebuilding your local network?

How are you making new quality relationships in the workplace, home, place of worship, etc.?

Lumig:
Show me your friend and I will tell you the kind of person you are.
You and your friend are partners in crime, therefore the chicken has come home to roost

Switinthemiddle:
Happy sunday y'all, so i have this issue bothering me that i need advice on.

So me and this my guy have known for some years now and i know him as someone who has a flaw for anything under skirts.

It didnt bother me all these while cause i am nt one to judge until recently when i found out from my girlfriend that he was codedly wooing my junior sister and they just started dating.

Now the problem is i dnt knw if i should warn my sister about him and try and put a stop to the relationship or just try and give him and her a chance.

Please advice

Reference:
The lamentations of Godlessness. Greed, betrayal, hurt, misery and eventually death.

zumbigbo:
Redpill online course volume 67...

ivolt:
Why are you blaming women?
Steve Harvey dumped his ex partner because she lacks "energy" of the current one.
Now, the current one has dumped him for lacking energy of the chef.

Puss360:
I was actually waiting for someone sensible to say this... Kudus please..
Our problem is population...

kokoA:
Make dem remove that naked wire wey dey always shock our leaders from that Aso villa na. I have a good electrician that can do it o, bills on me.

Greatpoet:
Foremost Nigerian social commentator and public affairs analyst Jullie Cassie has threw her own weights on the practicality that Marriage remain an achievement.

In one of her visual factfile which she posted on Instagram, the Author of 'Dance School' echoes areas where most people get it wrong with their verdicts about marriage. In her words....

"Whatever is worth celebrating is an achievement, and marriage will forever be one of life's achievements. Our luck might be different in getting the right people, doesn’t make the union less of an achievement.", Jullie Cassie probes.

Watch video below as she highlights reasons why marriage remains a lifetime achievement.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LqYTZLVfR9Y

TheKingOfCrumb:
For a woman, yes marriage is an achievement.
Its an achievement to make a man pay for your misbehavior, manipulation, disobedience, disloyalty, feed and cloth you.

Taylor90:
Women do it too

Men should reciprocate