₦airaland Forum

kingthreat:
Spiritual shit happens but government should never use it as an excuse ever.

Tunde835:
This phenomenon is exactly my point with women and why I advise men against getting married . They only love what you can provide for them and never you yourself. She thinks she is in the USA.

LocalStandard1:
Hello🖐️, my name is Amoda Yekini.

So, I just moved into this new neighborhood not too long ago, the house is quite expensive and I wasn't able to pay the complete rent yet so I am on a borrowed time but the caretaker is my friend so he allowed me move in. I am also having problems like the inability to pay the bills, low salary, leaking roof, hunger etc.

But the real issue here is this, since I came to the neighborhood everything is calm and going well until some days ago when we heard commotions in one of the houses. My neighbor threw his wife out and was accusing her of infidelity, he even showed proves of the incident which according to him have been on for some years now.

My problem is I do not want to let this go cause if I do people will think I am weak and others in his situation might follow suit, this is my neighborhood and I will not stand by and allow unruly behavior.
Some people advise I mind my business but this is a far bigger issue to me than anything else, even though the caretaker of the house I stay is already disturbing me to move cause the landlord is on his neck. But I want to go and fight!

What should I do, tell me?

Foodqueen:
Don't mind them. They will come online and be forming macho. Whereas real life na woman de the steering.

Greenfusion:
Yes they are toothless bulldogs, but their effect is feared, anything can happen as a result of their declaration, the govt is scared of protest, its obvious.
If they had been communicating appropriately and backed it with action, we wouldn't have been in this position.....

hammerT:
IS IT THE SAME SANWO OLU THAT MURDERED LEKKI TOLL GATE PROTESTERS AND HIDE THEIR BODY, THEN LIE NO PERSON WAS KILLED?



PLEASE SHUT UP!

9jaRealist:
Sentencing just “one evil person” would essentially be scapegoating…
These sorts of incidents result from chain-of-command failures, and everyone in that chain (however highly-placed) should be punished!
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Foodqueen:


Your wife has seen your previous post.

Greenfusion:
Does this reduce the price of food stuff in the market abi does it reduce fuel.........fear of NLC strike, make una continue, if u like give NLC money to stop the strike, when the real crisis start even NLC cannot control of hold people back........continue, una think say that proverb wen say. "an hungry man is an angry man" na joke, una think say na joke....continue

Skyview01:
Our own Lagos Robin Hood!

UnusualEmissary:
Ask the people that consider it normal

LINSAR:
For learning's sake, how can a man take charge of his home without being controlling?

Can he keep his mouth shut, close his eyes to many things and still lead and be in charge?

fineboynl:
Since was introduced to yale bread I don’t eat any other bread. I love the bread so much but the fact that this bread can stay for weeks on the shelve without getting spoil. My friend told me he was scared of the bread because he doesn’t know what they put in the bread that can make it last that long on the shelve.

ahnie:
As the topic rightly stated,how do you love your eating your beans and rice ?

Do you like it mixed or separately?

Photo credit....ahnie's court!

LINSAR:
There's nothing wrong with a woman being on a higher spiritual level than her husband. Infact, it is desirable that way.

All the times my dad will make late night journeys against my mom's wish, have police cases, family issues, health issues e.t.c, it was my mom staying awake to pray for him. If not for her, my dad would have been long gone.

A prayer warrior is one of the desirable qualities of a good wife. Men are stubborn and adamant. They know how to put themselves in dangerous situations. We need a spiritually stronger wife!

pocohantas:
Like!! To think someone up there thinks it is normal that a man relinquishes spiritual headship to his wife. Wife dey jump from one crusade to another, head of home is keeping late nights. Odiegwu!!!

Angelfrost:
Save your breath jare... Such young men were poorly raised.

They think respect has to be forced out of people, especially those they disregard as "beneath" them.

They can never feel manly till someone else has bowed to all their whims and tantrums.

Weak and mentally lazy generation!

Imagine someone feeling his manhood is threatened by a song like "Daddy wey dey Pamper"! A song totally directed and dedicated to God.

Chai... That poor woman don enter!

Aladeintl:
There was this popular MoG from Ibadan who do early morning prayer on Ajilete FM that I adamantly forbid my wife from listening to.

I told her, 'I am not saying you shouldn't listen to him but not under my own roof.'

I didn't banned her because the man was fake. I didn't think the MoG is fake, but I find some of his modus operandi unbiblical.

Likewise, some songs like Daddy wey dey pamper is not fit my own family. While I am around, she mustn't.

I will soon delete that song from her phone sef.

Read tales of a Nursing Dad here www.joelalade.home.blog

I once collected her purse and gave her only transport fare when she was going for a crusade organized by one prophet olororo.

What is my drift? I have no qualm with Pastor Jerry Eze and his YouTube early morning prayer ministry but it is a disgrace and dishonour to you, the man of the house, if your woman can wake up to listen to other man before you.

It's a disgrace to my fatherhood if my kids are doing morning devotion via internet led by another man and wife and kids aren't to be blamed.

Therefore, we men, should truly man up and be the leader God made us.

The likes of Pastor Jerry Eze and co come into equation because many men are not spiritual leader. He is filling the gaps created by spiritually-absent fathers.

Your wife jumping from one prayer mountain to another is because you haven't ascertain your spiritual headship in the head.

And for those joining Pastor Jerry from their boyfriend's room, just dey play ooo, dey play ooo.

May God helps us to discharge our duties accordingly.

Ire oooooooo

mariahAngel:
😲
And I fought so hard to give up bestie's rice & beans with dodo.
Who knew I could bend my own rules? 😀

malcom1X:
FFK once said.
"If you want to have the power to cheat and get away with it as a woman, then provide all resources for the man, house him and feed him so you can cheat as you like, he won't complain, as long as you're catering for him, so when he cheats you can kick him out."

mariahAngel:
I know it might be difficult for some people, but you can only choose one place.

Picture credit: Instagram

IRuinUrDay:
Good morning, Nlder's. Pls, I need your advice. I created this account just now to hide my identity.

Without wasting time on this, I need your advice as I want to take a blind step because i don't know what else to do.

I graduated since 2018 and since then, I don't have a good job till now. Just surviving that's what I am doing.

Currently, I asked my mom to help me secure loan of 100k while I source for another 100k from friends and relatives and repay in 6 months time. I have planned with my wife to secure a room apartment with at least 60k for 1 year and use the balance to hold ourselves till we get something better doing. This is because I want to relocate to Uyo to hustle with my woman and our only daughter. I can't leave my woman aside and travel to Uyo alone. I want her to join me either in 2 weeks time or 3. She is a stylist and can work as Chef. She is also educated with O'level and I have been taken her through computer lesson's.

Now, I don't have any job assurance in Uyo but I have made some contacts. The 2 person's I contacted said once I relocate, I should let them know to help me get job. Also, I don't mind dropping my certificate just to do any job till I get my dream job. I am also working to get myself a driving license certificate and ID in case, I get a driving job in Uyo.

Pls, I want to know if it's wise to relocate to Uyo without any job at sight?

Also, my current state is one of the worst ever as firms here don't pay there staff good money. Like some pay Accountants here 25k/month to work from Monday to Saturday.

Your ideas will be great. My other areas of relocating is Enugu, Port Harcourt, or Anambra. Pls, help a brother.

malcom1X:
One thing I notice about Davido is that he is always present when chioma gives birth. He is always there to hold the baby and sign his birth certificate unlike his other baby mamas.

Women there is no other love than this where your husband is there with you in the hospital, cut your baby's umbilical cord.
Sign his birth certificate.
Watch him grow up as a man or woman.

Don't be a baby mama that's my advice. If he loves you tell him to come visit your parents.

Although mistakes may happen but don't let it put you down.

Please let us join hands to congratulate Davido.

He has done well.
Let love lead.

fx45:
I pity Asisat Oshoala any day she steps foot on Northern soil. Three Yoruba celebrities under the radar

1. Davido
2. Asisat
3. Rasheedat

Depriest2020:

I went to a boutique yesterday to get some clothes for my woman, while checking out some designs, a young beautiful girl of about 16-17yrs old walked in, she told the sales lady she needed a beautiful dress for her school prom (graduation party). I directed her to one i initially saw and loved, but the size was small for my woman, she said to me that it's fine but that she is a Muslim and can't wear short gown, that it's christians that wears short.

I was dumbfounded, I stood in awe, got lost in thoughts for some seconds, about the little girl's words, when I came out from the cloth shop, I looked around to see truly what Christian girls wear, saw many with wringled thighs wearing knicker, short tight, crop tops in the market. I asked myself if it's Christianity that taught us to wear things like that or just choice.