₦airaland Forum

Happy birthday sir, I pray for God's grace to finish the race well.

Amen.

Nazgul:
Exactly!

Most people in this category the op is referring to get married because they feel they're of age and therefore should be married, and not because they have found true love.

A vast number of them have zero romantic connection with their spouses. The marriage is just for having sex breeding kids. This is why they cheat without any form of conscience cos they see their marriage as a prison, and want some breathing space.

I'll say this and say it again and again. No spouse would get fed up and cheat on a partner he/she geninuely loves and respects.

👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏

The fundamental question is 'was there love before the kids came'? 'Why did they get married in the first place?' etc.

Then you would have your answer.

Who told the story?

nairalanda1:
Well, a pastor is expected to preach against vices in society, which for most people include drinking and smoking

And that is what Bakare is doing.

It does not make him a hypocrite. He would have been one if he preached against all that, AND indulged in those things. He doesn't.

I don't know, but it seems that when someone speaks out against our favorite vices, they are apparently hypocrites.

Especially vices like drinking and smoking which combined cause a lot of health issues and problems....

You are criticsing a leopard for being a leopard. Well, it can't help being a leopard.

The way the word 'hypocrite' is thrown around makes me wonder.

Same person would condemn aka call someone a liar or an adulterer or a thief or any vice that doesn't suit his/her fancy.

@OP: no comment; I haven't read the original Bakare's post.

Extraordinary things happen daily in Nigeria.

And the thought process of some NLers? Even more extraordinary

True that.

I saw 2015 - 2022; I am hoping the tweet was made in 2022.

Because this 2023 is something else.

Ku Olorun shanu.

Nonexisting1:
I can now understand why many simps here including married ones have crush on you. You are mature, cool headed and respectful even when intentionally provoked. You have good attitude, keep it up.

Why should you intentionally provoke someone in the first place?

It is a sign of wizardry to do.

Go and sin no more.

May God console his family and friends.

Leggodeals:
"Entitlement" Satan's new highlighted word to propagate wickedness among humans.

If you are not entitled to help from people you call your brothers and sisters, is it strangers that are responsible for you in time of need?

😆 😂 😆 😂 😆 😂 😆 😂 @ first paragraph.

Funny thread

Others are getting into trouble for drugs, he is getting into trouble for crocodile meat!

Onijekuje

ONNYX:
Again, I don't have the details. I didn't even hear of Mobad before his death.

I am only saying that in the event an agreement is no longer tenable, it should be amicably renegotiated with both parties showing consideration for the prevailing or extant circumstances.

You see I always advocate that there are are three sides to a story; the one side, the other side and the truth. It will be interesting to hear from the suspects. But this is not the best time to hear from the others. Clearly, they are already guilty in the court of Public Opinion.

Finally, I would like to let you know that in the majority of cases like this there are usually some powerful people behind the scenes who can use this to make some other person(s) look bad. The public is easily swayed in times like this and all forms of objectivity takes flight.

@bold:

Still said this yesterday while discussing the case with some peeps.

There might be a 3rd force who wants to deal with Naira Marley and used his oil stained hands to rub him for easy roasting.

As I type, I have not read a clear account of Mohbad's death. No one seems sure of how he died. They are however sure that Naira Marley had a direct connection.

NoToPile:
God knows those who are worshipping him, those who worship him know themselves.

There are some churches I can NEVER step into. The kind of teaching you listen to matters a lot.

Christains should watch and pray. There are somethings you know as a christain are not right.

We are in the end times ooo, be ye not deceived.

Let me shun vawlence tonight and just quote you.

It is well.

God be with the leadership and the members of FOLC.

maureensylvia:
If I’m not mistaken, Mohbad cried out earlier that Naira Marley should be held responsible if anything happens to him

Naira Marley has stronger godfathers and he’s likely to get away with this

But Karma will surely find its way

I’m even pitying Zino after watching his video were he’s jerking up
Guy needs help!!!

The author is very right and objective.

Nobody has stated clearly how Mohbad died.

Then how can you hold Naira Marley accountable?

Watinhapen:
Everyone is saying the man is childish but don’t know what he went through in the hands of the ex gf. There’s a way a girl will treat you and doing this won’t even be enough.

If he thinks the new girl is worth it, he would forget the ex.

Aldol:
Is it all the Nigerians that is a government worker? What about the private workers,artisans,underemployed,unemployed? How do you want them to cope?

And why should they increase prices arbitrarily? Is it because we have no serious union?

If the Govt increased the minimum wage, govt workers would have more money to spend in the market, for artisans etc. This in turn would trickle into the hands of the self-employed people.

For the unemployed, how do they want to benefit from minimum wage when they are not working?

The underemployed part in your post is not clear.

I say a hopeful goodluck to those who would be affected by the increase.

ibechris:
Now u guys will see market women and men increasing everything that the poor will most likely return to their villages.

That's another problem in this country.

At the end of the day, people might not 'feel' the increase.

At 12 as in twelve years old?

Hanty Pele, may God heal you.

How do you look at a fellow human being like you and think they deserve such wickedness?

The heart of man (human) is truly desperately wicked.

God bless late Gani.

MisterBanny:
Good day everyone. This topic shouldn't be on this Section, but I really need it to gain traffic urgently reason I am doing this here. My apologies.

I am from a family of four. The eldest. I hail from Plateau state. I lost my Dad when I was 10yrs. After my dad's burial, I went to live with a paternal anty who maltreated me so badly that I almost committed Suicide. I was like a slave. You can think of all the dehumanizing treatments in life. I started High sch. No sponsor.

Same anty never paid my fees for once, yet I was like a slave to her and her children. Throughout my secondary school, there was NO session that I ever wrote complete exams for 1, 2 and 3rd Terms. I would write maybe 6papers and not write the remaining papers, I will miss the next term's exams totally and write a few papers the final term of the session due to not paying sch fees. I was so ridiculed & mocked by my classmates cos of the constant embarrassment. As a result of this, I became an introvert. I couldn't even ask questions in class or socialize with my mates. No friends. My fee was #800 at the time. A private sch. I was so determined to get education & prayed God to pls help me bear whatever I faced at that time.

During this period, my mum who is unlettered stayed back in the village with my siblings and had to remarry. I got really pissed and cried myself out when I heard about the marriage cos I had no prior knowledge about it. My mum up till now has NEVER given me anything like Money in my Life. Highest she ever gave me was 1k at once...

At a point some person's even asked me if I still had a Mum particularly whenever I tried to seek help from them.
I was undeterred, wrote my WAEC, had 4-Distinctions and 4-credits and a Pass in Geography, then wrote JAMB, scored 220 and got admission to the University. I had to Hussle to pay my fees throughout. I spent 8yrs in the University due to money constraints. My mum never showed much concern. At a point I said I would drop out and to my shock, she said I should do so if I wanted to. Thank God I done with my Degree.
During and after NYSC she would always call me almost everyday talking about money. Making demands on me. I was always sending to her cos no matter what, she's my mum.

At a point, I wasn't responding to her calls for months and never sent money again. She started telling people that I wasn't calling her or picking her calls or helping her. She also instigated my younger siblings against me and they started disrespecting me. Anyone of us who has money and gives to her at that particular period is who she will become friends with then starts reporting negative things about others to the person that is currently giving her money. Some things would be done and I will never be aware except an outsider tells me. I felt so bad about all these and I decided to stay aloof and estranged from my family. I don't call except once in a while. My mum has been calling for almost a month now but I haven't picked cos money will be involved in the conversation and I don't have now.
Pls advise me.

The last straw was when I got Mobilized for NYSC and had nothing to even use for transport to the camp. I consulted a cooperative that she belongs in to loan me some money, but did u know that after they accepted to give me the loan the next day, I went back and they started giving me excuses. I later heard from an impeccable memeber of the cooperative that it was my mum that asked them not to grant me the loan. Her reason was that I may not pay back and she didn't want the responsibility of repaying to fall back on her. Same woman that has never given me any dime. Mind you, she has money to buy the latest Wrappers but can't help me.

She attends almost all the burials in the village even when the deceased isn't related to her and likes to drink alcohol. I have talked to her about this but she wouldn't listen.

First off, apologies you had to go through such an harrowing experience.

You need to forgive your mother, aunt, siblings and others who have hurt it.

The forgiveness is for your own healing else you would be carrying bitterness in your heart which can cause physical health issues and let them live rent free in your head.

Forgiveness doesn't mean forcing a relationship with them or continuing to make yourself available for them to cause you further pain.

You should also explore therapy before entering into relationships so you don't carry that baggage to your lady. Personally, forgiveness and building a relationship with God works wonders.

@ Black tax: focus on standing on your feet. After you have stood on your feet, you can place your mother on a monthly stipend that you can comfortably afford. Then she can't bother you or initiate unnecessary contact because she knows a certain amount is coming in at the end of the month.

In the interim, stop fuelling her excesses; if she wants to attend burials or other functions, she should make her money to sponsor them or rely on her husband.

It is well with you.

Dpen11:
This is my second time commenting on this post,i see many people criticizing me based on what i said .

Please don't listen to them, they're only trying to make you have misunderstanding with your mum.

She is your mum for christ sake, they're all here talking rubbish why they're in good term with their mother's.

Instead of them to find a solution they're telling you to avoid your own mother.

I am not certain you read the OP.

If you did, you would realise that it is his mom and not NLers that ruined the relationship between them.

The drama surrounding this death is like death is a new phenomenon.

Several people have been fingered in his death:

The simple question remains: how did the deceased die?

He slept & did not wake up; he fought and was stabbed during the fight; he was shot; they hit him with bante; they beat him to death; he went to the hospital and died during treatment; he was kidnapped; etc.

What KILLED him?

And how did the players contribute to his death?

HandsomeHITLER:
It's not a great idea publishing the steps you intend to take. All these agendas should be mentioned at the end of the case when it's been tackled.
You're simply arming your potential suspects with enough information to brace up. Anyway, good luck and don't collect bribes as we know you for.

I agree.

folake4u:
@ the bolded. 🤣🤣🤣
October is the 10th month of the year. How about we deliberate on that by that time? You can raise the topic and we can chip in.

And October is my month o! We shall see.

At least if they give you SOP at HQ (Red Pill.com), you see how it works for your department (society) and adapt it.

Men should not let their wives pay rent like we don't have a pandemic of husbands who wouldn't or can't pay rent & other bills leaving the all burden on their wives.

Ask the same clowns, they would tell you that their mothers are everything and come first because she 'suffered' for them and paid all the bills with puff puff and Akara.

Same them would lament how girls of today are not understanding like their mothers and materialistic.

Awon onirase

Acidosis:
The guy has been a pastor for years na..

While actively acting in Nollywood?

What kind of parts did he act?

I don't think I have ever seen him perform.

Hmmmmmmmmmm.

psucc:
From the beginning, it was not so

Jeezuzpick:
Why will a man even want to plait (braid) his hair?

Let's leave Christianity out of it first, can anybody please tell my why men suddenly started braiding their hair?

This is a thing previously exclusive to women and certain men for strictly ritual purposes and positions in African culture.

In Ancient Yorubaland, not every man was free to braid his hair. Only priests and devotees of Sango did (and still do) it. It was taboo for just any dude to do it even then, before we had Christianity.

Okay, why not ask if it's all right for a "genuine Christian man" to wear a dress, or lipstick?

No "genuine Christian" will even consider such nonsense, to say even less of asking about it.

Just perfect!

peacettw:
I dont understand humans anymore

aremubabs:
You sent your nude to your doctor to see your rash and pile...?



She must think we are fools.

Dey try read.

She said she only sent screenshots of the video to the Doctor thereby exonerating him from the blackmail.

OP, you are light years late with this your Red Pill chapter 60.

I think what we need now is Pink Pill chapter 10 that says don't marry a man that can't/ won't pay the rent.