₦airaland Forum

okotv:
Agbaje like buhari in Lagos but in the wrong party. He won't win

Let's see, Saturday is almost here.

Let the people's choice win.

I hope it will be peaceful like the presidentials

okotv:
calm down first to confirm if the oba that I know said that.

I am not even concerned about the Oba's statement because I have not confirmed it.

I am ashamed at the posts of people here.

I wonder What will happen If Ibos boycott the elections and PDP still wins.

All the Buhari supporters I know are voting PDP.

They are forgetting that Agbage is like Buhari in Lagos.

fem29:
Yummy

Thanks

MayorofLagos:
Na so una make noise but the moment OPC stage position across street you will pick phone and start calling for police protection. Mbu cannot help you. With all his gragra he couldnt even help Jonathan. Lagos is not Port Harcourt where he harasses a state governor....over here he will loose his job and life.

Oba has told you, we are not begging you.....if you cherish your livelihood in Lagos, be sure to do the right thing. Yoruba is in power now, not Ijaw. You bow down!

I am full bloodied Yoruba however This post makes absolutely. No sense.

There are citizens of Nigeria and have the right to vote who they want since they live here

Let Ibos go back to their villages and let's see If Almighty Lagos will not burn to the ground.

Lagos (Yorubas ) might have the resources, Ibos have the brain and capacity to turn those raw resources to wealth.

Show me another Yoruba state as Lagos.

I am very ashamed of This as a Yoruba person.

ebonflex:
That's a very silly outlook.
So in your mind, a man is only a man if he is yelling and shouting and punching and making a scene?
Besides the guy's wife (who is a walking sack of warm vomit as far as I'm concerned), females like you are part of an even deeper problem in these dark final days.
Praising/rewarding emotionally weak and selfish behavior (especially from guys), yet penalizing/demonizing feats of true-strength, care, honor, calm and internal control.

Do you know how much internal control is needed to handle and maintain things the way he did?
If God himself was to "man up" according to you, there would be piles of smoldering ashes where human beings used to stand every second....including you.

I don't support him remaining with her, but as far as how he handled the situation, he has my 10 points.
Do the next generation of females a favor and work on your reasoning!

Thank you

The man up nonsense I read up and down is amazing

Lol @ If God should man up.

Truth is the wife has the right to behave as she likes; the husband also has the right to react as he pleases.

Godson201333:
I can never forget the day I travelled to Ghana .I was on flight with one guy with his mom,after arrival,The mom said"my son please face your studies and be a good boy"she turned back and was about boarding another flight to naija..the dude should be around 28 and I was like what d Bleep?you can't fly alone or what

This is why when you meet guys abroad who are suppose to be matured still acting like a baby.

A lot of them in Europe.

This is another level bros

What is wrong with a mother seeing her son off?

Random checks sef once a year is still OK.

youngalex:
I received an sms wishing me happy easter celebration,I had to call him after exchanging pleasantries,he complained he just returned from work(He repairs Generator) the wife(Less than a Year in Marriage) served him a plate of rice with the head and one leg,She said her friends came around that she dished food for them also,I had to calm him down not to take vent his anger on the wife..just thinking why the Man gets the head after buying the Chicken? ..Marriage and Issues..Little Things Matters

Please stop equating everything to Money.

Does the man deserve the head and legs If the wife bought it. with 'her' money?

The wife does not hold her husband in high esteem (respect) else she should know that her husband eats/gets the best part and vice versa.

The husband should correct her and tell her to keep his own meal separate from the pot when visitors are around.

Kimoni:
Buka, did you really make the nkwobi?? Cuz I hear it takes a lot of expertise to get right

I may have to visit you soon I love nkwobi

Lol @ expertise

I did. Got the recipes from Nigerian food tv and it was Straight forward

Expecting you.

Happy Easter peeps

Tried my hands on new stuffs and they were splendid (Hubby testified. )

Nwkobi

Afang soup

Eggs (Coco's style)

Will upload my shawarma and ice cream later.

Hmmm

liquidmetall:
Bros check wella

They are what I termed " secret christians"

They know when they say they believe in God and they practice feminism, you won't take them serious

So they repackage themselves unto atheists level

This is nigeria where anything is possible

Thanks for the correction though

Is There any part of Christianity that teaches that women are inferior to men?

Toks2008:
It is complicated dearie. Please just accept it that way. A man is naturally polygamous and a lady is expcted to be monogamous.

This is y a lady will gladly share a man with a fellow lady.

Its indeed complicated and any lady who ndstnds this will nver hve infidelity related issues and this is y you hardly see muslim women compln abt infidelity.

just live wth this fact... your man is likely to cht on u even if u r d bst lady on earth but he should do u the honor of taking it far from u. shikenah

No, he won't

By God's grace

Else that is the death of the marriage

Toks2008:
Nice one. m

You must understand that when a woman commits adultery,its a dff ball game.

A woman who commits adultery hav a premedidation of it,planned it well and would not mind to do it again and again so its not an act done out of impulse but a fulfilment of a carefully planned action.

Men love sexual conqquest so a man will easily find it easy to divorce a wayward lady wth the excitement of a new lady coming in.

Trust me its not the same situation.

You mean an adulterous husband's sugarcane just fell into a wet pussy? No prior plan to it?

The earlier We treat an. Adulterous husband /wife. The same way, the better

Even look at the Old Testament that seemed partial to women: a man. & woman caught in adultery had the same punishment.

A cheating husband is NOT better than a cheating wife.

A cheating husband has also planned the act and How to escape before starting.

5minsmadness:
Of course I'm worth it, you just won't admit it

Hahahahahaha!

Who am I to rain on your parade?

Hahahahahaha!

Toks2008:
any woman who leaves her husband based on sexual infidelity is a thourough bred first class dummy because that is exactly wat the other lady wants. Afterall she knows your hubby is married.

A word of advice to laddies with jealous nature..

if you leave your man based on adultery,that is no guaranty that your nxt man will not do worse nd the moment you leave and another lady moves in,that seals ur fate.

Men are very weak when it comes to woman matter and he will not even remember you exist once the new lady starts taking care of him xcept GOd helps u.

pls be informed.

What do you say about a man who leaves his wife because of adultery?

What is the hope that the next wIfe will not change?

IHate9ja1:
See post oh,abeg which one be SugarCane again....?
Lmao

Zip down your trousers, pull down your draws and viola!

Vickybee:
Leave her.

She's looking for husband on Nairaland; that's why she's trying so hard to impress.

*scoffs*

Well well

5minsmadness:
This woman.
You are beginning to stalk me oh.
I thot it would be fun being stalked but it's sh1t scary.
The post wasn't directed at you.

Stalk?

Don't give yourself high hopes man!

Is it only posts directed to you on NL you quote or respond?

Stop dreaming

Neither you nor anyone else here is worth it.

MzNelly:
I said to you, mumu.

Not Google.

*sigh*

Mumu because I asked you to Google it since you are putting feminism and superiority in the same sentence.

Babe, please watch it.

As per OP:

Would advise she learns What equality means and How it applies.

But again, not everyone will accept it.

Different strokes for different folks.

MzNelly:
What is feminism to you?

Google it

ronald4lif:
Thanks for the timely correction.

But can one be a submissive wife and at same time demand for equality?. From my limited knowledge of the Bible I understand that many verses advocate for women to obey, respect their husband. Same Bible chapters/verses also made us know that a man is the head of the home. Sorry, I can't make reference to any chapter of the Bible that support my claims as I can't remember of any presently.

I also understand feminism is not just about gender equality on the domestic or home front affairs. So, your claim of it being different from unsubmissiveness is right. However, for the Bible, it preaches about women submission to their husband. Please correct me if I'm wrong.

The Bible tells all Christians to be submissive to one another. Ref: Eph 5:21; look at the definition of love in 1cor 13: 4-7 as expected from husbands; how does it differ from What you expect a submissive wife to do?

In the Bible, submission doesn't make a wife inferior to her husband.

Husbands are also told to respect their wives.

A man is the head because he is the source... he decides to start a family and finds a wife. That does not make him superior How a woman carrying the babies in her womb alone does not make her superior.

MzNelly:
I don't need feminism because receiving special treatment based on your gender is exactly what feminists claim to dislike' which makes it nothing g more than hypocritical ignorance.
I don't want feminism because the will to be equal to men in every aspect does not kill spicders, carry things that are heavy or protect me.
I also really enjoy cooking and cleaning.
Feminism simply does not make sense. There are things men can do that women cannot, as there are things woman can do that men cannot. That will never change. So cohabitate, use your skills to help each other and do what makes you happy.

You do not need superiority to live a happy, fulfilling life.

Is feminism = superiority

Vickybee:
Yet, Priscilla, Aquilla, Deborah, Huldah and Miriam weren't silent.

That makes them a rebel?

Types of Bible

MzNelly:
Staying at home and cooking and cleaning for my husband doesn't make me less of a strong woman.

The woman cannot be equal to a man in so many areas and the Bible concurs.
The Bible states that the females would long for her husband. It also states that the female should keep quiet in the church.

Going by this, it is divinely stated that a man and a woman can never really be placed on the same pedestal.

There is no equality between a man and a woman, and never will be. Either sexually, physically, socially, even spiritually.
The faster we come to terms with this, the better for all of us.

Emm, it would be fine you leave the Bible out of it.

shinejackie:
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Okay, l don hear oo, l think say na lolipop dem dey call am

Lollipop, sugarcane, banana etc. All join

5minsmadness:
My mother didn't suffer physical abuse and neither did my grandmother. Did yours?

So because you can see, no blindperson person exists.

I want to understand, because I can't wrap my head around it.

I saw you also striked out most parts of yomi 's post on the 5 irresponsible things men do thread.

shinejackie:
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oh my lawwd, chai, una funny gan for nairaland lol@eating your sugar cane....hahahaha

Na sugarcane na

manuelpepper:
her parents are in the village.

According to their custom the traditional must be done where her parents her.

I am talking about the white wedding

Why is the lady not considering the option of bringing her friends over?

I am trying time look at all options.

r231:
Hello lovely readers,

I don’t really know what the world is turning into these days. Young girls breaking happy homes here and there, and some men can’t respect themselves.

Here is a story sent to me by Evelyn who needs our help as her once happy home is on the verge of breaking down.

Please read her story:

Dear Nkechi,

My name is Evelyn, a graduate working with one of the biggest telecom companies in Nigeria. I have been happily married to my lovely husband for twelve years and the marriage is blessed with five beautiful kids.

I used to have what any woman would call a dream and happy home until my 22-year-old niece moved in with us – after she lost both her parents in a ghastly motor accident

Even though I have been getting reports and hearing rumors of my husband’s illicit affair with my niece, I never really took the rumors seriously until one day, when I returned early from work and caught my husband performing sexual act on my niece.

When I showed my anger and disbelief to what I just witnessed my once loving and caring husband threatened to kick me out of the house. He even shocked me further by announcing right in my face that my niece is pregnant for him.

I’m in total shock and don’t know what next to do. I need your urgent help please.

Ok readers, you’ve heard Evelyn, let’s find some help for her, and like she said, she needs help urgently.

How did it end?

An average bride wants to marry in her church or where is accessible to her friends and family as she might not see them again and it is a sort of send forth.

Plateau to Kogi is far

Hope they reach a compromise

(But 10yrs is quite a while to know each other)