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SmartFaces:
Hmmm! Big question. Their issue is a bit of complicated.

It ranges from the woman avoiding sex... to the man cheating on his wife... to the man complaining that the woman takes family issues out for people to hear and judge... to a whole lot of other issues, to numerous to mention.

pafestula:
Yes, I admitted my faults now. Thank you very much, I really appreciate your contributions.

pafestula:
Your Contribution would have made a lot of sense, but very contradictory type to be realistic.

1. If am a runs man, would I opened my iPad in the presence of my wife? not even with password o.

2. He left the lady based on maturity ground and obviously the lady showed him no affection and love, after he read the chats between us.. what else?

3. If am indeed her customer... this thread won't come up.

Fairgodwin:
Counter thread? Thank God you're already married and thank God your wife already saw all the chats and equally saw that you're innocent. Not much work to do there. Just take her out on a date kind of, and give her a nice treat. Then tell her the lady was never your taste or class in the first place; and make her know and understand that you would [still] prefer her to a million of that lady anytime anyday.
I know you already know the words to use, sir. You can block the lady on whatsapp. Enjoy your marriage, sir.

ademega:
There is this family in my street , for every argument in the the house the wife will scream to the extent of calling the attention of neighbors to their house . funny enough the husband is so quite that he would just be looking . in fact , sometimes you see the man with different kind of injuries on his body as a result of probably teeth bite and beating. just last week we learnt that the wife went to meet the man in the town to embarrass him while he was in the mist of his friends .
I was just wondering ,what will be the end of this kind of family . is it possible they survival it ?
I learnt the woman is always challenging the husband of infidelity which the husband most times deny and even go to the extent of using his life to curse .
Can anyone just predict what may actually happen if this kind of situation should continue .
If you were the man what will be the solution you will proffer?

cococandy:
yes ke. Don't you know it is his God-given right

MarvellousGod:
Amen.. Thank you

cococandy:
I'm kidding.

cococandy:
You refused to teach me Yoruba now you're just showing off

5minsmadness:
no wahala
happy easter.

Shollypopzz:
When I saw the other people who cosigned benny's post, I can't help but..........

https://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lznmlmJ6xQ1ql5yr7o1_400.gif


Who were the folks encouraging this moniker (thetruthn1) that was using other people's post and their past threads to dis them??

5minsmadness:
saw the last line, so? i'd want the one i love to forgive me if i made a mistake. i'd do the same for her.

and so those husbands represent all men?

no thanks, not interesting.

are they? I remember reading somewhere here where someone advocated that if you were unhappy with the marriage for any reason, you should walk away. she is viewing this thread now

MARKone:
In such marital issues, you do not repay evil with evil, if for anything, for the sake of the children. The lady said the husband abandoned her for six months, six months, is not enough time for her to cheat, to the extent of being pregnant for another man, she is loose, now look at where her quest for vengeance have landed her and the family.

5minsmadness:
but nobody has Ife sibesibe

1. the man cheats ---divorce
2. the man hits you once ---divorce
3. the man calls you fat ---divorce
4 the man doesnt make you happy anymore ---divorce
5. the man carries you abroad and gets a job for you and you no longer see the man as being on your level ---divorce.
6. all men are evil----divorce

there's nothing unconditional about that.

wierdpsycho:
the human civilization will end itself, after destroying our only means of continuity(marriage) we will then destroy other fabrics of the society.
quoting george soros [Alchemy of Finance] "Everything bound in the universe undergoes a self invigorating BOOM.and BUST cycle altering every balance in the chase of a never ending equilibrium".
The marriage institution is in it's BUST cycle after BOOMING for millenias, unfortunately another BOOM "May" never come.

cococandy:
Love based marriage over arranged marriage for me anyday

MarvellousGod:
Thanks Darl

Amen.. Thank you so much

Chillisauce:
Haba. , no be fight na
Everyone can be like you N'a. Whether u like or not
Olodos and opuno must exist.

We must live together in this section.

coogar:
you are a fool!
did i mention anyone's name in my comment or what has it gotta do with you?

don't you ever in your miserable life quote me when you haven't been spoken to directly? are you insane?

what effrontery!

coogar:
do you blame them?
many of them were raised from a dysfunctional family background - how won't they see the MIL as the village witch?

just like you, i never saw my mom & her MIL trade words & the MIL came around a lot cos my dad was her only son. it was peace & harmony throughout. women who want to trade blows with their MILs should go ahead.

bunch of brainless bimbos!

Shollypopzz:
https://33.media.tumblr.com/63222dcc55018468fc728f164bef0305/tumblr_n15rrhnu0N1ql5yr7o1_400.gif?w=580

Kimoni:
I can bet my 2 cents the DIL didn't tell the MIL an outright no, I am sure she would have said something like "mama, can I please reprint these copies you have chosen and send them to you"

This is the norm when people like your pictures and want to have copies but agreed the OP didn't explain at length what she really said.

It was wrong for the DIL to get physical with the MIL but it was even worse for the MIL to slap her DIL, even slaves should not be treated that way. And the fact that she is insisting on having the son throw her out of her matrimonial home even when the wife is ready to apologise immediately tells you who the primary aggressor is.

But then, did most posters really justify the DIL fighting the MIL on that thread? that's not what I observed or was I reading the comments upside down

dre11:
You can always understand your man if you want to but it would be nearly impossible to understand the mind of the woman.....


When you think you have a leverage...... You then find that you are back to square 1

thorpido:
Hmmm.Evina will show up to confirm.
My family is great.How's urs?Happy Easter

Evina:
Why the comparison? Especially with someone unknown.