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Food › Re: Remove Two Things From This Tray Of Food (pix) by bukatyne(f): 12:07am On Jul 31, 2023

Bvlgari:
❗Remove two things from this tray of food

Would do only fufu, fruits, Efo & fish.

There is no dodo or salad to eat the rice.

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Politics › Re: Streets Of Kaduna On Sunday's by bukatyne(f): 5:36pm On Jul 30, 2023

Nice pictures.

Hard to believe that in this same state, a man divorced his 14yrs old wife who just put to bed because a male doctor assisted her during complications.

Also interesting to see that none of the KD fans on this thread clarified for us if the husband is just mad or that is their cultural beliefs.

Family › Re: Are You Still Left With All 32 Teeth You Started Out With Or Have You Lost Some by bukatyne(f): 5:28pm On Jul 30, 2023

In my thirties and my husband is not sure I have upto 32 teeth yet. grin

Let them grow complete before answering the OP grin

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Christianity Etc › Re: Is Baptism Necessary For Salvation? by bukatyne(f): 11:55am On Jul 30, 2023

Hhansome:

I am from a Christian home. I honestly believe in God but not in the way of African.

Una never want tell us the truth of what is in the bible.

Bible is doctored!

1. There is no African way of believing

2. You coming from a Christian home has nothing to do with your salvation. God has no grandchildren.

3. The Bible is written by the inspiration of the Holy Spirit. I am sure most of the Bibles in Nigeria are complied from the West so there is no 'different' Bible.

The first step is you giving your life to Christ and then studying His word to know His expectation from you.

Christianity Etc › Re: Is Baptism Necessary For Salvation? by bukatyne(f): 11:52am On Jul 30, 2023

Hanndye:
After the Outer-call or on the radio, after preaching, the preacher would ask those who wish to give their lives to Jesus to repeat certain words after him calling Jesus into their lives. Is this right and Baptism not neccesary?

Altar call.

After giving your life to Christ, the next step is water baptism which is you denouncing the world and resurrecting with Christ. Usually, some classes called believers'/ baptismal classes are taken to further teach the new convert about Christ before the baptism.

This is different from the sprinkling of water done on Children in some churches; those children are neither old enough to give their lives to Christ nor follow the way prescribed in the Bible: immersion in water.

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Celebrities › Re: John Okafor: Mr. Ibu Set To Mark 40 Years On Screen In Abuja by bukatyne(f): 11:47am On Jul 30, 2023

Never been my cup of tea, never found him funny.

However, I celebrate with him. 40yrs is no mean feat and I wish him more years of hardwork and reaping the fruit of his labour.

It is well with him.

Sports › Re: Nouhaila Benzina Becomes First Player To Wear Hijab At World Cup by bukatyne(f): 11:34am On Jul 30, 2023

Truthday:
How does covering HAIR makes you feel hot. How ??

Are you male or female?

Sports › Re: Five Female Footballers Who Removed Their Jerseys To Celebrate A Goal by bukatyne(f): 6:32pm On Jul 29, 2023

Football is a very passionate sport and the players and fans have been known to lose control once a while.

Na Jersey she off, she nor kill person.

Let her breathe.

I would have said wear a camisole underneath your Jersey but the sport is too heat generating to wear anything beyond a sports bra/bratop as we knew it in those days.

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Politics › Re: Adeleke Pays Third Batch Of Half Pay Owed Workers by bukatyne(f): 6:29pm On Jul 29, 2023

Gov. Adeleke is really doing well.

I am happy for Osun State people; let's hear good news from our leaders for once.

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Family › Re: My Husband’s “runs Girl” Used Juju On Him; Wife Of Defunct Skye Bank Chairman by bukatyne(f): 4:30pm On Jul 29, 2023

A common recurring event in life. My thoughts:

1. I wouldn't rush to say it is lack of self-esteem plaguing these women. Nor would I say it is because they have nothing 'going' for them. Beyonce 'forgave' Jay-z, wrote a Kumbaya song, did an interview how she wants to 'break' the yoke of divorce in her linage & had twins for him. Hillary Clinton defended her husband during his affair as a president and allegedly bullied the side-chic. We have Cardi-B who forgave her wandering man several times & Married him. Oby Ezekwezili is rumoured to treat her husband's sidechics till they run far. Perhaps after a while, they decide that chasing away sidechics is better than staying alone or starting afresh huh

2. Mrs. Ayeni shouldn't have given this interview. Her desperation makes her sound very stupid.

3. I am amused each time I see 'independent' boss ladies who do not 'need' a man sharing other women's men with them. I am sure this lawyer if interviewed would tell you how she doesn't need a man and concentrating solely on her business grin

4. Men & Women are different hence have their own peculiar 'advantages & disadvantages'. A man can desecrate his marriage bed all through the marriage and the woman looks on. Then she waits until he has lost his strenght and abandon him then NL boys would start to postulate nonsense. Some would poison him slowly for years and after his death flex the little time they have left with the properties left behind. Some would secretly have affairs by the side while dancing 'my husband, my husband'. Some would abandon him on his sick bed. However each sex choose to deal in their life & marriage, they need to be aware that nature did not leave any sex hanging and while their payback might be different or at different times, this life is turn by turn.

Family › Re: My Husband’s “runs Girl” Used Juju On Him; Wife Of Defunct Skye Bank Chairman by bukatyne(f): 3:56pm On Jul 29, 2023

Majesty7:
Shut up! What do you know? You are seeing a virtuous woman protecting her home against harlots like you and you foolishly still believe you are smart. No matter what happened, the man has already apologized and reveal everything to his wife.

You and your harlots co can go to hell

@ bold:

We need a 'Nigerian' dictionary. When a 'Nigerian' man throws in 'good wife', 'virtuous woman' etc, know it is a woman who has accepted their bullshit and decided to hold them unaccountable. cheesy

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Romance › Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by bukatyne(f): 3:42pm On Jul 29, 2023

Acidosis:
Many guys chase for fun. If you're a woman, always accept the fact that at least 85% of the guys talking to you about marriage are LYING/UNSERIOUS, including those begging you to visit their mothers (the greatest scammers).

More so, many guys talk to multiple women at the same time. So, saying YES to a man is not an end in itself. You'll need to conquer other women he approached while you were "wasting his time." This is the reality out there.

Women think that they are the prize (nice!) but, seriously, the average man out there is a gamer. Again, this is the reality but it's okay to dwell in denial.

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Romance › Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by bukatyne(f): 3:35pm On Jul 29, 2023

Dialpad:
There was no real interest at the first instance, it was simply an urge to conquer.

At the same time you get in and discover there isn't ANY value there expect the PU-SSY.

You can get same thing from any random girl

@bold:

Correct or a bet that they can 'get' you.

Career › Re: Three Nigerian Sisters Who Are All Pilots Become Centre Of Attraction by bukatyne(f): 11:11am On Jul 29, 2023

Congratulations to them & parents.

I wonder who they look like; they would be a carbon copy of that person.

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Christianity Etc › Re: The Fall Of Man - Who Is To Blame? by bukatyne(f): 2:35am On Jul 29, 2023

Myer:
This is a very sensitive topic that I perceive needs to be discussed and addressed.
May God grant us all answers.

Feel free to share your personal opinion without feeling pressured to sound religious please.
And feel free to share your religion's position as well with references please.

cc jesu sjnr
koboju nkie
maxint hehouse
righteousne ss69
seu n
mods

@Topic:

Who did God blame?

Family › Re: Katsina Man Divorces Wife For Allowing Male Doctor Attend To Her During Delivery by bukatyne(f): 1:39am On Jul 29, 2023

Painstakingly went through the thread and realised that no Northerner spoke up to condemn this.

I am curious if it's the same Quran Southern Muslims and Muslims from other parts of the world read and practice.

Family › Re: Katsina Man Divorces Wife For Allowing Male Doctor Attend To Her During Delivery by bukatyne(f): 1:30am On Jul 29, 2023

CJStarz:
Wetin my eye see for Warawa Local Govt as a Corper my mouth no go fit talk am finish. I can't forget the little girl,Hadiza. Roughly 12years. I saw d pain in her eyes when she was being married off to a toothless old grandfather! My heart broke into pieces.

Why was she married off?

Poverty? Cultural beliefs? Etc.

Would be interesting to gain more insight.

Family › Re: Katsina Man Divorces Wife For Allowing Male Doctor Attend To Her During Delivery by bukatyne(f): 1:28am On Jul 29, 2023

Desusi:
I quite agreed with you.The husband must be mad.He forgot that the there's a possibility of having female child in future, would she be happy if a would be husband to her daughter does same thing to his daughter?. That is where the golden rules in came in-"DO UNTO OTHERS WHAT YOU WANT THEM DO UNTO YOU"

To be honest, I doubt the husband in this case would have a problem with marrying off his 13yr old daughter. embarassed

Business › Re: UBA Announces Improved Staff Welfare, Pay Rise Amid Rising Inflation, Hardship by bukatyne(f): 8:59pm On Jul 28, 2023

Sprints3:
E no go pass #10000 all these ones na English Language to deceive the gullible and vulnerable minions in the republic

If you are not sure of something, don't disgrace yourself in public.

Two, banks are not N10 firms you are used to.

Business › Re: UBA Announces Improved Staff Welfare, Pay Rise Amid Rising Inflation, Hardship by bukatyne(f): 8:48pm On Jul 28, 2023

lsoul:
this is our season, bankers are at risk of being kidnapped, I have gotten like 20 unknown DM recently from ladies🔥though I am single and available 🤸

And why should a banker at this sensitive time flaunt where they work? undecided

Romance › Re: Is Jealousy A Proof Of Love Or Lack Of Trust? by bukatyne(f): 8:44pm On Jul 28, 2023

Well, I believe that every true love as an iota of jealousy in it.

You want to 'guard' what is yours.

Excessive jealousy is based on a lack of trust majorly stemming from your personal insecurity and biases.

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Family › Re: Must Read - A Life Lesson From My Daughter's Award In School by bukatyne(f): 8:39pm On Jul 28, 2023

Kudos for appreciating your wife's efforts towards the home & kids.

Congratulations to your daughter.

Family › Re: Tips For Nigerian Guys Married To African Americans by bukatyne(f): 8:37pm On Jul 28, 2023

austine4real:

I wan go amelika who go help me

Picture quote is quite funny 😁 😂 😀 😄 😆 🤣 😁

Family › Re: Katsina Man Divorces Wife For Allowing Male Doctor Attend To Her During Delivery by bukatyne(f): 1:18pm On Jul 28, 2023

Jesse6:
Nice
Thanks bro

You are welcome

P.S.: I have a big bright F in front of my moniker cheesy

Family › Re: None Of My Fiance's Family Members Likes Me. Please Help by bukatyne(f): 7:57am On Jul 28, 2023

Interesting thread & update.

I guess some of us thrive on drama after all cheesy

Good luck OP.

Romance › Re: A Nice Lady Unknown To Me Picked Me Up When I Was Trekking Today To The Office by bukatyne(f): 11:15pm On Jul 27, 2023

guobe:
Lol na u sabi

Family › Re: Katsina Man Divorces Wife For Allowing Male Doctor Attend To Her During Delivery by bukatyne(f): 10:45pm On Jul 27, 2023

lexy2014:
Islam....abi u no Sabi them?

It is well.

Family › Re: Katsina Man Divorces Wife For Allowing Male Doctor Attend To Her During Delivery by bukatyne(f): 10:45pm On Jul 27, 2023

VeeVeeMyLuv:
Them say they will butchers the doc if he attend to the female patients

I was even asking about the husbands and relatives.

Family › Re: Katsina Man Divorces Wife For Allowing Male Doctor Attend To Her During Delivery by bukatyne(f): 10:43pm On Jul 27, 2023

Jesse6:
I just don't know brr
Although I have been sensitizing some lately but still that mentality is still there

Keep up the good work.

A tip that can help is studying their Quran/ Sharia laws/respected educated leaders on the actual 'ruling' on male doctors for female patients so you can sensitize based on their religion.

A lot of people take their religion seriously on the surface (though they never study what it actually says) so they hold on to idiosyncrasies that actually have no basis in the religion.

For the people screaming the 'North', we are still grappling with 'God forbid CS', hospital births and blood transfusions in the West. It is just that it is isn't marred with underage marriages.

Goodluck as you make your own impact in their community.

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